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Offline roadie

As we know, some Indies (especially the part time ones) need a days notice or even longer in order to arrange the booking with you. Several times I've had to book well ahead and come the day of the meeting, I haven't felt like sex at all. I've still honoured the meeting and it usually turns out great, but the usual on the day pre-punt excitement was missing.

Has anyone else come across this problem?

Offline Wayang

Quote from: roadie
As we know, some Indies (especially the part time ones) need a days notice or even longer in order to arrange the booking with you. Several times I've had to book well ahead and come the day of the meeting, I haven't felt like sex at all. I've still honoured the meeting and it usually turns out great, but the usual on the day pre-punt excitement was missing.

Has anyone else come across this problem?

No! I find that the anticipation rather than blunting the interest strengthens the desire to punt.  This is particularly if you 'abstain' between making a booking and the punt.  It also helps if you find an escort who is prepared to share the odd text/e-mail prior to the punt.  You might even find she is as 'interested' as you.

Offline roadie

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No! I find that the anticipation rather than blunting the interest strengthens the desire to punt.  This is particularly if you 'abstain' between making a booking and the punt.  It also helps if you find an escort who is prepared to share the odd text/e-mail prior to the punt.  You might even find she is as 'interested' as you.

Usually I am excited on the run up to the meeting, but there have been a few occasions (more so recently) where that excitement has deserted me. I'm always ok when we do meet.
Maybe it's a mix of too many punts and getting older.

Offline Lady Poppy

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Quote from: Wayang

No! I find that the anticipation rather than blunting the interest strengthens the desire to punt.  This is particularly if you 'abstain' between making a booking and the punt.  It also helps if you find an escort who is prepared to share the odd text/e-mail prior to the punt.  You might even find she is as 'interested' as you.

Which may be to do with how much you have invested into the punt before it happens?  If all you did was a 2 minute call to book it with no other contact, then I can see how the motive is purely based on sexual need, with no real link to who it is with other than a hope she will be a sexy as her pics were, whereas if you have previous history with the lady 'as in reg' and can focus on sexual acts you have done and enjoyed before or you have flirted a little then you have that to focus on and as wayang says, it can add to the build up as you already have a connection.

Offline Fannytastico

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A WG example: I don't know if I will be horny for my booking next Friday.  I do know that getting ready for a client gets me in the mood.  Also, once they arrive the chemistry starts flowing and it's all knobs to standby! 
If he is a lovely client - for me that's easy going and fun - then I will be horny as hell! 
As an indie I can vet my clients to see if we're likely to click!  If we clicked a week ago on the phone and by email - then I pretty much know we'll have a good time.
It's not been 'amazing' with every client, but sometimes just enjoying the experience and time together is more than good enough for both of us.  With one regular it actually gets better and better every time we meet, so I get excited just getting the booking!

I know the OP's feeling.  It's rather like ordering a restaurant meal a week in advance and finding out that you'd really like fish and chips in a lay by ;-)
The situation is subtly different for WGs.  They can provide their services as agreed and there's more on tap (for them as well as other client's pleasure) if it wasn't a great shag.  OTOH the punter doesn't have that money in his pocket any more.  If punting funds are hard to come by, he could be out of the hobby for some time...

We all hope to become regulars that get better... with regular girls that keep the magic alive ;-)

AFoAF

Offline Lurtz

As we know, some Indies (especially the part time ones) need a days notice or even longer in order to arrange the booking with you. Several times I've had to book well ahead and come the day of the meeting, I haven't felt like sex at all. I've still honoured the meeting and it usually turns out great, but the usual on the day pre-punt excitement was missing.

Has anyone else come across this problem?

I know exactly what you mean. My preference would be to wait until I get horny (usually after dark for some reason) then walk into a parlour full of gorgeous girls and pick the one that takes my fancy. Then get rampant. However, I have found that girls are at the end of their shift when it gets dark, they are tired, and usually all the good girls are booked.

So I do make bookings, but usually less than 24 hours in advance.

Offline roadie

I know exactly what you mean. My preference would be to wait until I get horny (usually after dark for some reason) then walk into a parlour full of gorgeous girls and pick the one that takes my fancy. Then get rampant. However, I have found that girls are at the end of their shift when it gets dark, they are tired, and usually all the good girls are booked.

So I do make bookings, but usually less than 24 hours in advance.

Yes me too. I'm always horny at night but not as much so in the daytime. Must be nocturnal :)
But having said that, I've just booked a girl for a session at 3pm tomorrow as that's the only time she's free this week. Hope I can rise to the occasion.

Offline Fannytastico

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I get most of my bookings for daytime appointments.  However, I get phone calls at 2 or 4am asking me to come out.
Which is all well and fine, but I'm normally in my pjs with no makeup on, and it's such a fag getting ready at that time of the morning.  If they had rung earlier in the day/evening, then I'd be happy to get excited over a late night rendez-vous (I'm a night owl).  Just a little bit of forward planning would be great.

