Nerves

[Timmy2]

Standard now mate. First thing on the agenda. 

ha ha
I was ribbin Mandy about it yesterday.. she said you actually did do it
Pissed myself...
 
Raddy

[TeaAndCrumpets]

Yeah I'm single too and wouldn't do it if/when I see someone, not that I'm judging anyone on here. It's more of a feeling of using someone, but it makes me feel better knowing it's what they want to do and not being forced to do it. If anything I'm just socially awkward that I'm worried about. I would have been a bit lost without this forum too, I don't usually trust these things and half expect to be murdered or mugged lol but it's good to read reviews from people on here, helps to reassure me.

Having just done the "emotional rollercoaster" of a first punt, stick it out and go through with it - the WG is there to do a job and afterwards you'll be wondering what you were so nervous about!

[MrBridger]

ha ha
I was ribbin Mandy about it yesterday.. she said you actually did do it
Pissed myself...
 
Raddy

I'm a man of my word Raddy. Hope you're the same  - now get noshing. 

[Timmy2]

 
Will do
Raddy

[rider10]

I had my first punt a month ago. Strangely I wan't very nervous at all. I used to work in door to door sales and I remember being much more nervous walking up to a random door selling something than I was walking up to the door knowing I was going to have sex with the lass behind it, all the more surprising as I was also about to lose my virginity. The bit I found worst for nerves was phoning her up to book, but I didn't want to risk booking by text or email and finding out I'd booked a bloke, or worse.

[MrBridger]

I had my first punt a month ago. Strangely I wan't very nervous at all. I used to work in door to door sales and I remember being much more nervous walking up to a random door selling something than I was walking up to the door knowing I was going to have sex with the lass behind it, all the more surprising as I was also about to lose my virginity. The bit I found worst for nerves was phoning her up to book, but I didn't want to risk booking by text or email and finding out I'd booked a bloke, or worse.

Wow. Popping your cherry with a WG seems worth a review to me, or at the very least a name check for the lucky lady. Care to share?

[Sonny Crockett]

Nerves before a punt is just normal. For me it is the case when I embark on a punt after a few weeks break as I am anxious as to how I will perform, or when I meet a lady for the first time as I don't know what to expect.

[rider10]

Wow. Popping your cherry with a WG seems worth a review to me, or at the very least a name check for the lucky lady. Care to share?

There's not much point in a review, she's disappeared from Adultwork and can't see her elsewhere on line, in addition to me having absolutely nothing to compare it to. She was/is called Lana Of Bedfordshire, despite obviously being Spanish, and she was working in Dundee for most of the last few months. Also I didn't actually tell her I was a virgin until I sent her a text message the next day, I just told her it was the first time I'd visited an escort and hoped that covered for any nerves and inexperience and avoided any negative preconceptions she may have had about seeing virgins.

As I said I booked her by phone and it was quite a brief and awkward conversation on both sides, but I'm unsure whether that was my fault, her fault, or whether I'd just caught her at an inconvenient moment. Apart from that she came across as perfectly attentive and interested in me, as for the sex itself I have nothing to compare it to!

[MrBridger]

There's not much point in a review, she's disappeared from Adultwork and can't see her elsewhere on line, in addition to me having absolutely nothing to compare it to. She was/is called Lana Of Bedfordshire, despite obviously being Spanish, and she was working in Dundee for most of the last few months. Also I didn't actually tell her I was a virgin until I sent her a text message the next day, I just told her it was the first time I'd visited an escort and hoped that covered for any nerves and inexperience and avoided any negative preconceptions she may have had about seeing virgins.

As I said I booked her by phone and it was quite a brief and awkward conversation on both sides, but I'm unsure whether that was my fault, her fault, or whether I'd just caught her at an inconvenient moment. Apart from that she came across as perfectly attentive and interested in me, as for the sex itself I have nothing to compare it to!

According to SAAFE, most WGs would have got a kick out of deflowering you. I think you missed a trick there.

[rider10]

According to SAAFE, most WGs would have got a kick out of deflowering you. I think you missed a trick there.

Possibly but I didn't want a fuss to be made of the fact I was a virgin and she seemed into it enough for me anyway.

[vw]

Possibly but I didn't want a fuss to be made of the fact I was a virgin and she seemed into it enough for me anyway.

Your off to a good start then, what more can a gut want .  Onwards and upwards now !

[anonymous1]

My nerves is turning into excitement now I'm coming round to the idea, only regret is only asking for 30 minutes and booking it in a week advance, the wait is killing me. Just hope my anxiety don't kick in as I feel like I'm not in control of my body when it happens.

I envy people on here who can do this weekly, with my financials I'll be looking to do this every 3 or 4 months. 

