Uncle Sweetheart is correct. Read and educate yourself about BDSM before you make presumptions about submissives. Everything I do in my bookings is safe, sane and consensual. Who are you to dictate what I should and shouldn't get turned on by? (Rhetorical question of course)
You can do what ever you like little Katie and play out whatever fantasies that make you the money but my point is what he said in the so called review about choking you, slapping you and spitting in your face or whatever it is, most wg's I doubt would enjoy being chocked and slapped about most avoid that kind of thing.
But that is up to you what you offer but if a punter took it a bit far and you got injured I doubt you would get much sympathy reporting it to the police or reporting it on SAFFE because uncle sweet hearts review reads your up for that.
But of course up to you if you like being perceived like that and up to you if you do get someone that takes it too far.