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Offline kundalini

Do you guys ever bring your own toys with you to a punt. If so has there ever been any objections by the girl? and out of curiosity which ones have you brought?


Yes. Hitachi Magic Wand, pocket rocket vibrator, newly purchased Bodywand massager and a 7 speed rabbit vibrator. With the exception of the rabbit, all of the toys are for stimulating the clit and don't enter her vagina (there are attachments for penetration but I haven't purchased any of them and I rather doubt WGs would be willing to use them). The rabbit has been almost totally ignored and I stopped taking it with me. The Hitachi and Bodywand are mains operated so need a plug socket. Neither has a particularly long lead so if the socket isn't situated close to the bed, it can be awkward. I bought an extension lead which I take.

I tend to do Magic wand stimulating clit + my lubed fingers against her G-spot and fucking + clit stimulation (Magic wand or pocket rocket). Some WGs have stopped me from fingering them. A few have "no fingers" rules. Others have reports that mention fingering but stopped me from doing so. One WG let me finger her the first time I saw her but not the 2nd.

The reasons for taking the toys is that my early paid encounters were not a success as the service providers were adopting a lapdance style approach in which the client is meant to get turned on while the service provider doesn't. There wasn't any kissing and their attempts to stimulate my cock were minimal. I found that in paid encounters, I was far more likely to get aroused if she was clearly highly aroused. One way to do this would be giving her oral but I prefer to blast them into ecstasy with a Hitachi. More recently there's been quite a lot of french kissing in my encounters and this usually turns me on, so perhaps less need for the toys.

The Hitachi is good toy if you like to see women highly aroused as its success rate is 95%. There's only been one woman for whom it did absolutely nothing. The best thing is getting to see the excitement when the Hitachi has taken her into new territory and she loves it. This happens perhaps 25% of the time. Getting them to do continuous orgasms is possible but requires a fair amount of knowledge and even then it tends not to work as they don't follow the breathing instructions properly. Many women get very sensitive after orgasm.

There are diminishing returns to taking a Hitachi as you start to regard 3 orgasms in an hour as being a bit dull compared to the 8 spectacular climaxes the last victim had, nevermind the 15+ that one WG had in an hour.


But anyway if I was to buy and bring my own. Would the girl object to using it - my worries is she may have objections over hygiene and worried its not clean and used on multiple girls as its not her own.


Yes this is something that has occurred a few times. For the last 2 years I've simply placed a condom over the head of the massager immediately after getting it out of my bag. I would suggest this is the most sensible approach. Take some of your own condoms and place one over the toy, right in front of her eyes, before offering it to the WG.

I have had one instance of an escort demanding an extra £20 to use my toys. I should have demanded my money back and walked out but I chose to pay the extra and naturally the session was wretched as she was crap in every respect. Giving toys to WGs as a present doesn't seem to work as typically they forget to bring them to future sessions. I unwisely bought a Hitachi for an escort who was having a tough time in her private life. Next time I saw her she forgot to bring the special plug so we couldn't use it and she went on to tell me she never used it at home, or with other clients, as it was something she associated with me. So I had tried to do something nice and it turned out to be a total waste of money!

Feel free to PM me with any questions on using a Hitachi, Bodywand, which one to buy etc etc

Offline Dani

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Anth you will find that they probably all have at least one vibe.  The reason that clients are often told they do not have any is because they do not trust 'that' client to not hurt them with it.  So even if you brought your own still sealed it would make no difference.  Most guys do not realise that what they call gently using the vibe is far from gentle and really hurts so most girls would sooner use it themselves in front of the client.  If you asked the same girl if she had one she could use in front of you I bet the answer would be yes as it is a major part of every prossies kit.
Not many will allow you to do it until they know you well enough to feel comfortable that you will not hurt them with it.

Ask the next girl you book to bring a clit stimulator with her as that way she is informed in advance and also knows you cannot hurt her with it as it will not be inserted inside

Offline softlad

There are diminishing returns to taking a Hitachi as you start to regard 3 orgasms in an hour as being a bit dull compared to the 8 spectacular climaxes the last victim had, nevermind the 15+ that one WG had in an hour.

You sound quite an expert K'... :hi:
Have you ever been the first to make one squirt ?

My only interest in them using toys is if it leads to them squirting...
I find this a great turn on.

Offline Dani

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You sound quite an expert K'... :hi:
Have you ever been the first to make one squirt ?

