Phoning a WG to book

[Rod trotter]

Ive a phobia of this, it scares the shit out of me when they say ring for appointment.

I cant explain why i like to text and email but thats me.

Anyone else got a problem doing it?

[SirFrank]

I never phone first off, as I prefer text or email for the initial contact. I do like a chat though before the meet - if she sounds like Brian Johnson out of AC/DC, I can then cancel

[cueball]

Completely opposite to the op

I much prefer to sort everything on the phone, I can get a better idea of her through a conversation and I sort my day and time during the phone call for 99% of my punts.

[frankc]

Must admit I'm the same as CB, much prefer a chat before hand, get a bit of banter going and discuss what I want,

[smiths]

Ive a phobia of this, it scares the shit out of me when they say ring for appointment.

I cant explain why i like to text and email but thats me.

Anyone else got a problem doing it?

I ONLY phone WGs, I wouldn't punt any other way.

[Redhead Lover]

I don't like using a phone full stop, let alone to chat to a WG.  The few I've used in the past that have insisted on a call first always sound stoned/hungover when I make the initial call, but have been great punts when I've turned up.

I guess it's obvious, but do some research on the girl too, if the call doesn't fill you with confidence.

[Tiger63]

Well I`ve just got off the phone to an ex porno model who Iam meeting next week

[Access]

If I could arrange everything by email I would...

[webpunter]

I still get that tingly / excited feeling when 1st speaking with a new WG.  When this doesn't happen then more of a concern
More importantly the conversation allows me to get some idea of what the WG is all about.  Punting antennae at the ready
Some conversations have led me not bother.  And others put me more at ease & give me a semi as the WG sounds sexy as fuck & all things above board etc 

[Ben4454]

You do run the risk of coming off as a timewaster if you want a bit of banter beforehand. Better to banter in person than on the phone/text. For me I will phone the working girl and make a booking. If the phone call isn't answered I will send an E-mail. If the E-mail is not replied to I will move on.

[robbie54321]

Phone is much easier

Hello, is that (girls name here, always wait for the answer!! If it's no then you've rang the wrong number!)  are you available for a booking at (insert time)
Thanks very much
Can you text me the address?

All done in seconds
Simples!!

[webpunter]

You do run the risk of coming off as a timewaster if you want a bit of banter beforehand. Better to banter in person than on the phone/text. For me I will phone the working girl and make a booking. If the phone call isn't answered I will send an E-mail. If the E-mail is not replied to I will move on.

+1  Some WGs want a convo - normally the ones who are older / british or have good english.  Others its text only which is more of a concern - especially when close by the WGs place.  Reckon better to send a txt before calling.  Not all AW birds access their mails during the day

[scoobydoo88]

Most of the time I like to phone for a first meet and text for repeat visits.

[Dingo1]

I'm glad I'm not the only one, I have a real phobia of calling too.. Don't know why

[ian cognito]

I only know on the day that I've got the opportunity to punt so prefer the immediacy of a phone call. With e-mail you've got to check that it's been read then wait for a reply - half the day can go by before you know whether the punt is on or not.

[fenderstrat31]

I  never used to phone, but over the last few months I have been speaking to WG's before meeting and I have to say that it has saved me from whta could have been a few bad punts. Some of them sound off there heads or more like frank bruno so it gives me the opportunity to avoid them.
And also, some of them sound sexy as fuck and that adds to the eventual meet IMO

[Samcrow1]

I have a phobia of calling as well but I'm hoping now that I have got myself a punting mobile and no longer have to worry about my number ending up in the wrong hands that this will become easier, I do prefer to text and then just call to confirm everything as when at work or if you have people around its not the easiest call to make lol

[flybynightpm]

I used to hate phoning, but its sometimes the only way to get thru to them, after a while it becomes easier.. I'd rather book them via email or txt  as its safer than being overhead, but its just too unreliable unless you know them well...

[Cuntminion]

Meh don't bother me

[The Hound]

..the phone call is key for me as pick up a lot of their attitude approach - the final part of the process of for me - email and then phone and then txt to get address info and land into their place.

[LL]

OP, this is a phobia that will be cured simply by doing it. Each time you do so it will get easier.

[Roth]

OP, this is a phobia that will be cured simply by doing it. Each time you do so it will get easier.

+1

[vw]

OP, this is a phobia that will be cured simply by doing it. Each time you do so it will get easier.

The first time is always the worst !

[Roth]

The first time is always the worst !

But it's like riding a bike if you will excuse the saying!

[Daffodil]

I think you can gain a lot of info from a 60 sec phone call. Much easier than text tennis. I'll use both forms of communication, but much prefer a call.

[suffolkmark]

Personally, I text first to make sure she is able to talk and then call. Some of my regulars have children and other lives. 

[two20]

I always try and email/txt first but most seem to want you to confirm by phone. I think I would if I was them too, we know what they look like at least, it must be a bit weird someone just turning up.

[Blue Suede Goo]

I think it's vital to speak to them first.
You can really gauge what kind of punt it's going to be (plus research on UKP).
Texting reveals nothing.

[dboy74]

I prefer to talk first, if possible.

You can definitely gauge a lot even in a short phone call.

[pong]

Ive a phobia of this, it scares the shit out of me when they say ring for appointment.

I cant explain why i like to text and email but thats me.

Anyone else got a problem doing it?

Absolute the same here.

