I took the risk last night and my god did it not pay off! Haha booked for 8pm over the phone, sent a few messages after that but no reply , was told to call her once I was at asda which I did a few minutes before 8pm , no answer just kept ringing, sent a few messages still no answer. All this despite the fact she knew I was traveling 40 minutes to see her. Lesson learned , cheers lads