Punters Attitudes Towards WGs Honest Comments, Views & Opinions Please

[ramrodronnie]

How do us punter generally talk to, and treat WGs? From the 1st point of contact, requesting a booking, through to how the WGs are treated throughout the booking. It would also be good to get the Honest Opinions from the WGs.
It would good to gather opinions of how us punters generally treat/talk to WGs, and how WGs treat, and talk to us punters?
As we all know that there are a percentage of WGs who do give us some bad attitude. Which has led me to wondering why? Is it because women have their monthly menstrual cycles? Or is it because of the way some of us punters treat/speak to them? Or is it a combination of the two? Or maybe there are other reasons? The entire reason for me to raise this subject is for  "Everyone"to be Totally Honest, otherwise there is no point in trying to gather True & Honest Comments. I don't think that anyone likes people with a bad attitude. Hence my reason for raising this debate. Thank You. 

[Nagilum]

So from the off I am always polite on the emails, phone calls and leading up to the booking.

When there I respect the girl, because she is a person and being horrid is not in my nature. They appreciate this and we generally have a good time. I know they provide a service and it's all an act, but a little decency I find works wonders and they put out for you that extra bit.

I also try to bare in mind that leading up to a punt for an indie can be worrying, she does not know who will come through that door.

If the WG is being difficult, I will tell her then not use her services again

[vw]

Not sure if this is a veiled dig, just I mock a punter for writing baby in emails to a hooker.

Personally if i called a hooker baby twice, I would expect her to be rude back !

As it goes, I treat all business relationships the same, and have a good laugh with them, those that need a sense of humor transplant don't get on as well.

You oldies really do believe you are more polite though. 

[hantshagger]

I am always polite on the emails, phone calls and leading up to the booking.

When there I respect the girl, and that would continue, unless they refuse to allow any AW feedback, and then they should be treated with utter disgust and humiliation - to make the point..... (see the other thread - do you agree , Omnimatrix !!)

[ramrodronnie]

So from the off I am always polite on the emails, phone calls and leading up to the booking.

When there I respect the girl, because she is a person and being horrid is not in my nature. They appreciate this and we generally have a good time. I know they provide a service and it's all an act, but a little decency I find works wonders and they put out for you that extra bit.

I also try to bare in mind that leading up to a punt for an indie can be worrying, she does not know who will come through that door.

If the WG is being difficult, I will tell her then not use her services again

+ 1 omnimatrix

[ramrodronnie]

Not sure if this is a veiled dig, just I mock a punter for writing baby in emails to a hooker.

Personally if i called a hooker baby twice, I would expect her to be rude back !

As it goes, I treat all business relationships the same, and have a good laugh with them, those that need a sense of humor transplant don't get on as well.

You oldies really do believe you are more polite though. 

Shut yer face VW lol. I might have known you'd have yer 2p worth pop at me mate?   

[Ali Katt]

I'm professional, turn up on time, don't text "fancy a fuk bb" at 2am, have a bath. But if the girl provides a piss poor service I will report it.

[ramrodronnie]

I am always polite on the emails, phone calls and leading up to the booking.

When there I respect the girl, and that would continue, unless they refuse to allow any AW feedback, and then they should be treated with utter disgust and humiliation - to make the point..... (see the other thread - do you agree , Omnimatrix !!)

Fair comment hantshagger. I'm much the same mate, so I can buy you're Honest answer. 

[vw]

Shut yer face VW lol. I might have known you'd have yer 2p worth pop at me mate?   

That's not a 2p pop thats over priced, bar room banter to the King of the East !  Think you will find as in life most people are polite, and there will always be the odd few.  Have you been getting advice from Saafe again of did your last punt say "Baby, baby on the floor you are the politest of them all."

[ramrodronnie]

I'm professional, turn up on time, don't text "fancy a fuk bb" at 2am, have a bath. But if the girl provides a piss poor service I will report it.

Fair comment Ali Katt. So long as you're always polite, and respectful, IMO that's what matters. It'd be good to see what the WGs take is on this subject? 

[vw]

Fair comment Ali Katt. So long as you're always polite, and respectful, IMO that's what matters. It'd be good to see what the WGs take is on this subject? 

Maybe you could ask on the other forum for a bigger survey audience, you can also have a vote on it, after all only a small number are here.

Anyway most rude people don't know how rude they are until recorded and played back to them.

[ramrodronnie]

That's not a 2p pop thats over priced, bar room banter to the King of the East !  Think you will find as in life most people are polite, and there will always be the odd few.  Have you been getting advice from Saafe again of did your last punt say "Baby, baby on the floor you are the politest of them all."

