I have never been to the Spa at Dagenham in the evening as too far from home for public transport, but this year managed to get to a couple of their Wednesday morning/afternoon parties when I was out in my vehicle.
Girls- the regulars from the cheaper London party scene so knew most if not all of them and they made sure I was looked after, plus the odd swingers who usually only play with those they know and others even I would not touch.
Made the mistake of going the last time just after Ramadan, full of Asian guys.
Most amusing incident was when I was watching young Russian Anna, and would have had a go with her but there was an old Asian guy waiting patiently. Just as she finished off the first punter a young Asian guy tried to push in and Anna told him in no uncertain terms where to go and made sure the older guy got his pleasure. She is a star.
Would I go back? Yes, if I was out for a day in London on a Wednesday as it is cheap and cheerful and you always live in hope there will be a good looking swinger turn up.
Regards, Rios, never been but know a few ladies who go from time to time but usually week ends or evenings. Think it is very hit or miss and probably more miss than hit.
Regards,
davidgood