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If you think that your 30 minutes of enjoyment is worth possibly infecting your partner and causing her years of grief and upset when she discovers your betrayal then you are a narcissist. No psychiatric professional is going to tell you otherwise. They will nearly all diagnose personality disorder/narcissism.
Your a classic attention seeking narcissist putting himself on a moral pedestal with no empathy for others situations !

Offline Deviant

Narcissists will always go on the attack if someone criticises their decisions.

Cheating on your partner and engaging in souless, emotionless, genital only sex are the actions of a true narcissist.

Read up on NPD and then if it fits then realise that your actions are not always excusable. Blaming your wives and lack of a sex life for cheating is the typical get out of a narcissist.
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Narcissists will always go on the attack if someone criticises their decisions.

Cheating on your partner and engaging in souless, emotionless, genital only sex are the actions of a true narcissist.

Read up on NPD and then if it fits then realise that your actions are not always excusable. Blaming your wives and lack of a sex life for cheating is the typical get out of a narcissist.
So I'm a cheating narcissist very funny !

Offline Deviant

VW I know nothing of your situation. I would hazard a guess that many of the married men here are. It is a fairly prevalent condition and would fit with most of the motivation behind paying for sex acts with a stranger.
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VW I know nothing of your situation. I would hazard a guess that many of the married men here are. It is a fairly prevalent condition and would fit with most of the motivation behind paying for sex acts with a stranger.
So your very anti punter or are you bitter because your favourite prossie has a queue of married guys.  If you have found god, should you not be in church.  If you work for public health your time would be better spent in public toilets shaming people to wash their hands, the cause of more disease than all the punters on this planet.


I do not need to know what goes on in your marriage. If you are sneeking around behind your partners back and lying then those are the actions of a narcissist. You are not alone. That is about 1 in 10 adult males.

This forum is predominantly narcissists. I am one and am trying to lessen the damage of my actions to the people around me. I would never marry again because I recognise I am too selfish and lack self control.

You're skating on thin ice here IMO. Whatever self hatred or even mental illness you may have, projecting that onto this forum as a whole is not on IMO. A viewpoint indistinguishable from a Feminazi!

Narcissists will always go on the attack if someone criticises their decisions.

Cheating on your partner and engaging in souless, emotionless, genital only sex are the actions of a true narcissist.

Read up on NPD and then if it fits then realise that your actions are not always excusable. Blaming your wives and lack of a sex life for cheating is the typical get out of a narcissist.

Classic case of self projection, hopefully he will carry on all the way to a ban.  :hi:

Offline smiths

I do not need to know what goes on in your marriage. If you are sneeking around behind your partners back and lying then those are the actions of a narcissist. You are not alone. That is about 1 in 10 adult males.

This forum is predominantly narcissists. I am one and am trying to lessen the damage of my actions to the people around me. I would never marry again because I recognise I am too selfish and lack self control.

Its predominantly narcissists is it, what a load of old bollocks, diagnosing people on the net. :rolleyes:

Offline Deviant

VW a nice caption and imagery will not get around it. Ultimately punting is a selfish pasttime. The women who also provide the service to some extent are narcissists.

I recognise that and I can live with it. There are aspects of being a narcissist that I embrace and am not ashamed to display. I gave up hiding my punting habits a long time ago. This is who I am.

You married guys are still living a lie.
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Offline yorkshire123

Married people are crazy if they do OWO or any kind of kissing. You guys catch herpes and that 30 minute shag will cost you dearly.

If you want to sleep around then do the right thing and end the marriage. Lying and sleeping with prostitutes is not compatible with being married. Only a narcissist thinks they can act in that way and that the betrayal is somehow acceptable.

I had you down as a trouble causing cunt when you joined & you have done nothing to remove that thought 
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Offline sam1

Having read this post I believe yorkshire123 has the correct diagnosis for our fellow punter Deviant
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VW a nice caption and imagery will not get around it. Ultimately punting is a selfish pasttime. The women who also provide the service to some extent are narcissists.

