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Author Topic: What's wrong with me?  (Read 3643 times)

Online Ali Katt

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and interesting about the "age" point. I'm still not sure what to go for in that area. I.e will a "younger" one be less tired of it? Or an "older" one more into it cause they've stuck with it? haha
An older woman may have more life experience so, could be easier to talk to. If she has a lot of feedback and has been around a while, she may have seen men who are less experienced so will know what to do with them. Obviously, don't pick someone you don't fancy. If she is older she may be less intimidating (in terms of beauty\personality etc) than someone your own age or younger.

With regards money, it does feel false but that's the charm of it. You can fuck a gorgeous woman in within an hour usually. No dating required.

Cumming in less than 30: If you book an hour; you'll usually find time flies by. There's other stuff to do besides talking. If the woman is nice to talk to, you may enjoy it. If you don't like talking about yourself: make stuff up: you can be a married bank manager one day, a mature student the next or a property magnate a bit later. Who cares you don't have to see her again.

Fake moans: It's said to take around 5-7 years to get good at something and 10 to master it. With practise you can spot fake orgasms, the body language gives it away, they lay down like a bag of spuds. It's also harder to make a girl cum with your dick than your fingers or tongue.

Online haystacks79

I have felt like the whole scenario was fake in my punts so far I guess it is fake because it's not a real girlfriend.

Looking at it honestly, comparing it to a girlfriend then yes the scenario is fake - but the right girl can make it a pretty convincing experience. I don't focus on the actual penetrative sex part, I've said before here that I'm a hopeless shag anyway, so as SteveNova (and I know we've seen some of same girls) has said I aim to enjoy the whole experience, from the 'hello' at the door, to the goodbye kiss on the way out at the end, and even something as simple as touching her body feels great when you haven't done it for a long time. The fingering, oral (both ways), kissing etc. and just talking (where else do you get to lie next to a naked girl and have a chat?) are far more important to me than the sex. I'm still fairly new to this, and have had 13 punts so far - my first 2 I didn't feel ready for sex at all, and on another occasion I also didn't feel the need, but I still had a good time!

I think, if you decide to continue, that you have to work out just what works for you, and what you enjoy doing, and forget about what society suggests you should enjoy doing.

You also mention that you're not keen on talking about your life, that's not essential either. I've had some really surprising and fascinating conversations with those I've met - ranging from television programs we'd both seen, to places we've been, and other interests, you don't have to touch on who you are or what you do if you don't want to.

Offline Lurtz

I can't be normal thinking sex is shit?

This sort of introspection is normal. Afterall, you are partaking in an activity that is quite abnormal. Sex is supposed to be between two people who fancy each other, but for the punter (and especially the WG) it is a commercial activity. This artificial situation creates emotional confusion. Your brain requires time to adapt.

My first few punts were shit. It takes time to acclimatize. Everyone pukes when they kill their first German. But you’ll get used to it. Sex is just sex. Love is different. There are boundaries – boundaries of behaviour and boundaries of the mind. Some punters like the honesty of a PSE; others like the illusion of the GFE. Pick what you can cope with.

You’ll get over your nervousness – perhaps to the point that you’ll miss the butterflies - and when you eventually reconcile the idea of sex with payment, you’ll lose that sense of empty unfulfilment you feel. Yes, punting is just an expensive wank – but it can be so much more fun than sitting in front of a PC watching xhamster. It can make you deliriously happy.

So, what’s wrong with you? Nowt. Sex can be routine; sex can be boring – but when it’s fun, it’s tremendous – it’s special and it’s addictive.

Offline iName

Not being funny, but do you think the problem might be you're just not that into girls ?

Believe me I'm into girls :)

Great post Lurtz  :)  Especially this bit.

So, what’s wrong with you? Nowt. Sex can be routine; sex can be boring – but when it’s fun, it’s tremendous – it’s special and it’s addictive.

Ever thought of being an agony uncle?  ;)

Offline iName

As with most things the first time is the hardest but it will get easier the more you do it.  :drinks:

Just watch out it doesn't bankrupt you  :scare:

That's not a worry for me at the moment as I'm not enjoying punting lol but I'm sure if I start enjoying it I will get addicted.


Offline iName

An older woman may have more life experience so, could be easier to talk to. If she has a lot of feedback and has been around a while, she may have seen men who are less experienced so will know what to do with them. Obviously, don't pick someone you don't fancy. If she is older she may be less intimidating (in terms of beauty\personality etc) than someone your own age or younger.

With regards money, it does feel false but that's the charm of it. You can fuck a gorgeous woman in within an hour usually. No dating required.

Cumming in less than 30: If you book an hour; you'll usually find time flies by. There's other stuff to do besides talking. If the woman is nice to talk to, you may enjoy it. If you don't like talking about yourself: make stuff up: you can be a married bank manager one day, a mature student the next or a property magnate a bit later. Who cares you don't have to see her again.

Fake moans: It's said to take around 5-7 years to get good at something and 10 to master it. With practise you can spot fake orgasms, the body language gives it away, they lay down like a bag of spuds. It's also harder to make a girl cum with your dick than your fingers or tongue.

I just don't think I enjoy talking much especially as I'm paying. I'll buy a parrot if I need a talk, bet it'll be cheaper!

Offline iName

This sort of introspection is normal. Afterall, you are partaking in an activity that is quite abnormal. Sex is supposed to be between two people who fancy each other, but for the punter (and especially the WG) it is a commercial activity. This artificial situation creates emotional confusion. Your brain requires time to adapt.

My first few punts were shit. It takes time to acclimatize. Everyone pukes when they kill their first German. But you’ll get used to it. Sex is just sex. Love is different. There are boundaries – boundaries of behaviour and boundaries of the mind. Some punters like the honesty of a PSE; others like the illusion of the GFE. Pick what you can cope with.

You’ll get over your nervousness – perhaps to the point that you’ll miss the butterflies - and when you eventually reconcile the idea of sex with payment, you’ll lose that sense of empty unfulfilment you feel. Yes, punting is just an expensive wank – but it can be so much more fun than sitting in front of a PC watching xhamster. It can make you deliriously happy.

So, what’s wrong with you? Nowt. Sex can be routine; sex can be boring – but when it’s fun, it’s tremendous – it’s special and it’s addictive.


Thanks for the post Lurtz, makes me feel much more re assured that I'm not a weirdo or anything.

I guess it's like when I also killed my first German, it'll get easier or more "normal" with time.

i too would find the penetration (hate the neccesary condom ) bit a bit of a bore but i love the lead up  owo fingers dfk  and a bit of penetration but i love to finish with owo

Offline the_exile

I think Lurtz's post is spot on - yes, paid sex is in some ways an abnormal activity, but it's something that you can get used to & can be a lot of fun. I certainly was no great shakes sexually when I started, quite often came too quickly and found that nerves spoiled it for me. With not much in the way of build-up, the orgasms I had were pretty inferior to what I could achieve when wanking. However, I got to know one WG & saw her often, I became more relaxed about the whole business and started to enjoy it more. Yes, sometimes I did decide to save my money, stay at home & have a wank, but masturbation can be unsatisfying, I prefer the involvement of a sex partner who's up for some fun! I can enjoy the feelings build up when masturbating, but it's a lot more exciting through sex.

Another job point made was that sex can be boring or routine - I had several WGs who have seemed uninterested, and just been going through the motions. However, I have also met plenty who have been very friendly, made the whole experience fun and sometimes really enjoyed themselves into the bargain. That's when it can be really special.


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