Abstaining Before a Punt?

[Hank Moody]

Got a booking lined up for later this week that I am so looking forward to (like a kid on Christmas Eve  ) and want to absolutely make the most of it so I promised myself I would let the old porridge canon recharge for a few days before and refrain from cracking one off. SO far I have failed miserably due mainly to reading reviews on here, lining up my next punts and generally having a ridiculously high sex drive at the moment. I'm single so I don't have an 'other half' to worry about but I have to admit the anticipation of this week's booking is giving me the permanent horn (may also be partly due to the fact that I'm new to all this and the 'excitement' of it all is still fresh)

Just wondering if others have a self-imposed 'ban' leading up to a punt and if so how long for? And do you have any techniques/suggestions for holding off?! 

[Rod trotter]

bwt 3-4 days, easily solved, stop logging on to the net

go for a walk 

[Hank Moody]

bwt 3-4 days, easily solved, stop logging on to the net

go for a walk 

Yeah, I guess I should keep off the net but I need it for work and other stuff so it is trick and easy to get side-tracked once I've logged on. Think I'm going to go for a swim each night after work and see if that knackers me out enough to just fall asleep. I'm guessing the excitement does die down a little after a while. Hope so or I'll end up with a right arm like Popeye 

[Timmy2]

Hi
I had a punt on Tuesday and Friday, then Mrs Raddy wanted some on Saturday...I thought I would be empty and disinterested...but she was splodging about all day full of my cum. 
So I wouldn't worry to much about it
 
Raddy

[Two tone]

I suppose you will have to find out what works for you as we all differ in our sex drive & recovery times.

I find it best to leave it 3-4 days myself, but I'm nearly 50 & find the gap helps with attempting a second round in my punts.

I still masturbate leading up to my punt but I don't cum in those 3-4 days before, just edging.

[anonymous1]

I'm kinda the same. My first punt is tomorrow and it does feel like Christmas eve and I can't wait to unwrap my gift  having the urge to bang one out now but trying not to.

[Hank Moody]

Right that's it then. No more for me until after the booking. I may have to carry my nuts there in a wheelbarrow though 

[Hank Moody]

I'm kinda the same. My first punt is tomorrow and it does feel like Christmas eve and I can't wait to unwrap my gift  having the urge to bang one out now but trying not to.

Best of luck with your first mate  Let us know how it goes.

[Aspen]

bwt 3-4 days, easily solved, stop logging on to the net

go for a walk

I just get busy with other things. Leading a busy life anyway. I find it always much better completely abstaining for several days up to more than a week.

[threechilliman]

I knocked one out this morning, my last before Fridays punt. 3 days should be more than enough. Hopefully I can avoid the Mrs between now and then!

tcm

[scoobydoo88]

3 to 4 days is about right for me too.

[wazzer]

I knocked one out this morning, my last before Fridays punt. 3 days should be more than enough. Hopefully I can avoid the Mrs between now and then!

tcm

Must admit that I don't have that problem, my Mrs has been avoiding me for years.   

[Ben4454]

I've been thinking a lot about this subject....

For me the sex feels so much better when I have been abstaining. If your goal is to produce the most amount of cum as possible then abstaining from porn/masturbation for around 6 days is good. If you want the blast factor than edge a couple times every day. I have abstained for 10 days to 14 before and found the amount of cum I produced was not as much as if I abstained for 6 days.

On the other side abstaining gives you many benefits that I have found..

- Increased motivation to do and complete projects
- More testosterone in your body
- I found my voice seemed to be significantly lower and more dominant

People in the abstaining community swear by abstaining for 3-5 months and have seen them gain a lot more of the superpowers listed above more dramatically. Although in my opinion abstaining more than 2 weeks would not be beneficial. After a while you lose your sex drive and abstainers call this the 'flat-line' process. Basically if you've conditioned your mind to porn/masturbation for a good portion of your life than the wiring in the brain has been changed. When you abstain for a long period of time it puts the brain on a 'reset' so you lose your sex drive for a while.

If you're abstaining simply for the sex than abstain for 6-12 days. Your body reconsumes the spunk after about a week but if you wait till the 12 day the process should have started over again so you'll be a full tank.

