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Offline pewpewpew

I'm normally the all inclusive kind of guy but have paid for extras before which i didn't end up partaking in. If a girl charges extra for cim what's the normal thing to do? Just do it and pay after or pay at the start and make sure you do it? Just thinking in the heat of the monent it may not happen and I'm unlikely to ask for money back

vw

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I have started waiting for them to stash, them mention might want extra and put cash for extra in full view, I can then leave it if mission successful and grab the notes on way out if aborted.

saves awkwardness of having to un-stash.

Offline WelshClipper

I just ignore completely. I pretend there are no extras.

For example, I can pretty much cum in most situations so I am not going to pay £20 for CIM when I explode in missionary.

No point.

vw

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I just ignore completely. I pretend there are no extras.

For example, I can pretty much cum in most situations so I am not going to pay £20 for CIM when I explode in missionary.

No point.
What if you want to CIM ? :dash:  what would you do then Clopper  :bomb: :bomb: :bomb: :bomb: :bomb: :bomb: :bomb:

Would it be theft if you didn't pay ?  :unknown:

Offline threechilliman

I don't see girls who charge extra for any services I might want. If what I want isn't included, I don't see her.

tcm

Offline Silver Birch

I don't see girls who charge extra for any services I might want. If what I want isn't included, I don't see her.

tcm

Exactly the same for me, with the exception of anal. That is the only sevice I might consider paying extra for.

Offline WelshClipper

What if you want to CIM ? :dash:  what would you do then Clopper  :bomb: :bomb: :bomb: :bomb: :bomb: :bomb: :bomb:

Would it be theft if you didn't pay ?  :unknown:

Hard to explain unless I get really graphic. But I will try. I was on the verge and I am sure she knew. She turned to me and invited me
to fuck her missionary. I simply said yes and the CIM moment passed. I think a wg knows when she has not been paid for an extra
and I don't give a fuck how I come. No £20, no CIM, no problem.  ;)



Offline smiths

I'm normally the all inclusive kind of guy but have paid for extras before which i didn't end up partaking in. If a girl charges extra for cim what's the normal thing to do? Just do it and pay after or pay at the start and make sure you do it? Just thinking in the heat of the monent it may not happen and I'm unlikely to ask for money back

The honest thing to do is to have already agreed that CIM IS on offer from the WG and pay as agreed with her or not as you wish.

As to Extras the main point for me is I am aware there are any as the WG advertises so and confirms so when I speak to her on the phone. Last minute.com extras are what low lifes do as part of their low life service. :thumbsdown:

Ben4454

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If she has it as a discretion then ask her about it on the phone. If it isn't at discretion feel free to ejaculate inside her mouth without warning.

Offline Buttons

I take the attitude that extras are a bit of a con, services should be included in the price. The mention of extras just makes me move along to the next girl. Two exceptions to this, anal and taking pictures.

Anal I am not always bothered about, but will pay extra within reason if I do want it. Filming to me is kind of non standard. What I don't like is girls that take the piss, offering the ability to take a max 5 pictures at £5 each........ha ha ha......nope. Or charging £20 extra for anal when they are at £150 an hour already.......again......nope.

I prefer a session to unfold naturally. Once the cash has been paid, I don't want to see the menu as it were, all the time expecting an additional bill at the end.

Offline Urban_G

When I make initial contact I'll ask if certain services are included in price. If she says no and charges extra, as long as it's within my budget then fine. And I always confirm before handing over the readies.

Offline Buttons

One of the best meets I ever had was with a lady only in the business for a short time between more conventional jobs. Said she was a financial advisor.

Anyway, money was only talked about in very basic terms, what the hourly rate was. Agreed and no further mention. Arrived at her house and she wanted a chat before the main event, fine by me. She was very happy to talk about services, what I wanted etc. I offered her the money after being in the house for a couple of mins, she said "that's ok, pay me later".

Offered again when we went to her bedroom (not a punting room, her actual bedroom), again "pay me later". OK.

Did the deed, was about to leave and still wanted to pay her. I wasn't trying to get a freebie. "Wait till I leave the room and leave it on the dressing table" she said, "the money makes me feel like a whore". So left it I did.