My only interest in them using toys is if it leads to them squirting...
I find this a great turn on.

Magic wands can easily make some squirt but it is better if you bring them to the right point and then stop a few times and then on the third or fourth go keep going.
Be aware though that the majority of girls do not like the wand as it can be so intense as to be painful for some.  It can also if used for more than 15 minutes at a time cause skin burns very similar to the chicken scratch the idito kids did in the playground with a wet finger rubbing it on their arm until the skin peeled away leaving a wet sore.

As for the post at the top of this page, 15 times with a wand??? was her pussy made of teflon???  Every single women I know can manage about 4 -7  at the most before the skin literally starts peeling back causing sores as the vibrations against wet skin are so powerful it causes damage and yes I do know what I am talking about as do not go anywhere without my wand and have introduce a lot of women to it

*edited* did not follow the breathing intructions properly.  Whos instructions? yours? Do you really know more about how each woman orgasms than they do?  No one can, as each women is completely different.  Some do not need time in between and can just carry on and some are too sensitive and it has nothing to do with how they breathe believe me.  I have tried most of the breathing techniques that are supposed to help and none actually do anything (apart from one that made me really light headed and almost sick).
« Last Edit: July 29, 2012, 02:10:32 pm by Dani »

Offline kundalini

You sound quite an expert K'... :hi:
Have you ever been the first to make one squirt ?

My only interest in them using toys is if it leads to them squirting...
I find this a great turn on.

No I haven't. My attempts to get professionals to squirt have been unsuccessful though one escort did soak the bed. In some instances women who don't usually squirt will do so with a Hitachi but this will tend to happen when they've used it several times, so more suited to relationships than paid encounters.

Even the commonly advised technique for getting women to squirt (brutal fingering G-spot region with middle two fingers) hasn't worked on the professionals I've tried it on. Lots of orgasms but no squirting that I've noticed. I tend to see WGs in their early 20s so I suspect that may be a factor.

Offline softlad

Magic wands can easily make some squirt but it is better if you bring them to the right point and then stop a few times and then on the third or fourth go keep going.

Do you squirt Cassie ?
If so a gush or trickle...
Hope I don't make you blush.... :blush:
« Last Edit: July 29, 2012, 02:20:41 pm by softlad »

Offline softlad

Even the commonly advised technique for getting women to squirt (brutal fingering G-spot region with middle two fingers) hasn't worked on the professionals I've tried it on. Lots of orgasms but no squirting that I've noticed.

I made one squirt once simply with fingers, probably wasn't her first time.
I've tried with many others but similar to you not had much success rate.

Offline kundalini

Magic wands can easily make some squirt but it is better if you bring them to the right point and then stop a few times and then on the third or fourth go keep going.
Be aware though that the majority of girls do not like the wand as it can be so intense as to be painful for some.  It can also if used for more than 15 minutes at a time cause skin burns very similar to the chicken scratch the idito kids did in the playground with a wet finger rubbing it on their arm until the skin peeled away leaving a wet sore.

As for the post at the top of this page, 15 times with a wand??? was her pussy made of teflon???  Every single women I know can manage about 4 -7  at the most before the skin literally starts peeling back causing sores as the vibrations against wet skin are so powerful it causes damage and yes I do know what I am talking about as do not go anywhere without my wand and have introduce a lot of women to it

*edited* did not follow the breathing intructions properly.  Whos instructions? yours? Do you really know more about how each woman orgasms than they do?  No one can, as each women is completely different.  Some do not need time in between and can just carry on and some are too sensitive and it has nothing to do with how they breathe believe me.  I have tried most of the breathing techniques that are supposed to help and none actually do anything (apart from one that made me really light headed and almost sick).

It would seem that I know more about using Magic wands than you do. I have also read about 50 books on advanced sex including the best book ever written on the subject. I suggest you read the literature.

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I punted with a WG years ago in MY hotel room and she squirted all over the bed, on the curtains, wall and floor making a right fucking mess which i had to pay for.

There is no universal medical agreement about squirting, some so called experts say its piss, others come.

I just dont want to see it again in person thanks.

Do you guys ever bring your own toys with you to a punt. If so has there ever been any objections by the girl? and out of curiosity which ones have you brought?

I ask given the "fingering" topic above it seemed a good time to ask as I have been intending to for a while.