Oh shut yer face VW. nowt wrong wiv calling em baby, and sweetheart. A bit of sucking up. Being nice IMO goes a long, long way. Trust me VW. I AM THE MASTER OF FLANNEL mate.  

[ramrodronnie]

Maybe you could ask on the other forum for a bigger survey audience, you can also have a vote on it, after all only a small number are here.

Anyway most rude people don't know how rude they are until recorded and played back to them.

I thought that this was on the countrywide discussions board VW. I asked Admin to put it there mate? 

[vw]

I thought that this was on the countrywide discussions board VW. I asked Admin to put it there mate? 

Not saying its wrong, just saying if you wanted more answers run it concurrently for research purposes !

As they say the more people you ask the better the answer you get.

Happy Days !

[PLeisure]

I thought that this was on the countrywide discussions board VW. I asked Admin to put it there mate? 

rrdn, I genuinely thought you intended this thread for UKE. There aren't enough WGs populating UKP to give you the balanced response you're after 

It would also be good to get the Honest Opinions from the WGs.

[ramrodronnie]

Not saying its wrong, just saying if you wanted more answers run it concurrently for research purposes !

As they say the more people you ask the better the answer you get.

Happy Days !

Oh I dunno VW. All I know is that is exactly what I'd done? I thought that this thread was going National, as I asked Admin to put it up as a Countrywide Topic for debate? 

[ramrodronnie]

rrdn, I genuinely thought you intended this thread for UKE. There aren't enough WGs populating UKP to give you the balanced response you're after 

Yeah thanks PLeisure. I've been trying to get my head around navigating around UKE. Problem is I cocked up, and my real name is coming up on my comments on a different thread!! I cannot believe it? 

[Belgarion]

Always find a little politeness goes a long way

[vw]

My real name is coming up on my comments on a different thread!! I cannot believe it? 

Have you had a word with Admin to find out why ?

That cant be good for you.

[sushi]

Personally I wouldn't use this form of "endearment" I've been told it sterotypes the user as being unprofessional and a bit of a dick and would put them off meeting, its only acceptable to use with it with junkies, flakes and EE's though because they don't give a fuck. 

[vw]

Personally I wouldn't use this form of "endearment" I've been told it sterotypes the user as being unprofessional and a bit of a dick and would put them off meeting, its only acceptable to use with it with junkies, flakes and EE's though because they don't give a fuck. 

My point exactly, they have a name for a reason, calling someone whos name you know baby is one of dehumanizing things that people think is OK. 

Just like these people who call every body mate, I'm not your mate all laziness to remember a name.

[threechilliman]

From start to finish I treat wg's exactly as i treat anyone else. Respect cuts both ways.

tcm

[itk]

Personally I wouldn't use this form of "endearment" I've been told it sterotypes the user as being unprofessional and a bit of a dick and would put them off meeting, its only acceptable to use with it with junkies, flakes and EE's though because they don't give a fuck. 

+1. Nothing wrong with being polite in an email to the WG, but to me using words like 'babe', 'baby' and such like comes across as condescending.

[lostandfound]

I'm fairly sure I have never in my life called anyone Babe, but if I did I don't think it would be meant as an insult. There's a woman I work with who absentmindedly calls me Love, which is mildly irritating but I don't let it bother me. There are far more important things to worry about.

[cockneybstrd]

i dont get this calling them babe hun or sweetheart etc I dont even think its polite. It would be more polite if you simply addressed them by the profile name or the name they have given you.

Using babe etc makes you sound like a simpleton or second hand car salesman

I doubt they particularly enjoy messages such as Yeah Babe cant wait to meet you at 5pm your such a hun. In fact I would assume most of them would be laughing behind your back at what a fucking toby you sound

[vw]

i dont get this calling them babe hun or sweetheart etc I dont even think its polite.

You mean like this ?  Think some peoples idea of politeness is off from mine !

Ok guys, I've AW messaged her, asking her these questions:-

Hi baby, I like your profile, and you look very nice/sexy in your pictures. Could you tell me please baby, do you charge for any extras? Do you offer everything on your likes list for the rates that you require? Do you definitely offer; French Kissing, OWO & CIM?
I can assure you that I am a very clean man, with a very clean, fresh mouth, and breathe. I have all positive feedbacks, which should give you a good idea of the type of man that I am.

If you will definitely give these services? I will be interested in booking to see you.

Right, now I'll wait to see if she bother s to read, and answer this message? I'll let you all know what her answer is if she answers? 

[cockneybstrd]

VW

Having read that email that Ramrod sent if I was a prossie I would assume that person was probably a boundary pusher

I would assume that was the kind of verbage someone like the beast mcfly would send (i am certainly not implying that ramrod is that poster)

i am not trying to dig you out or be snide ramrod but it makes you sound a right cunt

[PLeisure]

No. "Babe", and other affectations is all kinds of wrong 
The girls can do that if they wish - whatever - but a guy doing it comes across as assuming an intimacy that simply doesn't/ shouldn't exist. Stop that now.
Politeness, on the other hand, is a totally different thing. Costs nothing and goes a long way.
We all want good service, after all. If the WG doesn't reciprocate, then, yes - it's a wasted opportunity for both. 

[vt]

I say whatever I think is necessary to get the girl feeling good about herself, what she's doing for me and giving me her best possible service.

Polite, friendly, charming, complimentary, humourous but firm at times usually works and I think all but the most jaded girls respond well to that kind of approach.

[Leona]

Politeness, on the other hand, is a totally different thing. Costs nothing and goes a long way.
We all want good service, after all. If the WG doesn't reciprocate, then, yes - it's a wasted opportunity for both.

Hello, kinda nervous to reply I have only just been introduced to this website by a client (punter) but as no other WG seem to have replied and the author seems rather keen to hear both sides... I say the above gentlemen got it spot on!

A polite email/ text will ALWAYS get a response from me 
Where as the never ending stream of "babe your soooo hot", "luv you available", "I need that ass", "hun I got a really big cock is that ok", "how much for 30mins"..... I could go on! I will ignore every time!

I like to get an idea what the guy is like and wanting (I am a horny GFE girl and probably attract what you guys call "fluffy" guys...) to see if I fancy it, because to be honest if I don't then the guy is not going to have the best of me. I am not an actress and only do AW of a weekend (have a normal weekday job) I can honestly say I have only had one horrid meet and I think it is because I ensure I know the expectations of the punter before meeting and ONLY meet with guys who are polite, have read my profile, I think I can please, express what they are looking for and I love a bit of cheekiness/ fun/ personality in communication because it tells me we will probably have fun a bit of a laugh as well 

The only time I have ever been rude is when required... harassing calls and texts is the worst!!

But on the whole I am treated very well thanks via text, phone, email and in person!

I do think you attract what you put out, be nice and you will get nice (then a whole lot of naughty!) lol sorry for long post XX

[PLeisure]

Hello, kinda nervous to reply I have only just been introduced to this website by a client (punter) but as no other WG seem to have replied and the author seems rather keen to hear both sides... I say the above gentlemen got it spot on!

A polite email/ text will ALWAYS get a response from me 
Where as the never ending stream of "babe your soooo hot", "luv you available", "I need that ass", "hun I got a really big cock is that ok", "how much for 30mins"..... I could go on! I will ignore every time!

I like to get an idea what the guy is like and wanting (I am a horny GFE girl and probably attract what you guys call "fluffy" guys...) to see if I fancy it, because to be honest if I don't then the guy is not going to have the best of me. I am not an actress and only do AW of a weekend (have a normal weekday job) I can honestly say I have only had one horrid meet and I think it is because I ensure I know the expectations of the punter before meeting and ONLY meet with guys who are polite, have read my profile, I think I can please, express what they are looking for and I love a bit of cheekiness/ fun/ personality in communication because it tells me we will probably have fun a bit of a laugh as well 

The only time I have ever been rude is when required... harassing calls and texts is the worst!!

But on the whole I am treated very well thanks via text, phone, email and in person!

I do think you attract what you put out, be nice and you will get nice (then a whole lot of naughty!) lol sorry for long post XX

Sounds good, Leona - welcome to UKP 
As you've just signed up, you may not be aware of a new website that is intended for punters and WGs to interact. Head over to UKEscorting.com and take a look. It's affiliated to this site but quite different in character.

[cueball]

Emails, texts, meets and podging are all the same way for me.... respectful, friendly and a bit of comedy thrown in for good measure

[rg41]

I always use their name when I email/text/phone them, it just sounds more polite.

[Gordon Bennett]

I treat them very respectfully and politely. In fact, I treat them the same as, say, my GP, my dentist,  a waitress etc etc. I wouldn't be rude, profane or overly familiar with them and I therefore wouldn't treat a WG any differently. I realise there is an element of escape and fantasy involved but calling them honey or such like would weird me out........ I'll maybe try it next time my GP is giving me a "drop and cough" check up and see how she reacts!

[uutarn]

I treat everyone the same, with politeness and respect; WGs are no different from others who i meet.
Character is easily lost, and not so easily gained.

[purple_t]

I try to be polite and as respectful as possible, just like I would with anyone else who I am paying to perform a service. I'm not a cunt, it just isn't in my nature. So far I have only had good punts with girls who have put a lot of effort in, so I have no reason to act in any other way.

[vw]

I try to be polite and as respectful as possible, just like I would with anyone else who I am paying to perform a service. I'm not a cunt, it just isn't in my nature. So far I have only had good punts with girls who have put a lot of effort in, so I have no reason to act in any other way.

I personally feel lots of the people that are cuntish may not be real punters like the cunts we get on here trolling, an endless supply of people looking for a reaction !

A real punter wants to get pleasured rather than get a reaction !

[ramrodronnie]

Can we try to stick to the point please guys? What I say, and the way that I say it eg; baby & sweetheart. Well that's just me. I personally don't see anything wrong with using these words to WGs. Which is why it would be good to hear what the WGs think/have to say on what clients say, and what they call them? Sometimes WGs don't give a name on their profiles as we all know, So what do we call them then? Should we just address them as Madam?
As I've said, the point of this thread is not about me, and what I personally call/say to the WGs. The thread is all about how we as clients, and the WGs. How do we all talk/treat each other. The request was to use Honesty in any comment/s made. So far there have been a few Honest comments. Which is appreciated.

So again I ask, please try to forget about me calling the WGs baby & sweetheart. Please can we just try and keep to the point of this thread? Thank You.

[vw]

Can we try to stick to the point please guys? What I say, and the way that I say it eg; baby & sweetheart. Well that's just me. I personally don't see anything wrong with using these words to WGs. Which is why it would be good to hear what the WGs think/have to say on what clients say, and what they call them? Sometimes WGs don't give a name on their profiles as we all know, So what do we call them then? Should we just address them as Madam?
As I've said, the point of this thread is not about me, and what I personally call/say to the WGs. The thread is all about how we as clients, and the WGs. How do we all talk/treat each other. The request was to use Honesty in any comment/s made. So far there have been a few Honest comments. Which is appreciated.

So again I ask, please try to forget about me calling the WGs baby & sweetheart. Please can we just try and keep to the point of this thread? Thank You.

Why, most consider it rude and patronising so how is it irrelevant ?

The point is some people don't even know they are being rude, bet you didn't !

[ramrodronnie]

Why, most consider it rude and patronising so how is it irrelevant ?

The point is some people don't even know they are being rude, bet you didn't !

VW. That's the whole point of why I raised this thread. You can't say that most consider it rude and patronising until we know for sure. I just don't get why you think that it's rude and patronising?
I'm still going to keep saying; Can we please keep to the point of this thread

[vw]

VW. That's the whole point of why I raised this thread. You can't say that most consider it rude and patronising until we know for sure. I just don't get why you think that it's rude and patronising?
I'm still going to keep saying; Can we please keep to the point of this thread

Wasn't just me that said that its over familiar and patronising.

Hardly think  this is going to be enlightening is it the rude impolite ones are the ones that never get bookings they are more likely trolls thus a WG not a RRR problem and would hardly admit to being rude.

[cockneybstrd]

Is it because women have their monthly menstrual cycles? Or is it because of the way some of us punters treat/speak to them? Or is it a combination of the two? Or maybe there are other reasons?

VW. That's the whole point of why I raised this thread. You can't say that most consider it rude and patronising until we know for sure. I just don't get why you think that it's rude and patronising?
I'm still going to keep saying; Can we please keep to the point of this thread

Alright babe lets get this thread back on track. (i think ronnie might be on the blob you know how sensitive some of them get at the time of the month

As others have already said. I approach any prossie in the same manner I would anyone I come across in a service industry. Polite and Well mannered direct and to the point. 

Going back to your orginal question is it for other reasons. Well as Leona has indicated on this thread

A polite email/ text will ALWAYS get a response from me 
Where as the never ending stream of "babe your soooo hot", "luv you available", "I need that ass", "hun I got a really big cock is that ok", "how much for 30mins"..... I could go on! I will ignore every time!


The only time I have ever been rude is when required... harassing calls and texts is the worst!!

Is that ok hun you can check my feedback too see what a Grade A cunt I am by the way??

[Silver Birch]

My attitude to a wg is exactly the same as it is to any other stranger I come into contact with. I call them by the name they introduce themselves as and if their attitude is good, then mine remains so too.

[ramrodronnie]

VW

Having read that email that Ramrod sent if I was a prossie I would assume that person was probably a boundary pusher

I would assume that was the kind of verbage someone like the beast mcfly would send (i am certainly not implying that ramrod is that poster)

i am not trying to dig you out or be snide ramrod but it makes you sound a right cunt

I really don't think that talking that way cockneybstr is helping in this debate. You aren't a prossie. And for the record; it's cunts like me, that make Pricks Like You stand to attention.
Please make Honest contributions to this debate, or don't bother saying anything, if that's the best that you can do to lower yourself to slagging off punters who raise points/threads to be discussed/debated

[vw]

I really don't think that talking that way cockneybstr is helping in this debate. You aren't a prossie. And for the record; it's cunts like me, that make Pricks Like You stand to attention.
Please make Honest contributions to this debate, or don't bother saying anything, if that's the best that you can do to lower yourself to slagging off punters who raise points/threads to be discussed/debated

Is there a debate, is anyone her advocating being rude ?  No

What ask for comments, views and opinions if you don't want them ?   

As for babe

Quote from saafe

Ha Ha, I feel the same about being called 'babe'. In fact I would prefer it if they referred to me as prostitute!

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[ramrodronnie]

No. "Babe", and other affectations is all kinds of wrong 
The girls can do that if they wish - whatever - but a guy doing it comes across as assuming an intimacy that simply doesn't/ shouldn't exist. Stop that now.
Politeness, on the other hand, is a totally different thing. Costs nothing and goes a long way.
We all want good service, after all. If the WG doesn't reciprocate, then, yes - it's a wasted opportunity for both.

Politeness, on the other hand, is a totally different thing. Costs nothing and goes a long way.
We all want good service, after all. If the WG doesn't reciprocate, then, yes - it's a wasted opportunity for both. 

+1 PLeisure. IMO good point. I totally agree.

[ramrodronnie]

I say whatever I think is necessary to get the girl feeling good about herself, what she's doing for me and giving me her best possible service.

Polite, friendly, charming, complimentary, humourous but firm at times usually works and I think all but the most jaded girls respond well to that kind of approach.

+1 vt

[ramrodronnie]

Hello, kinda nervous to reply I have only just been introduced to this website by a client (punter) but as no other WG seem to have replied and the author seems rather keen to hear both sides... I say the above gentlemen got it spot on!

A polite email/ text will ALWAYS get a response from me 
Where as the never ending stream of "babe your soooo hot", "luv you available", "I need that ass", "hun I got a really big cock is that ok", "how much for 30mins"..... I could go on! I will ignore every time!

I like to get an idea what the guy is like and wanting (I am a horny GFE girl and probably attract what you guys call "fluffy" guys...) to see if I fancy it, because to be honest if I don't then the guy is not going to have the best of me. I am not an actress and only do AW of a weekend (have a normal weekday job) I can honestly say I have only had one horrid meet and I think it is because I ensure I know the expectations of the punter before meeting and ONLY meet with guys who are polite, have read my profile, I think I can please, express what they are looking for and I love a bit of cheekiness/ fun/ personality in communication because it tells me we will probably have fun a bit of a laugh as well 

The only time I have ever been rude is when required... harassing calls and texts is the worst!!

But on the whole I am treated very well thanks via text, phone, email and in person!

I do think you attract what you put out, be nice and you will get nice (then a whole lot of naughty!) lol sorry for long post XX

Thank you for you're contribution Leona. It's always good to hear things from both sides. 

[cockneybstrd]

Now VW

Ronnie is allowed to call me a cunt sounds like the poor love is on the blob or something. The post that seemed to get you upset was due to the fact I had raised the point calling people babe etc isnt polite and VW pointed me to an email you had posted which I thought made you sound rather dubious.

As I pointed out earlier I thought call them babe etc wasnt polite as it sounds condescending

 I treat prossie the same as I would as anyone in a service industry as i stated

Do I think prossie are any different to any other women.

Nope like all of us men and women  they all have good days and bad days and just like everyone does

[ramrodronnie]

Wasn't just me that said that its over familiar and patronising.

Hardly think  this is going to be enlightening is it the rude impolite ones are the ones that never get bookings they are more likely trolls thus a WG not a RRR problem and would hardly admit to being rude.

VW. I just want comments from both sides. How we speak to each other. Look, as we know there are WGs out there that have really bad attitudes towards us punters. Which is the reason that prompted me into raising this thread? Why do some of these WGs give us bad attitude? Are some punters being rude? Are some of us being impolite?
I am trying to get a handle on why some WGs give us punters bad attitude? There surely Must be a Reason for it?