Although take this as no professional biologicial advice this is just what has worked best for me. I imagine all bodies will work differently. Keep a notepad and experiment.

[SirFrank]

Yes always looking to recharge my batteries by 3-14 days. 14 is about the longest I've ever gone and I started to feel a little hyper the day before. The night before the prearranged punt I also dreamt that I was shagging Emma Baby Spice Bunton - who I fucking hate, for reasons that I'm not quite sure. However, the 2 week backlog made for a very unfortunate CIM incident when I produced a large glass of baby batter with the consistency and viscosity of no more nails. I gather the duvet cover was never the same, even after a boil wash!

[lostandfound]

I like to let the pipes fill up for a few days beforehand, as I'm not 25 anymore. The human body is a funny old thing though - and I let my dick decide if I should punt, even if I've already cum the same day, if my cock tingles at the thought of a punt I reckon there's going to be enough in the tank. I'm thinking I'll give zinc supplements - mentioned on another thread - a try though.

[Hank Moody]

I've been thinking a lot about this subject....

For me the sex feels so much better when I have been abstaining. If your goal is to produce the most amount of cum as possible then abstaining from porn/masturbation for around 6 days is good. If you want the blast factor than edge a couple times every day. I have abstained for 10 days to 14 before and found the amount of cum I produced was not as much as if I abstained for 6 days.

On the other side abstaining gives you many benefits that I have found..

- Increased motivation to do and complete projects
- More testosterone in your body
- I found my voice seemed to be significantly lower and more dominant

People in the abstaining community swear by abstaining for 3-5 months and have seen them gain a lot more of the superpowers listed above more dramatically. Although in my opinion abstaining more than 2 weeks would not be beneficial. After a while you lose your sex drive and abstainers call this the 'flat-line' process. Basically if you've conditioned your mind to porn/masturbation for a good portion of your life than the wiring in the brain has been changed. When you abstain for a long period of time it puts the brain on a 'reset' so you lose your sex drive for a while.

If you're abstaining simply for the sex than abstain for 6-12 days. Your body reconsumes the spunk after about a week but if you wait till the 12 day the process should have started over again so you'll be a full tank.

Although take this as no professional biologicial advice this is just what has worked best for me. I imagine all bodies will work differently. Keep a notepad and experiment.

Interesting stuff, cheers. I have got more work than usual done today and so far so good. Not sure if I will last another 2 days but if I do that will be some kind of record for me.

[Hank Moody]

Yes always looking to recharge my batteries by 3-14 days. 14 is about the longest I've ever gone and I started to feel a little hyper the day before. The night before the prearranged punt I also dreamt that I was shagging Emma Baby Spice Bunton - who I fucking hate, for reasons that I'm not quite sure. However, the 2 week backlog made for a very unfortunate CIM incident when I produced a large glass of baby batter with the consistency and viscosity of no more nails. I gather the duvet cover was never the same, even after a boil wash!

 

I'm not particularly going for volume (I usually manage a fair old dollop even 2nd or third time) but it's more about the sensitivity for me. With the rate that I have been at it recently I'm amazed I still have any sensation down there at all. Oh how times change. It used to be that I would always bash one out before a night on the town in case I got lucky and didn't want to cum too soon. Now when going for a second pop I sometimes wonder if I would manage it even if I'd booked an all nighter 

[tit lover]

Got a punt on Friday and I have abstained from masturbation and sex for 30 days, I wonder how it is going to feel, hopefully I spray a HUGE load 

[Sonny Crockett]

I try to go 3 to 4 days without jerking off, however that is often easier said than done (for most times I fail to adhere to that). When I do manage to, I often have a great punt.

[rogercock00]

I've been thinking a lot about this subject....

For me the sex feels so much better when I have been abstaining. If your goal is to produce the most amount of cum as possible then abstaining from porn/masturbation for around 6 days is good. If you want the blast factor than edge a couple times every day. I have abstained for 10 days to 14 before

This is basically what I do. My main punt goal is for insane facials so I abstain for up to two weeks and edge beforehand. The results are spectacular sometimes and even better if you are allowed to snap away with your camera. The only downside to this is after about 5 days, you are constantly wanting to thrap and you end up spending loads of time tossing off instead of living basically - still, it is good fun 

[Donnie69]

I try to abstain for 6 days or so.  I like a large load in the WGs mouth.

