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Author Topic: Booking on the Day or Booking in Advance  (Read 1176 times)

Offline Sonny Crockett

Since I returned to punting in April 2014 I have either booked my punts on the very or a few days/couple of weeks in advance, depending on the girl that I was interested in. Both seem to have their advantages and disadvantages.

The big advantage with booking on the day is that there is less room for messing about when I make the arrangements. Once you speak to or text the lady to ask about their availability for the same day at a certain time and they come back, the answer is mostly a simple one (Yes or No). Once agreed, booking is made and location details are given. Bobs Your Uncle and you make the journey to the lady's place. This makes my punting life simple and hassle free. The disadvantage is mainly you may have to go through a few lady's if they don't answer the phone or your text. Of course that disadvantage is quickly remedied by contacting the next girl and getting a booking.

However if I wanted to punt with a popular, well reviewed WG and one that was miles away from my home town/region, then booking in advance via AW is a huge advantage. This is of course is only successful if the lady you contact has excellent comms where she gets back to you quickly with a positive answer, you make a booking request, and she acknowledges the request either by marking it "scheduled" or "confirmed". If the booking is acknowledged, then you feel assured that all is good and come the day of the booking you contact the lady for location details (though in my booking experiences this year, 3 WGs gave me their location details as soon as they acknowledged my booking request... what stands out is that those ladies were older escorts). With an advance booking made in the right way, I am assured and look forward to my punt. Also I can plan my travel arrangements accordingly.

The big disadvantage I find with trying to book in advance is that the whole thing can become a waiting game where the lady (who is inefficient and disorganised) may not reply for days or not at all. It can also become a pretty tiring and frustrating process where the if the lady reads the e-mail but doesn't respond, and you are still interested in seeing them, you then send another e-mail in the hope of a favorable response and the process starts again. You end up wondering whether those ladies really want to see you. It becomes a frustrating and tiresome process. I also had one experience where once a date and time was agreed with a WG and I made a booking request on AW, the WG never acknowledged the request, and I often had to ask her to acknowledge it.

I know there are a few girls, well reviewed on UKP, where you would have to go through months of contacting them and messing around with dates just to get a booking. To me it is like writing an extended love letter. I certainly would not want put myself through this process and wait until the earth's landmasses have merged into one giant super-continent before finally getting a meet with them. 

Booking in advance can also create a lot of anger where come to the day of the punt that you had booked a few days before, the lady herself never contacts you to give her location details, all the while you are making your journey to city/town she's based in, according to AW (this scenario happened to me three times). Also a cancellation of a punt that booked in advance on the very day is an even bigger frustration compared to cancellation of a punt booked on the same day, mainly because you have spent days looking forward to that punt. Also I feel that given the length of time between making the booking and the day of the punt itself, there is far more room for messing about.

Overall given my experiences over the last 18 months, I now very much prefer to book my punts on the very day as it makes my punting life simple and hassle free where I don't have to worry whether my booking is going ahead or not.
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Offline mslstoy

Mixture of the two, I don't like cancelling a lady (my chivalry coming out...) so I only ever book when I know I'll be free. This means that I normally phone on the day when I'm sure that I can visit the lady in question.
However if there is a lady I really like the sound of them I'll book in advance (especially if she's popular and/or a long way away) I already have a Christmas present booked for December (can't wait to unwrap her  :dance:)
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I have resigned myself to same days, have insane insomnia and planning anything really messed with bookings making me look bad. Now have the good manners never to book in advance and it saves my disappointment. 

Still have loads of good punts, but have by ace card an outcall venue which levels the field for me, there are some great part time outcall girls if you catch them on the right day.

Shoud try and sleep I suppose !  :cry:

Offline DG

My experience is that my worst punts have come from same day bookings. If you know a girl then that's not normally a problem, but potentially they are available at short notice for a reason. I usually book a week or so in advance, as much to do with my logistics as anything, but, as happened to me this week, more time for something to go wrong. But generally I prefer to book in advance.
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Offline Steve2

It's on the day for me by phone. If they are not available then I am happy to move onto plan B or C

Occasionally I've booked Xena a day in advance as she became almost too popular and same day bookings were almost impossible

Offline Mr Br1ghts1de

Since I returned to punting in April 2014 I have either booked my punts on the very or a few days/couple of weeks in advance, depending on the girl that I was interested in. Both seem to have their advantages and disadvantages.

