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Author Topic: Do Pro$$i£$ Deserve Respect ?  (Read 26199 times)

Offline mattylondon

Yes, being a prostitute is never going to be easy but they do get paid a huge amount of money for what is basically a totally unskilled job that anyone can do.
I paid a woman £180 an hour only this week but she is a solicitor, I would guess she spent many years studying for her position.  ;)
In the main, nobody is making them rent their holes for cash Jimmy. Treat with respect, of course, but I'll save my respect for the woman thats working 2 or 3 jobs to make ends meet and has a little more self respect. Don't tell me that women who decide to become prostitutes respect themselves.They're just in denial. I doubt many people in society as a whole would buy that, other than some punters and prossies. It's largely a choice they make to maximise their income, which requires no education or skills whatsoever. Try doing a real job, for a living.
« Last Edit: July 04, 2012, 10:11:06 AM by mattylondon »

Offline AnthG

for what is basically a totally unskilled job that anyone can do.
I don't think it is a job anyone can do.

At the Newcastle agencies. The turn around's there are massive. I mean girls coming in and a couple of weeks later leaving never to return. I am using the agencies as opposed to AW to base this argument as AW is filled with fakes. Whereas the agencies will all be real girls doing this who are genuinely quitting.

So either they are coming into this only with the intentions of working for a couple of weeks just to make a fast small amount of money.

Or they do this and find after a week or so they cannot do it and quit. I feel it would be the latter.

It is the same as Outbound Call centre work. Its available for anyone to do. They open their doors to anyone as its such a terrible job. But there is only a small percentage of the population that could actually do it as it is so difficult - phone people up randomly try to get them to buy stuff. Deal with abuse all day and meet weekly sales targets. It is probably the most difficult job to do. And hence the turn around for that is massive too.

The easiest jobs to get into are often the most difficult to actually do as nobody can do them. (With the exception of medical professional before anyone says anything).

For the record. If I were female I could never be an escort. I don't have the skillset in me.

Offline Matium

For the record. If I were female I could never be an escort. I don't have the skillset in me.

All you have to do is lie back and think of England.

 :rolleyes:

Offline Jimmyredcab

I don't think it is a job anyone can do.

My point is that you need no qualifications, try getting a job in the real world that pays more than £25 an hour with no qualifications ----that equates to £50K a year.   :scare:

Of course not all girls are suited to being a pro$$ie, that is why so many give an inferior service, because they hate the job but love the money.

Offline AnthG

All you have to do is lie back and think of England.

 :rolleyes:
And if she did. She would get a negative review on AW, auto-censored and here for it. :)

This is what Dreamgirl was trying to say earlier but it got lost in all the other arguments.

Offline AnthG

My point is that you need no qualifications, try getting a job in the real world that pays more than £25 an hour with no qualifications ----that equates to £50K a year.   :scare:

Yeah I know. But according to most of the escorts on auto-censored. They all had and then quit those jobs just to work as escorts.   :lol:

Offline Jimmyredcab

And if she did. She would get a negative review on AW.


Then she would hide her feedback, happens all the time.   :(

Offline Jimmyredcab

Yeah I know. But according to most of the escorts on auto-censored. They all had and then quit those jobs just to work as escorts.   :lol:

Ex shelf fillers more like.    :wacko:

Offline dreamgirl

In the main, nobody is making them rent their holes for cash Jimmy. Treat with respect, of course, but I'll save my respect for the woman thats working 2 or 3 jobs to make ends meet and has a little more self respect. Don't tell me that women who decide to become prostitutes respect themselves.They're just in denial. I doubt many people in society as a whole would buy that, other than some punters and prossies. It's largely a choice they make to maximise their income, which requires no education or skills whatsoever. Try doing a real job, for a living.
Your comments are so fucking stupid. Are you a prostitute? Or a women? Or know what we think? You sound like someone who was born in the 1920s get a grip!

I have never had so much respect for myself than I do now, but of course sorry you know exactly how I feel and i'm in 'denial'
You fuck their holes so what does that make you? If your so great at getting it in the first place (which I highly doubt) :sarcastic: then why ever pay for it? God you have such a high opioion of yourself. Your no better than a prostitute at all. We are all individual people and like Cassie said what we do does not define us as people. It seems the guys who actually agree don't like to comment and show themselves up but would rather send a pm. If your not a punter anymore then why are you still posting? Try doing a real job? You sound like one of those boyfriends of an escort who when he's angry turns around and says bullshit like that. It's pathetic. Some people study and have other jobs or have a plan and aspirations for the future.
All you do is act like you know everything all the time. Things are not just the way you see it.
« Last Edit: July 04, 2012, 10:33:42 AM by dreamgirl »

Offline softlad

I have never had so much respect for myself than I do now,

If you won the lottery would you continue on the game ?
Or is kidding yourself you have never had so much self respect your coping mechanism ?

Offline dreamgirl

If you won the lottery would you continue on the game ?
Or is kidding yourself you have never had so much self respect your coping mechanism ?
Would you work if you won the lottery? Don't ask silly questions. Oh yes I'm some poor little girl that wishes to get out of it and crys myself to sleep at night...I really don't think so! It has given me so much independence and made me a much stronger person and when I look back I will never regret it.

Offline softlad

Would you work if you won the lottery? Don't ask silly questions.

I'm not the one saying I've never had so much self respect.  :rolleyes:

Oh yes I'm some poor little girl that wishes to get out of it and crys myself to sleep at night...


