I'm glad you talk about mental gratification. It is said the largest sex organ is the brain. I like to make some sort of mental connection, so girls who want to go straight into a routine are a turn off. Fortunately I've had the pleasure of some very sensual young women who have also been happy with lots of foreplay. I am in a relationship of sorts but there is no intimacy and I can't leave as we have a child. Sorry starting to change the topic..