The big advantage with booking on the day is that there is less room for messing about when I make the arrangements. Once you speak to or text the lady to ask about their availability for the same day at a certain time and they come back, the answer is mostly a simple one (Yes or No). Once agreed, booking is made and location details are given. Bobs Your Uncle and you make the journey to the lady's place. This makes my punting life simple and hassle free. The disadvantage is mainly you may have to go through a few lady's if they don't answer the phone or your text. Of course that disadvantage is quickly remedied by contacting the next girl and getting a booking.

However if I wanted to punt with a popular, well reviewed WG and one that was miles away from my home town/region, then booking in advance via AW is a huge advantage. This is of course is only successful if the lady you contact has excellent comms where she gets back to you quickly with a positive answer, you make a booking request, and she acknowledges the request either by marking it "scheduled" or "confirmed". If the booking is acknowledged, then you feel assured that all is good and come the day of the booking you contact the lady for location details (though in my booking experiences this year, 3 WGs gave me their location details as soon as they acknowledged my booking request... what stands out is that those ladies were older escorts). With an advance booking made in the right way, I am assured and look forward to my punt. Also I can plan my travel arrangements accordingly.

The big disadvantage I find with trying to book in advance is that the whole thing can become a waiting game where the lady (who is inefficient and disorganised) may not reply for days or not at all. It can also become a pretty tiring and frustrating process where the if the lady reads the e-mail but doesn't respond, and you are still interested in seeing them, you then send another e-mail in the hope of a favorable response and the process starts again. You end up wondering whether those ladies really want to see you. It becomes a frustrating and tiresome process. I also had one experience where once a date and time was agreed with a WG and I made a booking request on AW, the WG never acknowledged the request, and I often had to ask her to acknowledge it.

I know there are a few girls, well reviewed on UKP, where you would have to go through months of contacting them and messing around with dates just to get a booking. To me it is like writing an extended love letter. I certainly would not want put myself through this process and wait until the earth's landmasses have merged into one giant super-continent before finally getting a meet with them. 

Booking in advance can also create a lot of anger where come to the day of the punt that you had booked a few days before, the lady herself never contacts you to give her location details, all the while you are making your journey to city/town she's based in, according to AW (this scenario happened to me three times). Also a cancellation of a punt that booked in advance on the very day is an even bigger frustration compared to cancellation of a punt booked on the same day, mainly because you have spent days looking forward to that punt. Also I feel that given the length of time between making the booking and the day of the punt itself, there is far more room for messing about.

Overall given my experiences over the last 18 months, I now very much prefer to book my punts on the very day as it makes my punting life simple and hassle free where I don't have to worry whether my booking is going ahead or not.

Now, I wonder why I feel able to comment on this post  :D

I mix up my punting between the 2 approaches - booking in advance with well reviewed girls and booking on the day with less reviewed girls. Both approaches have generally worked very well for me, but you make an excellent summary of the pro's and con's.

I think the key to booking in advance is know your girl.

Michelle Independent, Hayley, Dee and Ameera are very popular girls here, but all are excellent with their comms and give you every confidence from the outset that you will have a reliable booking. Irrespective of your AW feedback, I fancy these girls would get back to you promptly one way or the other, but don't quote me on that.

I also found that Miss KDD, another hugely popular girl, was excellent with her comms with me. That I had AW feedback from Lindsey, a girl she knows well, may have helped.

Others are more difficult. 

Adele4u was difficult, but I have found her very good since her return, but then that may be because I am a returning client. 

Little Katie, and certainly Lindsey are part time girls, inundated with requests. They can afford to select their clients and may often do so based on the client's imagination and what they might be up for and whether that appeals to them - versus all the other plain requests they no doubt get. Both struggle with comms and when you do get a booking it does feel like Christmas. And (in my case) you do invest a lot of time, thought, planning and imagination into the booking, because you want the very best possible experience with the very best girls out there (in my experience). I have been hugely rewarded by both for my efforts in seeing them, but as my most recent experience with LK goes to show, the frustration of being cancelled twice (and then left to hang) is as frustrating and annoying as punting gets, believe me.       
 

 

Offline MintRoyale

When I started I did spontaneous punts but some recent punts had to be booked weeks in advance which kinda made the session slightly odd as my libido might not have been at top levels.  Once I realised this, I do short couple of days in advance bookings.

Planning to have sex much in advance made it less exciting.

