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Offline HighlyMotivated

Just something that was on my mind after a meet the other day...

Had a good time with a certain WG who I was seeing for the first time. As I was getting dressed to leave she mentions she's got to head out to see a regular for a drink and wasn't particularly looking forward to it. She said usually he just wants to go out for a drink with her and talk, and they rarely fuck which is good as he stinks. She added that "he's in love with me" and all she has to do is take his money and pretend to be interested in what he has to say, and that she couldn't wait until it was over each time.

I couldn't help but think that this guy would absolutely stop seeing her if he knew what she'd said about him. I told her I was surprised she said all that to me, and she just shrugged and said it was the truth.

So is this poor form on the WG's part and is it OK to leave it as a case of "ignorance is bliss" for the punter in question? Not that I'm looking to expose this girl or anything, but I don't particularly like the idea of WGs talking shit about me once I'm gone either and I certainly wouldn't go back to one if I discovered that was the case.

Anyway, just something I was thinking about today

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If she exists then she'd probably meet him and tell him similar tales about you  :music:

Offline HighlyMotivated

Yeah, I said the same thing but she (obviously) assured that wouldn't be the case

vw

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Everyone likes a vent once in a while maybe she wanted you to offer to take her out as a marketing ploy !

If a WG mentioned names or personal details would take issue with it but generic another customer doesn't bother me, there is a line.

Offline Bangers and Gash

Yeah, I said the same thing but she (obviously) assured that wouldn't be the case

Because a pro$$ie would never be two faced about punters, especially when money is at stake.  :dancegirl:

Are you doing a review for this pro$$ie, or is she a keeper?  :kissgirl:

Offline HighlyMotivated

Because a pro$$ie would never be two faced about punters, especially when money is at stake.  :dancegirl:

Are you doing a review for this pro$$ie, or is she a keeper?  :kissgirl:

Yep, hence why I put obviously in brackets.

Are those mutually exclusive?

yorkshire123

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Its a pet hate of mine.

Imaginary man may stink yet she's still willing to take his money, In that case imaginary girl would never see any of my monopoly money ever again.

Offline threechilliman

Probably happens quite a lot. Who doesn't moan about people you work with?

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vw

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Probably happens quite a lot. Who doesn't moan about people you work with?

tcm
Then you start naming names or forum names it would become a problem for me !

Offline WelshClipper

Rightly or wrongly, I quite freely talk about wgs I have seen, often to make a point. I even put a couple down along the lines of services not the same as likes list. But it is always totally anonymous.

I think we all naturally talk, the difference is that if a punter complains about a girl, he usually stops seeing her and saves his money. The escort complains but continues to see the punter to 'save' money.

Our world's are quite different.  :unknown:

DannyJames

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If the prossie isn't outing a punter then it's not a problem for me.

Punters who fall in love with hookers I do have a problem with. Get a fucking grip.

Offline Cuntminion

To be honest if she detested someone that much but still took the money I'd drop her quick for having a shitty attitude

Offline lostandfound

Chat with a provider fills the space at the beginning or end of a punt but its inconsequential and almost immediately forgotten by me - and probably best for that. If it bothered me - and it sounds like this maybe bothers you - I would ask myself if I wanted to see her again. There's always another WG in my view - that's pretty much the whole point of this hobby IMO.
« Last Edit: November 10, 2015, 09:01:29 pm by lostandfound »

Expl1cit

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Ignorance is bliss. If you want to be deluded into thinking WG's actually give a fuck, just read Saafe. We are walking ATM machines!

If you want something different go on a dating website and let them pick you or join the real world and believe that its only the money that keeps them interested, not your good looks, charming personality or your wonderful aroma. If you happen to have those things, it helps the time go a little faster and the experience is not that bad.

I get on well with most WG's, some I wouls even call friends but the second I lose the punter-prossie relationship mindset, i'm quickly checked back into place when I sort the paperwork out or when ai am politely asked to leave as my time is up.

Offline webpunter

Ignorance is bliss. If you want to be deluded into thinking WG's actually give a fuck, just read Saafe. We are walking ATM machines!