[Majestic]

Another one here with first time nerves as you can see from my post count. Although I have been lurking for a bit and have hopefully picked up some tips and have been doing a bit of research.

I'm single so don't have to worry about any of the guilt of being married or anything and due to whats happened in the past, I just think being single is easier at the moment. However, us men still have needs right?

The only problem is that while I am OK with people after I've got to know them, I can be quite shy at the start. Also this whole "paying for sex" thing but then in someways while it still hangs over my head, I think it is becoming more accepted. Did other feel the same?

I'm also undecided if I should go to Soho or use an agency or something. The idea behind Soho was because if I don't like it, its less money and doesn't last as long but on the other hand, there not exactly your nice comfortable flats/apartments!

So basically, I just need to give myself a kick up the backside and tip myself over the tip of the hill. After all, by the sounds of it, once you've started, you can't stop 

[diddy]

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The only problem is that while I am OK with people after I've got to know them, I can be quite shy at the start. Also this whole "paying for sex" thing but then in someways while it still hangs over my head, I think it is becoming more accepted. Did other feel the same?

I'm also undecided if I should go to Soho or use an agency or something. The idea behind Soho was because if I don't like it, its less money and doesn't last as long but on the other hand, there not exactly your nice comfortable flats/apartments!

So basically, I just need to give myself a kick up the backside and tip myself over the tip of the hill. After all, by the sounds of it, once you've started, you can't stop 

Personally as someone who started in a soho walk up id say its a bit like going to Great Yarmouth in the rain for your first proper summer holiday rather than say California. Why probably have a shit time when great alternatives exist, as per the reviews here.

Yes its cheap and easy, but you are likely to regret the penny pinching and/or come out feeling shit/seedy/unsatisfied etc. because the walk ups are dark and seedy basically, they can have bins full of spunk filled condoms by the bed and the WG fuck all and sundry all day long in short bursts on bedding that's never changed etc etc. That may give you a thrill in itself, who knows, but it doesn't do much for one's self-regard afterwards so why not aim a bit higher for your first.

I'd suggest instead you pick a nice friendly rude working independent girl and spend 60-100 quid for a memorable fuck and suck, or whatever ticks your boat, from someone attractive and who is at least pretending they are into it. A decent independent will accommodate your shyness, a crap Eastern European soho walk up will take advantage of it. Best advice also is be as clear as you can bear to be at the beginning when face to face on what you like, the WG's actually prefer it I think.

Plus no matter what route you take you will most likely feel a bit weird afterwards, its normal. Its part of the buzz/attraction ultimately. And then it goes where it goes..

[rogercock00]

I don't punt too regularly like some on here so when I do, it is a bit of an experience.

Once I have made the decision to get back in the saddle, I like the whole thing - selecting the WG, making contact, ringing to confirm, getting showered and shaved, taking a bluey, planning travel and parking and then knocking on the door. I get a build up of exitement, nerves and apprehension which only you guys will understand. Love it and it is part of the whole experience 

[uutarn]

Nothing new here but being a relative newbie (2 punts) and being anxious almost all of the time i can say with complete confidence you will be much more comfortable when you get there and the ball starts to roll. Don't cancel, just fucking do it... seriously  .

You have to remember also, WG's (well the good ones anyway) are professionals, they have seen it all before; nerves, ED etc.

My (although limited) advice is to chill, and just enjoy the moment.

My 2c

[Hawkwind71]

Missed this thread from the middle of October.

Coming up on 46 punts with 37 Wgs. Woohoo. Can honestly say I am as nervous now as when I began. I have to find a pub/Mcdonalds with a toilet at least 1 hr before punt to make sure I don't have to use the wgs toilet, which they hate.

Dunno what it is but just accept it....

[vw]

Missed this thread from the middle of October.

Coming up on 46 punts with 37 Wgs. Woohoo. Can honestly say I am as nervous now as when I began. I have to find a pub/Mcdonalds with a toilet at least 1 hr before punt to make sure I don't have to use the wgs toilet, which they hate.

That's why I piss in the shower these days, when the waters no longer yellow I know I'm clean enough. 

Fed up with being told off for pissing on the lid ! 

[Hawkwind71]

That's why I piss in the shower these days, when the waters no longer yellow I know I'm clean enough. 

Fed up with being told off for pissing on the lid ! 

or for not putting the seat down

or not shaking out the fluffy towels

or squirting the toothpaste on to the basin rim

Or not putting the top back on the mouthwash

Or forgetting to shave my balls, or forgot the deoderant or put on too much deoderant

And please please don't burb when you're kissing me..........

.....jesus christ Im a nervous wreck no wonder I crap my pants.