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Author Topic: Punting should really be a Simple Hobby  (Read 2063 times)

Offline Rod trotter


its a need, a need you have to pay for
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Offline Hertsgent

I'm almost a short and sweet text person and on the day - rarely get problems and ensures I'm in the mood. Generally only those I've seen before that I might book in advance.

I heard somewhere that WGs consider punters that converse with brevity are a more reliable bet. I reserve any flirtatious stuff for post punt thanks or a preamble forWGs I've seen before.

Offline Sonny Crockett

I appreciate peoples different viewpoints as to what they think punting is. I myself punt because I love having sex, therefore I consider sex as a pastime for me which I engage in if I am in the mood, or book certain days off work in order to pursue this pastime. Like some hobbies it does cost money, however if I have a great time then I consider it money well spent, plus I feel that my day has been fulfilled.
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Offline Clarkson

The OP to the thread is what kicks it, in my view its right and its the one area where some guys fuck it up for the others

However what punting should not be is a science, or feel like a career of sorts where getting a meet is like going for a job interview where you write Lovey Dovey e-mails and worry about obtaining feedback from other escorts just so that you can see more escorts. It should also not be a hobby where you are messed around at certain times and worry about whether you want be seen by the lady and then go on and send more e-mails or texts that become long winded flirts/grovelling just in the hope that the lady gets back you with a positive response or feel assured your booking. With a few escorts, arranging a punt is basically exchanging love letters over a period of weeks or months. Punting should not be that at all. All it does is create mental baggage and set you up for disappointments when things don't go positively.  :thumbsdown:

Most punters probably same as you Sonny just want to keep it simple.   :music: 
But some are interfering White Night fluffy cunts thinking they can help the poor distressed damsel in one way or other. If they fuck off most of that unnecessary bollocks sort itself out. 

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Offline Sonny Crockett

I must admit that this year alone I wracked myself with worry over whether a lady that I had just meet via booking on AW, would leave me feedback. There were two AW meets where I was not left feedback in return. Not a good thing to go through after a meet, especially when you feel that you have had a good time. Worrying about feedback does take the simple, fun element out of punting, made worse by ladies insisting that YOU must have feedback before you meet them (and there is one I know that actually hides her feedback and yet insists she will only see clients with feedback). A punter should not be made to feel that they must hunt for feedback.

For me, that is another disadvantage of making advance bookings.
« Last Edit: November 07, 2015, 11:12:32 AM by Sonny Crockett »
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I must admit that this year alone I wracked myself with worry over whether a lady that I had just meet via booking on AW, would leave me feedback. There were two AW meets where I was not left feedback in return. Not a good thing to go through after a meet, especially when you feel that you have had a good time. Worrying about feedback does take the simple, fun element out of punting, made worse by ladies insisting that YOU must have feedback before you meet them (and there is one I know that actually hides her feedback and yet insists she will only see clients with feedback). A punter should not be made to feel that they must hunt for feedback.

For me, that is another disadvantage of making advance bookings.

When I leave feedback after what I think has been an enjoyable punt, if I don't get feedback in return then I won't bother seeing that prossie again. It's not hard to leave feedback, so I just assume that they don't want to see me again & move on. Positive feedback tells me that they don't mind seeing me again & I've no problem spending my cash on them if the mood takes.

Sonny, I can understand your disappointment if you don't get feedback after what you think has been an enjoyable punt but there's so many prossies out there, just move on mate, it's not worth the stress & worry that will effect you negatively.
« Last Edit: November 07, 2015, 12:56:28 PM by Two tone »

I wonder if this is a geography thing. Here in London, I can just call a WG with 1-2 hours notice to have a good punt because there are so many service providers in one place. I wonder if in places where there are not as many WGs, they feel able to make potential customers jump through more hoops to get a better feel of the guy beforehand as well as to be more picky about who they see.

Offline od13218

An addiction
Certainly can be. Personally I find I have to really watch myself- every now and then I get carried away with a "binge" (3-4 in a week when I can only really afford 2-3 a month) - which in fact I've just done with 3 punts in 4 days. I think it has huge addictive potential, certainly.
Doug

I wonder if this is a geography thing. Here in London, I can just call a WG with 1-2 hours notice to have a good punt because there are so many service providers in one place. I wonder if in places where there are not as many WGs, they feel able to make potential customers jump through more hoops to get a better feel of the guy beforehand as well as to be more picky about who they see.

