Well, Craig, you've aroused a lot of interest with this one, haven't you? And inevitably, you've received a mixture of dis-belief, self-righteous pomposity and derision. Admittedly, I didn't read every single sentence of every post. There might have been someone who wrote, 'good on yer, mate' I'm not at all, in any way, taken aback by what has happened to you. Why not? Because I know it happens. WG's have told me it happens and I have known guys to whom it's happened. Of my friends and acquantancies (doing a quick count here) :-
Numbers who've married and are still married to WG's and who have children with them - 5
Nos. who have been married or been in a long term relationship (over 2 yrs) to a WG, but are no longer - 3
Nos. married to a WG but don't have children yet - 1
Length of marriages; between 3 and 12 years.
I'm afraid I don't currently know anyone who has just started a relationship with a WG.