Offline GreyDave

 :hi: On the day close to time as poss, due to the fact the only bookings I have made well in advance  ... where alll cancelled I`ll try and make a provisional booking and leave it with I`l ring again to reconfirm but after several wasted hour plus trips to see Big titters ( all english) who cancelled these days its spur of the hour or my weekend hobby of the Soho walkups :cool: :cool: just knock and if you like sit and wait your turn :D :D

Offline Jeremy

I often book in the afternoon/evening for a punt the next day, I find in many ways that's the best of both worlds. Short enough for you to get a definite answer and less time wasted waiting if they do cancel.  Of course it does rely on the girl/her pimp actually bothering to respond to messages on a daily basis.

If punting locally I call on the day when the need arises (ahem). If going to town I call roughly a week beforehand to ensure I can get the time and day I want. As it is a 1+ trip on the train to get into London I give plenty of notice to plan things.

Offline Marmalade

booking two weeks in advance? I am slightly surprised to hear that as a lot of prossies don't seem to be able to keep to anything planned that far in advance. I mostly do 'on the day' but with a popular woman try to give her a day or two notice.

On the day for me. Unless I know I'm going on a trip and want to recce in advance, in which case I'll sometimes book the day before though usually confirm on the day.

I have little confidence that most providers could be reliably booked further in advance - and I like to be spontaneous about making a booking anyway.

Offline DannyJames

Nearly all of my punts have been booked on the day. I need to know that I'm feeling well enough and that in the mood for it, I can't guarantee that if I book in advance. Although it's been that long since I had a punt...

Offline SamLP

I only book on the day. I made an exception once with Xena to book her the following morning after she had told me she was fully booked for the day.

I did try to book another popular girl a day or two in advance one time but she was fully booked.

I also only book a girl over the phone. No AW email or online bookings so that limits me to the profiles that display a number.

I always used to do advance bookings to make sure I got the time & day I wanted, especially as I travel quite some distance to punt & only have a very narrow window of opportunity to take advantage off.

Generally this has been successful for me, but as already been commented on, I have found myself punting when I really haven't been in the mood, so recently I've been booking the day before, knowing I'm randy & this has worked really well.

I still have a limited window of opportunity, so have a particular day in mind even if it's a week or two away, but only make the booking just before. I find that this is now what I'm going to do unless I would like to see one of the busier ladies, which might take some more planning.

Online Bud$

My problem is I never know if I'm going to feel like it tomorrow, or the next day, never mind in one week and having honed my practises in the days of flats (call them brothels if you want) when I'd just turn up, see who was there and move on if she didn't suit me, I suppose I'm still in that zone of punting. Having said that, I really have to book in advance these days, and have hardly ever been let down, although I've very occasionally called the girl on the day to say I won't be able to make it.

Offline Marmalade

Reading some of these posts i have to agree it takes the spontaneity out of it to book a long way in advance. I'm trying to think of domething else that demands spontaneity. I suppose if i said to someone, can you tell me a joke at 4.35pm this time next week and i promise to drop everything I'm doing and be ready to laugh.

It really doesn't matter to the prossie, who's just running a conveyor belt and at the times she can be bothered getting out of her bed -- something that is also often not that reliable. They want clients to be 'grateful' -- like making an appointment with a swiss banker.

I think it's maybe a reason i use saunas at least as often as AW indies. Not that they're better. Just that I can't be bothered with all the rigmarole of waiting on her pleasure to see if i can have my pleasure. At least at a sauna there's no pretence: they're on shift, and all a client has to do is turn up when he feels like it, have a cup of tea, point, shoot and leave. (Thank goodness for honest prossies.)

Online stayer

As most of my punts are with well-known WGs, I usually find that I have to book days in advance. That doesn't surprise me as they are busy because they are good. It's like not getting a good plumber at short notice.

Offline od13218

For me, it's almost always on the day only, because opportunities to punt are not always predictable- I often have to seize the moment when it arises. In any case I like to act on impulse- I usually punt when I just feel incredibly horny and have to empty my sack as soon as possible!
But each to their own of course!
Doug

Offline Players Only

I can't do bookings in advance, as I may not be in the mood at that time on the day or busy.... I usually need to do a last minute booking.

Otherwise fucking when you ain't horny ain't really that good!!!
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I nearly always book at least a day in advance, sometimes a week.

On the occasions I have tried same day, I can never seem to book anyone from my hotlist and have found it better to have a wank rather than make bad choices simply because they are available.

Offline Marmalade

It depends a lot on the prossie. Some get booked up quickly for the half hour that they can be bothered to get out of their pit, especially when they've had decent reviews. Some are both excellent at comms and organised enough to fit a punter in at short notice. Sometimes I think why ruin it by posting a headline review. Just say yeah she's quite good or tip off a few like-minded honest punters by PM.


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