I really think someone could write a book on this subject 'The Joy of Punting'. Great thread by the way, AW feedback is a nightmare, you can build up 20 fb from the best girls out there then have it all ruined because you see a trollop. Wgs focus on the bad not the good. I get more and more disillusioned with some of the hoops you have to go through. I agree that except for a couple that I have built up trust with, I am making 2016 the year of the same day booking, no build up, no bullshit, no unanswered emails.

And if that fails 2017,  I am going back to agencies, order at 4, fucking at 5.  Where I started. Simples   :cool:

Offline purple_t

Eh II haven't found punting to be too complicated.
The hardest part isn't the comms, its sifting through tons of shit profiles and obvious scams to find the gems

Offline Nagilum

I mean all it should really consist of is contacting the lady to see if they are available for the date and time you want to see them, and which services you would like (I myself only ask for anal (as I really love anal) as I appreciate the lady has to prepare in advance). They say yes or no. If yes booking is arranged, confirmed and location details given (If there's no answer or lady answers no, move on). You travel to the punt, you see the lady, you pay her the right amount, you have great sex, and you leave as Happy as Larry and continue with your normal life.  :yahoo:

However what punting should not be is a science, or feel like a career of sorts where getting a meet is like going for a job interview where you write Lovey Dovey e-mails and worry about obtaining feedback from other escorts just so that you can see more escorts. It should also not be a hobby where you are messed around at certain times and worry about whether you want be seen by the lady and then go on and send more e-mails or texts that become long winded flirts/grovelling just in the hope that the lady gets back you with a positive response or feel assured your booking. With a few escorts, arranging a punt is basically exchanging love letters over a period of weeks or months. Punting should not be that at all. All it does is create mental baggage and set you up for disappointments when things don't go positively.  :thumbsdown:

With it being a simple contact, meet and pay arrangement - with a hopefully positive outcome - then punting is a Simple Hobby which becomes a Fantastic Hobby!!  :yahoo: :dance:

No lovey dovey stuff from me, very much to the point with a couple questions and then an arrangement. I tend not to send texts or emails aside from on the day itself.

But getting feedback AW is painful as escorts forget.

Offline Agent W

The hardest part isn't the comms, it's sifting through tons of shit profiles and obvious scams to find the gems

+1

The most frustrating thing for me is the vague list of incall locations in AW profiles. It's never just "Manor House", it's always "Seven Sisters, Manor House, Finsbury, Wood Green, Bounds Green, City of London" or something. My entire sex life needs to take place on the way home from work or possibly at the weekend if I can combine it convincingly with a gym trip, but always against the clock and risking awkward questions if I'm late back, so this means a phone call/email/text along the lines of "Hi X, love your profile, whereabouts are you for incalls because out of the six places you listed I can make make two and I don't believe one of those" (well maybe a bit friendlier than that), to which I get a reply about 25% of the time.

I've never liked making phone calls, and the whole "Hi is that Sabrina, I was just admiring your Adultwork profile" conversation can be tricky to say the least from either work or home, so I massively prefer text/email at least until we've introduced ourselves.

I really wish AW made service providers pick one actual location off a list, to save me hunting through interview questions and field reports for clues.

+1

The most frustrating thing for me is the vague list of incall locations in AW profiles. It's never just "Manor House", it's always "Seven Sisters, Manor House, Finsbury, Wood Green, Bounds Green, City of London" or something. My entire sex life needs to take place on the way home from work or possibly at the weekend if I can combine it convincingly with a gym trip, but always against the clock and risking awkward questions if I'm late back, so this means a phone call/email/text along the lines of "Hi X, love your profile, whereabouts are you for incalls because out of the six places you listed I can make make two and I don't believe one of those" (well maybe a bit friendlier than that), to which I get a reply about 25% of the time.

I've never liked making phone calls, and the whole "Hi is that Sabrina, I was just admiring your Adultwork profile" conversation can be tricky to say the least from either work or home, so I massively prefer text/email at least until we've introduced ourselves.

I really wish AW made service providers pick one actual location off a list, to save me hunting through interview questions and field reports for clues.
Have you tried the postcode proximity search ?  Not sure how well it works in London but works damn fine here !

Have you tried the postcode proximity search ?  Not sure how well it works in London but works damn fine here !

Rose Cottage, Leominster.  Address and locale to die for. Wish she hadn't moved  :cry:

Rose Cottage, Leominster.  Address and locale to die for. Wish she hadn't moved  :cry:
So you have 12 toes with a HR6 postcode !

