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Offline aardvark

Perhaps not a particularly attractive term, but the insertion of a finger or two into a lady's pussy is something that I particularly enjoy - however, in my relatively limited experience with 'professional' ladies, it seems that not all are prepared to allow this.  In particular, Eastern European girls seem to decline.  They will often allow you to massage the clitoris but will make it clear that they do not allow fingers inside.  It seems strange that they will perform OWO, but will refuse fingers inside.  I appreciate that fingernails can cause abrasions and may be dirty, but surely it is very easy to check if fingers are well manicured and clean.  Is it correct that British ladies seem to be far more accepting of use of fingers, or is it just me??  What is the considered wisdom of the forum?? 

Perhaps not a particularly attractive term, but the insertion of a finger or two into a lady's pussy is something that I particularly enjoy - however, in my relatively limited experience with 'professional' ladies, it seems that not all are prepared to allow this.  In particular, Eastern European girls seem to decline.  They will often allow you to massage the clitoris but will make it clear that they do not allow fingers inside.  It seems strange that they will perform OWO, but will refuse fingers inside.  I appreciate that fingernails can cause abrasions and may be dirty, but surely it is very easy to check if fingers are well manicured and clean.  Is it correct that British ladies seem to be far more accepting of use of fingers, or is it just me??  What is the considered wisdom of the forum??

My experiences are similar to yours. Amongst civilian girls, can only remember one girlfriend who hated it, but amongst WGs, you rarely find one who does like it. When I've asked them, the answer is sometimes 'I just don't like it' but can often be related to issues of cleanliness, fingernails, and poor technique. I agree it seems a little inconsistent, but I can also sort-of see that it's intrusive in a way some girls wouldn't be comfortable with.

Its curious that the most common sexual activity in civilian life is frowned on in the sex industry. Its not just ee girls either. I suspect in some parlours a girl decides that she isnt having it, and the rest of the girls follow suit. Oddly enough I was once tentatively fingering an austrian girl,  when she bunched my three fingers together and encouraged me to ram them in hard,,,,different strokes for different folks. Nowadays I dont go back if the girl wont allow fingering. A lot of girls in this business, want their 70£ for the half hour for doing as little as poss. I have pointed out to some girls that they wouldnt think much of a sexual experience if they werent allowed to touch the man.

Offline mikey

I have pointed out to some girls that they wouldnt think much of a sexual experience if they werent allowed to touch the man.

for a lot of girls, that may be their ideal sexual experience  :D

Offline adindas

in my relatively limited experience with 'professional' ladies, it seems that not all are prepared to allow this.

I found it that the vast majority are not, even with British WGs. It might be for the main reason that you have mentioned such as finger abrasion.

If she has got 5-10 clients a day and every client fingerf**k her, the risk of abrasion which might cause infections are too high. And if this happens they will  loose income as they need a break until they recover. Also it might be that with finger insertion will make them easily cum and with WGs who will see next client this is the thing they want to avoid.

With civies are quite different,  they might enjoy and feel it as sexual arousal as they do not see so many people in a day.

It is good idea if WGs in this forum could also give their opinions.




Offline Lurtz

Perhaps not a particularly attractive term, but the insertion of a finger or two into a lady's pussy is something that I particularly enjoy - however, in my relatively limited experience with 'professional' ladies, it seems that not all are prepared to allow this.  In particular, Eastern European girls seem to decline.  They will often allow you to massage the clitoris but will make it clear that they do not allow fingers inside.  It seems strange that they will perform OWO, but will refuse fingers inside.  I appreciate that fingernails can cause abrasions and may be dirty, but surely it is very easy to check if fingers are well manicured and clean.  Is it correct that British ladies seem to be far more accepting of use of fingers, or is it just me??  What is the considered wisdom of the forum??

They have a fear of being scratched by sharp nails or being contaminated by dirt under the fingernails.

Take some rubber gloves - clean ones!


Offline softlad

They have a fear of being scratched by sharp nails or being contaminated by dirt under the fingernails.

Take some rubber gloves - clean ones!

I bet none of us fine chaps complain when being 'fingered' ?
 :cool:

Offline yumyum3

Good posts. All my girlfriends love it, but then they know you, as it were. I also think it is a very intimate experience. Perhaps a regular who gets to know you might allow it but I can't blame a lady - some blokes don't what they're doing :scare:

Offline smiths

Perhaps not a particularly attractive term, but the insertion of a finger or two into a lady's pussy is something that I particularly enjoy - however, in my relatively limited experience with 'professional' ladies, it seems that not all are prepared to allow this.  In particular, Eastern European girls seem to decline.  They will often allow you to massage the clitoris but will make it clear that they do not allow fingers inside.  It seems strange that they will perform OWO, but will refuse fingers inside.  I appreciate that fingernails can cause abrasions and may be dirty, but surely it is very easy to check if fingers are well manicured and clean.  Is it correct that British ladies seem to be far more accepting of use of fingers, or is it just me??  What is the considered wisdom of the forum??

I have posted similar on this about EE WGs over the years. Some dont want a punter penetrating any hole bareback as it were. Fingering using a condom is sometimes offered i have found, not a turn-on to me though.

I have rarely had the same with a decent Brit WG. When i enquire i ask about fingering nowadays and as its not on a WGs enjoys list for some reason even more reason to ask about it in my view.

I also note with some EE WGs that they dont like me touching the condom that they are putting on my cock reading for shagging, its a hygiene thing with them.

