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Offline Sako

Hi Saxo, you invited PM responses. I attempted to send you a message but you have set up your account to not accept them, unwittingly I guess. If you alter that then other members will be able to offer their advice.

I dont seem to be able to receive PM's I can see an inbox and Ive not selected anything to deter PM's - could it be that a new member has to reach a certain number of posts before gettingPM access?

If not then any advice to activate the PM function would be helpful.

Thanks.

Offline Barry Shipton

Yes you have to make more posts before you get PM privileges - not sure how many but it will be at least ten, so keep posting!

Offline BrandsHill

Yes you have to make more posts before you get PM privileges - not sure how many but it will be at least ten, so keep posting!

Hi Sako, what Barry states may well be correct about receiving PM's but I've just checked and I was able to send PM's before I hade even made a single post on the forum. I received replies from other members again without having made a post. So try that. When you read this message click on my BrandsHill heading and it will bring up the summary up my profile activity. There you will see an option to "send message". Proceed from there. Thereafter I would expect to receive your message to which I can reply. You may just want to post in the general forum when you've done that as if does not work, I won't know ! If all else fails, there is a contact Admin option at top of website.
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Offline Sako

As things stand it appears I cannot send PM's either  :(

Offline Sako

There you go, thats 10 posts now, maybe this will get me into the special club!  :D

Offline AnthG

There you go, thats 10 posts now, maybe this will get me into the special club!  :D

I am sure I have read a post in the past from Admin that its a case he manually enables PMs on accounts once they have either hit a certain post count or time being a member of the forum.

I *think* its a case of when you can see the offtopic section you should be able to PM too.

Offline Sako

I am sure I have read a post in the past from Admin that its a case he manually enables PMs on accounts once they have either hit a certain post count or time being a member of the forum.

I *think* its a case of when you can see the offtopic section you should be able to PM too.

OK, thanks Anth, I can't see any 'Off Topic' section so I guess that must explain things.

Offline Sako

Hi Sako, what Barry states may well be correct about receiving PM's but I've just checked and I was able to send PM's before I hade even made a single post on the forum. I received replies from other members again without having made a post. So try that. When you read this message click on my BrandsHill heading and it will bring up the summary up my profile activity. There you will see an option to "send message". Proceed from there. Thereafter I would expect to receive your message to which I can reply. You may just want to post in the general forum when you've done that as if does not work, I won't know ! If all else fails, there is a contact Admin option at top of website.

I dont know when I will get PM access here, if you are a member of UKEscorting I can be found there under the same username and it appears I get PM access immediately there.

Offline BrandsHill

I dont know when I will get PM access here, if you are a member of UKEscorting I can be found there under the same username and it appears I get PM access immediately there.

Ok, will try you on UKE Sako.
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Offline alenski

dear sako.your marriage is a joke,no sex in a marriage is like playing cricket without a ball. just a total sham.you owe your wife nothing,you have put up with this situation for the the past 6 years and now is the the time to think about yourself.there is no need to travel to find good sex,the ne has plenty of willing attractive young ladies who will happily relieve you of your coin.i would'nt worry too much about std's.i have been going out twice a week for the past year and picked up nothing,most girls are just as concerned since this is their liviehood and can't afford to stop working.my advice to you is to get out there while you can,enjoy yourself you have nothing to feel guilty about.if you would like some recomendations please pm me,i really feel for you.

Offline Mansell

dear sako.your marriage is a joke,no sex in a marriage is like playing cricket without a ball. just a total sham.you owe your wife nothing,you have put up with this situation for the the past 6 years and now is the the time to think about yourself.there is no need to travel to find good sex,the ne has plenty of willing attractive young ladies who will happily relieve you of your coin.i would'nt worry too much about std's.i have been going out twice a week for the past year and picked up nothing,most girls are just as concerned since this is their liviehood and can't afford to stop working.my advice to you is to get out there while you can,enjoy yourself you have nothing to feel guilty about.if you would like some recomendations please pm me,i really feel for you.

Spot on Alenski  :thumbsup:

Offline BrandsHill

I dont know when I will get PM access here, if you are a member of UKEscorting I can be found there under the same username and it appears I get PM access immediately there.

