I don't think you need to be 'harder than normal' to enjoy an anal liaison.
I'm going to give you my top tips and see if anyone agrees
Apologies if it is too graphic for this board!
- Make sure the girl knows it's something you want to do (so she can evacuate her bowels and douche or have an enema) prior to the appointment.
- When the time comes, apply loads of lube to your condom clad cock and gently spread some around the girl's anal ring. Or get her to do it herself. It should be sexy!
- Use your cock to gently play with her anal ring - don't prod and poke. Just apply (very) light pressure, and rub around the rim with your cock as she becomes more sensitive.
- The girl needs to relax - this can be quite difficult, especially if it is her first time. It may take time, but better take time than hurt her and she refuses to try again. This is something that both parties should enjoy! Once she is sufficiently relaxed, whilst your cock is playing in the area, you will find she will push back onto you.
- Just stay still - do not prod or poke your way in! She will wiggle and manoeuvre her way on. Even if you get stuck part way in, just allow her to relax again and she will be able to take you, when she is ready.
- Once she has pushed back onto you completely, she is now relaxed and ready for some fun. She is likely to tighten up again, but this is normal if she is enjoying herself! Once you have been all the way in, in relaxed mode - then it should not hurt at all.
Anyone feeling horny, or is it just me?