Sometimes I only manage to abstain for a day or two, and the volume isn't always as much.

[Caratacus]

This 'abstaining' and 'edging' is all new to me...i hadnt even heard of it before reading this post!
However, after tonights punt i wish i had. Feeling particularly horny yesterday, and with the thought of a punt tonight, i just had to knock one out. Then earlier today, in anticipation of the action to come, i gave the old fella another damn good thrashing. This was mainly with the belief that i would be able to last longer during the punt. Anyway....found a potential WG (who looked well hot), rang and arranged the punt and away I went (still feeling friskier than a welshman with a flock of sheep). The WG was amazing...i mean, fuckin gorgeous......but, despite her sucking and tugging at the little fella like a good 'un, he just would NOT play ball. Now methinks...it's all due to too many wanks. Lesson learned. So OP, thanks for your post....bloody good advice

[Hank Moody]

This 'abstaining' and 'edging' is all new to me...i hadnt even heard of it before reading this post!
However, after tonights punt i wish i had. Feeling particularly horny yesterday, and with the thought of a punt tonight, i just had to knock one out. Then earlier today, in anticipation of the action to come, i gave the old fella another damn good thrashing. This was mainly with the belief that i would be able to last longer during the punt. Anyway....found a potential WG (who looked well hot), rang and arranged the punt and away I went (still feeling friskier than a welshman with a flock of sheep). The WG was amazing...i mean, fuckin gorgeous......but, despite her sucking and tugging at the little fella like a good 'un, he just would NOT play ball. Now methinks...it's all due to too many wanks. Lesson learned. So OP, thanks for your post....bloody good advice

You're welcome although I'm afraid there wasn't much 'advice' from me. I work from home a lot and so it's a lot easier to give in to temptation - especially when you have porn on tap and the work can be boring. If I can manage 3 days I will be bloody amazed so how some on here can manage 6 or more days is beyond me  And tit lover, 30 days of abstinence? I think I would be climbing the walls after a week! 

[Bud$]

I sem to have cut down on wanking quite a lot. It's just not very satisfying any more, for some reason. But it's had the opposite effect of what I thought. I'm less likely to want to see a WG, so I've cut down on that as well, from once every 2 weeks to once every 3. I still can't help going though and find that if I wank a few times during the week to 10 days before, then stop altogether for 3 or 4 days the punt has that bit extra excitement and anticipation. I also come a lot more than before and my orgasm lasts longer.

[SUMO61]

Three to five days for me.  Cock gets that nice meaty feel, almost a permanent semi and the balls feel full.

I walk taller, feel more confident and have more energy. An orgasm burns a lot of calories, hence male sports players advised to abstain pre game.

[bushman]

I don't have that much self control. Once I'm in the shower giving the small mannie a wash I can't stop. Before I know  it I need to clean the shower tiles before the missus comes in.

[Thepacifist]

If I have a punt lined up on Tuesday for example then I'll have a wank on Monday and leave it at that. If I fancy a punt on the day I won't wank. I don't believe in that 'something like Mary' technique. It just takes the desire away for me..

[Ben4454]

This is basically what I do. My main punt goal is for insane facials so I abstain for up to two weeks and edge beforehand. The results are spectacular sometimes and even better if you are allowed to snap away with your camera. The only downside to this is after about 5 days, you are constantly wanting to thrap and you end up spending loads of time tossing off instead of living basically - still, it is good fun 

  I was going to mention this. If you build up too long you just want to bash one out again after the punt. I pop twice and then have some good quality porn ready for later along with my head honcho.

With the projects thing I found that it increased my abilities writing lyrics for my music. It seemed to increase my creativity and muse.  I was able to finish a polished hip hop song in about 5 days. Anyone who knows hip hop knows the lyrics can take a long time. I found that it increased my 'muse' and made me more aggressive in my music. So I wholeheartidly endorce abstaining before a punt because it will help you in other matters of your life.