Offline philuk1uk

I've never had a WG refuse to allow me to use my fingers, though i've heard a lot of girls don't allow it, I must have been lucky as it's something I really enjoy, I think it goes back to my first sexual experiences as a teenager were fingering girls at parties, on dancefloors, etc!  :)

Offline iName

I have never been allowed to finger with excuses being simply one didn't like it and the other had a "sensitive" pussy. To be fair I've only seen 3 pro$$ies so I don't know if this is the norm but it seems to be according to the other posts here.

This is something I get a kick out of and can see why some wont allow it, it is rather delicate up there and the last thing you want to do is end up cutting her or something, but 9 times out of 10 if you are gentle and make sure you have no nails you are normally ok.
I get the impression that some guys get the go ahead then start trying to get a hand up there before she is warmed up, and so they get annoyed with it.





Offline Wayang

FFS - how many punters both have a proper manicure (with smooth short nails) and wash their hands before they think they have a right to finger a WG?
I think WGs are perfectly right not to allow fingers into their cunts - playing with the clit; that is different.

Offline AnthG

FFS - how many punters both have a proper manicure (with smooth short nails) and wash their hands before they think they have a right to finger a WG?
I think WGs are perfectly right not to allow fingers into their cunts - playing with the clit; that is different.
This is my worries too. I know she was just bashing me for fun. But in my negative review rebuttal the girl I negged was really criticising my finger technique and claiming I "Poked and prodded" her when I thought I was being really gentle.

I have not done it since. This was another reason I had wanted the vibro. No sharp edges and is designed to go in there.

Offline James999

This was another reason I had wanted the vibro. No sharp edges and is designed to go in there.

Same applies to Fists  :hi:

Offline SteveNova

Fingering is a big turn on for me (fingering the girl that is as I've not had the pleasure myself  :D )  So far none have objected and judging by the wetness and response do seem to enjoy it.  I do actually try to keep my nails short and smooth, which I'm sure helps.  Finger licking good really  :D

I found it that the vast majority are not, even with British WGs. It might be for the main reason that you have mentioned such as finger abrasion.

If she has got 5-10 clients a day and every client fingerf**k her, the risk of abrasion which might cause infections are too high. And if this happens they will  loose income as they need a break until they recover. Also it might be that with finger insertion will make them easily cum and with WGs who will see next client this is the thing they want to avoid.

With civies are quite different,  they might enjoy and feel it as sexual arousal as they do not see so many people in a day.

It is good idea if WGs in this forum could also give their opinions.

This.  I have seen over 40 wg's now, and I am pretty confident it's these two reasons why they mainly turn it down. 

A few girls I have seen have been really honest about it and freely admitted that they enjoy it, but can't let every bloke they see do it in case of abrasions and will therefore only ever allow clit play. 

Then there are the other group that simply do not want to come- they have let me do it for a few mins, but at the point where they start to reach high levels of arousal or are even about to come, they will push my hand away sharpish.
« Last Edit: July 29, 2012, 06:18:49 PM by jesus_jones »

Offline haystacks79

I thoroughly enjoy fingering a girl, and have yet to be turned down. Always been given every sign of enjoyment as well.

Offline Jacob

Fingering is a big turn on for me (fingering the girl that is as I've not had the pleasure myself  :D )  So far none have objected and judging by the wetness and response do seem to enjoy it.  I do actually try to keep my nails short and smooth, which I'm sure helps.  Finger licking good really  :D

About the same for me, it has been refused but then that wasn't the only thing with the Pro$$ies involved, certainly not had any problem for at least last 2 years at least.

Cutting and filing nails (all 10 digits, as any may be used) is one of the pre-punt rituals for me. Take some emery boards with you.

Actually, I'd even go as far to say it's been welcomed by most of the girls. Saw one tail end of last year several times, has a great pussy just like Violet Monroe (pussy roadkill thread) so I was downsatirs for ages and I'd give a lot of head and then leave a finger or thumb nearby and she's actively engage it if you know what I mean, wanting more as things progressed.

Generally, don't try it until she has been suitably turned on.

Adultwork should add it as an 'Enjoy'.

Offline Ali Katt

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Cutting and filing nails (all 10 digits, as any may be used) is one of the pre-punt rituals for me. Take some emery boards with you.
Seconded, I scrub them with a brush before punt as well. I don't tend to finger girls unless they request it though, my fingers tend to slip out. I would much rather a girl gives me a prostate massage, but that's another topic.

Offline haystacks79

As I don't get in with emery boards (my reaction is similar to that of fingernails down a blackboard) I compromise by always cutting my fingernails the day before a punt, so they have time to smooth naturally. My hands get scrubbed as part of my shower and washing routine before leaving home to go to a wg.

Offline mh

I had a duo with a pair of EE girls recently. I went to touch the first girls pussy and was told "OK but not inside", so it didn't start well. But the second girl was rather more game. She offered anal and allowed deep pussy fingering while being anally fucked from behind. Another item off my to do list!

So I had 2 very different responses from a pair of EE girls who worked together.

Offline yumyum3

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, I think it goes back to my first sexual experiences as a teenager were fingering girls at parties, on dancefloors, etc! 

Ah, happy memories :drinks: :)

Offline up_peri_scope

Most, but not all pro$$ie$ that I have seen have allowed fingering. :yahoo:

With the ones that didn't I enjoyed the time and never went back.Their choice and my choice :kissgirl:

Can't remember full details but I vaguely remember reading somewhere that pro$$ie$ having periods use pad so they can still work. This raises an interesting vision of "what's this then ?" and pulling it out   :dash: Not being a vampire I'd rather they just said before you booked, but ....  :crazy:

Offline Melb

My wife hates me fingering.
She usually starts a row, yanking my fingers out out of my girlfriend and throwing her out of the house.


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