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Offline Deviant

Imagine all you want VW. I have had plenty of opportunities to out punters and never had. I have organised a social on another forum and have the names and numbers of punters and women along with whatsapp pictures and have never sought to abuse that.

I do not have a problem with how you all act. I am very tolerant. I do recognise though that my behaviour and the behaviour of many here would be classed as a personality disorder. I thankfully never cheated on my ex wife.
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Offline aazbo22

I thankfully never cheated on my ex wife.

No.... but I can guess why she left!
You don't know my situation - I love my wife a lot - she is my best friend. But a man has needs and in stead of me going out and getting into an affair - I've decided to do this.

I have had plenty of opportunities to out punters and never had.
Bet that made you feel powerful, why people would collect names for these sort of events is creepy and could be considered manipulating yourself into a power position, very narcasistic.

Offline daviemac

Imagine all you want VW. I have had plenty of opportunities to out punters and never had. I have organised a social on another forum and have the names and numbers of punters and women along with whatsapp pictures and have never sought to abuse that.

I do not have a problem with how you all act. I am very tolerant. I do recognise though that my behaviour and the behaviour of many here would be classed as a personality disorder. I thankfully never cheated on my ex wife.

Didn't think you could cheat on an ex, but there you go.

Not quite sure what to make of you, but I don't think I'll have that problem for long unless I follow you to mumsnet.

Offline Deviant

VW, people tell me their names and encourage me to use them rather than their online handle. I need numbers so that I can call people if plans change or if we cannot find them in a busy venue (Soho at a weekend can be pretty hectic).

Nothing creepy at all unless you are a shut-in who never goes out or socialises and therefore never exchanges contact details.

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Offline Deviant

Oh and mumsnet ban me within minutes. They always have done over there. You only need to bring up the subject of male inequality in the family courts and they quickly bin any thread and any talk of male issues.
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Offline smiths

Bet that made you feel powerful, why people would collect names for these sort of events is creepy and could be considered manipulating yourself into a power position, very narcasistic.

Assuming its true it once again re-enforces what some of us already know, don't trust others with information that could identify you, or someone like this person might get hold of it, that's not something I would like after reading their shit on this thread in particular.

VW, people tell me their names and encourage me to use them rather than their online handle. I need numbers so that I can call people if plans change or if we cannot find them in a busy venue (Soho at a weekend can be pretty hectic).

Nothing creepy at all unless you are a shut-in who never goes out or socialises and therefore never exchanges contact details.
Take it it was only single punters you went out with !

Don't think you will get name numbers here !
« Last Edit: October 22, 2015, 02:37:04 PM by virtualwaster »

Offline Deviant

Yes mostly single punters but I really do not ask them married status. Not really relevant on a night out unless they bring their partner along.

I would gladly organise a social for this forum. People could sign up and then the venue details and time go out via pm. It might be a nearly all male affair given the nature of this forum (the other has more women) but I would have no issue with giving out my number to people who wanted to text/call whatsapp in the minutes/hours before the meeting.

Could be fun if you were not all married and paranoid.
« Last Edit: October 22, 2015, 02:42:14 PM by Deviant »
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Yes mostly single punters but I really do not ask them married status. Not really relevant on a night out unless they bring their partner along.
So people really bring their partners out on a night out from a punting forum?

I've heard it all now !  :wackogirl: :wackogirl: :wackogirl: :wackogirl: :wackogirl: :wackogirl: :wackogirl:

Offline Deviant

Yes VW they do. I was even toying with the idea of taking a girlfriend who is not part of the punting scene to the last one. She was pretty relaxed about the whole scene and I thought introducing her to people would make her see that it was anything but the seedy and squalid world that people perceive it to be.
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Offline smiths

Yes mostly single punters but I really do not ask them married status. Not really relevant on a night out unless they bring their partner along.

I would gladly organise a social for this forum. People could sign up and then the venue details and time go out via pm. It might be a nearly all male affair given the nature of this forum (the other has more women) but I would have no issue with giving out my number to people who wanted to text/call whatsapp in the minutes/hours before the meeting.

Could be fun if you were not all married and paranoid.

Classic, if hell froze over I wouldn't be interested in any social you wanted to organise on here. :rolleyes:

Offline Deviant

It takes balls to go out in public with sex workers and punters.
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Yes VW they do. I was even toying with the idea of taking a girlfriend who is not part of the punting scene to the last one. She was pretty relaxed about the whole scene and I thought introducing her to people would make her see that it was anything but the seedy and squalid world that people perceive it to be.
Are you a bipolar narcissist (Seems diagnosis is your fetish), your tone has flipped 180 ?  Why would you be punting or looking on punting forums when you have a GF, only ask because of your previous comments.

Unless your just a plain fantasist.

Offline Jimmyredcab

Yes mostly single punters but I really do not ask them married status. Not really relevant on a night out unless they bring their partner along.

I would gladly organise a social for this forum. People could sign up and then the venue details and time go out via pm. It might be a nearly all male affair given the nature of this forum (the other has more women) but I would have no issue with giving out my number to people who wanted to text/call whatsapp in the minutes/hours before the meeting.

Could be fun if you were not all married and paranoid.

Most punters on here are paranoid, they even park up six blocks away from the punt.    :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

It takes balls to go out in public with sex workers and punters.
Not really, because when they are out they are all off duty !  They are just people who happen to be out with you.  Hardly brave or revolutionary.

Imagine all you want VW. I have had plenty of opportunities to out punters and never had. I have organised a social on another forum and have the names and numbers of punters and women along with whatsapp pictures and have never sought to abuse that.

I do not have a problem with how you all act. I am very tolerant. I do recognise though that my behaviour and the behaviour of many here would be classed as a personality disorder. I thankfully never cheated on my ex wife.

Why would it cross your mind to even think about outing other punters ?

Do you think you would be happier interacting with your mates from other forums ?. Who perhaps share your ethos and sensibilites and of course will celebrate your importance and happily massage your ego ?

Offline smiths

Most punters on here are paranoid, they even park up six blocks away from the punt.    :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

Incorrect, some of us are careful as we don't wish to get caught out, its the smart thing to be if you have anything to lose by being found out as a punter. :rolleyes: As ever with you you can only see your own circumstances. :rolleyes: No need at all to park six blocks away either. :rolleyes:

Well, my sympathy is with the married punters on this issue.  Many of them have kids, and many are now getting little or no sex at home.

If a man doesn't have the willpower or the inclination to remain celibate for the rest of his life, and chooses NOT to abandon his family, how does that make him a narcissist?

I also wouldn't call a man "unfaithful" if he chooses to remain in a sexless marriage.  He is being faithful to his family,  doing his duty as a father, regardless of who he's shagging.  Whereas his wife is being unfaithful to HIM.

Offline Deviant

The joys of being middle aged and single. You just throw normal conventions aside and jump into bed with anyone. Girlfriend is a general term where as if you want me to spell it out she was more of a fuck buddy. She came to me for sex and vice-versa. She knew I saw other women and I even told her I punt. She was good with that and was even curious and wondered if it would work out for her and her needs.
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The joys of being middle aged and single.
I had you down as a joyless teen.

- Social meets
None will be sanctioned by the admin and not allowed to be organised on the forums. Use the PM facility instead to organize such meet ups.

But if you want a drink PM me Devo I reckon I would pissing myself with laughter at you on a night out
« Last Edit: October 22, 2015, 03:05:48 PM by cockneybstrd »

But if you want a drink PM me Devo I reckon I would pissing myself with laughter at you on night out
Can imagine Dev on the black rat down this way !


Offline Deviant

Well if there is enough interest then a London social in a venue in Soho could be arranged. Time it to coincide with football on a saturday or after work.
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Well if there is enough interest then a London social in a venue in Soho could be arranged. Time it to coincide with football on a saturday or after work.

Soho is shit full of tourists and cunts and has way too much CCTV and old bill presence for an evening out...



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