If you want something different go on a dating website and let them pick you or join the real world and believe that its only the money that keeps them interested, not your good looks, charming personality or your wonderful aroma. If you happen to have those things, it helps the time go a little faster and the experience is not that bad.

I get on well with most WG's, some I wouls even call friends but the second I lose the punter-prossie relationship mindset, i'm quickly checked back into place when I sort the paperwork out or when ai am politely asked to leave as my time is up.
+1  I would however use the word 'acquaintance' rather than 'friend'.  I've shagged loads of civvies over the years.  Some of them are friends - although fuck buddy is more appropriate.  But i don't say to these friends / acquaintances something like "please can you stop doing x & start doing y.  Then when the time is up i want to shoot my bolt over / in your z".  And then fuck off & only contact them again when i have a raging boner & nothing else better in the AW pond 

cockneybstrd

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+1  I would however use the word 'acquaintance' rather than 'friend'.  I've shagged loads of civvies over the years.  Some of them are friends - although fuck buddy is more appropriate.  But i don't say to these friends / acquaintances something like "please can you stop doing x & start doing y.  Then when the time is up i want to shoot my bolt over / in your z".  And then fuck off & only contact them again when i have a raging boner & nothing else better in the AW pond

I have tendency to do this though I am noticing as I am getting older and uglier the reaction is now go and fucking have a wank then you ugly cunt when I get back in touch.

Offline WelshClipper

Ignorance is bliss. If you want to be deluded into thinking WG's actually give a fuck, just read Saafe. We are walking ATM machines!

If you want something different go on a dating website and let them pick you or join the real world and believe that its only the money that keeps them interested, not your good looks, charming personality or your wonderful aroma. If you happen to have those things, it helps the time go a little faster and the experience is not that bad.

I get on well with most WG's, some I wouls even call friends but the second I lose the punter-prossie relationship mindset, i'm quickly checked back into place when I sort the paperwork out or when ai am politely asked to leave as my time is up.

I don't think anyone on here is particularly deluded. There is sufficient information on UKP to put that theory to bed very quickly.  :hi:

However each punter is allowed to choose his fantasy world. One may choose to fuck like a bunny for an hour, another mix it up, another stop for drinks or a chat. Maybe, just maybe another chooses to imagine that for an hour it's a real girlfriend. Doesn't mean he is deluded, he is paying and chooses what he intends to do with his time. As long as when the door closes and he is back to civvie life the clock is set back to reality.

Offline webpunter

I have tendency to do this though I am noticing as I am getting older and uglier the reaction is now go and fucking have a wank then you ugly cunt when I get back in touch.
When i'm being wanked off in the local chinese massage parlour then occasionally i have thought 'what do you really think of me' ?  I've come to the conclusion "face - bothered"  :sarcastic:

Expl1cit

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I don't think anyone on here is particularly deluded. There is sufficient information on UKP to put that theory to bed very quickly.  :hi:

However each punter is allowed to choose his fantasy world. One may choose to fuck like a bunny for an hour, another mix it up, another stop for drinks or a chat. Maybe, just maybe another chooses to imagine that for an hour it's a real girlfriend. Doesn't mean he is deluded, he is paying and chooses what he intends to do with his time. As long as when the door closes and he is back to civvie life the clock is set back to reality.

I think a lot of people on here are very much deluded.  There is sufficient information on UKP to bring that theory to life, not least this thread.

What one imagines in a fantasy world is fine, but to care what a WG thinks about us is different.  You are paying to fuck them, not because they like you, simple.  Most of us do this because we are too old, too ugly, lacking confidence or otherwise fucked up in the head to go and pull one of the thousands of civvies desperate for a shag at a local bar, club or anywhere else.  Those who don't fall into this category who simply enjoy the convenience and flexibility of fucking random girls without the bullshit, wouldn't care what they think of them.

I speak for myself, as well as others so not having a go at certain punters, but a lot of people need a fucking reality check.  They talk shit about us, and we talk shit about them because we need to fuck and they need the money so its one of those relationships that works on economics but fails on most other levels.

sucky2dollar

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However each punter is allowed to choose his fantasy world. One may choose to fuck like a bunny for an hour, another mix it up, another stop for drinks or a chat. Maybe, just maybe another chooses to imagine that for an hour it's a real girlfriend. Doesn't mean he is deluded

Put in bold red the delusion to help you.

Just because you don't choose to fuck her silly for an hour doesn't make you a gent and won't make her respect you any more. There is no classy in this business, it is what it is and an escort will always have some contempt for you no matter how many gifts or glasses of wine you buy for them.

Some are just better at hiding what they really think.

Offline claretandblue

A lot of wgs do this, especially the "darlings" of this site who like to chat about punters at the end of a punt, not something I enjoy

Offline WelshClipper

Put in bold red the delusion to help you.

Just because you don't choose to fuck her silly for an hour doesn't make you a gent and won't make her respect you any more. There is no classy in this business, it is what it is and an escort will always have some contempt for you no matter how many gifts or glasses of wine you buy for them.

Some are just better at hiding what they really think.

Didn't really say what I personally do. Just being clear that the punters fantasy is his own choosing. I couldn't care less what the wgs is thinking.  :hi:

Offline Dani

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Its not good form to slag of a client to another client and if she needs to do so it is best kept to talking to other prossies about.  I know we all moan about someone at one point or another.  The only thing I take exception to is the fact she knows he is in love with her and happily takes his money therefor leading him on.  That I don't agree with as the more she sees him the more he will believe he has a chance especially as now he is paying just to talk and not for sex.  This to me is taking the pee out of this guy and is cruel.  At the very least she needs to be honest with him about his chances and if it was me I would stop seeing him so he doesn't feel we have a special connection and that we may have a future

Offline WelshClipper

I think a lot of people on here are very much deluded.  There is sufficient information on UKP to bring that theory to life, not least this thread.

What one imagines in a fantasy world is fine, but to care what a WG thinks about us is different.  You are paying to fuck them, not because they like you, simple.  Most of us do this because we are too old, too ugly, lacking confidence or otherwise fucked up in the head to go and pull one of the thousands of civvies desperate for a shag at a local bar, club or anywhere else.  Those who don't fall into this category who simply enjoy the convenience and flexibility of fucking random girls without the bullshit, wouldn't care what they think of them.

I speak for myself, as well as others so not having a go at certain punters, but a lot of people need a fucking reality check.  They talk shit about us, and we talk shit about them because we need to fuck and they need the money so its one of those relationships that works on economics but fails on most other levels.

I think you have missed my point. I agree with most of what you say on a personal level. I never said I care what the wg thinks. I never said I wanted the wg to like me. :hi:

What I did say is that if a punter is paying and his requirement is to imagine the girl cares and does like him, then that is his choice. Just because the rest of us don't see it that way doesn't alter his right to choose. I have no misconceptions of what drives wgs, its the money full stop.

But the punter chooses his own fantasy, whether it be role play, food play, fuck knows what play. But one of those plays may be to imagine he has a girlfriend for an hour. Whatever the reason, he pays, he chooses.   

Simples.

Expl1cit

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I think you have missed my point.

You really believe you have a point?  :sarcastic: 

In the OP's scenario, that deluded punter can continue to live in his fantasy, the WG didn't tell him what she really thought of him.  She gets her money, he gets his deluded fantasy.  Everyone is a winner, except the tax man.  The problem with delusion, is that when they wake up, its going to hurt a lot more.


Speedy

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Just something that was on my mind after a meet the other day...

Had a good time with a certain WG who I was seeing for the first time. As I was getting dressed to leave she mentions she's got to head out to see a regular for a drink and wasn't particularly looking forward to it. She said usually he just wants to go out for a drink with her and talk, and they rarely fuck which is good as he stinks. She added that "he's in love with me" and all she has to do is take his money and pretend to be interested in what he has to say, and that she couldn't wait until it was over each time.

All you guys who thinks the prossie loves or is attracted to you, all you guys who  write soppy reviews about your "love making session", take note. They don't fancy you, in fact they probably despise you and feel like puking when they are with you. The only think they love is your money.


Offline WelshClipper

You really believe you have a point?  :sarcastic: 

In the OP's scenario, that deluded punter can continue to live in his fantasy, the WG didn't tell him what she really thought of him.  She gets her money, he gets his deluded fantasy.  Everyone is a winner, except the tax man.  The problem with delusion, is that when they wake up, its going to hurt a lot more.

No one has a gun to his head. His money. His choice.  End of.



Offline Silver Birch

they rarely fuck which is good as he stinks. She added that "he's in love with me" and all she has to do is take his money and pretend to be interested in what he has to say, and that she couldn't wait until it was over each time.

I have on occasion chatted with wgs about punters, and it doesn't bother me if they do it about me. I don't know them, and they don't know me. Would be pretty boring about me compared to stories I've heard about othe punters!

However, if she said the words highlighted in red, I would never see her again. I know many probably think that, but to actually say it to me, a fellow punter, would make me dislike her instantly for that indiscretion.

Ben4454

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I once had a girl tell me she thinks all punters who want 'sex' in a meet are perverts and she prefers to just talk..and then started slagging off all of her regulars in the establishment. I thought to myself she obviously hates her job - got a refund and left. The pimp got a bit ratty because no ones ever walked before. This was about 9 years ago.
« Last Edit: November 11, 2015, 08:03:49 pm by Ben4454 »

Justanotheruser

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All you guys who thinks the prossie loves or is attracted to you, all you guys who  write soppy reviews about your "love making session", take note. They don't fancy you, in fact they probably despise you and feel like puking when they are with you. The only think they love is your money.

I'm under no illusion that any either love or are attracted to me. But i reckon there's maybe some middle ground where some of them don't despise me :unknown:

Offline Ali Katt

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I had one prossie tell me in graphic detail that one punter came in his pants the second he pulled them down and that he was an immature young man. If you saw the prossie I'm surprised he didn't shit himself instead. I could barely keep it up.

I agree that this was bad form and with the OP that she shouldn't have said it. Loads of banned prossies have said on here that write "we're all sad cunts that have to pay for it" - which is a true reflection of themselves. The good prossies that appreciate punters are rare.

vw

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To be honest if she detested someone that much but still took the money I'd drop her quick for having a shitty attitude
You can say that easily now your bride is waiting for you.   :lol: :lol:

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LL

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Should be a reminder for some and a lesson to rest - don't pay to take a prossie out on a date. If you really want to date them - ask them to come along for free and that way find out if they actually like you or not!

Offline claretandblue

Should be a reminder for some and a lesson to rest - don't pay to take a prossie out on a date. If you really want to date them - ask them to come along for free and that way find out if they actually like you or not!
+1 ,unfortunately some will never heed this advice

tonysoprano

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Anyone daft enough to take a WG girl out for drinks without sex deserves all he gets IMO. She's just exploiting the stupidity of the punter in question.

Offline onedivergent

The few I know I'm on speaking terms with so its more conversation. Like when I've called up for advice. Those who doing it on your own paid time isn't on and cool and the occasions happened to me I think it was part of a time wasting chat and attempts to make me feel good as I learnt I've been quite naive.

The question is do you comment about wgs to other wgs I have but don't say girls names just say experiences  situations or service.

Similar thing in some ways but its not professional for a wg to banter down a client.

I've had  properly shit situations where wg made negative comments towards me feel totally awful and left feeling even worse. Even though I'm sensitive I've learnt that's not really on.

Offline WelshClipper

To me there are two situations.

The wg purposely wastes time with conversation, slags off other punters, tells you off in the meet and makes you feel bad. This is all unacceptable.

The punter wants to chat, asks about stories she has about other anonymous punter and wants to be told off and put down by the wg in a semi dom role. Nothing wrong with this.

A local well blessed girl told me one client comes for two hours and just sucks her boobs the whole time. No FK, OWO, RO. In fact nothing down below and no orgasm/pops.   His choice.


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She has the best boobs in the Midlands IMHO so I can understand why.

Offline HighlyMotivated

Thanks for the input everyone, some interesting points. To the few members doubting the legitimacy of the original post, perhaps you're paranoid this WG may have been referring to you. If that's the case I'd be happy to confirm suspicions/put minds at rest via PM. I don't fancy naming her in the thread as a) it's unfair and b) she could possibly identify me.

vw

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Thanks for the input everyone, some interesting points. To the few members doubting the legitimacy of the original post, perhaps you're paranoid this WG may have been referring to you. If that's the case I'd be happy to confirm suspicions/put minds at rest via PM. I don't fancy naming her in the thread as a) it's unfair and b) she could possibly identify me.
PM me if you like !

Always nice to get a pm !

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In the OP's scenario, that deluded punter can continue to live in his fantasy, the WG didn't tell him what she really thought of him.  She gets her money, he gets his deluded fantasy.  Everyone is a winner, except the tax man.  The problem with delusion, is that when they wake up, its going to hurt a lot more.
Good point but it is if they wake up, more like. Look at the rows on here with deluded idiots (some of whom are now banned, thank goodness) and one could suggest they may never wake up. Like Tony Soprano wrote, they deserve it. Trouble is, they often pay silly prices to put their princesses on pedestals which just encourages said silly prices.  Op's post did make me laugh out loud, though. I immediately thought it might be our most infamous fluffy member  :lol:

vw

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Good point but it is if they wake up, more like. Look at the rows on here with deluded idiots (some of whom are now banned, thank goodness) and one could suggest they may never wake up. Like Tony Soprano wrote, they deserve it. Trouble is, they often pay silly prices to put their princesses on pedestals which just encourages said silly prices.  Op's post did make me laugh out loud, though. I immediately thought it might be our most infamous fluffy member  :lol:
Drink to that, long may they be culled !

Offline Agent W

I do feel a bit for the WG in the OP's scenario. Yes she should really tell the poor guy she doesn't feel the same way, but that's a difficult conversation and she didn't sign up for emotional complication any more than we do. He's putting her in a difficult position by making a booking it might be awkward for her to turn down. Not a great situation for either of them.

I hope the WGs don't despise me too much, though I suppose as with anyone providing a service in the real world what you don't know won't hurt you. I try to be nice, easy going, considerate, non-pushy etc and show up on time and reasonably fresh. I do sometimes ask if I smell alright if it's a hot day and I haven't had a shower since the morning, whether they mind the stubble etc. I'm not expecting to be the love of their life but I think it's possible to have a friendly working relationship. I've liked nearly all the girls I've seen and I wouldn't dream of judging them for doing sex work. I'm bloody glad they do. If anything I admire them for it. I'd probably give it a go myself if I was 30 years younger and female.

cockneybstrd

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I do feel a bit for the WG in the OP's scenario. Yes she should really tell the poor guy she doesn't feel the same way, but that's a difficult conversation and she didn't sign up for emotional complication any more than we do. He's putting her in a difficult position by making a booking it might be awkward for her to turn down. Not a great situation for either of them.


I have to disagree with you here. Why would you feel sorry for her just because she has to be nice to some geezer with B.0. It's hardly difficult is it she just dont have too see him again if it thats difficult for her. i expect she enjoys the fact that she is rinsing Mr Stinky i am afraid and has probably said a lot worse about him.


Offline Agent W

Fair enough. I suppose with the BO thing she should probably shove him into the shower on arrival rather than complaining behind his back. I'm just trying to see the best in her, covert softie that I am. :cool:

Offline Bangers and Gash

He's putting her in a difficult position by making a booking it might be awkward for her to turn down.

Bullshit. A quick one line text and it's all done and dusted.
No one is forcing this pro$$ie to take his money, but she takes it anyway. Why? because it's a 1000 times easier than getting a proper fucking job.

 :hi:

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I always swap funny punting stories with WG's (if they can speak English, hahahaha)

No names, no pack drill.  It makes me realise that whatever fucked up shit is in my mind, I'm Vanilla compared to some punters.

Rod trotter

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Weird cos most of the girls on UKE say they love the sex and arent acting..hmmm  :lol: