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Author Topic: Options for first punt  (Read 927 times)

Offline Majestic

I'll admit, I am new to this but after my marriage breakup left me questioning if I want to get in a serious relationship again, I have been enjoying being single. However, there comes a time when your other head starts saying "Hay, don't forget me"!

I've hopefully picked up a few pointers and tips during my time lurking here, but I'm not sure about whether to arrange a punt through an agency/AW or just go to a Soho walkup. This is how I see it although there are probably things I haven't listed.

Agency/AW - You get more time to relax and to do more things, but the costs are higher. I would also hope that the flat/house/hotel is nicer but then I've read people having trouble with cancelations etc.

Soho Walkup - Walk up the stairs (or down in one case) and unless she is busy, I would guess it is guaranteed and the costs are lower. However, the time is short and the flat is probably less than "comfortable".

Although I have mentioned costs, £100/£150 isn't a problem, it was more from the point of view of money spent if I didn't enjoy it. So if I can muster the nerves to do it (yes I'm shy), what are your opinions on the above two options?

Offline Deviant

Start in Soho and build yourself up slowly to the better quality/pricey punts would be my advice.

Punting is a good distraction in your situation. Far better than drink or drugs. You get to stay sober and clear headed at a time in your life when you need to keep your wits about you.
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Offline Atticus Finch

Start in Soho and build yourself up slowly to the better quality/pricey punts would be my advice.


Disagree.  They are totally different experiences, so you should go with whichever appeals to you most.
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Offline Sonny Crockett

I say go with what you most prefer and see how it goes. :hi:
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Offline AnthG

For your first punt my advice would be to do one of

a. Look at the posts in your region to find your regions golden girls (there will be about 3 or so girls that everyone raves about in the region you live). They will not only be great bookings, but also know how to deal with new people to the industry. Book one of them,

Or

b. A more steadfast way is to just set a day for your first punt. So Monday 2nd November for example and then just look at an agency in your region and phone up and book any girl that looks nice who is working that day.

I wouldn't recommend doing walk ups as they would be pretty daunting for even a seasoned person never mind for a first punt. I would wait till you are experienced in the standard booking types before trying stuff like that.

Offline OakTree

If you are particularly nervous and shy you may well be better going with an experienced WG that's well reviewed on here. Once you're up and running so to speak you may well prefer walk ups. At least if you go with a well reviewed girl it's more likely to be a positive experience.

I went via an agency for my first, was glad I did as it meant I wasn't stressing about calling a WG directly and arranging the details for that first time - and meant that there were no surprises!

Depends what type of experience you're after...

I would actually recommend finding an agency girl for your first foray into this. Providing you choose well (search here for any bad reports) the reception staff will take any hassle out of the punt.  And then once you've got over that, maybe broaden your horizons.

I wouldn't do a walk-up on the first go. A lot can go wrong with them which would be awful for a punter making his debut to deal with.

I don't use agencies myself, but they do take out the stress of doing all the organisation yourself.

If you are worried about cost and whether you would enjoy it, you could always go with a 30min punt on your first go, once you get what its like in practise, move up to an hour.

Best of luck whatever you do.  :hi:

Offline Malvolio

I suggest you pick someone you like the look of from Adultwork who has good reviews, rather than dive straight into Soho, which in my view is only good if you're looking to empty your balls inside a woman for as little cost as possible.

I strongly suggest you don't drink any alcohol beforehand, even if you are nervous.  If driving to the punt, park in an adjacent road.  Also take a read of the 'new to punting' info on the PuntingWiki.

Offline Majestic

Thanks for all of the advice so far.

I think you've confirmed my feelings on Soho and using an agency does sound like a good idea as it takes a lot of the stress out. I have been having a look at AW and there are some girls on there that I like the look of so that isn't fully out of the equation. Sounds like I'll be doing a bit more looking and then asking in the relevant regional sections  :)

With agencies, how much of an issue is Photoshop with the images and will you ever get an idea of what an agency girl looks like compared to an independent who may use more realistic photos?

