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Author Topic: Punting etiquette - when to f**k  (Read 3367 times)

Offline PLeisure

I had a similar thing happen awhile back, I want to have sex in a couple of different positions, which you know its my time and If I want different positions then its up to me, and she was OK with it at least so I thought, but then I find out later that she was moaning about me on her blog, needless to say I have not been back.   `
As above - review ?  :unknown: - really no point in piggybacking your experience on someone else's thread. This forum is about solid intel  :hi:

I like to fuck quite early in the punt. I've had it where I've cum from oral then couldn't get it back up again to fuck. If I said can we do doggy and she said no you must lick my pussy I wouldn't go back and I'd leave her a negative review.

Online Marmalade

Cheers, i am probably the most respectful client most girls have ever seen,  i think that came off and i was played a little bit.   Nevermind, every time I punt I go through a rollercoaster of emotions and end up judging myself very badly for doing what i do.  Just wanted to checking that actually asking to F was not poor form, cheers fellas.

No problem mate we all have learning curves to find a personal style. I assume it wasn't either of the girls you've reviewed though, so is it possible to have a link or a name?

If it's any help, my own attitude is to have a mental picture of a few scenarios and often have a jolly good (slightly tongue in cheek) upper class attitude to it all. I'm the posh fucker spending her daft charges to have her service me and so my attitude is not that dissimilar to if she were a maid that comes in to do my laundry and ironing.

A boss (ie the punter, as he is paying the wages) should in my opinion be polite, cheerful and smiling while firmly indicating what needs to be done. In other words, I might say, "Do you fancy sucking this then?" or "Let's get your knickers off, shall we?" but in a firm commanding tone that indicates it only phrased as a question out of politeness (it's actually an instruction). I don't sound like Boris Johnson, but that's quite a good tone of voice. Blokes that let their voice go up a quivering octave out of 'respect' do tend to sound like little boys speaking to their mother or headmaster: of course she's going to take the piss when they do that. Your job is to be the boss, and it's generally better to be a good boss that's reasonably pleasant to work for, but that doesn't mean letting her get away with murder: just sound like you know what you're doing and give her a quick, firm reassuring smile -- if she doesn't respond well, tough, you've done the nice bit, now let her fulfil her part of the flipping bargain!

If she seems genuinely reluctant to get poked, I imediately wonder why. If I suspect she might be a bit dry, I might reassure the wee thing by saying, "let's take it very slowly, shall we?" (I don't mean slowly about getting round to fucking: slowly in the sense that I might rub her clit up and down with my cock first and slide the thing in bit by bit.)

I mostly do half hours, so am pretty swift about getting through the first 3 to 5 minutes 'preliminaries'. It's me that's hired a prossie: not her that's hired a gigolo!
« Last Edit: November 27, 2015, 11:22:10 AM by Marmalade »

Offline Andre 3000

I like to initiate sex within the first 5-10 mins of an hour meet. A good WG should also be looking to do that. It's also why I sort of like to do the text back and forth in the lead up to the meet, it means we both aren't starting off cold and can just get down to action.


Offline Roth

No link , no review ????

C'mon OP.   :rolleyes: Let's see who she is and read your review.  :thumbsup:

Offline Roth

No problem mate we all have learning curves to find a personal style. I assume it wasn't either of the girls you've reviewed though, so is it possible to have a link or a name?

If it's any help, my own attitude is to have a mental picture of a few scenarios and often have a jolly good (slightly tongue in cheek) upper class attitude to it all. I'm the posh fucker spending her daft charges to have her service me and so my attitude is not that dissimilar to if she were a maid that comes in to do my laundry and ironing.

A boss (ie the punter, as he is paying the wages) should in my opinion be polite, cheerful and smiling while firmly indicating what needs to be done. In other words, I might say, "Do you fancy sucking this then?" or "Let's get your knickers off, shall we?" but in a firm commanding tone that indicates it only phrased as a question out of politeness (it's actually an instruction). I don't sound like Boris Johnson, but that's quite a good tone of voice. Blokes that let their voice go up a quivering octave out of 'respect' do tend to sound like little boys speaking to their mother or headmaster: of course she's going to take the piss when they do that. Your job is to be the boss, and it's generally better to be a good boss that's reasonably pleasant to work for, but that doesn't mean letting her get away with murder: just sound like you know what you're doing and give her a quick, firm reassuring smile -- if she doesn't respond well, tough, you've done the nice bit, now let her fulfil her part of the flipping bargain!