Coping mechanism then...
« Last Edit: July 04, 2012, 10:43:34 AM by softlad »

Offline AnthG

It seems the guys who actually agree don't like to comment and show themselves up but would rather send a pm.
I am defending you Dreamgirl so I will say this before James invariably comes along and says it. I am hoping it will come better from me.

And that is. The old support via PM argument. Everyone says this during a losing argument.

I am just saying that so it has been said. :)

Remember 30 people agree with you. The 4 that do not. I think and have a feeling you could offer some of the best arguments in the world and not change their opinion.

*Edit* Jesus, forget 30, its actually jumped up to 39 to 4.
« Last Edit: July 04, 2012, 10:44:42 AM by AnthG »

Offline dreamgirl

Coping mechanism then..... :sarcastic:
No it's not a coping mechanism. Did you not read anything I said? Why again can't you see us as individuals? I'm just wasting my fingers seriously.

Offline AnthG

Why again can't you see us as individuals? I'm just wasting my fingers seriously.
Because your job role does not want people to be seen as individuals. The posts on Saafe are all of escorts hating punters who don't follow the; Book, have sex, leave motto.

Offline dreamgirl

Because your job role does not want people to be seen as individuals. The posts on Saafe are all of escorts hating punters who don't follow the; Book, have sex, leave motto.
Well I've been and read and not everyone seems to think that way.

My pms can be checked I don't care I've had about 6 from different members here.

Offline softlad

Why again can't you see us as individuals?

I do see everyone as indivduals and as I've said earlier always treat people with respect no matter what they do for a living.
My issue is whilst I can respect a women for being a good service provider I don't respect her as women for letting herself do that job.

I'm struggling to make my view understandable, for sure I have double standards, in the sense I am happy to spend my time and money on WG's yet wouldn't want anyone I know to be one.
Bearing in mind I've had three relationships with WG's.

Offline AnthG

Well I've been and read and not everyone seems to think that way.

And you have just explained the ultimate issue. Not everyone on saafe, but most do.

Whereas with this poll. Not everyone here but most respect escorts for the job they do.

You cannot convince everyone all of the time.

Didn't someone say something along the lines of "you can convince all people some of the time, or some people all of the time, but you cannot convince all people all of the time".

That is the situation here. :)

Offline dreamgirl

Anyway places to go, punters to see... :coolgirl:

Offline Matium

Think of two women.

Both live on the same council estate.

One works in a shop during the day and then as a cleaner during the night. She works hard, scrimps and saves to get money for her family.

The other places an advert in her local newsagents and starts selling her body.

Which woman deserves respect?

Offline PNE.Punter

Daft question really it depends what group or who you ask what the answer will be
Banning reason: Angel posing as punter. Used this account to threaten to out another member to his family and local community because he called his prossie girlfriend a "whore"

Offline mh

I've read through the whole of this topic and one summary could be "they don't deserve respect, but most of us are glad they do what they do".  :)

Personally I respect their decision to do it and there are many reasons why someone would "choose" to do it. It can be out of necessity (in their view) with no other option (again, at least in their view) available to earn money to live. At the other extreme I saw one girl who was clearly very well off already with a BMW X5 and incredible clothes and flat and so her reasons for doing it were not to avoid being on the breadline. In another case I am convinced the girl in question really enjoyed doing it and the earnings were a big bonus (though I admit she may just have been a great actress).

Of course I don't necessarily respect every WG I've met. And no group automatically deserves respect. You could say doctors or nurses deserve respect then you find a small number are not very nice people, even to the extreme of doing harm.

Offline Sailormack

Yes, being a prostitute is never going to be easy but they do get paid a huge amount of money for what is basically a totally unskilled job that anyone can do.
I paid a woman £180 an hour only this week but she is a solicitor, I would guess she spent many years studying for her position.  ;)

Caught kerb crawling again Jim  :sarcastic:

Offline foresight

In the main, nobody is making them rent their holes for cash Jimmy. Treat with respect, of course, but I'll save my respect for the woman thats working 2 or 3 jobs to make ends meet and has a little more self respect. Don't tell me that women who decide to become prostitutes respect themselves.They're just in denial. I doubt many people in society as a whole would buy that, other than some punters and prossies. It's largely a choice they make to maximise their income, which requires no education or skills whatsoever. Try doing a real job, for a living.

Makes me wonder where, if you pay for sex with people you so obviously despise, is your own self respect?
Please don't confuse self respect with self esteem, of which you seem to have plenty.
What exactly is wrong with maximising one's income - whether it involves education/ skills or not.
Who here is 'in denial'?


Offline jackdaw

Think of two women.

Both live on the same council estate.

One works in a shop during the day and then as a cleaner during the night. She works hard, scrimps and saves to get money for her family.

The other places an advert in her local newsagents and starts selling her body.

Which woman deserves respect?

There's at least two logical fallacies in your argument.

The first is that you implicitly assume it's wrong to sell sexual services. In my view it isn't. I do not accept that it is in any way wrong for a competent adult to sell sexual services to another. If you disagree with that... then why are you a punter? (And how is any punter morally superior to a WG?)

The second fallacy is that you imply that one woman must be worthy of respect and the other not. That... in my opinion... is daft. Personally I respect somebody (or not) depending on their honesty and kindness rather than the job they do. I've met a number of WG's that I respect far more than some solicitors I know. Any who think otherwise has a far more exalted view of the legal profession than I.


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