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Offline aazbo22

Hi all
Just wanted to know who is married or in a long term relationship and punts on a regular basis.
Is it easy and have u ever had an STI.
Looking to do my first punts so just getting advice
Thanks

Offline claretandblue

The risks of getting an sti  are the same whether you are married or not, you can gauge from other threads the degree of risk and then decide what is right for you.

Obviously bareback is high risk and all sensible punters don't bareback, owo and giving oral is much lower risk so it's really down to your own personal view as to whether that is a risk worth taking.

I am married and will get owo, some other married guys will stick to ow but then there are other married guys happy to do pretty much all risky practices excluding bb so it's down to the individual

Offline mh

The risks of getting an sti  are the same whether you are married or not

Fuck - you mean this wedding ring isn't the STI protection device I had been led to believe?  :scare:

sam1

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Even if you miss the std you still
have the guilt about betraying your wife. But after a couple of times that will go.

Offline Bangers and Gash

The risks of getting an sti  are the same whether you are married or not...

The risks maybe the same but the repercussions are very different.

A single guy with an STD just watches a bit more TV and brushes up on his snooker skills. Whereas a married guy has to start looking for new digs at very short notice.  :D

Timmy2

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The risks maybe the same but the repercussions are very different.

A single guy with an STD just watches a bit more TV and brushes up on his snooker skills. Whereas a married guy has to start looking for new digs at very short notice.  :D
+1
Raddy

Offline blackburnian

Even if you miss the std you still
have the guilt about betraying your wife. But after a couple of times that will go.

Personally I find the guilt only trips in these days after wasting money on a shit punt - the rest of the time the buzz of the punt is more than enough to mask it  :lol:

Bb

figleaf

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OWO with WG and then BB with the wife.

Risky but I bet a lot of punters take a risk on that...

Offline claretandblue

Even if you miss the std you still
have the guilt about betraying your wife. But after a couple of times that will go.
I can't believe there are many married guys who punt who feel guilty tbh

Offline claretandblue

OWO with WG and then BB with the wife.

Risky but I bet a lot of punters take a risk on that...
Yep,I keep well away from the missus on days I have had a punt but have pals and have read on here of punters who will go pretty much straight from the wgs mouth to the wife's pussy

Offline aazbo22

Has anyone ever had an STI from a WG

Offline Frenchie

Easy for me ! .. when she decided to stop ALL sexual contact two years ago .. she played right into my hands !

Firstly it made me determined to carry on punting and IF I got any nasties I wouldn't pass them on ...

As for the guilt .. never suffered from that .. after years of discussions , heart to heart talks , flowers , treats , being nice , being nasty ... yes we've probably all tried everything in the past  .. I just decided to give up completely .. and carry on punting .

I have a nice lifestyle and love my wife  .. BUT if the shit hit the fan I would not budge one inch that it was completely her fault that I got into punting through sheer desperation !

At my age I would of been quite happy with a handjob / blowjob every few weeks ....... and I probably would never of started punting.........but once you start ...........

Offline ProtocolDroid

Yep,I keep well away from the missus on days I have had a punt but have pals and have read on here of punters who will go pretty much straight from the wgs mouth to the wife's pussy

If the implication is that waiting for the next day to have unprotected sex with the OH after OWO with a WG somehow poses less of a health risk, then that's mistaken.

Offline claretandblue

If the implication is that waiting for the next day to have unprotected sex with the OH after OWO with a WG somehow poses less of a health risk, then that's mistaken.

no of course not, its just from a mental/moral standpoint the thought of going directly from a whore to your missus is a bit out of order, clearly the sti risk is the same whether you leave it a day or a week  :hi:

Timmy2

  • Guest
no of course not, its just from a mental/moral standpoint the thought of going directly from a whore to your missus is a bit out of order, clearly the sti risk is the same whether you leave it a day or a week  :hi:
+1
Raddy

Offline claretandblue

+1
Raddy

so I guess next tuesday will be a day off for mrs raddy.. :hi:

Timmy2

  • Guest
Yep...
Saturday is Mrs Raddy Day  :hi:

Raddy

Offline ProtocolDroid

no of course not, its just from a mental/moral standpoint the thought of going directly from a whore to your missus is a bit out of order, clearly the sti risk is the same whether you leave it a day or a week  :hi:

"Moral standpoint"... I've heard of that :D

Offline claretandblue

"Moral standpoint"... I've heard of that :D

indeed, only very rarely though... :D

Deviant

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Married people are crazy if they do OWO or any kind of kissing. You guys catch herpes and that 30 minute shag will cost you dearly.

If you want to sleep around then do the right thing and end the marriage. Lying and sleeping with prostitutes is not compatible with being married. Only a narcissist thinks they can act in that way and that the betrayal is somehow acceptable.

vw

  • Guest
Married people are crazy if they do OWO or any kind of kissing. You guys catch herpes and that 30 minute shag will cost you dearly.