Saxo, I have sent a pm conversation opener to your UKE address.
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Offline Sako

dear sako.your marriage is a joke,no sex in a marriage is like playing cricket without a ball. just a total sham.you owe your wife nothing,you have put up with this situation for the the past 6 years and now is the the time to think about yourself.

I guess you and I see things quite differently alenski.

I have a wonderful wife, someone I love dearly, a great partner who understands me who I enjoy being with all of the time and someone who I never argue with, our life together is one happy life and if I had to do without sex for the rest of my life to stay together I would in a heartbeat. I have lots of interests and she never stops me from doing any of them, I spend money as and when I want it with no questions asked and generally the answer is yes even before she has heard the question. Thats my friend is an enviable place many men would give their right arm for, far from a joke or a sham.

Sadly for us both and through no fault of her own we have been dealt a cruel blow, before her op our sex life was superb, I can't ever remember her not wanting to have sex. After the op it was as if a switch had been thrown and there have been many tears shed on her part as a result, something I will never resent her for as there was no choice, she needed the op and the after effects are not her fault or mine, its just one of those unfortunate things.

As for not owing my wife anything, quite the opposite I would say and as for putting up with the situation, I guess thats what you call love.

Offline BrandsHill

I guess you and I see things quite differently alenski.

I have a wonderful wife, someone I love dearly, a great partner who understands me who I enjoy being with all of the time and someone who I never argue with, our life together is one happy life and if I had to do without sex for the rest of my life to stay together I would in a heartbeat. I have lots of interests and she never stops me from doing any of them, I spend money as and when I want it with no questions asked and generally the answer is yes even before she has heard the question. Thats my friend is an enviable place many men would give their right arm for, far from a joke or a sham.

Well done for being so open Saxo. It is clear that your reasons for considering the world of escorts is very different to many other members and that it is a moral dilemma you are wrestling with. Hope the UKE contact worked.

Sadly for us both and through no fault of her own we have been dealt a cruel blow, before her op our sex life was superb, I can't ever remember her not wanting to have sex. After the op it was as if a switch had been thrown and there have been many tears shed on her part as a result, something I will never resent her for as there was no choice, she needed the op and the after effects are not her fault or mine, its just one of those unfortunate things.

As for not owing my wife anything, quite the opposite I would say and as for putting up with the situation, I guess thats what you call love.
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Offline BrandsHill

I guess you and I see things quite differently alenski.

I have a wonderful wife, someone I love dearly, a great partner who understands me who I enjoy being with all of the time and someone who I never argue with, our life together is one happy life and if I had to do without sex for the rest of my life to stay together I would in a heartbeat. I have lots of interests and she never stops me from doing any of them, I spend money as and when I want it with no questions asked and generally the answer is yes even before she has heard the question. Thats my friend is an enviable place many men would give their right arm for, far from a joke or a sham.

Sadly for us both and through no fault of her own we have been dealt a cruel blow, before her op our sex life was superb, I can't ever remember her not wanting to have sex. After the op it was as if a switch had been thrown and there have been many tears shed on her part as a result, something I will never resent her for as there was no choice, she needed the op and the after effects are not her fault or mine, its just one of those unfortunate things.

As for not owing my wife anything, quite the opposite I would say and as for putting up with the situation, I guess thats what you call love.

Re posted message below as I mistakingly inserted in the middle of your message.

Well done for being so open Saxo. It is clear that your reasons for considering the world of escorts is very different to many other members and that it is a moral dilemma you are wrestling with. Hope the UKE contact worked.   


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Offline AnthG

So if its a case of you going through with it. I would say for new years join a gym as your new years resolution. I say this as this will give you a reason to go out, allow different smells to how you went out, rumpled clothes that look like they have been taken off, and possibly the odd bit of incriminating evidence - a stray hair etc.

Book only respected girls who know about discretion - Tori Taylor, Jessamy, Keeva, HollyJameson etc.


Offline Sako

Hope the UKE contact worked.

