Bearing in mind I had been celebate for the last 3 years of my marriage, I new it was coming to an end and was rather keen to do something about the drought. I had found someone who I met at Uni who was keen to help me out (bless him). When the time finally came and I was officially seperated pending divorce we got together. 3 months down the line he was complaining that I used him as a toy :o As if I would! He couldn't keep up with my sex drive and was a few years younger than me.
Sadly we decided we were not compatible. The one I dated after that was a bit too keen on smoking dope for my liking and this also leads to a low libido, that didn't last long either, due to sore throats, losing tablets and... well I'm sure you can guess!
I think the main difference between the two of us is that women find it hard to have sex when they are emotionally upset, especially if you are the course of her being upset, whereas men don't seem to connect the two.
Another question to ask yourself is... If women don't enjoy sex, then why do we masturbate and have a zillion toys to choose from?