Thanks for all of the advice so far.

I think you've confirmed my feelings on Soho and using an agency does sound like a good idea as it takes a lot of the stress out. I have been having a look at AW and there are some girls on there that I like the look of so that isn't fully out of the equation. Sounds like I'll be doing a bit more looking and then asking in the relevant regional sections  :)

With agencies, how much of an issue is Photoshop with the images and will you ever get an idea of what an agency girl looks like compared to an independent who may use more realistic photos?

A lot of agency girls actually have reviews on here, that's how I ended up choosing. If you find an agency you like the look of, have a search here first and you might find there are reviews to help you decide! Photoshop is an issue on AW as much as anywhere tbh.

Offline Majestic

Just thought I would pop back and say thanks for all of the advice. I went for an agency in the end just so that I didn't have to worry about the organisation side. Although this punting business seems to be a slippery slope as I have also had my 2nd, 3rd.............. erm ............. 4th punt with the 5th already planned for the first week of next year  :roll eyes:

I'm going to write a couple of reviews, but not for the first couple as I didn't really have anything to compare them too as considering my ex wife didn't exactly put her back into things in the bedroom department and had less suck than a vacuum with no motor, anything was going to be better! Just if your interest, only the first was through an agency, the others have been through AW.

Hopefully my sensible head can give me and my bank account a rest now before January :)

Offline willbred

Just thought I would pop back and say thanks for all of the advice. I went for an agency in the end just so that I didn't have to worry about the organisation side. Although this punting business seems to be a slippery slope as I have also had my 2nd, 3rd.............. erm ............. 4th punt with the 5th already planned for the first week of next year  :roll eyes:

I'm going to write a couple of reviews, but not for the first couple as I didn't really have anything to compare them too as considering my ex wife didn't exactly put her back into things in the bedroom department and had less suck than a vacuum with no motor, anything was going to be better! Just if your interest, only the first was through an agency, the others have been through AW.

Hopefully my sensible head can give me and my bank account a rest now before January :)

Welcome to the world of punting. Sounds like you'll soon be one of us "old hands" giving other members advice. Well done...enjoy   :hi:
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Offline uutarn

Ha, its a slippery slope indeed.
But in my experience once you get the initial excitement out of the way (ie; 2 per week for example) it then settles down, the urge to punt that is.
I mean that i still feel like punting a lot, but its easier to control, though this is my experience and i'm sure it differs for everyone; there are a couple of threads about it.

Use the logic part of the brain, not the emotional part :hi:.

Offline Majestic

I can agree that the "initial excitement" has played a factor and that two punts in a week may have already happened  :roll eyes: In my defence though, after I started going through a divorce, I gave myself a self-inflicted (for a valid reason) ban from women for 4 years. As that is now out of the way, I have had a lot of "frustration" to get rid of  :D

Looking back at the first one though, it was quite funny. I was bricking it because being quite shy, I tend to take a while until I feel comfortable with people who I don't know and on the day I also start worrying about if I'll be to nervous to get it up. Once I'm in the door though and the thoughts of "christ she is fit" start running around my head, I'm undressing in front of a woman I've never seen before on her bed before the quickest shower I have probably ever had.

I can say though that I have also learnt that there is a difference between a WG who will just try to get you to finish quickly with the least amount of work and those who make the effort to give you a good time.

Offline cueball

Hopefully my sensible head can give me and my bank account a rest now before January :)

Good luck with that one  :D

Welcome to ukp by the way  :hi:

Offline tonysoprano

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Look at the posts in your region to find your regions golden girls (there will be about 3 or so girls that everyone raves about in the region you live). They will not only be great bookings, but also know how to deal with new people to the industry. Book one of them,
That's good advice. My first punt was with an established WG who was brilliant. I ended up going back later the same day for another session!