Wolfy

Most of my punts are out-call to my hotel but I'm very horny in the mornings .. my last punt was a dinner-date + fun in the room ...  it was getting late so I asked her if she wanted the stay the night in the hotel ( not an overnighter with me I will add ) I booked her again in the morning .. had some great sex and breaky .. lol :D

Offline Simple

I'm not a spur of the moment or even same day punter, I'm more used to booking days or even a few weeks in advance. On a few occasions I have gone off the idea of punting with a prossie booked somewhat well ahead and even considered cancelling for reasons like in the mean time finding a more suitable and "better" prossie, or even simply not being in the mood for sex around the day of the punt.

However, I've always gone through with a planned punt though my enthusiasm has at times been lacking pre-punt, but usually my interest pick up when meeting the lady and results in a good time.

Another hazard of booking in advance for me because I'm somewhat particular and picky about the prossies I see is that if I'm let down at the last moment by said prossie without a suitable Plan B I'm quite disappointed after spending time exchanging e-mails and planning the punt as well as the wasted expectations built up over time and being considerably horny.

Also, as I'm something of a budding Facial and CIM enthusiast several days of abstinence is obviously needed. Starting to get into the habit of only booking several days ahead at the most, but I doubt I'll even be a spur of the moment punter....

Offline ladyofthemansion

No! I find that the anticipation rather than blunting the interest strengthens the desire to punt.  This is particularly if you 'abstain' between making a booking and the punt.  It also helps if you find an escort who is prepared to share the odd text/e-mail prior to the punt.  You might even find she is as 'interested' as you.

Odd text or email prior to punt is fine, but when they start to get too much it often means the guy has no intentions of coming, unless its in his own hand.

Offline Strawberry

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LOTM has it so right. Unfortunately some chaps can take this too far, and once again unfortunately texting a lot(I find emailers generally ok)asking intimate questions is a trademark of timewasters, many of whom when you respond then take it as open market for their own free chatline. I'm paid to see chaps and I'm sure most would be unhappy if I was late for their appointment because I was busy chatting to someone else.

Once had a chap bombard me with "Just want to chat texts and emails" mostly about what I was going to wear, and how excited he was. When he did turn up for the appointment I gently advised him that wasn't the way, that most ladies would run a mile. "But I was just showing you I was genuine". Not long afterwards he gave me a quick call upset that another lady had been very rude to him when he'd persistently called out of hours. "but I was just ringing back to apologise".

I did try.

I know it sounds a bit hard but would you behave in the same way with any other type of service provider?no I hope!
F
riendliness is nice but there is a fine line.

Online Jimmyredcab

Most of my punts are out-call to my hotel but I'm very horny in the mornings .. my last punt was a dinner-date + fun in the room ...  it was getting late so I asked her if she wanted the stay the night in the hotel ( not an overnighter with me I will add ) I booked her again in the morning .. had some great sex and breaky .. lol :D

Let's get this right, you booked her into another room at your expense and then paid her for another session in the morning ---------- I am now convinced you are stone raving bonkers.   :rolleyes:

Offline roadie

I agree a few texts, emails or even short phone chats prior to the booking can make things a bit more exciting, but finding girls willing to do this is quite a problem.
My regular girl says she'll email or text to ''build the excitement'' but in 18 months of seeing her, I've not once had a single one. Due to her work she needs around 2 weeks notice for a booking and it ends up a bit of a lottery as to whether I'm in the mood for a sexy time on the night or not.

Let's get this right, you booked her into another room at your expense and then paid her for another session in the morning ---------- I am now convinced you are stone raving bonkers.   :rolleyes:

That's not how I read it, Jimmy.  I think he had a longish punt and dinner (paid for), invited the lady to sleep unmolested in his room for the night with the promise of another booked and paid for session in the morning.  Wolfy?

I know that you'd never pay to watch a girl sleep (nor would I) and nor would a non-bonkers Wolfy, I suspect.  This is a good solution to the exorbitant cost of an overnight for us gents that are not up for an all night shag or even for the pharmacological assistance that would permit such nonsense... but yet want a nice cozy fuck in the morning.

A good deal for all concerned, IMHO.  No rushing about for the WG, two service sessions paid for with dinner and a companionable evening - assuming that she clicks with the punter.  Two bonks paid for at prevailing rates and a snuggling night of chit chat, etc, for the price of a dinner for the punter. 

Of course, a hot girl in demand would laugh at this punter's naivety as we are only paying for time and companionship (read my sig).  But a hard headed economist would understand that the opportunity cost for this arrangement is very low, near zero or even less than zero taking into consideration the petrol, parking, etc. 

Are any WGs really up for an outcall booking between, say, 11pm and 7am following a late-ish date and a booked and confirmed pre-breakfast booking?  Bless em if they are!  (And please let me know so that I will never book you for a morning meeting!)

I shall propose this soon and see if there is any uptake.  Perhaps an AW Reverse Booking would be the way?

My Mileage May Vary on this one ;-)

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