If she seems genuinely reluctant to get poked, I imediately wonder why. If I suspect she might be a bit dry, I might reassure the wee thing by saying, "let's take it very slowly, shall we?" (I don't mean slowly about getting round to fucking: slowly in the sense that I might rub her clit up and down with my cock first and slide the thing in bit by bit.)

I mostly do half hours, so am pretty swift about getting through the first 3 to 5 minutes 'preliminaries'. It's me that's hired a prossie: not her that's hired a gigolo!

Good advice.  :thumbsup:

Offline nike

The Op has taken a leave of absence, it seems. After posting this 3 days ago, no link and no review. Without any points of reference, it's just a load of shite. :dash:   

Offline DG

My meets tend to follow a similar pattern unless I've got something a bit more specific in mind ie. OWO, RO, fucking in various positions, a bit more OWO and or RO, other play eg. Toys, spanking etc if that's on offer, then a finish of my choice, although I'll often ask what the girl's preference is. But to be told it's too soon to fuck is out of order IMO.   :thumbsdown:
Banning reason: White-knight

Offline Nagilum

No don't feel weird. You are the paying punter.

Out of politeness I ask the girl if she is ok in certain positions and what she likes too. However a good girl always responds with two things "everything" or "whatever you like".

You are not in the wrong, she is. After all this is a service.

Review this girl so we can dodge her. She sounds awful!


Offline Roth

The Op has taken a leave of absence, it seems. After posting this 3 days ago, no link and no review. Without any points of reference, it's just a load of shite. :dash:   

+1 probably.  :dash:

Offline LL

The simple fact is that this girl is not for you, OP. Some girls are totally submissive and will let you do exactly what you ask, when you ask. Others will prefer to take more control in the punt. Some punters prefer the former approach, some the latter. Trouble is you can maybe tell a submissive girl to be more controlling but perhaps it doesn't work the other way around. As much as I agree that you didn't get value for money as you weren't satisfied, at the end of the day it's her choice how much sex she has in a booking.  As for her forcing you to perform RO on her. I wouldn't have bothered if that was her attitude. So just move onto a different girl.

Offline SJ772

+1 probably.  :dash:

Right, the reason I have not posted is I am being threatened of being outed to my family including wife, so seriously fuck off, she id'd me from the information I had posted on here and linked to AW. I will not be posting more on this.

Dont see why he has to post a review hes simply asking if this is normal.  We dont have to review every girl we talk about or name and shame

To OP, how has this girl found u on here and knows you are talking about her all sounds abit suspect from you

Regarding the fucking, some girls like to take control, if you had said no to ro and she argued then thats a negative for me, i like girls making suggestions however and would have seen it like that


Offline PLeisure

I am being threatened of being outed to my family including wife, [...] she id'd me from the information I had posted on here and linked to AW. I will not be posting more on this.
Does this mean we won't be getting the review you promised in the OP, then?  :unknown:

Quote from: SJ772
so seriously fuck off
Bit dramatic, don't you think...  :hi:
What is she threatening you with, exactly? Extortion? How much? Maybe we can help...

Offline Jerboa

Right, the reason I have not posted is I am being threatened of being outed to my family including wife, so seriously fuck off, she id'd me from the information I had posted on here and linked to AW. I will not be posting more on this.

So you're saying the girl is threatening to out you? Why would she? What's her motive? And have you used a personal email address or phone?

So you're saying the girl is threatening to out you? Why would she? What's her motive? And have you used a personal email address or phone?

Sounding more and more like he used the pretend one in his head

Might be going out on a limb here but I call bullshit  :bomb:

Offline nike

Sounding more and more like he used the pretend one in his head

Might be going out on a limb here but I call bullshit  :bomb:

I second that motion.

Offline Jerboa

It's not even school holidays yet.  :P

Offline nike

It's not even school holidays yet.  :P
Mustn't have a lot of homework.  ;)

Offline thefoxman

Wad there a language barrier or a Brit, doesn't sound right from my experiences, even the worst Roma pikeys want to get on with fucking quickly.
Heh, yes - one I had a few months back couldn't say much other that "we fuck now baby ?" [pretty_blonde]

Offline Daffodil

Bad form. Name and shame  :thumbsup:

Reverse oral does little for me, even at home. To have a prossie insist I do it? Maybe afterwards, at £100ph  :hi:

Offline Roth

Sounding more and more like he used the pretend one in his head

Might be going out on a limb here but I call bullshit  :bomb:

Yep.  :thumbsup: :(

Offline Mansell

Right, the reason I have not posted is I am being threatened of being outed to my family including wife, so seriously fuck off, she id'd me from the information I had posted on here and linked to AW. I will not be posting more on this.

You really ought to contact Admin with the info, she should be on the Black list !! Outing is taken very seriously here.


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