Corsair sorry to hear of this but so much has been written on Ukp of this lady. She's had her day I am afraid to say.
Why oh why have you gone back for more after being let down the first time, then again.
Ukp also go on about never pay anything upfront ..ever !
There are so many tales on here of guys who loan money for this, give money for that etc etc but it just all ends in tears. Just pay to Fuck n Go that's all
For an established member I do think you must have had the hots for her to be so stupid as you state.
How much have you lost then ?