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I thought it might be worth giving us the opportunity to discuss the various things we do with the ladies and thought I'd start with this subject  out of curiosity really.  I had a punt with Emma 4 U recently who loves being submissive.  I really enjoyed spanking her and next time I visit her I might want to go to the next stage as she says that having a cock up her arse is something she enjoys.

I know that many of you out there enjoy anal sex but I have to say that it has never really done very much for me.  I had an anal session up in Manchester some years ago at the girl’s instigation but although I didn’t dislike the experience, I wasn’t sure what it added.

I know that anal is almost compulsory in porn these days (where would Ben Dover be without it) and I don’t mind watching a girl having her arse plundered but I was wondering what you guys think is the attraction of actually doing it?  Is it simply domination – the pleasure of using a girl’s every orifice or is there something more to it?  I read once that Americans are far more likely to have anal sex as a matter of course than we are and think it’s a normal sexual activity which is why their porn features it as “standard”.  The Marquis de Sade thought it was better than regular sex because it completely bypassed the reproductive function but then 18th century condoms might not have been as good as today’s.

Girls like Emma say they actively like it but I can’t quite see what a woman gets out of being sodomised unless it’s the act of complete surrender to the man. Of course I suppose the woman’s pleasure may be an irrelevance in the paid arena but generally I can’t see that a punt would be particularly successful if the girl hated what I was doing to her.  Do you girls actually enjoy anal and if so what makes it pleasurable?

If this works, we could discuss other subjects in due course.


SOD

For me, it is an alternative.  Part of the mix.  Not essential but nice when there's a willing girl.  It has undeniable dominant overtones and, hey, sometimes I am that guy ;-)

I've had two ladies cum whilst being sodomised by my slightly above average equipment (and oh yeah you can feel it) so I guess at least some girls actually like it - whether it is the physical sensation or the mindgame, I cannot say.  I feel sorry for the big fellas... not like to get anal ever.

In an MMF combination it permits naughtiness well beyond spit roasting if the girl wants to be totally used (that submissive/dominance thing, again) and will accept Double Penetration.   And for those of you who haven't, no you can't feel the other guy (unless he is hung like a horse, I guess).

One young lovely asked me if I went to public school as I'd take her up the back passage about every other punt.  (The answer was "no") She said that almost no one of her select clientèle asked for it.  Me?  She didn't charge extra and, well, it was there ;-)

As for girls in parlours, I guess adding an extra £40 or so to the tariff (which the house cannot claim a stake in) is enough motivation to bend over and grit their teeth.

My 2p

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Offline Fannytastico

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Personally I enjoy it and it makes me orgasm! :P

Most guys I've been with don't like anything near their bottoms, which is a shame as I would love to try prostate massage.

I can easily imagine a lot of girls are traumatised by bad technique or, like some blokes, hate the thought of anything near their bottoms.

If done well, even small girls can accommodate large boys and enjoy! 

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In many years of punting I've only ever done it a handful of times. Maybe four or five.
Either I can't get hard enough - you have to be harder than for vaginal sex, which would seem to be nature's way of saying it's unnatural - or the girl doesn't do it. I've also been told several times that even if she does I'm too big. Personally I've never thought I was that big, and most porn stars have far bigger cocks than me, yet they do anal sex.
It's that long since I've done it I can't really recall much about it, but it is tighter and there's also the thrill of the forbidden which can be a turn on and make the experience psychologically thrilling which in turn enhances the physical side of it and can make you harder.

I used to see one girl regularly who loved it far more than vaginal sex. I think there are some women like this, but they are few and far between.  I saw her about a dozen or more times and could never get hard enough, despite her pleading with me. Eventually, on one of the last times I saw her, I managed to do it and she was in ecstasy, although I found it quite painful because it was tight and I'm sensitive myself!

I'd like to try it again someday, but doubt I ever will as these days I don't find it easy to get hard enough for vaginal sex half the time never mind anal, and even if I did finding a suitable girl who enjoys it and would be happy to accomodate my 'big'  :rolleyes: cock isn't easy either.

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I don't think you need to be 'harder than normal' to enjoy an anal liaison.

I'm going to give you my top tips and see if anyone agrees ;)  Apologies if it is too graphic for this board!

- Make sure the girl knows it's something you want to do (so she can evacuate her bowels and douche or have an enema) prior to the appointment.

- When the time comes, apply loads of lube to your condom clad cock and gently spread some around the girl's anal ring.  Or get her to do it herself.  It should be sexy!

- Use your cock to gently play with her anal ring - don't prod and poke.  Just apply (very) light pressure, and rub around the rim with your cock as she becomes more sensitive.

