Wow...what a debate I've sparked.
This is going to be my one and ONLY post so firstly...
YES...I have HIV.
I had thought that it was obvious in my profile, but clearly not and I have now rectified that.
I don't recall there being much of a debate about this, apart from two of your fellow service providers, who tried to justify your quite frankly reckless actions. Why is that a surprise, when the pair of them only think about the ££, rather than the well-being of an unsuspecting punter. A punter who may well have a wife or girlfriend too. Whilst that's a whole other story, I'll bet that whilst this punter knows there are risks, they sure as hell don't expect to lay themselves open to catching HIV.
What makes me laugh about their particular bullshit, is that you can bet your bottom dollar neither would provide oral without to any punter who they knew had booked you, regardless of how minimal the risk in reality would be.
I am very sorry, on a personal level that you have contracted HIV. However, as a service provider, I have no respect for you whatsoever and I will tell you why.
I have been around long enough and nobody, especially women in this game, can pull the wool over my eyes. I have seen and heard it all, as have many others. Right from the get-go, you have been very deceptive with the wording of your profile. There is an allusion to contracting HIV without an outright admission. The general population gets the term HIV, but not everybody may understand all this talk about contracting 'blood viruses'. I'm of the opinion that you deliberately mislead potential punters because you know very well that you would never get any bookings again. Or if you did, a tiny number.
Therefore, you made a play on words because you know very well if some poor bastard was unlucky enough to catch HIV and it was traced back to you, then you will have committed a criminal offence and be in a new world of shit. So now that you've been flushed out, you have added the words HIV to your profile but are still trying to be deceptive.
I notice that this admission is buried away on your second tab 'before you book', which has to be selected. Why is this very important information about you not front and centre of your profile, where it should be? Why is this fact not in the title of your profile, where I believe that it should be? That way, punters see both a term that is known and they have a choice.
This isn't personal, but I think your conduct is reckless and contemptible. I really feel sorry for the naive punter who may not select that second tab and realise the full gravity of this.
Nobody is being stupid and saying that you shouldn't live a normal life and have sex with whoever you want. HIV is no longer the killer virus it once was and people can lead a very normal life. All that is great and very positive. It could happen to anybody. However, you are in a position of responsibility, as a provider of services. I do not believe anybody with an STD should be providing sexual services to the public, period.
I like a bit of banter and the occasional wind up on this forum. I can take it as well as dish it out. This is one of the rare times that I've seen something that makes me genuinely angry. The impact that you could have on an unsuspecting punter could be absolutely devastating to them.