Many-many times I have asked during the punt if the girl has any toys and she never does - not one of my punts where i've asked has a girl had any. It seems agency girls think they don't need to bring them. You would think I was not the only one to ask for this though which is odd.

But anyway if I was to buy and bring my own. Would the girl object to using it - my worries is she may have objections over hygiene and worried its not clean and used on multiple girls as its not her own.

I know this is daft but could you bring a brand new one and and say its a gift for her (bit of a creepy gift if so) but then if you rebooked with her you'd expect her to have it with her since then.

I am also asking as like I say due to my nerves I sometimes have performance issues. So want to use the toys on her. But it seems girls never have them these days.

If I were to buy a one for the girl. Is just the el-cheapo £8 ones good enough.

I mostly have a particular herbal moisturiser with me which makes a great massage and is better than an oil and not greasy and missus SH is familiar with the mild odour so it does not arouse suspicion. but it can arouse a nipple of two or even mister happy or even if one of us offers the other a larger scale massage. Also good for fisting. But also read on:

I mostly bring some YES!
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i use the smallest one, there is one that is friendly to condoms and one that is not. Make your choice. I put a little either into the lady's hole, (never mind which one!)  or onto mister happy if dryness is a problem and it is solved. or even just for more fun.

magic wand not available in the uk   on there site ????

Offline kundalini

magic wand not available in the uk   on there site ????

The magic wand situation used to be simple. It is now complex. It used to be that Hitachi were the only company to make them and you needed a US/UK plug adaptor. The current situation is the version that required a US/UK plug adaptor has been banned by the EU. But now a variety of companies make magic wands that look exactly like the Hitachi but have UK plugs.

Lots of options, white and black, 2 speed, 7 speed and dial. Cheaper than they used to be too. £20 - £25 seems common now. Here is just one of many:

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You'll also find shops like lovehoney have their own brand of magic wand. Then there is the Bodywand massager which may be a slight upgrade on the magic wand; I bought one recently but not done enough testing yet to say.
« Last Edit: July 29, 2012, 05:38:23 pm by kundalini »

Offline softlad

I punted with a WG years ago in MY hotel room and she squirted all over the bed, on the curtains, wall and floor making a right fucking mess which i had to pay for.

You'll have to share your technique... :D
How did you explain it to the hotel ?  :scare:

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For those curious I ordered the Swoon Release Vibrating Pleasure Wand for £10.

Most guys do not realise that what they call gently using the vibe is far from gentle and really hurts so most girls would sooner use it themselves in front of the client. 

I am a bit vigilant about this so will ask any girl I use it with for a visual demonstration of what is good for her first.
« Last Edit: July 29, 2012, 05:44:40 pm by AnthG »

Offline Wayang


I am a bit vigilant about this so will ask any girl I use it with for a visual demonstration of what is good for her first.

Good thinking Batman.  Always ask a WG to show you how she wants you to use it. 

But remember the WG's mantra "Don't worry about me; I am here to make certain you enjoy it."

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But remember the WG's mantra "Don't worry about me; I am here to make certain you enjoy it."

Going off topic on this thread. But do you know how people have been banging on for the last 48 hrs how no punter can ever "pull" an escort and its a never going to happen thing and she will never respect you except for your cash. Its probably as most guys who see escorts think of them like this.  :hi:   (Its a good enough theory as any :) ).


*Edit* Also I just realised the Batman comment was a clever play on words on my saying being "a bit vigilant"  :lol:
« Last Edit: July 29, 2012, 06:15:04 pm by AnthG »

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You'll have to share your technique... :D
How did you explain it to the hotel ?  :scare:

I didnt do anything, she played with herself and out it squirted like a hosepipe, i nearly shit myself in shock. :scare: :lol:

I said i did it in my sleep while sleepwalking, it was just dampness by then, felt a right twat. ;) Ensure any squirting is at her place is my advice, i just hope i never experience it again. :thumbsdown:

Offline haystacks79

Going off topic on this thread. But do you know how people have been banging on for the last 48 hrs how no punter can ever "pull" an escort and its a never going to happen thing and she will never respect you except for your cash. Its probably as most guys who see escorts think of them like this.  :hi:   (Its a good enough theory as any :) ).

Maybe most think like that, but certainly not all!

On the subject of a punter pulling an escort - I think it's an interesting scenario, and I've read the various comments over the last couple of days on your other thread. What I don't think is clear from those posts is who initiated things - I think if there's anything beyond a paid relationship, then it has to be the escort that makes the move - which I guess would turn it into the escort pulling a punter.

Ant as i think James has said most escorts are a little confused and 80% of them seem to have a troubled background
to give you an example one i saw always used the line 'ive been in a car crash' if she couldnt make it ..
ive been 3 steps further up the road that you are on now   and it causes a whole lot of pain , and its not for her !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Offline Ali Katt

The magic wand situation used to be simple. It is now complex. It used to be that Hitachi were the only company to make them and you needed a US/UK plug adaptor. The current situation is the version that required a US/UK plug adaptor has been banned by the EU. But now a variety of companies make magic wands that look exactly like the Hitachi but have UK plugs.

Lots of options, white and black, 2 speed, 7 speed and dial. Cheaper than they used to be too. £20 - £25 seems common now. Here is just one of many:

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You'll also find shops like lovehoney have their own brand of magic wand. Then there is the Bodywand massager which may be a slight upgrade on the magic wand; I bought one recently but not done enough testing yet to say.
I to own a magic wand, it's not a Hitachi and is 7 speed, it's also UK plug (3 pin) and fucking powerful.  I bought it from sexmachines.co.uk - they don't have any at the moment, and charge VAT on top of the prices, but it was free postage and I got 2 free attachments (bent cock and a g-spot massager) for £27. I think they're good because it can be used on both sexes, it brings me to orgasm within about a minute or 2.

I'd recommend a vibrating finger ring for a ount, small so easy to carry last 20+ minutes and it doesn't look intimidating like say an Omar Williams replica.

Most girls don't like using other peoples sex toys for hygiene reasons so, most have their own. No sex toy is a substitute for a human tongue; not even a sqwheel.

Offline mh

A couple of times I've ordered vibrating anal plugs for delivery to the WG before my visit. The first time I requested that she start with it in her under her pants and she did - very horny to know it was in there before my arrival and to "discover" it and control it. She later used it on me (cleaned and with a condom on it) which was OK. I left it with her.

The second time I ordered it telling the girl it was for me and she used it on herself with a condom and on me and then I took it home with me.

Both girls said there was no way they'd use a non-new toy brought to a meeting.

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I to own a magic wand, it's not a Hitachi and is 7 speed, it's also UK plug (3 pin) and fucking powerful.  I bought it from sexmachines.co.uk - they don't have any at the moment, and charge VAT on top of the prices, but it was free postage and I got 2 free attachments (bent cock and a g-spot massager) for £27. I think they're good because it can be used on both sexes, it brings me to orgasm within about a minute or 2.

I'd recommend a vibrating finger ring for a ount, small so easy to carry last 20+ minutes and it doesn't look intimidating like say an Omar Williams replica.

Most girls don't like using other peoples sex toys for hygiene reasons so, most have their own. No sex toy is a substitute for a human tongue; not even a sqwheel.

I like it, an Omar Williams replica. :lol: With the absolute ugly old grannies he was shagging in his early films its a miracle he was able to manage anything with them, and yes i have a few of them i recorded off Sex View, they are really rough old birds. :scare:

Online AnthG

Both girls said there was no way they'd use a non-new toy brought to a meeting.

Thanks for confirming that MH. It was as I suspected.

I actually bought two of those vibrators - For £10 each thought may as well. Was going to give one as a gift and save the other if escorts would let me use it with them and then take it home and clean for the next girl.

So as it seems not it seems the second escort I see will be getting a gift also.

Offline Ali Katt

I like it, an Omar Williams replica. :lol: With the absolute ugly old grannies he was shagging in his early films its a miracle he was able to manage anything with them, and yes i have a few of them i recorded off Sex View, they are really rough old birds. :scare:
Absolutely, he still shags rough old birds. Ben Dover is another one, both have undoubtedly shagged some beautiful women on and off camera, but with some of the talent they must either really enjoy sex with women most wouldn't touch with their barge pole or looking to appeal to a niche.

There's a funny, recent-ish video of Omar Williams shagging a fat granny from Liverpool. Cathy Barrie's husband Phil Barrie provides the commentary: "thar she blows" and "Omar, you look like you've been flattened" being my favourites.

Offline mattylondon

Not a good idea, it will just remind her she has a cunt like a bucket and will piss her off  :( you need to get something that stretches the holes so that when you get your pork sword in after she is relieved the pain has stopped  :hi:
:lol: :lol:


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