- The girl needs to relax - this can be quite difficult, especially if it is her first time.  It may take time, but better take time than hurt her and she refuses to try again.  This is something that both parties should enjoy!  Once she is sufficiently relaxed, whilst your cock is playing in the area, you will find she will push back onto you.

- Just stay still - do not prod or poke your way in!  She will wiggle and manoeuvre her way on.  Even if you get stuck part way in, just allow her to relax again and she will be able to take you, when she is ready.

- Once she has pushed back onto you completely, she is now relaxed and ready for some fun. She is likely to tighten up again, but this is normal if she is enjoying herself!  Once you have been all the way in, in relaxed mode - then it should not hurt at all.

Anyone feeling horny, or is it just me? :P

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I can't be arsed doing anal  :-[. No, but seriously, once I tried it I found I wasn't really fussed about it. If the girl desired it then I'd oblige, but I wouldn't pay extra for it as it does nowt for me.

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And for those of you who haven't, no you can't feel the other guy (unless he is hung like a horse, I guess).
.  I'm surprised by this because I was shagging a girl up the poo tunnel and fingering her at the same time and I could feel my cock through her fanny wall. It was a bit like having a wank with a thick glove on.

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Fantastico, I've never done it like that, ever! lol.  If a guy did that to me I would wonder what he was doing lol.  Probably stay in that position waiting and gritting my teeth for half an hour.

I personally have never orgasmed doing anal, so it isn't my first choice and it is a rarity that I do it at all.  What makes me do it at all?  Well, if I'm with someone who I know is absolutely made about it and very vocal about their pleasure in it, ie excited and really really turned on, then I get turned on and as I'm naturally a 'pleaser' taking great pleasure in making other people happy, then that can motivate me to want to do it.  I probably wouldn't feel I was getting anything from it if I was with someone who was silent etc.  I do kind of get turned on by doing naught things too and it is a bit of a forbidden fruit.

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Fantastico, I've never done it like that, ever! lol.  If a guy did that to me I would wonder what he was doing lol.  Probably stay in that position waiting and gritting my teeth for half an hour.

I'm sure gritting your teeth is the opposite to relaxing!

Certain times of the month I completely shock myself with the naughty things I want to do.  Then, when the moon is no longer full, I'm horrified by the things I've wanted to do/have done.

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I'm sure gritting your teeth is the opposite to relaxing!

Certain times of the month I completely shock myself with the naughty things I want to do.  Then, when the moon is no longer full, I'm horrified by the things I've wanted to do/have done.

I was joking reference gritting my teeth, as in the anticipation of something that never actually happened.  I'd be expecting him to slowly and carefully ease himself forward (with lots of lube) and in not doing so, would start to wonder what was going to happen (hence gritting my teeth).

I suppose there is a void between occassional partakers of anal and those that actively encourage and do it regularly.   The latter being more confident.  To me it is a very special gift and quite a submissive act.

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I'm sure gritting your teeth is the opposite to relaxing!

Certain times of the month I completely shock myself with the naughty things I want to do.  Then, when the moon is no longer full, I'm horrified by the things I've wanted to do/have done.

Thats me to a T. Utter filth and depravity one day, complete opposite the next.


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I was joking reference gritting my teeth

I got that! ;)

Sex is such a personal thing.  - Do I get an award for stating the bleedin' obvious?
I find anal sexy, intimate and fun.  I don't find it submissive, but I don't think I've ever been with a naturally dominant guy.  I'd love to try at some point though.

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Thats me to a T. Utter filth and depravity one day, complete opposite the next.

Lucy, you are a bad, bad girl.  Did I mention filth and depravity?
My smilies have disappeared.  How do I blow you a kiss?

Wolfy

I like a anal sex but I would never ask for it ... it as to be the lady that wants it first ... I find it very intimate and fun .. I like being dominant if the ladies up for it .. but I would never push it ..

I Have a couple of regs that don't list it on their profiles but after I had been seeing them for a while .. asked me if I would do it with them .. I obliged and we sometimes still do it ... but they have to be in the mood .. I never push.

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I like a anal sex but I would never ask for it ... it as to be the lady that wants it first ...

See, I feel like a bit of a perv when I say "Do you like anal?" and they look at me horrified or say "Oh, no".
Luckily, I get over it quick.

Wolfy

See, I feel like a bit of a perv when I say "Do you like anal?" and they look at me horrified or say "Oh, no".
Luckily, I get over it quick.

:D ... takes all sorts .. lol haha

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Lucy, you are a bad, bad girl.  Did I mention filth and depravity?
My smilies have disappeared.  How do I blow you a kiss?