A great punt with a sexy lady. She disappeared from AW a few weeks later never to return.

yorkshire123

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I can't say I've ever been asked for extra from an indie, there again I'm not onto giving anal or facials nor receiving rimming.

I have paid extra for owo, cim & even kissing for some brothel prossie's but all have been confirmed prior to the punt commencing.

FredW

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I don't see girls who charge extra for any services I might want. If what I want isn't included, I don't see her.

tcm
:)

Andre 3000

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I could never stomach seeing a WG who did extras. I always felt it would get a meet off to a bad start.

vw

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I could never stomach seeing a WG who did extras. I always felt it would get a meet off to a bad start.
Even if displayed on profile and worked out cheaper ?

Offline EnglishRebecca121

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My view is if a wg charges extra for something simple she doesnt enjoy it! :unknown:
Banned reason: Ex sex worker with zero useful contribution to make
Banned by: Head1

vw

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My view is if a wg charges extra for something simple she doesnt enjoy it! :unknown:
That's your view but not quite right some charge extra for facial dues to time to reaplly make-up

Anal due to extra time in prep douching

Why should punters that don't want or need pay more ?  Some have very good rates and go up to average rates when adding the extras, what's wrong with that.  Works out cheaper for many punters !

MrRiz

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My view is if a wg charges extra for something simple she doesnt enjoy it! :unknown:

In my experience (mostly of non-WGs) not all that many women do enjoy having cum sprayed all over their face and hair and body, which they then have to carefully clean off (should shower really).

(Btw what is that word you all use - civvies - where does that come from)?

vw

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In my experience (mostly of non-WGs) not all that many women do enjoy having cum sprayed all over their face and hair and body, which they then have to carefully clean off (should shower really).

(Btw what is that word you all use - civvies - where does that come from)?
Civilians, not in the prossie army !

Offline pewpewpew

Qurstion was when to pay not to pay or not. Like what's proper etiquette? If a girl agrees to let you blast in ger face fot an extra 20 quid should tou pay her at the start of the punt and then it's up to you if you do it or not or pay at the end if you do it?

Offline rg41

I am happy as long as she quotes what they are and the extra price, I am not interested in Anal or cum in the mouth of facials, so why should I pay for those.


Offline Marmalade

It's ok if it's simple, straightforward and upfront before the booking. A prossie might have a head like a calculator even as she applies the lube, whereas the punter actually wants to relax and enjoy himself, not calculate his double returns, the cash low in his pocket, and some relative moment's-notice putative value. If someone has a cash extras list that takes more than a second to take in out of the corner of my eye, I am bored to fuck, and also take it as a sign of her being completely disinterested in pleasure, so basically say no thanks and move on to a better deal somewhere else.

Offline Marmalade

Remember the chav lapdance techique "It's ten pounds for a dance or twenty pounds for a special dance." As you haven't had both to compare  there's no way of telling except by common sense: both dances are exactly the same.

A prossie has decided to sell her fanny (or 'rent it out' at least). If she has a no-no about OWO, that's her business: but to charge extra for it is just taking the piss. The only reasonable on-offer chargeable extra might be anal, just so she can prepare her bumhole (or WS at a push, so she can stick her head under the tap before she comes). Those require extra prep time, so not too unreasonable. Anything else comes under the Churchill adage, "We've established that you're a slag, now we need to get a firm price for fucking the arse off you dear."

Offline smiths

Qurstion was when to pay not to pay or not. Like what's proper etiquette? If a girl agrees to let you blast in ger face fot an extra 20 quid should tou pay her at the start of the punt and then it's up to you if you do it or not or pay at the end if you do it?

I answered your question above, confirm with the WG when booking and I add IF you only decide you want to do CIM after the punt has started ask her and I imagine most will want the extra straight away, its then up to you to CIM but if you don't I wouldn't bank on you getting the extra paid back.

Offline Roth

Remember the chav lapdance techique "It's ten pounds for a dance or twenty pounds for a special dance." As you haven't had both to compare  there's no way of telling except by common sense: both dances are exactly the same.

A prossie has decided to sell her fanny (or 'rent it out' at least). If she has a no-no about OWO, that's her business: but to charge extra for it is just taking the piss. The only reasonable on-offer chargeable extra might be anal, just so she can prepare her bumhole (or WS at a push, so she can stick her head under the tap before she comes). Those require extra prep time, so not too unreasonable. Anything else comes under the Churchill adage, "We've established that you're a slag, now we need to get a firm price for fucking the arse off you dear."


+1  :thumbsup:

Offline Jimmyredcab

My view is if a wg charges extra for something simple she doesnt enjoy it! :unknown:

How many prostitutes enjoy being fucked by dirty old men like me ---------- very few I would imagine.  :rolleyes:

Offline Bangers and Gash

Most get too much money already, without adding 'extras'. Greed is an extremely unattractive quality.  :thumbsdown:

Offline Roth

Most get too much money already, without adding 'extras'. Greed is an extremely unattractive quality.  :thumbsdown:

+1.  :(

Offline Marmalade

How many prostitutes enjoy being fucked by dirty old men like me ---------- very few I would imagine.  :rolleyes:

They don't always have to enjoy it though. Do you always enjoy your job? Not feeling thrills at the less attractive nitty-gritty of your job is no bar to throwing yourself into it with a bit of heart and soul and being politely pleasant to the customer paying your wage.

As for the prossies, I don't even enjoy fucking some of them... I don't know if anyone else occasionally gets that feeling of should've gone to specsavers.  :(

Offline smiths

They don't always have to enjoy it though. Do you always enjoy your job? Not feeling thrills at the less attractive nitty-gritty of your job is no bar to throwing yourself into it with a bit of heart and soul and being politely pleasant to the customer paying your wage.

As for the prossies, I don't even enjoy fucking some of them... I don't know if anyone else occasionally gets that feeling of should've gone to specsavers.  :(

Indeed, it might make a punt better if the WG did enjoy it but thats highly unlikely with my technique so at least smiling is all I ask and being friendly with a good attitude. A good WG doesn't HAVE to enjoy a punt to offer a good service.

At parties I have had the should of gone to Specsavers on occasion when I have had sexual contact with some beast of a WG. No excuse as I wasn't even pissed. :vomit:

Offline WelshClipper

Long ago lost any thought that the wg actually enjoys any of it. If she does than I prefer she keep it to herself.

To be honest, even though I may miss some glorious punts, I avoid all wgs who have extras. Reason, there are so many that simply offer their likes list and that's an end of it.

Christ, I have enough to worry about in my punting life without getting into disputes mid shag.  :mad:

Offline Sonny Crockett

If they're charging for anal, then I understand as it's a specialised service. However extras for OWO or Facials are a bit too extreme.

Offline LanceVance

I never pay for extras. I could take or leave many of the things WGs could charge extra for. If a WG charged extra for foot fetish (which is the one must do on MY likes list), then I would just go to one who throws it in the original asking price anyway!

vw

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I never pay for extras. I could take or leave many of the things WGs could charge extra for. If a WG charged extra for foot fetish (which is the one must do on MY likes list), then I would just go to one who throws it in the original asking price anyway!
What even if price + extra is less than all inclusive ?  That would be a bit stupid really IMHO.

Offline myothernameis

Instead of paying for extras, why not go down the road, and make it a tip, so if escort charges £120 hour, and she quotes; extras may occur a fee

If the escort was good at what she does, and allowed cim, and it was the best you have had, then a tip is in order, but if it didn't hit the right place, then no tip

vw

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Instead of paying for extras, why not go down the road, and make it a tip, so if escort charges £120 hour, and she quotes; extras may occur a fee

If the escort was good at what she does, and allowed cim, and it was the best you have had, then a tip is in order, but if it didn't hit the right place, then no tip
WTF  :wackogirl: :wackogirl: :wackogirl: :wackogirl: do you think they don't earn enough the price is the price, extras plus basic price is the new price.   :dash: :dash: :dash: :dash: :dash: :dash: :dash:

Are you a prossie ?

yumyum3

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Extras is just another fucking way of scamming more money IMO.  :thumbsdown:

Offline Roth

How many prostitutes enjoy being fucked by dirty old men like me ---------- very few I would imagine.  :rolleyes:

All the prossies I've fucked tell me there really really enjoyed it. :wacko: :crazy: 
Maybe it's just me?  :wacko: :crazy: :sarcastic:


Ok maybe not then! :cry:

Offline Roth

Extras is just another fucking way of scamming more money IMO.  :thumbsdown:

Now that's very true.  :thumbsup: Get the punters attention at the lower price
then load him up with charges for extras when he can't resist.  :dash: They
must think we are stupid.   :scare: Oh wait a minute - some punters are. :wacko: :crazy:

Like the 99p rule in shops. Price something at £8.99 and a fair few stupid buyers
are likely more to buy it that if its at £9.00.  :dash: :dash:

yumyum3

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Now that's very true.  :thumbsup: Get the punters attention at the lower price
then load him up with charges for extras when he can't resist.  :dash: They
must think we are stupid.   :scare: Oh wait a minute - some punters are. :wacko: :crazy:
Spot on.  :drinks:

Offline Blackpool Rock

Extras are fine depending on the price of the basic service, my bench mark is £50 for 30 minutes basic sex with £10 OWO and £20 for CIM or a Facial so £80 all in.
Not fussed if this is an all in price or separate though probably better as extras as I don't always manage to last to the CIM stage, I tend to pay the basic up front having agreed the option of CIM "If I last that long" therefore it's payable on completion not up front  :thumbsup:

What I don't like is when the girls profile gives no clue whether the cost is inclusive or not and she is already charging £80/£90 for 30 minutes then expects to also charge extras, keep walking
The worst ones are the ones who advertise all inclusive then try to sting you for extras after already having paid

vw

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Extras are fine depending on the price of the basic service, my bench mark is £50 for 30 minutes basic sex with £10 OWO and £20 for CIM or a Facial so £80 all in.
Not fussed if this is an all in price or separate though probably better as extras as I don't always manage to last to the CIM stage, I tend to pay the basic up front having agreed the option of CIM "If I last that long" therefore it's payable on completion not up front  :thumbsup:

What I don't like is when the girls profile gives no clue whether the cost is inclusive or not and she is already charging £80/£90 for 30 minutes then expects to also charge extras, keep walking
The worst ones are the ones who advertise all inclusive then try to sting you for extras after already having paid
Thanks anther person who understands maths and economics, seems many above prefer not to once optional extras is mentioned on adverts.

Some appear to want to pay more than they have to if extras are mentioned even if cheaper !   :wackogirl: :wackogirl: :wackogirl:

Offline Marmalade

Ryanair have a lot to answer for  :D

Offline LanceVance

What even if price + extra is less than all inclusive ?  That would be a bit stupid really IMHO.

Well obviously not then, but that is rarely the case, isn't it?

Offline SamLP

I don't see girls who charge extra for any services I might want. If what I want isn't included, I don't see her.

+1
Extras put me off even if it's within a price I would be prepared to pay. I won't book a girl if she stated FK or OWO were extra.
Not into CIM so that doesn't me much, but can understand why anal and some other hardcore stuff are extra.

Offline rubric

I don't mind paying for a few extras - especially where it's clearly stated. As people said up thread, there are some things you either have to prepare for, or spend time cleaning up after.

What I object to is when there is a pricing structure built around extras - the worst case is being told a price as you go for a body part/action.

Offline WelshClipper

I don't mind paying for a few extras - especially where it's clearly stated. As people said up thread, there are some things you either have to prepare for, or spend time cleaning up after.

What I object to is when there is a pricing structure built around extras - the worst case is being told a price as you go for a body part/action.

I am not one to walk from a punt. I know guys here do it. I would just use the only weapon I am comfortable with. No Return.
It boggles my mind how prossies don't equate poor service with 'hmm I wonder why I only saw that nice guy once  :unknown: especially as he promissed me he would return'  :dash:

Offline mattylondon

I don't see girls who charge extra for any services I might want. If what I want isn't included, I don't see her.
I'm the same.  :thumbsup: