There's so much more involved in a good facial, for me anyway. I agree with the abstaining before thing for 3-4 days. Apparently, there's no more volume acquired by abstaining for longer - it just gets re-absorbed. I don't know enough about the supplements to discuss that, but I do find that if the period of abstinence is preceded by coming regularly every 2 days at least, then I'm raring to go on the day because my body has become accustomed to coming every day or 2 days. I like the girl to finish me off though and this is where the variables arise. I will come a lot but she may hold it too close to her, so I can't see it properly or she may direct it on her neck rather than face or she leans back too much. Another thing, I find that I come more and more intensely if she slows down and speeds up several times before going quicker just before I come. Some are experts, others need to be taught. I go to see a girl regularly who is amazing at this technique but she doesn't allow facial. However, it's not that big an issue. I'm looking for a black girl who does filming and facial. If anyone has been to see one let me know.