Like this- Mwah!

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Mwah.   :-*  Oh, they've come back!

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There are loads of reasons why I like it, most of them fairly depraved really. Firstly if you are seeing working girls you are hardly likely to fuck a virgin. However you can get to be the first to do anal with a girl, utterly emmense when it happens. The build up, anticipation, the girls apprehension, the feeling of the girls acceptance and surrender, the slow build up and the sexual abandment, the picture of the girls face on completion which is normaly akin to a girl being caught smoking at schhol, a mixture of naughtiness and happiness that they have done something utterly naughty, the close embrace you get after event.
These make that particular anal activity so pleasurable.
Then with the experienced girls you get the ability to shag harder, it can be a very submissive act for the lady. The requirement to prepare usualy allows for very submissive positioning. The requirement for slow penetration as they allow something which is a struggle to achieve. Then hopefully the sound of "fuck me hard" or "treat me like a whore" as you get to use the girl for your pleasure. Believe me they know what they are doing, seeking the animal instinct in you to everones enjoyment.
Ultimately it provides a whole spectrum of new sexual experiences that are not "run of the mill" that are on the edge of acceptable behaviour, can be sweet and fantastically intimate or furiously pornographic and depraved. Finaly yes if you are ever on a MMF the girls who can manage DP make the experience so much better.

Offline Jimmyredcab

I like a anal sex but I would never ask for it ... it as to be the lady that wants it first

What is the chance of a WG asking for Anal, about the same as hell freezing over. When you are with a WG you should be able to request ANYTHING ---------- as long as you respect her right to refuse any service she is not comfortable with.

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What is the chance of a WG asking for Anal, about the same as hell freezing over. When you are with a WG you should be able to request ANYTHING ---------- as long as you respect her right to refuse any service she is not comfortable with.

Indeed. Unfortunately certain clients seem to enjoy trying to take what is not offered. That is the most stressful type of appointment- its fine to ask, as long as no does mean no.

Offline Jimmyredcab

I've also been told several times that even if she does I'm too big. Personally I've never thought I was that big.

Some girls will say they offer anal "at discetion" when they have no intention of offering that service, same applies to OWO and DFK.
It gets punters "through the door" --------- even though they are unlikely to return.  >:(

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What is the chance of a WG asking for Anal, about the same as hell freezing over

This happened to me, with a wg who did not offer anal in her profile. She obviously really wanted it.
The moment is stored in the "happiest punting memories" file.

Well i have been asked but then having a little willy i suppose i pose no threat  ;)

Offline 6upxxx

Some girls will say they offer anal "at discetion" when they have no intention of offering that service, same applies to OWO and DFK.
It gets punters "through the door" --------- even though they are unlikely to return.  >:(
With Anal we need to accept it is always at the girls discretion. Size issues, if she has done it with previous client, attitude of guy, there are numerous considerations. My own personal experience has been that if it is offered at discretion it is usualy available. I am sure though some girls do advertise it without any intention of doing it, luckily I havent met that many of them.
Also it seems to be something that not many guys ask for, whether this is due to extra cost or lack of interest I don't know.

Well, Fanny, it seems to me that I need to book in for some lessons with you.  Reading your reply really got me horny and up for some experimentation!

SOD

I don't think you need to be 'harder than normal' to enjoy an anal liaison.

I'm going to give you my top tips and see if anyone agrees ;)  Apologies if it is too graphic for this board!

- Make sure the girl knows it's something you want to do (so she can evacuate her bowels and douche or have an enema) prior to the appointment.

- When the time comes, apply loads of lube to your condom clad cock and gently spread some around the girl's anal ring.  Or get her to do it herself.  It should be sexy!

- Use your cock to gently play with her anal ring - don't prod and poke.  Just apply (very) light pressure, and rub around the rim with your cock as she becomes more sensitive.

- The girl needs to relax - this can be quite difficult, especially if it is her first time.  It may take time, but better take time than hurt her and she refuses to try again.  This is something that both parties should enjoy!  Once she is sufficiently relaxed, whilst your cock is playing in the area, you will find she will push back onto you.

- Just stay still - do not prod or poke your way in!  She will wiggle and manoeuvre her way on.  Even if you get stuck part way in, just allow her to relax again and she will be able to take you, when she is ready.

- Once she has pushed back onto you completely, she is now relaxed and ready for some fun. She is likely to tighten up again, but this is normal if she is enjoying herself!  Once you have been all the way in, in relaxed mode - then it should not hurt at all.

Anyone feeling horny, or is it just me? :P



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