With all the info that's out there now you can take your time, pick someone decent and you'll almost certainly have a better experience.

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Offline Majestic

With all the info that's out there now you can take your time, pick someone decent and you'll almost certainly have a better experience.
Thats what I did for my second time and that was also what I was referring to when I said about WG's who do the bear minimum and those who put the effort in  :thumbs: One is already off my AW hot list after reading a review here as well.

Hopefully now that the initial excitement is running out, I can be sensible and pick decent ones because while I don't have to be overly careful with money, £100 - £150 for a bad hour is still quite a lot.

Offline tonysoprano

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Hopefully now that the initial excitement is running out, I can be sensible and pick decent ones because while I don't have to be overly careful with money, £100 - £150 for a bad hour is still quite a lot.

It is, so you may as well take your time and get value for that money. Once you've got a bit of experience you can always branch out a bit and take a chance on lesser known girls.
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Offline Nagilum

Thats what I did for my second time and that was also what I was referring to when I said about WG's who do the bear minimum and those who put the effort in  :thumbs: One is already off my AW hot list after reading a review here as well.

Hopefully now that the initial excitement is running out, I can be sensible and pick decent ones because while I don't have to be overly careful with money, £100 - £150 for a bad hour is still quite a lot.

It certainly is a lot, but don't be deceived and think the more you pay the better. I have had great punts at £80.

It depends what you want. Being shy I can assume you want a girl who will be bubbly and relax you with her charm. Some may not like that so asking questions is important, especially when it's a positive review.

The euphoria will die down and with experience you will become picky and eventual establish a network of regular girls.

branch out a bit and take a chance on lesser known girls.
There us lots of fun in that, so many are to scared to take the chance though and stay with cotton wool punting !

I can agree that the "initial excitement" has played a factor and that two punts in a week may have already happened  :roll eyes: In my defence though, after I started going through a divorce, I gave myself a self-inflicted (for a valid reason) ban from women for 4 years. As that is now out of the way, I have had a lot of "frustration" to get rid of  :D

Looking back at the first one though, it was quite funny. I was bricking it because being quite shy, I tend to take a while until I feel comfortable with people who I don't know and on the day I also start worrying about if I'll be to nervous to get it up. Once I'm in the door though and the thoughts of "christ she is fit" start running around my head, I'm undressing in front of a woman I've never seen before on her bed before the quickest shower I have probably ever had.

I can say though that I have also learnt that there is a difference between a WG who will just try to get you to finish quickly with the least amount of work and those who make the effort to give you a good time.

Agreed, I chose a very good looking English woman with great photos for my first punt who gave me an okay time but realised attitude is everything when I had my third punt with a Hungarian MILF type who ravaged me. Make sure you book a woman who understands the value of service and who genuinely tries for you. It'll make a world of difference.

Offline JAYZ

I spent over a year looking at Agency websites (I didn't know of the existance of AW) and after searching through reviews saw a beautiful 20yr old Welsh girl. I was very nervous, but she despite her tender years was very mature. I saw her on two further occasions.

Offline Buttons

I chose a highly rated and well reviewed local independent for my first punt. Mind you, it took  good few months to build the courage to make the booking, and confirming by phone that morning was a nerve racking 30min of nearly dealing the number and then not.

I was honest up front and said it was my first time with an escort and the lady in question was very understanding and supportive. Just be honest about what you expect from the meeting and your lack of experience. Choose a lady carefully, one that is well reviewed here, and keep it simple in terms of services. You can go try the more advanced kinky stuff later.

On the day you will likely be very nervous, which is natural. Just relax and enjoy it, but most of all do not put yourself under pressure to perform. The difference with paid sex is it is about your pleasure, you have nothing to prove beyond that you are a normal sane guy and you arrive clean and fresh and polite.

Chances are you will be fine, it will be fun and you will be up and running.  :thumbsup:


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