Offline od13218

+1

The most frustrating thing for me is the vague list of incall locations in AW profiles. It's never just "Manor House", it's always "Seven Sisters, Manor House, Finsbury, Wood Green, Bounds Green, City of London" or something. My entire sex life needs to take place on the way home from work or possibly at the weekend if I can combine it convincingly with a gym trip, but always against the clock and risking awkward questions if I'm late back, so this means a phone call/email/text along the lines of "Hi X, love your profile, whereabouts are you for incalls because out of the six places you listed I can make make two and I don't believe one of those" (well maybe a bit friendlier than that), to which I get a reply about 25% of the time.

I've never liked making phone calls, and the whole "Hi is that Sabrina, I was just admiring your Adultwork profile" conversation can be tricky to say the least from either work or home, so I massively prefer text/email at least until we've introduced ourselves.

I really wish AW made service providers pick one actual location off a list, to save me hunting through interview questions and field reports for clues.
Ditto- sometimes I think these profiles are written as if we're all gentleman of leisure who can plan a visit 2 weeks in advance at any location of the WG's choosing! Do they not realise how crucial the *actual* location is?
Doug

Offline oldrunter

I have to take a somewhat scientific apparoach to punting.
Being both retired and together at home a lot with my wife my main alibi is my golf.

I really have to watch the weather forecast for the day i wish to punt as she would question my sanity going to golf if it is pissing it down.
As a 5 day member only(mon-Fri) i can't get away weekends or indeed evenings either.
Much easier in the Summer for me as usually we get more dry days.
AS you can see it's not easy to be spontaneous but i do occasionaly manage to book a girl on same day.

It was much easier when we both used to work,especially as i used to work shifts so had much more flexibility.

Still as old as i am(67)with the help of a blue pill i can't shake off the urge to get to grips with a bit of younger flesh now and then. :P 

Offline Agent W

Have you tried the postcode proximity search ?  Not sure how well it works in London but works damn fine here !

I've found it a bit hit and miss TBH. For top-level postcodes like "N19" it calculates a radius around some notional central point which is never quite where I need it to be, so I have to run searches for two or three neighbouring postcodes and attempt to triangulate. There is an option to enter a more detailed postcode through a fiddly interface but I've never had much success with it, and the "use my location" feature has never worked at all. Also there are a lot of possible locations along my route home and it is much harder to do detailed searches for every single tube station etc than it would be just to browse accurate profiles. Even when I do get a selection of search hits, I still have to contact the SP to confirm and I'm back to the tricky phone call or 25% reply rate email system.

Offline Agent W

Still as old as i am(67)with the help of a blue pill i can't shake off the urge to get to grips with a bit of younger flesh now and then.

Good to hear it.

I'm a little younger, but I still sometimes wish there was another pill that put you in the mood to take the blue pill.

I've found it a bit hit and miss TBH. For top-level postcodes like "N19" it calculates a radius around some notional central point which is never quite where I need it to be, so I have to run searches for two or three neighbouring postcodes and attempt to triangulate. There is an option to enter a more detailed postcode through a fiddly interface but I've never had much success with it, and the "use my location" feature has never worked at all. Also there are a lot of possible locations along my route home and it is much harder to do detailed searches for every single tube station etc than it would be just to browse accurate profiles. Even when I do get a selection of search hits, I still have to contact the SP to confirm and I'm back to the tricky phone call or 25% reply rate email system.
Just an idea do a text search using specific words, clicking the words dot and put tube station names in or place names, they seem to load that town field up but mention the venue only in the text area.



Offline oldrunter

Good to hear it.

I'm a little younger, but I still sometimes wish there was another pill that put you in the mood to take the blue pill.

Cheers Agent. :)

Yeah i know what you mean i sometimes get the urge to book one day and then on the actual day of the meet the old libido drops.
I have more than once struggled to fuck the girl when i get there and have had to content myself with lot's of foreplay and oral etc.

If i can i prefer to book on the day for that reason as much as it needing to be dry weather for golf.

Bloody old age eh. :rolleyes:

Cheers Agent. :)

Yeah i know what you mean i sometimes get the urge to book one day and then on the actual day of the meet the old libido drops.
I have more than once struggled to fuck the girl when i get there and have had to content myself with lot's of foreplay and oral etc.

If i can i prefer to book on the day for that reason as much as it needing to be dry weather for golf.

Bloody old age eh. :rolleyes:

It is definitely a mindset, only had a floppy once but it was with a girl that I had had the most anticipation for. Wonder if that is the reason, you build it up in your mind only to fail. Another girl was spur of the moment and I shafted her like a 20 year old.  :unknown:

It is a simple pastime if you use parlours.Really couldn't be bothered with all that text,email,vetting crap.When I feel like a grope and poke it has to be spontaneous,same day.

Offline LL

It's not a hobby. It's a character trait.


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