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Author Topic: The GFE is it a sign of being past it  (Read 2522 times)

Offline James999

At least 3 pro$$ies have mentioned how clients who want the GFE tend to be older, and what they seem to mean by the GFE is an hour booking with lots of kissing, cuddling etc and at the end a 5 minute shag or blowjob with the client coming very quickly. In other words "easy clients"

I must admit I have always thought guys who cave the GFE from a pro$$ie are deluded and perhaps looking to fill a void in their life, but perhaps it is just a term they use for wanting to be with a girl but not wanting to much sex  :hi:
« Last Edit: August 05, 2012, 12:13:14 PM by James999 »

Offline smiths

At least 3 pro$$ies have mentioned how clients who want the GFE tend to be older, and what they seem to mean by the GFE is an hour booking with lots of kissing, cuddling etc and at the end a 5 minute shag or blowjob with the client coming very quickly. In other words "easy clients"

I must admit I have always thought guys who cave the GFE from a pro$$ie are deluded and perhaps looking to fill a void in their life, but perhaps it is just a term they use for wanting to be with a girl but not wanting to much sex  :hi:

For me it means FK, preferably DFK and OWO should be on offer both of which i require at 121 punts. I always punt the same way, i dictate the pace and what i want and when. ;)

Offline Jimmyredcab

I prefer the GFE but I am far from deluded, I realise that without the cash changing hands the girl would not piss on me to put out a fire. I am sure some fluffies do think otherwise, more fool them.   :crazy:

Curious6705

I'm never quite sure what the difference is between GFE and PSE.

My working definition is

GFE = PSE + let's both pretend to be fluffies for the duration of the punt

So it's GFE for me all the way.

Offline James999

I prefer the GFE but I am far from deluded,

Yeah nut do you messa round for most of the booking and then just have a quick bit of sex  at the end ? As that's what they seem to say clients want when then book a GFE ?


Offline Jimmyredcab

Yeah nut do you messa round for most of the booking and then just have a quick bit of sex  at the end ? As that's what they seem to say clients want when then book a GFE ?

My normal punt is 30 minutes ------------ I can only cum once in a 30 minute booking, the first 20 minutes would hopefully consist of DFK, pussy licking and if the girl is really cute she may well get a rimming.    :scare:

Offline mikey

i reckon if you were to do a survey of all working girls in uk, you'd find that there are many times when sex doesnt take place at all, the guy wanting some other kind of connection. i dont think this makes him a fluffy, just lonely and lacking that personal closeness elsewhere in his life.

Offline Ali Katt

i reckon if you were to do a survey of all working girls in uk, you'd find that there are many times when sex doesnt take place at all, the guy wanting some other kind of connection. i dont think this makes him a fluffy, just lonely and lacking that personal closeness elsewhere in his life.
The only time sex hasn't taken place with me is because the prossie made up bullshit excuses and I couldn't get hard again, which is what she wanted.

I am sure a lot of guys make a booking, get nervous and just chat. They could get the same thing for a glass of wine in a bar\club\pub.

As for GFE it seems to be a chargeable extra, OWO is getting rare (with both expensive and cheap escorts), as is DFK (most offer a peck). I would also guess a lot of older punters, go for older prossies, obviously this may or not be the case, but a lot of older women may be more willing as they are a similar age.

As for just having a few mins of sex and the rest chatting and kissing,  cuddling - if I had this I'd feel ripped off. If I came quick in a 30 min booking, that's down to me. If the escort is wasting time in an hour to do as little as possible that is out of order. I think some guys could be older and less experienced punters (come out of a marriage, new to punting) hence they get less sex. I remember on my first punts in an hour probably 20 mins of actual sex took place (including oral etc), now I'd never let that happen.

Offline brooksey

At least 3 pro$$ies have mentioned how clients who want the GFE tend to be older, and what they seem to mean by the GFE is an hour booking with lots of kissing, cuddling etc and at the end a 5 minute shag or blowjob with the client coming very quickly. In other words "easy clients"

I must admit I have always thought guys who cave the GFE from a pro$$ie are deluded and perhaps looking to fill a void in their life, but perhaps it is just a term they use for wanting to be with a girl but not wanting to much sex  :hi:
A provocative and interesting post, but of course this isn't what most people would think of as a GFE. To my mind the "kissing and cuddling" also includes foreplay, oral etc. The penetrative sex doesn't take over the whole appointment, but certainly isn't restricted to five minutes out of sixty. GFE isn't simply for "easy clients" who don't want much sex. I would categorize a PSE as a more impersonal encounter, with no kissing, and little physical contact except for mouth/genital and genital/genital. If anything, this an easier type of appointment for a girl, as they generally prefer to avoid kissing and too much bodily contact with sweaty blokes.
Of course there will be old boys who just enjoy a nice chat and a cuddle followed by a quick squirt, but this isn't the sole definition of GFE, so I think you're wrong here on a number of counts.

Am I deluded ? no, because I'm aware the girl isn't my real girlfriend. She may be enjoying the experience, or may just be acting. It doesn't really bother me. 
Is there a void of some sort in my life ? Quite possibly. why are we all here ? ;)
Am I past it? certainly not !

Offline James999

Of course there will be old boys who just enjoy a nice chat and a cuddle followed by a quick squirt, but this isn't the sole definition of GFE, so I think you're wrong here on a number of counts.

But that's the point, it is not my definition but what has been told to me by numerous Pro$$ies relating to their experiences with punters, the general summary being for most when a client asks for GFE he means kissing cuddling / chatting etc and then a quick squirt at the end  :crazy:

Offline Cactus

My normal punt is 30 minutes ------------ I can only cum once in a 30 minute booking, the first 20 minutes would hopefully consist of DFK, pussy licking and if the girl is really cute she may well get a rimming.    :scare:

You old romantic

Offline Cactus

For me a punt should be fun. It's your cash so get out of it whatever you want.  If you want to kiss and cuddle fire away, if you want to go at it hammer and tong for half an hour good on you.  Different strokes for different folks and all that.

I think the phone call pre punt is a must to discuss what you want and whether she's willing to do it.  If she's not keen and find another one who will give you the level of service which you desire.

Offline Dani

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From my point of view is a GFE includes lots of DFK and no fake Oohss ahhs and screams. Also lots of OWO and ending in sex in different postions  It is more intimate than a PSE as that is just about lots of fake sounds, No kissing and lots of anal with watersports etc

Thats just my definaition by the way as I am sure other women have their own definition

Offline Jimmyredcab

i reckon if you were to do a survey of all working girls in uk, you'd find that there are many times when sex doesnt take place at all, the guy wanting some other kind of connection. i dont think this makes him a fluffy, just lonely and lacking that personal closeness elsewhere in his life.

In other words ---------------------- sad.    :thumbsdown:

Offline James999

From my point of view is a GFE includes lots of DFK and no fake Oohss ahhs and screams. Also lots of OWO and ending in sex in different postions  It is more intimate than a PSE as that is just about lots of fake sounds, No kissing and lots of anal with watersports etc

Thats just my definaition by the way as I am sure other women have their own definition

Sounds more like an advert  :scare:

But that's the point, the girls I have spoken to said it was never anyhthing as adventurous as oral then various positions, perhaps a quick blow and a 2 min shag but th ethe guys popped their lot, perhaps it could be that they are fit as fuck and the guys can't last long  :wackogirl:

Offline Jimmyredcab

I would also guess a lot of older punters, go for older prossies.

Possibly, but not in my case ------------- my searches on Adultwork are aimed at 18-30's.

If I want an old woman I will go down to Mecca bingo hall and pull one.  ;)

Possibly, but not in my case ------------- my searches on Adultwork are aimed at 18-30's.

If I want an old woman I will go down to Mecca bingo hall and pull one.  ;)

We share the same girl policy! :drinks:
I find the GFE mixed in this age group. Lacks good FK/DFK but they all like receiving oral and I like feeling a 23yo losing it :wacko:

Offline smiths

For me a punt should be fun. It's your cash so get out of it whatever you want.  If you want to kiss and cuddle fire away, if you want to go at it hammer and tong for half an hour good on you.  Different strokes for different folks and all that.

I think the phone call pre punt is a must to discuss what you want and whether she's willing to do it.  If she's not keen and find another one who will give you the level of service which you desire.

Totally agree with you. ;)

Offline smiths

Interesting a couple of posters have said a PSE doesnt include kissing, it does for me otherwise i wouldnt ever punt with WGs who offer it nowadays.

Dirty Talk, plenty of make-up, looking slutty, CIM, possibly with Swallow and Anal which i dont do and Anal Play and Rimming is my idea of a PSE, along with having an attitude of confidence is among other things how i view a PSE. Just shows as ever people see things in different ways.

Offline Jimmyredcab



Dirty Talk, plenty of make-up, looking slutty.

I know the type you mean -------   :music:


Offline smiths

I know the type you mean -------   :music:



Apart from the gender and looks thats about right. :D ;)

Offline SteveNova

Passionate DFK and cuddling which involved plenty of body to body contact is sexual for sure - sex is not all about penetration.  Fingering, OWO, rimming, RO, spanking: the list goes on.  Yes, chatting for most of the time and doing nothing else until the end wouldn't be my cup of tea, as I'm there to explore the girl and explore my fantasies.  But were all different and, in my view, all there to suspend reality for the short time we're in the company of a WG. 

Offline Krystal

Almost all clients want a GFE. Kissing is important to most gentlemen.

Kristina

What do you guys call been past it.  From my experience sex is like a fine wine  the older the guy the better it is.  I can tell you I have had some elderly men visit who have wobbled trough my door and in the bedroom knocked my socks off and take me totally by surprise.  These guys were defiantley not past it and would teach a 20 year old a load I can tell you. I have had guys in their 70's and even older ask for BDSM.  Love guys like this as they say themelves living it till the last and best try it now as may not get round to it if I leave it too long.  Just because someome is sensual and wants affection in the form of the GFE doens not in my book make them past it.  Everyone is entitled to have what they like sexually and the market is big enough out there so there is no reason why guys can not have what they want.

Offline haystacks79

I'd say the GFE is a sign of punters getting what they require - the same as the PSE, for those that like it. Though surely they're both just labels hat we probably each apply in our own way. I know what I like and want, and as long as I can get that, does it matter what category it falls into?

Certainly I personally enjoy kissing, oral, RO etc. and would probably describe what I go for as the GFE rather than anything else - I like to feel that the wg I'm with is my partner for the time I'm with her. And yes, that does involve a certain amount of chatting, but where else do you get the chance to chat to a naked girl? Particularly one that probably wouldn't look at you twice if you passed in the street.


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