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Author Topic: Fulfillment  (Read 1086 times)

Offline seeker

Just a general question just to see if it's wide spread or only me .
When you meet a wg for the first time everything clicks
And you get your socks totally and utterly blown off.
You fell like your 25 again and feel totally fulfilled.

It puts me off punting other girls  for a few weeks (this has only happened about 4 times in 6 years)

i shall let you know tonight as i will be seeing a new girl in a few hours time :thumbsup:

Offline Nagilum

Not uncommon, if you click as you said then you revisit.

Offline willbred

Just a general question just to see if it's wide spread or only me .
When you meet a wg for the first time everything clicks
And you get your socks totally and utterly blown off.
You fell like your 25 again and feel totally fulfilled.

It puts me off punting other girls  for a few weeks (this has only happened about 4 times in 6 years)

It's happened twice to me over the years and having "clicked" (NB: not EAS) second and third time etc, I've just carried on seeing 'em until life and it's innate ability to put something in your way, takes a turn and it's time to go elsewhere. They've been 2 girls who were able to offer such a repertoire and maintain a high standard, I wasn't looking for anyhting else. Ain't bust...I don't fix it   :thumbsup:
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Offline LL

Fulfilment / satisfaction is complicated. We all strive for it but each of us may require different experiences in order to get it. Also having the exact same experience over and over again won't leave you forever satisfied. Upon each repeat of the experience - the satisfaction may become lessened. The porno mag industry was built on this principle. As a friend of mine succinctly put it when we were both teenagers - "3 wanks over each bird [in a porn mag] and after that it's ready for the dustbin". Of course with a repeat punt, the girl can wear a different outfit, do different positions, switch things around a bit. You're getting a different experience so might leave with a grin just as big as you did the last time you saw her.

Yes I can relate to what you're saying, absolutely - but I haven't figured out yet what I need in order to feel satisfaction after a punt. For me personally it's probably not seeing the same girl multiple times in a row. But I wish I knew the winning formula as it would save me a lot of money (I.e if I leave satisfied then I may not punt again for a couple of weeks, whilst after a shitty experience I'm looking to punt again with a day or two).

Sometimes what does it for me is a realistic GFE and great sex. Other times it's a massage with a lot of teasing and a prolonged build-up to an "explosive finish" (marketing term stolen from those profiles written entirely in AdultWork-speak). Very occasionally I'll need to have an extended session where I try to cum more than once and most likely fail. It's this over-indulgence that I'll need to experience. Imagine if you hadn't eaten for weeks and you're faced with a mountain of chocolate - you'd likely keep eating the stuff until you were sick. Finally - at other times only a fuck in a dingy shithole with a young Romanian will cut the mustard. Said it before - Too much GFE can start to get a bit predictable. Sometimes I need to to feel the adrenalin of a risky punt; to live the adventure of the punting mission in an unknown (to me) shitty location - to breath the sigh of relief as I leave unscathed. Only then will I be content.
« Last Edit: December 14, 2015, 06:31:30 PM by LL »

Offline willbred

Fulfilment / satisfaction is complicated. We all strive for it but each of us may require different experiences in order to get it. Also having the exact same experience over and over again won't leave you forever satisfied. Upon each repeat of the experience - the satisfaction may become lessened. The porno mag industry was built on this principle. As a friend of mine succinctly put it when we were both teenagers - "3 wanks over each bird [in a porn mag] and after that it's ready for the dustbin". Of course with a repeat punt, the girl can wear a different outfit, do different positions, switch things around a bit. You're getting a different experience so might leave with a grin just as big as you did the last time you saw her.

Yes I can relate to what you're saying, absolutely - but I haven't figured out yet what I need in order to feel satisfaction after a punt. For me personally it's probably not seeing the same girl multiple times in a row. But I wish I knew the winning formula as it would save me a lot of money (I.e if I leave satisfied then I may not punt again for a couple of weeks, whilst after a shitty experience I'm looking to punt again with a day or two).

Sometimes what does it for me is a realistic GFE and great sex. Other times it's a massage with a lot of teasing and a prolonged build-up to an "explosive finish" (marketing term stolen from those profiles written entirely in AdultWork-speak). Very occasionally I'll need to have an extended session where I try to cum more than once and most likely fail. It's this over-indulgence that I'll need to experience. Imagine if you hadn't eaten for weeks and you're faced with a mountain of chocolate - you'd likely keep eating the stuff until you were sick. Finally - at other times only a fuck in a dingy shithole with a young Romanian will cut the mustard. Said it before - Too much GFE can start to get a bit predictable. Sometimes I need to to feel the adrenalin of a risky punt; to live the adventure of the punting mission in an unknown (to me) shitty location - to breath the sigh of relief as I leave unscathed. Only then will I be content.

