Firstly, I am someone who enjoys a degree of chat during bookings to create a sense of rapport which for me then enhances everything else - a bit fluffy perhaps but that's my ideal.
I do not know if it is just my own bad luck but with a high proportion of escorts I have seen , particularly non-natives , there seems to be a set questionnaire , an unholy trinity ;
1 How Old Are You ? ( Even when profile clearly states ages is only a number )
2 What Job Do You Do ?
3 Are You Married / Have a Girlfriend / Have Kids ?
I am happy to talk intimately about sexual topics , hobbies and interests , current affairs or whatever takes our fancy , even the weather at a push.However , the three questions listed are not fun and for me are real mood killers - I don't want to have these thoughts in my mind during a punt , I want a feel of escapism from the normal routine - plus they are asking for potentially identifying information in a situation where discretion should be key.Obviously they don't care about the answers but even raising these topics should be a no-no ; people who wish to discuss them will volunteer the information themselves !
For me they are personals question that I am uncomfortable with in this scenario - ironically asked in an impersonal, non thinking way but still having to be tediously endured and putting a bit of a damper on things.
I usually try to swerve the questions with vague answers but with many of the poorer speaking EEs this just drags it out.Maybe I should just give quick and easy lies ( they don't care what the answer is anyway ) , tell them no more questions or stick something in their mouth !
I was wondering if a lot of people have to put up with this during their paid time and how they respond , maybe some of the funniest answers they have given in response or how they avoid / stop such questioning !
It might be interesting to see how they like a taste of their own medicine ;
1 How Old Are - Real Age , Not Age Give On Profile Please ?
2 Think I already know the answer to that equivalent question !
3 Husband / Boyfriend / Family plus follow up questions
or give some strange / unsettling answers ans see if they even show recognition of what you have said ;
1 14 or 114
2 Tax Inspector
3 Yes , it is my daughter's school play this evening ; she cried when I said I would not be there so you had better be worth it !
Just had to vent about a bugbear of mine , wish I could post it on SAAFE as well !