[threechilliman]

I actively avoid a phone call as I find meeting a complete stranger who I haven't spoken to all the more exciting. If you stick to well reviewed girls or recommendations, the risks are low. Choice of phone or email well may depend on whether you're an on-the-day punter or plan in advance.

tcm

[vw]

I actively avoid a phone call as I find meeting a complete stranger who I haven't spoken to all the more exciting. If you stick to well reviewed girls or recommendations, the risks are low. Choice of phone or email well may depend on whether you're an on-the-day punter or plan in advance.

tcm

Did an over night a while back with 2 AW emails that was it !

Went well, but the not speaking was a buzz all day in the build up !

[Rod trotter]

OP, this is a phobia that will be cured simply by doing it. Each time you do so it will get easier.

Yea i know its just feels odd ringing up for a sex appointment, i cant really explain it

[broksonic]

I don't really like phoning because I always end up getting nervous and mixing my words up

[vw]

I don't really like phoning because I always end up getting nervous and mixing my words up

What like fuck and car wash ?

[Jamboney]

I prefer to text or email at first, if they want a phone call to confirm the booking that's fine. I personally find it easier doing it this way

[broksonic]

What like fuck and car wash ?

No

[SamLP]

I nearly always phone. Great for establishing whether you think it will be a good punt or not from their attitude. I've decided many times not to press any further and just apologise with an excuse such as let me get back to you if I can make that time when I've felt the attitude was shit or slacking.

Also great for confirming services and whether there are extras.

My conversations usually go like this:
Hi
Is this ..?
How are you?
I just wanted to check if you're available today?
Are you free at?
What station is closest to you?
Can I confirm which services are included in your price?
Depending on answer if it wasn't mentioned... Is FK & OWO included?
Again depending on answer, if I want to book.. Can you send the address and I can come at xpm. Great see you

I'm a vanilla punter so FK, OWO & sex are my interests. Never asked a girl to dress up in a certain way. I just require a passionate service.

[Rod trotter]

I think it's vital to speak to them first.
You can really gauge what kind of punt it's going to be (plus research on UKP).
Texting reveals nothing.

really?  vital?  i always text and email and never had a problem

i think its my culture of using agencies for whom ive always texted

[Dingo1]

What like fuck and car wash ?

vdub... You crack me up!! 

[vw]

really?  vital?  i always text and email and never had a problem

i think its my culture of using agencies for whom ive always texted

They usually insist on text because its some fat bloke talking and doing the organising.

[smiths]

really?  vital?  i always text and email and never had a problem

i think its my culture of using agencies for whom ive always texted

Yes really its absolutely essential to me, though of course I realise I might actually be speaking to the WGs colleague or pimp, for me having a chat and getting confirmation that what I require at the price advertised IS on offer is the best I can do, and any sign of a bad attitude or a monotone reply and I look elsewhere.

[smiths]

I don't really like phoning because I always end up getting nervous and mixing my words up

I would be countless times more nervous of giving any WG ID like you were still considering doing to Lara Brooks the other day, a REALLY bad idea in my view, but up to you of course.

[vw]

vdub... You crack me up!! 

That's OK if i crack one person per day I'm happy ! 

[Deviant]

Maybe it is a younger thing. As a young guy I would have been terrified but after years of phoning people all day at work it now comes naturally. Phoning a WG is much the same as phoning a colleague. I ask to arrange a meeting and give her options as to times and then just ask to confirm rough location and then to send me exact address when I am close.

Some of the easiest calls I ever make. You know the women are the service provider and therefore hoping to make a good impression (if they are any good that is).

[threechilliman]

Maybe it is a younger thing. As a young guy I would have been terrified but after years of phoning people all day at work it now comes naturally. Phoning a WG is much the same as phoning a colleague. I ask to arrange a meeting and give her options as to times and then just ask to confirm rough location and then to send me exact address when I am close.

Some of the easiest calls I ever make. You know the women are the service provider and therefore hoping to make a good impression (if they are any good that is).

Yes, on the odd occasion I have spoken to a girl, I treat them like any other supplier of services. I want this, this and this, a bit of that, some of the other and the price is £x. Are you available at this time on Wednesday or Thursday blah, blah, blah. I've no idea why folk get so nervous - you want some sex and you're phoning a supplier of sexual services.

tcm

[Blue Suede Goo]

Yes really its absolutely essential to me, though of course I realise I might actually be speaking to the WGs colleague or pimp, for me having a chat and getting confirmation that what I require at the price advertised IS on offer is the best I can do, and any sign of a bad attitude or a monotone reply and I look elsewhere.

What Smiths said.
The amount of rude twattish wgs I've spoken to who have a terrible attitude.
Some of them kick off after the most rudimentary enquiries.
How can any piece of mind  be gauged from a few texts?

[broksonic]

The worse for me is if a male answers . I just put the phone straight down as it very likely to be her pimp

[Hawkwind71]

I honestly do not care, email, message, text, phone, letter.

What I cannot stand is when they don't get back to you.

Phone to voicemail, text not answered, message not read or replied. If this was a civvie business most of them would be fired.

 

[Mr Br1ghts1de]

I tend to adopt 2 approaches:

1/ Where I am planning ahead and have a high degree of confidence in the girl, I send an email via AW.

2/ Where I do not have a high degree of confidence or am punting on spec, I ring and run through the kind of questions SamLP has listed, with special emphasis on services.