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Author Topic: Do women enjoy sex?  (Read 1343 times)

I wasn't sure where to start this but I'm sure someone will shift it if it's in the wrong place!

Anybody got any views on Mister Fry’s pronouncement in the Observer that has got the feminist lobby into another bout of vitriol throwing? I don’t often agree with him but in this case, he’s probably said something fairly accurate.  While I wouldn’t agree that women don’t really enjoy sex (did he actually say that?), his view that men and women have sex for different reasons is one I entirely agree with.  Indeed, I think it’s a fairly common view that sex is a contract in which men trade love in order to get sex while women trade sex to get love.  It all makes sense bearing in mind that women get pregnant and are left holding the baby so need support while men need to find women willing to bear their children.

It also explains why women don’t like other women offering sex without commitment or in exchange for money.  If we men can have our fun just by paying for it, then women will find it harder to find men who want to look after them while they are pregnant or bringing up our children.  In this day and age some of that analysis may not stack up (although I’m very happy to have sex without responsibility if it’s on offer) but I’ve never known a woman who hasn’t wanted something in exchange for sex.  It’s usually either money or commitment and sometimes both!

So what’s so shocking about what he’s said?  The female attitude may make it difficult for us to find as many willing females to fuck as we would like but just recognise the realities of life and then get on with shafting as many girls as possible, that’s what I say! ;)


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Offline Lady Poppy

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Bearing in mind I had been celebate for the last 3 years of my marriage, I new it was coming to an end and was rather keen to do something about the drought.  I had found someone who I met at Uni who was keen to help me out (bless him).  When the time finally came and I was officially seperated pending divorce we got together.  3 months down the line he was complaining that I used him as a toy  :o  As if I would!  He couldn't keep up with my sex drive and was a few years younger than me.

Sadly we decided we were not compatible.  The one I dated after that was a bit too keen on smoking dope for my liking and this also leads to a low libido, that didn't last long either, due to sore throats, losing tablets and... well I'm sure you can guess!

I think the main difference between the two of us is that women find it hard to have sex when they are emotionally upset, especially if you are the course of her being upset, whereas men don't seem to connect the two. 

Another question to ask yourself is... If women don't enjoy sex, then why do we masturbate and have a zillion toys to choose from?

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In sweeping terms, as women get older, they enjoy sex more.  They don't want children and responsibilities and they have more time to devote to their reactivating libido.
Presumably their partners are now more experienced and can give them a good time too.

Although prozzies get paid for sex, a lot of us actually enjoy it.  Which is generally good news for the punter, as if the girl is enjoying herself, the punt turns into a great one (so I've been assured).

Offline Lurtz

In sweeping terms, as women get older, they enjoy sex more.  They don't want children and responsibilities and they have more time to devote to their reactivating libido.
Presumably their partners are now more experienced and can give them a good time too.

Although prozzies get paid for sex, a lot of us actually enjoy it.  Which is generally good news for the punter, as if the girl is enjoying herself, the punt turns into a great one (so I've been assured).

Although I'm aware that I am generalizing, I have found that older women (both WGs and civilians) are very full-on and enthusiastic.

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Although I'm aware that I am generalizing, I have found that older women (both WGs and civilians) are very full-on and enthusiastic.

That because it's fun!  Yeehah!

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Although I'm aware that I am generalizing, I have found that older women (both WGs and civilians) are very full-on and enthusiastic.
Yes I find the same .. though some of the younger ones are just the same .. if the lady doesn't enjoy the sex I wouldn't go back .. I'm been punting long enough to know ... :D ...

In sweeping terms, as women get older, they enjoy sex more.  They don't want children and responsibilities and they have more time to devote to their reactivating libido.
Presumably their partners are now more experienced and can give them a good time too.

Although prozzies get paid for sex, a lot of us actually enjoy it.  Which is generally good news for the punter, as if the girl is enjoying herself, the punt turns into a great one (so I've been assured).

can you have a word with my misses

and yes to the second bit

Offline itsmekurt

I like the way that some individuals purport to speak for all. :(

I have known at least one woman who seemed to be into sex in a major way, and seemed to want to fuck all day and all night. I have also known at least one woman (my ex misses) for whom sex was a chore. :dash:

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Although prozzies get paid for sex, a lot of us actually enjoy it.