If you want to sleep around then do the right thing and end the marriage. Lying and sleeping with prostitutes is not compatible with being married. Only a narcissist thinks they can act in that way and that the betrayal is somehow acceptable.
Well you could say their wives are narcissists for not ending the marriage when they go off sex !

Offline claretandblue

Married people are crazy if they do OWO or any kind of kissing. You guys catch herpes and that 30 minute shag will cost you dearly.

If you want to sleep around then do the right thing and end the marriage. Lying and sleeping with prostitutes is not compatible with being married. Only a narcissist thinks they can act in that way and that the betrayal is somehow acceptable.
That's a very simplistic way of looking at life and marriage

Deviant

  • Guest
If you think that your 30 minutes of enjoyment is worth possibly infecting your partner and causing her years of grief and upset when she discovers your betrayal then you are a narcissist. No psychiatric professional is going to tell you otherwise. They will nearly all diagnose personality disorder/narcissism.

Offline claretandblue

You are making wide generalisations and wouldn't have the first clue about anyone's marriage and what goes on behind closed doors,have you been married yourself?

Deviant

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I do not need to know what goes on in your marriage. If you are sneeking around behind your partners back and lying then those are the actions of a narcissist. You are not alone. That is about 1 in 10 adult males.

This forum is predominantly narcissists. I am one and am trying to lessen the damage of my actions to the people around me. I would never marry again because I recognise I am too selfish and lack self control.

vw

  • Guest
If you think that your 30 minutes of enjoyment is worth possibly infecting your partner and causing her years of grief and upset when she discovers your betrayal then you are a narcissist. No psychiatric professional is going to tell you otherwise. They will nearly all diagnose personality disorder/narcissism.
Your a classic attention seeking narcissist putting himself on a moral pedestal with no empathy for others situations !

Deviant

  • Guest
Narcissists will always go on the attack if someone criticises their decisions.

Cheating on your partner and engaging in souless, emotionless, genital only sex are the actions of a true narcissist.

Read up on NPD and then if it fits then realise that your actions are not always excusable. Blaming your wives and lack of a sex life for cheating is the typical get out of a narcissist.

vw

  • Guest
Narcissists will always go on the attack if someone criticises their decisions.

Cheating on your partner and engaging in souless, emotionless, genital only sex are the actions of a true narcissist.

Read up on NPD and then if it fits then realise that your actions are not always excusable. Blaming your wives and lack of a sex life for cheating is the typical get out of a narcissist.
So I'm a cheating narcissist very funny !

Deviant

  • Guest
VW I know nothing of your situation. I would hazard a guess that many of the married men here are. It is a fairly prevalent condition and would fit with most of the motivation behind paying for sex acts with a stranger.

vw

  • Guest
VW I know nothing of your situation. I would hazard a guess that many of the married men here are. It is a fairly prevalent condition and would fit with most of the motivation behind paying for sex acts with a stranger.
So your very anti punter or are you bitter because your favourite prossie has a queue of married guys.  If you have found god, should you not be in church.  If you work for public health your time would be better spent in public toilets shaming people to wash their hands, the cause of more disease than all the punters on this planet.


Offline lostandfound

I do not need to know what goes on in your marriage. If you are sneeking around behind your partners back and lying then those are the actions of a narcissist. You are not alone. That is about 1 in 10 adult males.

This forum is predominantly narcissists. I am one and am trying to lessen the damage of my actions to the people around me. I would never marry again because I recognise I am too selfish and lack self control.

You're skating on thin ice here IMO. Whatever self hatred or even mental illness you may have, projecting that onto this forum as a whole is not on IMO. A viewpoint indistinguishable from a Feminazi!

vw

  • Guest
Narcissists will always go on the attack if someone criticises their decisions.

Cheating on your partner and engaging in souless, emotionless, genital only sex are the actions of a true narcissist.

Read up on NPD and then if it fits then realise that your actions are not always excusable. Blaming your wives and lack of a sex life for cheating is the typical get out of a narcissist.
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Offline KidCandyShop

Classic case of self projection, hopefully he will carry on all the way to a ban.  :hi:

Offline smiths

I do not need to know what goes on in your marriage. If you are sneeking around behind your partners back and lying then those are the actions of a narcissist. You are not alone. That is about 1 in 10 adult males.

This forum is predominantly narcissists. I am one and am trying to lessen the damage of my actions to the people around me. I would never marry again because I recognise I am too selfish and lack self control.

Its predominantly narcissists is it, what a load of old bollocks, diagnosing people on the net. :rolleyes:

Deviant

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VW a nice caption and imagery will not get around it. Ultimately punting is a selfish pasttime. The women who also provide the service to some extent are narcissists.

I recognise that and I can live with it. There are aspects of being a narcissist that I embrace and am not ashamed to display. I gave up hiding my punting habits a long time ago. This is who I am.