Yes it did BH and I appreciate your honesty, I will reply tomorrow once Ive had time to digest things.  :)



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Offline BrandsHill

Yes it did BH and I appreciate your honesty, I will reply tomorrow once Ive had time to digest things.  :)

Your welcome. Just realised I've been referring to you as Saxo instead of Sako, sorry ! Take your time re this decision for as I have expressed in my message to you relating to my own experiences, and as others have also stated, if you take a leap it will have varied consequences.
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Offline Rod trotter

dear sako.your marriage is a joke,no sex in a marriage is like playing cricket without a ball. just a total sham.you owe your wife nothing,you have put up with this situation for the the past 6 years and now is the the time to think about yourself.there is no need to travel to find good sex,the ne has plenty of willing attractive young ladies who will happily relieve you of your coin.i would'nt worry too much about std's.i have been going out twice a week for the past year and picked up nothing,most girls are just as concerned since this is their liviehood and can't afford to stop working.my advice to you is to get out there while you can,enjoy yourself you have nothing to feel guilty about.if you would like some recomendations please pm me,i really feel for you.


Alenski please dont skirt over sti's as nothing to worry about, he could easily recieve OWO from a trusted girl and catch something, to give the impression that because you have caught nothing that it will be the same for him is wrong.

His situation and the way he comes accross is that he will do it anyway.im just pointing out the very REAL pitfalls in this game.

Im pretty sure he will cross the line however
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Offline AnthG


Alenski please dont skirt over sti's as nothing to worry about, he could easily recieve OWO from a trusted girl and catch something, to give the impression that because you have caught nothing that it will be the same for him is wrong.


But the reason why people are afraid of catching STDs is because they then worry when having sex with their other halves they will pass it to them and thus have the relationship destroying conversation of where it come from.

The OP is saying he does not have sex with his other half so there is no chance of passing it on to them if he did catch something.

But the reason why people are afraid of catching STDs is because they then worry when having sex with their other halves they will pass it to them and thus have the relationship destroying conversation of where it come from.

The OP is saying he does not have sex with his other half so there is no chance of passing it on to them if he did catch something.
So he never kisses his wife to, could pass orally to her from kissing, lower chances but don't say no chance.

Offline Rod trotter

But the reason why people are afraid of catching STDs is because they then worry when having sex with their other halves they will pass it to them and thus have the relationship destroying conversation of where it come from.

The OP is saying he does not have sex with his other half so there is no chance of passing it on to them if he did catch something.


But Anth i'll bet you after hes punted she will want her leg over and then it puts him in a position...it would be just typical.

Anyhow weve given advice its up to him now.

Good luck  :hi:
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Offline Sako

Thanks for the input gents. Rest assured I dont take the chance of catching something lightly and one mans advice to the contrary wouldn't give me an reassurance, in fact the more I delve the more I worry about it. I have received a couple of messages over on UKE from guys who seem to be on a very similar wavelength to myself and their advice has been very useful along with the advice in this thread.

So will I punt?

To be honest I really dont know at this stage, what I do know however is that I will continue to do my research and with a bit of luck I will continue to talk to guys like yourselves with the hope of becoming better informed. That way if I do cross the line I will not be doing it blindly.


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Thanks for the input gents. Rest assured I dont take the chance of catching something lightly and one mans advice to the contrary wouldn't give me an reassurance, in fact the more I delve the more I worry about it. I have received a couple of messages over on UKE from guys who seem to be on a very similar wavelength to myself and their advice has been very useful along with the advice in this thread.

So will I punt?

To be honest I really dont know at this stage, what I do know however is that I will continue to do my research and with a bit of luck I will continue to talk to guys like yourselves with the hope of becoming better informed. That way if I do cross the line I will not be doing it blindly.

Preparation and research is the key which ever way you go !

Best of luck !


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Offline Mansell

Thanks for the input gents. Rest assured I dont take the chance of catching something lightly and one mans advice to the contrary wouldn't give me an reassurance, in fact the more I delve the more I worry about it. I have received a couple of messages over on UKE from guys who seem to be on a very similar wavelength to myself and their advice has been very useful along with the advice in this thread.

So will I punt?

To be honest I really dont know at this stage, what I do know however is that I will continue to do my research and with a bit of luck I will continue to talk to guys like yourselves with the hope of becoming better informed. That way if I do cross the line I will not be doing it blindly.

Having read your post about your relationship with your wife. Don't make the mistake that others of us don;t feel the same about our OH. But we are possibly further down this path than you are, so speak with real experience, where eventually we did decide to do something about it.

From what you had said already quiet frankly if your wife is no longer able to have sex then you need to have an open discussion with her, not us. Probably with a relationship counsellor there as well !!


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