I recognise that and I can live with it. There are aspects of being a narcissist that I embrace and am not ashamed to display. I gave up hiding my punting habits a long time ago. This is who I am.

You married guys are still living a lie.


I am guessing as i havent had you on the couch that essentially your a Compensatory narcissist which is why your always banging on about your awards from other sites

Though i see you more as a WEST8's ginger step brother type myself

Offline Deviant

Circle the wagons! I put an idea out there that you do not like and you all get defensive. This is not intended to cause trouble.

Be honest. If you went and saw a mental health professional and admitted your punting habits what do you think they would say? I spoke to a friend years back who is a social worker and told him I paid for sex and he was shocked. It set off so many alarm bells with him and questions as to whether he really knew me.
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Circle the wagons! I put an idea out there that you do not like and you all get defensive. This is not intended to cause trouble.

Be honest. If you went and saw a mental health professional and admitted your punting habits what do you think they would say? I spoke to a friend years back who is a social worker and told him I paid for sex and he was shocked. It set off so many alarm bells with him and questions as to whether he really knew me.
I concur he was right to have alarm bells in your case .

Yes I have had rejections. Women who know me from online forums now refuse to take bookings from me  :( They told me it is because I am totally indiscreet and brag too much.

Not just us who have alarm bells about you, Wg's as well

Offline Deviant

Not just my case. He finds the whole purchase of sex thing troubling. Then again he works in an environment where he receives nothing but feminist indoctrination where female friendly values are promoted and the excesses of male behaviour are always labelled as a threat.
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Not just us who have alarm bells about you, Wg's as well
So to summarise those with concerns

Us - UKP
Other forums
Escorts
Mental health professionals
A friend who is a social worker

Have I missed any ?

Offline Deviant

Despite all the interest in me and people following me on various threads, this thread is not about me though. It is about you married men passing on STI's to people who have complete trust in you (they let you have unprotected sex with them).

Why do you knowingly put your partners at risk?
Banning reason: Posting bollocks

Offline yorkshire123

Circle the wagons! I put an idea out there that you do not like and you all get defensive. This is not intended to cause trouble.

Be honest. If you went and saw a mental health professional and admitted your punting habits what do you think they would say? I spoke to a friend years back who is a social worker and told him I paid for sex and he was shocked. It set off so many alarm bells with him and questions as to whether he really knew me.

So now you are saying that married punters have mental health issues?
I've also got an acquaintance who is a social worker & he is also full off shit.

I'm surprised with your track record you would have the cheek to take the moral high ground but there again twat's rarely have the mental capacity to see their own misgivings.   
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Offline Deviant

I am not taking any moral high ground. That is where you are all going wrong. I am the worst offender on here but at least I recognise I have "issues" and avoid marriage and using people (where ever I can).

Passing on an STI to an intimate partner is unforgivable.
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Offline smiths

Despite all the interest in me and people following me on various threads, this thread is not about me though. It is about you married men passing on STI's to people who have complete trust in you (they let you have unprotected sex with them).

Why do you knowingly put your partners at risk?

You have posted such shit that it stands out, that's what happens on here, your real views about punters shine through loud and clear. :rolleyes:

You have posted such shit that it stands out, that's what happens on here, your real views about punters shine through loud and clear. :rolleyes:
Yes, he hates himself !

Offline Deviant

A self hating punter!

No I enjoy punting and the past time, but I only enjoy it because I do not have to be deceitful and duplicitious. I can be totally honest and up front about what I do and have no qualms about my actions.

No skulking around for me with a hidden punting phone and having to remove all traces of my browsing history.
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A self hating punter!

No I enjoy punting and the past time, but I only enjoy it because I do not have to be deceitful and duplicitious. I can be totally honest and up front about what I do and have no qualms about my actions.

No skulking around for me with a hidden punting phone and having to remove all traces of my browsing history.
Sure you do !  Moral crusader !  Have  a suspicion your the type of cunt to out a punter on your crusade  against "deceitful and duplicitious" people !


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