You married guys are still living a lie.

yorkshire123

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Married people are crazy if they do OWO or any kind of kissing. You guys catch herpes and that 30 minute shag will cost you dearly.

If you want to sleep around then do the right thing and end the marriage. Lying and sleeping with prostitutes is not compatible with being married. Only a narcissist thinks they can act in that way and that the betrayal is somehow acceptable.

I had you down as a trouble causing cunt when you joined & you have done nothing to remove that thought  Hidden Image/Members Only

sam1

  • Guest
Having read this post I believe yorkshire123 has the correct diagnosis for our fellow punter Deviant

cockneybstrd

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VW a nice caption and imagery will not get around it. Ultimately punting is a selfish pasttime. The women who also provide the service to some extent are narcissists.

I recognise that and I can live with it. There are aspects of being a narcissist that I embrace and am not ashamed to display. I gave up hiding my punting habits a long time ago. This is who I am.

You married guys are still living a lie.


I am guessing as i havent had you on the couch that essentially your a Compensatory narcissist which is why your always banging on about your awards from other sites

Though i see you more as a WEST8's ginger step brother type myself

Deviant

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Circle the wagons! I put an idea out there that you do not like and you all get defensive. This is not intended to cause trouble.

Be honest. If you went and saw a mental health professional and admitted your punting habits what do you think they would say? I spoke to a friend years back who is a social worker and told him I paid for sex and he was shocked. It set off so many alarm bells with him and questions as to whether he really knew me.

vw

  • Guest
Circle the wagons! I put an idea out there that you do not like and you all get defensive. This is not intended to cause trouble.

Be honest. If you went and saw a mental health professional and admitted your punting habits what do you think they would say? I spoke to a friend years back who is a social worker and told him I paid for sex and he was shocked. It set off so many alarm bells with him and questions as to whether he really knew me.
I concur he was right to have alarm bells in your case .

Offline KidCandyShop

Yes I have had rejections. Women who know me from online forums now refuse to take bookings from me  :( They told me it is because I am totally indiscreet and brag too much.

Not just us who have alarm bells about you, Wg's as well

Deviant

  • Guest
Not just my case. He finds the whole purchase of sex thing troubling. Then again he works in an environment where he receives nothing but feminist indoctrination where female friendly values are promoted and the excesses of male behaviour are always labelled as a threat.

vw

  • Guest
Not just us who have alarm bells about you, Wg's as well
So to summarise those with concerns

Us - UKP
Other forums
Escorts
Mental health professionals
A friend who is a social worker

Have I missed any ?

Deviant

  • Guest
Despite all the interest in me and people following me on various threads, this thread is not about me though. It is about you married men passing on STI's to people who have complete trust in you (they let you have unprotected sex with them).

Why do you knowingly put your partners at risk?

yorkshire123

  • Guest
Circle the wagons! I put an idea out there that you do not like and you all get defensive. This is not intended to cause trouble.

Be honest. If you went and saw a mental health professional and admitted your punting habits what do you think they would say? I spoke to a friend years back who is a social worker and told him I paid for sex and he was shocked. It set off so many alarm bells with him and questions as to whether he really knew me.

So now you are saying that married punters have mental health issues?
I've also got an acquaintance who is a social worker & he is also full off shit.

I'm surprised with your track record you would have the cheek to take the moral high ground but there again twat's rarely have the mental capacity to see their own misgivings.   

Deviant

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I am not taking any moral high ground. That is where you are all going wrong. I am the worst offender on here but at least I recognise I have "issues" and avoid marriage and using people (where ever I can).

Passing on an STI to an intimate partner is unforgivable.

Offline smiths

Despite all the interest in me and people following me on various threads, this thread is not about me though. It is about you married men passing on STI's to people who have complete trust in you (they let you have unprotected sex with them).

Why do you knowingly put your partners at risk?

You have posted such shit that it stands out, that's what happens on here, your real views about punters shine through loud and clear. :rolleyes:

vw

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You have posted such shit that it stands out, that's what happens on here, your real views about punters shine through loud and clear. :rolleyes:
Yes, he hates himself !

Deviant

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A self hating punter!

No I enjoy punting and the past time, but I only enjoy it because I do not have to be deceitful and duplicitious. I can be totally honest and up front about what I do and have no qualms about my actions.

No skulking around for me with a hidden punting phone and having to remove all traces of my browsing history.

vw

  • Guest
A self hating punter!

No I enjoy punting and the past time, but I only enjoy it because I do not have to be deceitful and duplicitious. I can be totally honest and up front about what I do and have no qualms about my actions.

No skulking around for me with a hidden punting phone and having to remove all traces of my browsing history.
Sure you do !  Moral crusader !  Have  a suspicion your the type of cunt to out a punter on your crusade  against "deceitful and duplicitious" people !