Now that would be a really interesting topic for a poll.

Surely as with all jobs you cant keep doing it if you dont like it ?

money might keep you doing it for a while but ...

Offline itsmekurt

Surely as with all jobs you cant keep doing it if you dont like it ?

money might keep you doing it for a while but ...

I would like to suggest that we ask the prossies, but I know very well very few women - prossie or not - would admit that they actually enjoy sex. There are, I hasten to add, exceptions. :)

I would like to suggest that we ask the prossies, but I know very well very few women - prossie or not - would admit that they actually enjoy sex. There are, I hasten to add, exceptions. :)

give me the exceptions every time

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I would like to suggest that we ask the prossies, but I know very well very few women - prossie or not - would admit that they actually enjoy sex. There are, I hasten to add, exceptions. :)

Really? Maybe it's an age thing, I don't know (I'm in my mid-thirties) but all of my female friends are very open about their sex lives and have always been so. I know one who doesn't enjoy sex that much (she's never been able to orgasm, even on her own) but most have keen sex drives, and a couple exhaust their other halves!

Offline itsmekurt

Really? Maybe it's an age thing

Yes, I suppose so, or more accurately a generation thing. My ex-wife would never discuss sex and very few of the women I have shagged since my divorce would either. Come to think of it, I can’t recall having a proper discussion about the physical aspects of sex with any woman who was not a prostitute.

Offline Lurtz

Yes, I suppose so, or more accurately a generation thing. My ex-wife would never discuss sex and very few of the women I have shagged since my divorce would either. Come to think of it, I can’t recall having a proper discussion about the physical aspects of sex with any woman who was not a prostitute.


Maybe they think of it like a card trick - if you discuss it, it will spoil the magic.

Offline itsmekurt

Maybe they think of it like a card trick - if you discuss it, it will spoil the magic.

Well, maybe, but there was one girlfriend who used to really like shagging, but would get embarrassed if I tried to talk about things like trying different positions etc. even though we sometimes watched porn together. It took her over a year to discover that she really enjoyed doggie, and a few months longer to discover that oral (me on her) made her have multiple orgasms.

Offline Lurtz

Well, maybe, but there was one girlfriend who used to really like shagging, but would get embarrassed if I tried to talk about things like trying different positions etc. even though we sometimes watched porn together. It took her over a year to discover that she really enjoyed doggie, and a few months longer to discover that oral (me on her) made her have multiple orgasms.


I guess prostitution shortcuts all that nonsense. Can I have a Hallelujah?


Praise the Lord.  Amen brother Lurtz.  In addition to spunking in and on lovely young ladies I also enjoy cutting the crap outlined above.  I can't imagine having sex with anyone that I couldn't ask for what I wanted and listen to the other party's preferences.

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Mrs Distressed doesn't enjoy sex ,and hasn't for years,that's why I see wg's

Offline GlasgowGirl

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Of course women enjoy sex.  :lol:. We are not living in Victorian times! Although everyone is different and not every woman will enjoy the full A-Z of sexual practises. If I had a sexless relationship I would probably punt too! Very secretly. Or at least masturbate profusely - haha! I could never have an affair, with all the messiness and emotional stuff involved. And if I still loved my partner and there was still intimacy ie hugs and stuff I would stay with them. But sex is a very strong drive. In men AND women.

I really like Stephen Fry actually, but he has got it sooo wrong there.

Offline itsmekurt

I can't imagine having sex with anyone that I couldn't ask for what I wanted and listen to the other party's preferences.

Not sure how old you are, but I read somewhere that even in the so-called years of free love (1960s and 1970s), most women preferred to have sex in the missionary position, in bed with the lights out, and that was my experience too. I started fucking younger women mainly because they let you look at them while you were fucking them, and that seemed kinky and unusual at the time. Still, I wouldn’t change a thing. :lol:


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