Many a true word   :thumbsup:
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Offline uutarn

Fulfilment / satisfaction is complicated. We all strive for it but each of us may require different experiences in order to get it. Also having the exact same experience over and over again won't leave you forever satisfied. Upon each repeat of the experience - the satisfaction may become lessened. The porno mag industry was built on this principle. As a friend of mine succinctly put it when we were both teenagers - "3 wanks over each bird [in a porn mag] and after that it's ready for the dustbin". Of course with a repeat punt, the girl can wear a different outfit, do different positions, switch things around a bit. You're getting a different experience so might leave with a grin just as big as you did the last time you saw her.

Yes I can relate to what you're saying, absolutely - but I haven't figured out yet what I need in order to feel satisfaction after a punt. For me personally it's probably not seeing the same girl multiple times in a row. But I wish I knew the winning formula as it would save me a lot of money (I.e if I leave satisfied then I may not punt again for a couple of weeks, whilst after a shitty experience I'm looking to punt again with a day or two).

Sometimes what does it for me is a realistic GFE and great sex. Other times it's a massage with a lot of teasing and a prolonged build-up to an "explosive finish" (marketing term stolen from those profiles written entirely in AdultWork-speak). Very occasionally I'll need to have an extended session where I try to cum more than once and most likely fail. It's this over-indulgence that I'll need to experience. Imagine if you hadn't eaten for weeks and you're faced with a mountain of chocolate - you'd likely keep eating the stuff until you were sick. Finally - at other times only a fuck in a dingy shithole with a young Romanian will cut the mustard. Said it before - Too much GFE can start to get a bit predictable. Sometimes I need to to feel the adrenalin of a risky punt; to live the adventure of the punting mission in an unknown (to me) shitty location - to breath the sigh of relief as I leave unscathed. Only then will I be content.
Indeed, very well put.

Offline smiths

Just a general question just to see if it's wide spread or only me .
When you meet a wg for the first time everything clicks
And you get your socks totally and utterly blown off.
You fell like your 25 again and feel totally fulfilled.

It puts me off punting other girls  for a few weeks (this has only happened about 4 times in 6 years)

A punt however good the WG might be never totally fulfils me, I need an emotional connection for that. I fill my boots with good WGs though who then become regulars until I get bored.

Offline 385North

A punt however good the WG might be never totally fulfils me, I need an emotional connection for that. I fill my boots with good WGs though who then become regulars until I get bored.

I could not agree any more. That's really how it is, for me also at least.

Offline nike

A punt however good the WG might be never totally fulfils me, I need an emotional connection for that. I fill my boots with good WGs though who then become regulars until I get bored.
+1 also

If I find someone who ticks all the boxes and delivers to my expectations, I'll rebook again and again.

Offline Ben4454


I've never felt this way. I feel like every time I punt I am going on a new adventure. I hate punting with the same person even if the punt was spectacular. I may go back to them after some time has passed but I am not the one to have regulars. It is the way I have always been. Although I can see what you're getting at. Just watch out it doesn't turn into a full blown EAS.
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Offline mr small

Still looking to have 'my socks blown off' but only punted for just over a year.

Lack of fulfillment has led to me punting less and choosing more carefully over recent months.

Was planning to punt today and was looking forward to it all weekend but looking through Aw this morning there wasn't anyone who I thought might 'rock my boat'

 :hi:

Offline tonysoprano

A punt however good the WG might be never totally fulfils me, I need an emotional connection for that. I fill my boots with good WGs though who then become regulars until I get bored.

Yep, that sums it up for me as well.  :thumbsup:
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Offline Bluefin

Just a general question just to see if it's wide spread or only me .
When you meet a wg for the first time everything clicks
And you get your socks totally and utterly blown off.
You fell like your 25 again and feel totally fulfilled.

It puts me off punting other girls  for a few weeks (this has only happened about 4 times in 6 years)
It's definitely not only you. I had a great punt this weekend and now everything else in my hotlist doesn't really interest me that much.
I'll probably just wait till I get a chance to see her again.

Offline Nagilum

A punt however good the WG might be never totally fulfils me, I need an emotional connection for that. I fill my boots with good WGs though who then become regulars until I get bored.

Indeed, a good emotional connection means the sex is fantastic. Personality certainly is key and I love nothing more, than an affectionate girl who is bubbly and quirky at the same time. 

Offline Roth

Just watch out it doesn't turn into a full blown EAS.

+1000. There's plenty of saddo punters that develop full-blown EAS with prossies that are only interested in their wallet and who would walk past them in the street and not give them a second look. :(  Remember punting is paying some prossie to sell her holes to you for the duration of the booking.  Is is NOT paying her to be your girlfriend/wife replacement/long-term lover.  :bomb:

+1000. There's plenty of saddo punters that develop full-blown EAS with prossies that are only interested in their wallet and who would walk past them in the street and not give them a second look. :(  Remember punting is paying some prossie to sell her holes to you for the duration of the booking.  Is is NOT paying her to be your girlfriend/wife replacement/long-term lover.  :bomb:
Ah the turps drinking fuckers who buy pisticles from the hooker to add the their turps for review writing.  :lol:

These are probably the same sad fuckers that cry when their favourite phone breaks and the most severe actualy have a funeral when the phone dies.  :cry:

Don't get attached to inappropriate objects !  :wackogirl:

Reference

Pisticles are ice cubes made from prossy piss a staple mixer for some here.  :vomit:

Offline Roth

Ah the turps drinking fuckers who buy pisticles from the hooker to add the their turps for review writing.  :lol:

These are probably the same sad fuckers that cry when their favourite phone breaks and the most severe actualy have a funeral when the phone dies.  :cry:

Don't get attached to inappropriate objects !  :wackogirl:

Reference

Pisticles are ice cubes made from prossy piss a staple mixer for some here.  :vomit:

 :lol: :lol: :lol:

Offline seeker

No chance of me getting attached lads I love a bit of strange trim all the time   :cool:
It a paid for fuck and that's all it is and all am looking for I don't do regulars
It was more the experience I was referring to ,it's like at that moment all the other girls in your hotlist
For a week or two don't exist any more. ....and you don't need the urge to punt .

Strange  :unknown: after a bad punt I'm on the hunt immediately or   next day  :D

I particularly endeared toward the WGs who advertise that they will "forfill" my fantasies

Offline SamLP

A punt however good the WG might be never totally fulfils me, I need an emotional connection for that. I fill my boots with good WGs though who then become regulars until I get bored.

Exactly  :thumbsup:
No matter how does a WG is, it will never be 100% fulfilling as it lacks the mental and emotional fulfillment of being with someone who truly cares about you. Even if you meet a WG that you click with, it can be lust or attraction and it won't fill that space.

Offline seeker

Exactly  :thumbsup:
No matter how does a WG is, it will never be 100% fulfilling as it lacks the mental and emotional fulfillment of being with someone who truly cares about you. Even if you meet a WG that you click with, it can be lust or attraction and it won't fill that space.

The type of fulfillment you get from grrrrrrrrreat sex  :thumbsup:
Banging hookers is NEVER  about mental and emotional matters it's about emptying yer balls
And paying to walk away with no strings .

jcdmj12

Exactly  :thumbsup:
No matter how does a WG is, it will never be 100% fulfilling as it lacks the mental and emotional fulfillment of being with someone who truly cares about you. Even if you meet a WG that you click with, it can be lust or attraction and it won't fill that space.


Rubbish - the sex I have had with good escorts is far, far better than most of the sex I have had with civvies, even the ones I have been in LTRs with.  In fact the only one who came close was an utter slut behind my back who gave me a couple of STIs for my troubles (only time I've had STIs, actually).

jcdmj12

Although I have a couple of regulars, quite often I find after a mindblowing first session I have this strange reluctance to go back.  I think a part of me is worried that the rematch won't live up to the original.

Offline SamLP

The type of fulfillment you get from grrrrrrrrreat sex  :thumbsup:
Banging hookers is NEVER  about mental and emotional matters it's about emptying yer balls
And paying to walk away with no strings .

I agree, and it's the reason I punt. However, was just answering the question. Not matter how great the punt is, it will never be 100% fulfilling.


Rubbish - the sex I have had with good escorts is far, far better than most of the sex I have had with civvies, even the ones I have been in LTRs with.  In fact the only one who came close was an utter slut behind my back who gave me a couple of STIs for my troubles (only time I've had STIs, actually).

You may disagree bit it isn't rubbish. I wasn't talking about the sex. I was answering the question about being fulfilled and despite the great sex, the emotional part isn't being fulfilled, only the sexual lust. Granted that's what punting is and I'm not looking to gain more out of it. It will deliver many great punts with great girls but it won't be 100% fulfilling. That's not to mean I don't enjoy it.


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