At what age should somebody start punting

[Joey_445]

I was curious to know at what age is suitable to start punting or whether age doesn't matter as long as you have a good income.

[Nagilum]

I was curious to know at what age is suitable to start punting or whether age doesn't matter as long as you have a good income.

25 I would say.

You would have some experience with ladies and dating in general, otherwise your view of women may be skewed forever.

[Poopster]

I can't even think of a smart-ass reply to this question. 

[Sticky]

I was curious to know at what age is suitable to start punting or whether age doesn't matter as long as you have a good income.

14. But make sure your dad takes you to the old bordello and ask for Peggy-sue first thing before you go out for hash browns in your jean jacket.

[James999]

I was curious

you only joined yesterday and you're already reporting posts and whinging, grow up or try mumsnett 

[claretandblue]

I was curious to know at what age is suitable to start punting or whether age doesn't matter as long as you have a good income.

Why does it matter?how old are you?

[NIK]

On the surface this might seem another of those stupid questions, however it is actually a good question.

I first paid for sexual services at the age of 23 but had my first full paid sex at 26. After that I only punted a couple more times in my twenties. This was for two reasons. Firstly I was still optimistic that I would get a girlfriend, and between the ages of 27 and 29 I actually had one, my first and only serious one. There had been a tiny handful before but nothing memorable. And nothing since!  The other reason I didn't punt was because I genuinely, and evidently naively, believed that prossies didn't exist locally. My first punts were in London and Amsterdam and I thought you had to travel to such cities to find prossies. I didn't know that within half an hours drive for me the area was teeming with them.
So I didn't start punting properly until I was in my thirties and this increased as I hit my mid thirties. For the next 15 years or so I punted like mad.

I really don't regret not punting earlier. I think when you are in your twenties you should spend time trying to find someone rather than wasting time and money on prossies. I suppose when you reach your late thirties you accept that you're not going to find someone, or at least someone you really fancy (unless you're very lucky  ) or you are by then stuck in a pretty sexless relationship so then you might well turn to paying for sex.

However, believe me, it will never be a substitute for a loving relationship. This is why I would discourage anyone under the age of 30 from punting. However if they are dead set on it then that's their prerogative. So long as they accept the above and expect many disappointments along the way.

I was about 42 and had been punting for many years by then before I discovered how good punting can be, but it really doesn't hit those heights very often. 

[threechilliman]

My guess is the day you turn 18.

The day to stop punting is when you drop dead.

Any further questions?

tcm

[Sonny Crockett]

I think when you turn 18. I though started at 26.

[claretandblue]

On the surface this might seem another of those stupid questions, however it is actually a good question.

I first paid for sexual services at the age of 23 but had my first full paid sex at 26. After that I only punted a couple more times in my twenties. This was for two reasons. Firstly I was still optimistic that I would get a girlfriend, and between the ages of 27 and 29 I actually had one, my first and only serious one. There had been a tiny handful before but nothing memorable. And nothing since!  The other reason I didn't punt was because I genuinely, and evidently naively, believed that prossies didn't exist locally. My first punts were in London and Amsterdam and I thought you had to travel to such cities to find prossies. I didn't know that within half an hours drive for me the area was teeming with them.
So I didn't start punting properly until I was in my thirties and this increased as I hit my mid thirties. For the next 15 years or so I punted like mad.

I really don't regret not punting earlier. I think when you are in your twenties you should spend time trying to find someone rather than wasting time and money on prossies. I suppose when you reach your late thirties you accept that you're not going to find someone, or at least someone you really fancy (unless you're very lucky  ) or you are by then stuck in a pretty sexless relationship so then you might well turn to paying for sex.

However, believe me, it will never be a substitute for a loving relationship. This is why I would discourage anyone under the age of 30 from punting. However if they are dead set on it then that's their prerogative. So long as they accept the above and expect many disappointments along the way.

I was about 42 and had been punting for many years by then before I discovered how good punting can be, but it really doesn't hit those heights very often. 

I married quite young and didn't punt at all in my twenties and I get where your coming from about not punting,at least not regularly in your early adult years, it was early thirties hen I started regularly and I can't see me stopping for some time!

[Ben4454]

I started when i first turned 18. Although went for my first punt at 17 and got rejected at the door by the working girl since i looked too young. Me and my friend walked 5 miles to see her since we had no transport and it was from a ad in the newspaper. I never knew about adultwork.

[Nagilum]

On the surface this might seem another of those stupid questions, however it is actually a good question.

I first paid for sexual services at the age of 23 but had my first full paid sex at 26. After that I only punted a couple more times in my twenties. This was for two reasons. Firstly I was still optimistic that I would get a girlfriend, and between the ages of 27 and 29 I actually had one, my first and only serious one. There had been a tiny handful before but nothing memorable. And nothing since!  The other reason I didn't punt was because I genuinely, and evidently naively, believed that prossies didn't exist locally. My first punts were in London and Amsterdam and I thought you had to travel to such cities to find prossies. I didn't know that within half an hours drive for me the area was teeming with them.
So I didn't start punting properly until I was in my thirties and this increased as I hit my mid thirties. For the next 15 years or so I punted like mad.

I really don't regret not punting earlier. I think when you are in your twenties you should spend time trying to find someone rather than wasting time and money on prossies. I suppose when you reach your late thirties you accept that you're not going to find someone, or at least someone you really fancy (unless you're very lucky  ) or you are by then stuck in a pretty sexless relationship so then you might well turn to paying for sex.

However, believe me, it will never be a substitute for a loving relationship. This is why I would discourage anyone under the age of 30 from punting. However if they are dead set on it then that's their prerogative. So long as they accept the above and expect many disappointments along the way.

I was about 42 and had been punting for many years by then before I discovered how good punting can be, but it really doesn't hit those heights very often. 

+1

Totally agree and you expressed what I tried to say above.

[Nagilum]

To add, I was married at 25 (young) and never punted.  Now divorced I am punting and making up for lost time.  There is nothing like it, but as I said before starting to young is not healthy, IMHO

[cockneybstrd]

I was curious to know at what age is suitable to start punting or whether age doesn't matter as long as you have a good income.

i would wait till you have moved out of your parents joey

[HighlyMotivated]

My mate's dad paid for me to lose my virgnity when I was 16 - top man he was

Didn't pay for sex again until I turned 30

[HighlyMotivated]

Oh wait, that's a lie. I did pay for it again at 18 when I went to Amsterdam, but that was a when in Rome situation

[NIK]

I expect the op has now been scared off!

[claretandblue]

Oh wait, that's a lie. I did pay for it again at 18 when I went to Amsterdam, but that was a when in Rome situation

Amsterdam doesn't count!I punted there a couple of times in my twenties, before I knew it was called punting 

[cockneybstrd]

I expect the op has now been scared off!

Nah Nik joeys mum has put the adult filters back on the internet

[fredpunter]

I didn't start till about 46 or 47 mainly cos I foolishly assumed I would catch some terrible disease .... even then I only started cos I got 'friendly' with a dancer .... if I had my time over I'd have started at least 10 years earlier.   

[ash19]

Started at 20 since I had major confidence issues around women.

Confidence issues ---> Solved. 

I don't feel particularly addicted to it, at the moment I'm just trying to cram in as many different experiences as I can while I'm single. 

[alenski]

i started when i was 69 and just had the most memorable two years of my life,about the only thing i have not done is fisting a woman, a project i am still working on.

[Midlane]

There is no "should". Some people might tell us we shouldn't at all.

Most people start for different reasons (albeit variations of the same 7-8 reasons) and that happens at different ages for different people, or not at all.

Each to their own.

[willbred]

Nah Nik joeys mum has put the adult filters back on the internet

 

[Firebird]

I started at the age of 20, one hour incall in a flat in Glasgow with this prossie...

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I can remember looking at the pictures and the impression that a got was that she was a Kelly Brook type woman; big tits, curvy body, great arse, sexy English accent and hopefully a pretty face. When she answered the door I soon clocked that I would not be shagging a Kelly Brook lookalike, facially she was okay, nothing special, she definitely wasn't 33 years old, I would say 43 is more than likely, she didn't kiss, she didn't do owo, she decided to light up a fag in the middle of the punt and am pretty sure that she had had a few drinks before I had arrived, there was a faint smell of booze off her and while I was having the odd sip of a glass of water she had given me, I noticed that her 'water' was fizzy and smelled a lot like Gin 

Do I regret starting so early?? Not really, there's a part of me that realises just how addictive this hobby can be and that sometimes makes me wish that I hadn't started but at the end same time I've been able to fuck some stunning women, I've been with ebony women, Asian women, I've fucked two pornstars, tried anal and had many, many blowjobs as well  I'm now 23 and I plan on giving it up at some point within the next two or three years give or take. But the thing about punting is that it's a buzz and I love everything about it, say the punt is in a hotel, well I can't even begin to describe to you how much I fucking love walking past reception, waiting on the lift coming down, getting out the lift, approaching the WG's room, making sure nobody is about so as not to arouse suspicion, for some punters they may not get any buzz out of that part but for me the sheer thrill of knowing that I'm seconds away from fucking a gorgeous girl gets me hard as a fucking rock and my pulse racing. I imagine though that this is a hobby that is quite hard to give up, understandably so, you are a few clicks or a phonecall or a text away from being able to have your cock sucked by a stunning wee 25 year old with big tits. I'm able to get a shag without paying but it can be hard work as am sure many of you will attest to, between having to chat the girl up, buy her a drink or five and then she expects you to pay for the fucking taxi back, it's a lot of money for just a drunken, one night stand, punting is much simpler in my eyes.

[TomTank]

I think I was 15 or 16, but I did grow up in Holland, so it was hard not to ...

[Direwolf]

Personally, I think it depends on the person.
I only started punting toward the end of 2015 (i'm 23), I found it worked for me as I kind of gave up trying to form emotional attachments a while ago due to various reasons (depression, anxiety etc) so the only way for me to get sex is a ONS or punt, of which I prefer punting as with well reviewed escorts you more or less know what you are going to get. 

[willmo1]

Not until youve lived life and had a girlfriend or two.

[tickle12345]

I started at the age of 18, my first visit was to Sandy's Superstars! The girl doesn't work there anymore but wow I'll always remember my first punt!

[bfl]

Had my 1st when I was 17. Got taken there by my boss at the time when I lived in spain. It was a dirty brothel I'm central palma with a strip club downstairs and loads of girls walking round looking for business. I lasted about a minute 

[GreyDave]

   In the late 1970`s I started at 15.6 with a  Soho walk up £10 plus £1 tip for maid.. Bareback with a Sigaporean  shagged here twice  as I shot quickly then ...The English girls in the walkups then wouldnt shag young uns only the forgein gals did the deed with teenagers and a wonderfull bit titted Maltess lady who I fucked many times over the years when she was in soho I reckon she was in her early 50`s and was all ways pleasent and a damm good shag mind you I was a 9 stone slip of a lad then

[myothernameis]

Started when I was 16 years old,

[hw189]

My story is pretty much similar to NIK's. First punt at around 21 / 22, but punts with escorts were few and far between in my 20's. Not until my 30's where I started punting more frequently. God knows what I'll be like in my 40's.

[Trenlover]

start as early as you can provided funds allow and never stop!

i think alot of WG's dislike seeing guys younger than 25 though. even if your *buff*

mens brains dont properly mature until late 20's and I think women can sense that.

[GreyDave]

  On reflextion I reckon the fact I was able to just pay and shag in the walk ups in the 70-80-90-00`s help me keep a level head as I have never been infaturated (in love) this has always been a great help in realtionships more of a partnership status... I feel sad the places are being transformed in to expensive pads young men will all ways want to shag and paying for it calms things down look at the trouble in colonge germany ...loads of young men with no cas and no women, one girl I spoke to last week is worried about it coming here.

[rg41]

I think I was 15 or 16, but I did grow up in Holland, so it was hard not to ...

I started 2 weeks before my 65th birthday.

[Tom1986]

My first punt was at 19.

[Aspen]

I think I was 15 or 16, but I did grow up in Holland, so it was hard not to ...

I wish I had. I learnt so much when I did start, but it was ten years too late.

I don't think any age is too young. There's not actually any pressure to do it except from within yourself, but you shouldn't do it until you feel ready for it.

[Topgun]

Whenever they feel ready. Not legally obliged.
Personally, when I could afford it, I wish I started when I was 20 (I started seeing escorts from 27, now I'm 35). I spent a fortune on being a boyracer having "fun" that way and pulling easy girls that way. I score 12 girls over 2 years, decent going for a shy guy. Wish I'd have spent that £25k on whores instead of on a car which was basically a pulling machine.
I've never been rich even in the slightest. Back when I was 20 I was living at parents house (£250/month) just on £240/week after tax.
Just think all that various pussy I could have had if not for typical society morals.

[smartieshouse]

18. I did it as i really wanted to pay since I was 16 or so.

[flybynightpm]

This is depressing... started at 50... a lot of catching up to do...

[mrbluerunner]

On the surface this might seem another of those stupid questions, however it is actually a good question.

I first paid for sexual services at the age of 23 but had my first full paid sex at 26. After that I only punted a couple more times in my twenties. This was for two reasons. Firstly I was still optimistic that I would get a girlfriend, and between the ages of 27 and 29 I actually had one, my first and only serious one. There had been a tiny handful before but nothing memorable. And nothing since!  The other reason I didn't punt was because I genuinely, and evidently naively, believed that prossies didn't exist locally. My first punts were in London and Amsterdam and I thought you had to travel to such cities to find prossies. I didn't know that within half an hours drive for me the area was teeming with them.
So I didn't start punting properly until I was in my thirties and this increased as I hit my mid thirties. For the next 15 years or so I punted like mad.

I really don't regret not punting earlier. I think when you are in your twenties you should spend time trying to find someone rather than wasting time and money on prossies. I suppose when you reach your late thirties you accept that you're not going to find someone, or at least someone you really fancy (unless you're very lucky  ) or you are by then stuck in a pretty sexless relationship so then you might well turn to paying for sex.

However, believe me, it will never be a substitute for a loving relationship. This is why I would discourage anyone under the age of 30 from punting. However if they are dead set on it then that's their prerogative. So long as they accept the above and expect many disappointments along the way.

I was about 42 and had been punting for many years by then before I discovered how good punting can be, but it really doesn't hit those heights very often. 

Pretty much sums it up for me too.

+1

[Snoozy]

Was 16 years old, was like the guy out of American Pie. It barely touched the sides and I exploded. Must have been easiest money for the prossie ever.

[Malvolio]

When you have enough disposable income to afford it, and once you've worked out that punting is very different to dating.

[FlyingBreadMan]

I can't even think of a smart-ass reply to this question.

I think your avatar making a presence is the perfect answer...!

[howrude]

I don't think there's any good age to start. Just start when you feel like doing more knobbing that your current situation allows. I first tried it with street girls in my early twenties and didn't like the street scenario. It was six years later that I started seeing girls in parlours. Although at that point I had become aware of parlours. Had I known about them in my early twenties, I'd have been in there like a shot. I guess it's also good to get some real world experience beforehand.

[Weathersmo]

Early 30s for me . As soon as I was bored dating women and getting used and getting no where, much easier to pay for it and choose some beautiful women

[BLM69]

Funny I see the OP is banned?

Any way my question is how do I get over the first hurdle - see I'm now 42 and sad as this sounds I not had a relationship for about 10 years - just very low confidence when it comes to women and I know they find that trait unattractive. So issues aside like any red blooded male I get horny and what have you but something kinda scares me going for an escort - I know it sounds stupid but I am a pessimist so kind of feel if something bad was to happen it would happen to me - whether that be robbed, get a real horrid person blar, blar, blar.

I won't lie I have often thought about going on a sex holiday to the likes of Brazil or Thailand but on top of all the above thoughts I also hate long haul flying - it makes me feel ill so just never got around to it.

I will admit I have had three experiences punting - or tried to - one and first time in my early 30's was in Prague and went to a brothel but it was so expensive and the lady wasn't all that nice (attitude wise not looks) so I didn't go through with it and just drank over priced drinks at the bar. Second time was in Amsterdam on my second visit there I finally had the courage to try a window lady late one night and though expensive in my opinion for 20 mins was quite enjoyable - she was nice. Lastly on a subsequent trip to Amsterdam about 5 year ago I was window shopping in the RLD (not planning to go with a girl) when I got called by a lady who wanted to touch my hair (I had a big Mohawk at the time).... so I stopped long story short I have always had a thing for accents and Dutch girls as I love the accent and country. Also like any fella have my fantasies (Adult bucket list) the usual like a 3some with 2 girls etc... never had.

Any way this girl touch my hair and whispered in my ear I could do her doggy style so as not to mess my hair style up... I laughed thought it was pretty funny sales pitch.... then she said have you ever had 2 women... she then leaned back inside the window she had come out of and pulled her friend into view saying how about a beautiful Dutch blonde Barbie Doll - I said are you really Dutch she spoke some lingo I didn't understand but feel sure was Dutch and so as the first lady pulled me inside I wasn't exactly resistant.... any way it went down hill from there and lets say it was all about the money and 20mins later I felt I had been mugged - did not enjoy the experience and not punted since. However right now I am climbing the walls as not been laid in 5 years and desperate for a shag but every time I look on AW I just cant bring myself to make a call.... how do I get over the fear of something will go wrong and I will come out feeling shit like that last time in Amsterdam - and much money down!