Now then Alexdee, I'm not purporting you to be a weirdo
But
This "will she, won't she" malarkee sounds mad as a box of frogs
And
"it's half the fun"
It sounds like torment to me!
What do you do if HR is not available on your visit?
Do you leave thinking "wow, that was great!"
Or do you book again hoping for a better roll of the dice?
I am clearly missing something here!