Ben

[jimbm55]

At my age (60) I find that if I save myself up for a punt I get over excited too quickly and come almost as soon as she touches me. I have a wank on the morning of the punt and that lets me enjoy an hour of foreplay and oral fun before the old todger yields his little harvest. I can see the benefits of saving up for a few days but it doesn't work for me as I can never manage a second pop or even an erection (and even with blue pill assistance). Might try eating some zinc

[Two tone]

At my age (60) I find that if I save myself up for a punt I get over excited too quickly and come almost as soon as she touches me. I have a wank on the morning of the punt and that lets me enjoy an hour of foreplay and oral fun before the old todger yields his little harvest. I can see the benefits of saving up for a few days but it doesn't work for me as I can never manage a second pop or even an erection (and even with blue pill assistance). Might try eating some zinc

So how long do you leave it then between your morning wank & your booking?

I always tend to come quickly & hadn't really given it much thought that abstaining could be making it worse. If I had a wank in the morning I would probably lose interest in the punt & also I would be scared that I wouldn't be able to perform well later.

At the moment I book long sessions of at least 1.5 hours just so that I can try a second round, which works about half the time. Maybe I should try doing shorter bookings & whip one out earlier, or maybe doing two short bookings in the same day with a couple of hours recovery time inbetween. 

[jimbm55]

4-5 hours. I like long slow bookings and I find unloading first thing helps me maintain control

[Two tone]

4-5 hours. I like long slow bookings and I find unloading first thing helps me maintain control

Well looks like I will have to experiment then, thanks for your reply 

[Monsieur69]

I am in my 60s and cannot cum twice in one hour. What used to be able to and favoured a 7-10 day abstention then cum in 5 mins and a 2nd pop after a 30 min break. As a 60+ man I have a morning wank and an afternoon punt. If If Don 't wank I cum too quick. Strictly one pop only these days with half a tab of Viagra.

[jimbm55]

You are me and I claim my £5

[Bud$]

 My main punt goal is for insane facials so I abstain for up to two weeks and edge beforehand.
Which WG's do you go to see who will let you do this? i live in the South-East and like to discover new girls for a facial as it's my favourite thing, especially if they allow filming - only found one who does both.

[anonymous1]

I've been holding off for a couple of days because I was suppose to see a WG today but for personal reasons she had to rearrange it to Friday, the urge is getting too strong now... I have no will power lol.

[punther]

My main punt goal is for insane facials so I abstain for up to two weeks and edge beforehand.
Which WG's do you go to see who will let you do this? i live in the South-East and like to discover new girls for a facial as it's my favourite thing, especially if they allow filming - only found one who does both.

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[rogercock00]

My main punt goal is for insane facials so I abstain for up to two weeks and edge beforehand.
Which WG's do you go to see who will let you do this? i live in the South-East and like to discover new girls for a facial as it's my favourite thing, especially if they allow filming - only found one who does both.

I'm nowhere near the SE so cant help you there. Generally, I only visit WGs who allow facials which is a must for me but I dont actually tell them i'm two weeks loaded - part of the excitement for me is knowing that I am loaded and about to unleash a picasso on their pretty face. The fact they are totally unsuspecting and their reaction to it is a major turn on. I've been with many a WG and model who has allowed snaps for personal use, these end up in my wank gallery. 

Try the likes of purestorm or adultindustryresources to find models who will work with amateurs for filming fun 

[threechilliman]

I knocked one out this morning, my last before Fridays punt. 3 days should be more than enough. Hopefully I can avoid the Mrs between now and then!

tcm

Mrs had her way this evening - with me I might add. Pre-punt nerves got the better of me and I needed to unload.

tcm

[uutarn]

I've been holding off for a couple of days because I was suppose to see a WG today but for personal reasons she had to rearrange it to Friday, the urge is getting too strong now... I have no will power lol.

Keep strong brother, would it help if i said she loves a hot load in the mouth?
I know who it is man and abstinence will only make the moment sweeter.

[Hawkwind71]

I have given up trying to figure it out. I've popped in 5 minutes, popped twice, nearly not popped at all, wanked on the morning, abstained for a week, popped in wank, popped in CIM, popped in doggy, popped three days in a row with three prossies. Popped with no viagra, with 25ml, with 50ml. I have tried to see a pattern....  but

It just doesn't make any sense 

Like I say, I've given up trying to figure it out. At the end of the day, I pop.......

[Hank Moody]

Well after 3 days of abstinence it was one hell of a load this evening  I thought it had helped a lot with the lack of sensitivity during penetration because the initial oral felt mind-blowing and I had to put a stop to it because I really wanted to pop while fucking. It did feel way better that usual but after a long while and lots of different positions (and a damn good try by the girl in question  ) It just wasn't going to happen  Oral and HJ are still absolutely fine and I was given an expert oily wank but need to get my head round the penetration issue. Could be either the blue pill or condoms but I won't be going bareback for anyone. Might have to chance it without Sildenafil next time. I was told by the girl that I 'need to cut down on the wanking' 

[Hawkwind71]

Well after 3 days of abstinence it was one hell of a load this evening  I thought it had helped a lot with the lack of sensitivity during penetration because the initial oral felt mind-blowing and I had to put a stop to it because I really wanted to pop while fucking. It did feel way better that usual but after a long while and lots of different positions (and a damn good try by the girl in question  ) It just wasn't going to happen  Oral and HJ are still absolutely fine and I was given an expert oily wank but need to get my head round the penetration issue. Could be either the blue pill or condoms but I won't be going bareback for anyone. Might have to chance it without Sildenafil next time. I was told by the girl that I 'need to cut down on the wanking' 

if you're having problems with sensitivity, you need to cut down the wanking over a considerable time. If you do it once a day, knock it to once or twice a week. Also use a gel so your ...ahem... motions more approximate a vagina.

Worked for me. 

[vw]

if you're having problems with sensitivity, you need to cut down the wanking over a considerable time. If you do it once a day, knock it to once or twice a week. Also use a gel so your ...ahem... motions more approximate a vagina.

Worked for me. 

Wanking with lots of lube and loose grip helps to, you get so used to the firm grip that no WG can recreate the sensation you desire either orally or vaginally.

[Hank Moody]

if you're having problems with sensitivity, you need to cut down the wanking over a considerable time. If you do it once a day, knock it to once or twice a week. Also use a gel so your ...ahem... motions more approximate a vagina.

Worked for me. 

Wanking with lots of lube and loose grip helps to, you get so used to the firm grip that no WG can recreate the sensation you desire either orally or vaginally.

I think you are right although I'd probably find it easier to stop smoking and I've been trying that for 5 years  Shame you can't get patches or gum for wanking   

[anonymous1]

Well I went 4 days and had trouble getting it up... only managed a semi    so embarrassing and disappointed with myself. I think nerves, anxiety and lack of sleep played a part, but I do also wank a lot, normally once a day, so going to try and cut back a lot.   

[Hank Moody]

Well I went 4 days and had trouble getting it up... only managed a semi    so embarrassing and disappointed with myself. I think nerves, anxiety and lack of sleep played a part, but I do also wank a lot, normally once a day, so going to try and cut back a lot.

Well I did find that after a few days of abstaining I seemed to be losing 'the urge' which is not what you want before a booking. Fortunately for me in the couple of hours before the booking the old excitement kicked in again  Hope you have better luck next time

[vw]

I'd probably find it easier to stop smoking and I've been trying that for 5 years.

1.5 years on the vape now !

[Hank Moody]

1.5 years on the vape now !

Nice one VW    I really must invest in one of those. I'm guessing it works out a lot cheaper = more punting money. Then there are the obvious health and punting performance benefits so I think I will go out and get one this weekend.

[vw]

Nice one VW    I really must invest in one of those. I'm guessing it works out a lot cheaper = more punting money. Then there are the obvious health and punting performance benefits so I think I will go out and get one this weekend.

Talk to the guys in the shop about how you like to smoke and they match you very well.  Avoid the £20 starter packs they don't have enough vavavoom.