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Offline yorkshire123

you will never totally quit but i do think that poor quality prossies who's only interest is rinsing you for as much money as they can for doing as little as possible is certainly to blame for the recent spate of 'retirements'. Yes, of course they are all in it for the money but you get some that are just in it for the money....then there are the ones who actually take pride in giving a good service and are genuine slags too.

In my case nothing could be further from the truth but obviously I don't speak for all, all I can say is in my last few months of punting regulars & newbies alike all put in the effort yet the pre/post punt excitement I once felt had all but gone.   
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im in a similar place, it will help our bank balance at least  :drinks:

Now, I know most of you don't care.....I'm hardly a die hard contributer, with less than 30 posts, but I've punted for over 20 years now. Happily divorced, but also happily on my way to marriage number 2.

I worked out today I've probably blown £50,000 + on punts. Done the shit parlours, all the way through to blowing £500 (for 1 sodding hour) on some USA porn stars. Had some amazing £70 punts that exceeded expectations. And boy, have I done some rotters.

But today, I had a great punt. She was hot. Glamour model looks, huge tits. Hot. 9 out of 10. Enthusiastic, great service.

But, I felt empty.....never have I felt like this. I'm a dog.....I'd fuck anything that moved. But today I was hanging out the back of a stunning fuck doll, and I wanted to stop.

This is not the place to announce punting retirement (I can hear the cry's of, give it 2 weeks), but never have I felt like this - sure, had some bad punts where you say enough is enough, and then the next day, you're searching for your next fix.

But no. With dick in a sopping wet pussy, having an awesome fuck, I decided to stop there and then.

I used to punt the equivalent of 60 smokes a day. I'm now on 3 a day. In punting terms I'm down to 2 or 3 punts every 3 months......which is less than my hayday of 2 to 3 a week!

I'm sad in a way, but none of my mates know  my secret life. Which is why I write this. Many of you will question why I say this in a forum like this. I'm sad having had a 20 year hobby that I want to give up. But I have nobody to share this with.

I've tried to stop over last few years, but just kept coming back. But this is different.

Anyone else felt they really wanted to stop?

Or, has anyone said that's it, but gone back to their old ways?

Without in any way wishing to judge married guys that punt (because the reasons are varied and many, and I have sympathy for many of them - there, but for the Grace of God, go I...) - you're about to be married for the 2nd time?

Unless your intended knows of your habit on the side, I think you're doing exactly the right thing by giving up. Why on earth would you go into a fresh marriage, punting (and lying) at the outset? I think that would be a cruel lie.

Good luck to you in your new marriage, Sir Nigel  :thumbsup:.








...I give it 3mths before you start punting again... :rolleyes:  :D  ;)

Offline akauya

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I've tried to stop over last few years, but just kept coming back. But this is different.

Anyone else felt they really wanted to stop?

Or, has anyone said that's it, but gone back to their old ways?

The only times I stopped punting was when I was in a meaningful relationshit... and by meaningful I mean where I had good sex from it and usually from girlfriends, lovers and/or swingers. It is true that when sex is great punting becomes less relevant. So in between lovers and swingers I punt. Admittedly I punt a lot more now than when I was in my 30s and 40s (I'm older, fatter, uglier so finding new lovers is harder).

I think it's a good idea to have variety, prossies, lovers, platonic female friends, it all adds up to a "fulfilling" life IMHO. Sticking to one of those only all the time makes you become jaded.

To me that old cliche is very true, variety is the spice of life.



Offline akauya

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But today, I had a great punt. She was hot. Glamour model looks, huge tits. Hot. 9 out of 10. Enthusiastic, great service.

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... and by the way very bad form you not posting a link for said hottie   :timeout:


Offline G-style

A very interesting set of views. To the OP, congratulations on finding that special person.
Like many of the others I find that my enthusiasm is waining. Is it because we all have such high expectation.  At one time even just the thought of pounding some young 20 something from behind while watching it in the full length mirror would have been laughable. Now I find that afterwards i come away feeling disappointed, she didn't give good DFK, she didn't make eye contact while licking my balls, i didn't get to come twice or give her a facial ...
Perhaps a break is the answer.
Thanks for listening and yes it's good to share (as long as our cocks don't touch.. shudder!!)

Offline cueball

Good post and thread op.

Lots of genuine comments on here, whatever your decision is, only you can make it.

I do "get" your feeling of wanting to express your thoughts on here, for most of us, this is the only place we can share our hobby.

Whatever you decide, as far as I'm concerned you'd still be a welcome contributor on here.

Offline hornypnter

Anyone else felt they really wanted to stop?

Or, has anyone said that's it, but gone back to their old ways?

I started punting because the sex was shit with my long term partner as an avenue to try things out that my partner would not. Prior to that I didn't even think about punting because everything was great in the relationship.

When my first 2 punts went very well I guess I was hooked.

Yeah whenever I had shit punts I thought about giving up BUT still ended up punting.

When I met my current wife and got married I had no problem stopping punting. But after 2 years of marriage I have returned to punting.
In my case I don't know if I will be able to give it up completely until I am on my deathbed or if my sex drive slows down.  :D


Hawkwind71

This is such a good thread OP and please understand I am just playing devil's advocate.
I admire your decision to give up punting for true love. It's great when it happens.

For me I have always be in awe of the true female figure. I was in awe when I was 20
and was too shy to really make a go. In awe when I was 40 and the girls in my workplace were
definitely up for it. In awe now as I hit 60 but the difference is finally I have the means to enjoy.

So I've done my true love bit, done my faithful husband bit...... now its my turn to enjoy and
as long as I can I will.  :yahoo:

Offline hendrix

Good posts here. As many of you will know, I haven't punted for a while now having been a 2 or more a week man for years. I don't have any desire to punt at the moment and although that might change, I don't know how/when. I've had breaks before but always felt like I would be back, and I was. This time is definitely different. Just feels like a chapter over somehow  :unknown:

Offline DG

It's interesting reading how other members feels about this excellent thread. Makes me wonder if I'm punting at all? For the last three months I've only seen one girl, pretty much once a fortnight. Yes she's an escort and yes I pay, but it doesn't feel that way. Every other girl I've seen it was very much a 'punt', some I went back to and some I haven't.

As I mentioned before on this thread, if she retired, I might well give it up too. I haven't logged onto AW for ages and certainly have no desire to book anyone new, or even revisit some old great punts. Time will tell but I definitely get where the OP and others are coming from. Never had a long break, except an enforced one due to ill health, so don't know how I would react to that. But no matter how you play this game, I guess if you continue to enjoy it, and there are no obstacles, then most of us will keep going. If things change, like meeting someone, or the thrill leaves you, then why not hang up your punting pants, for a while anyway?
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So I've done my true love bit, done my faithful husband bit...... now its my turn to enjoy and
as long as I can I will.  :yahoo:

I'm with that. Kids have always had what they want as has my wife and I've often gone without - not that it was a major issue, I'm not materialistic and enjoy the simple things in life. But my kids are now grown up and support themselves pretty much meaning I've been able to indulge myself a little with girls and enjoy my boys toys.

tcm

Offline shagbambi

In my case I know what I like.  Variety was always key and I barely ever saw a girl more than once.  But I have realized very few women truly do it for me and take things to a different level. Hence the scaling back and focusing on a few really great girls.  I suppose it's a new phase in my punting life. How good can things get with a regular.

Funnily enough, I thought about the link to said glamour model......but, I thought that might look bad on her!

It's like leaving your wife for another man!!!

She might think her BAD service made me "want" to give up punting.

But she was good.....couldn't complain.

So, out of respect to her (I doubt she'd ever know) I didn't think it was right.

Happy to say, it was in the MK area.

Well that narrows it down a tad then, HHD is she the good un there?.

Much the same Nige here single now after having been married 20 years but not going mad on punting at the moment. If the right girl come along and it is good then I might well pack it in. 

Till then I won't:)

Offline hungrypunt

Mental Diminished reward ! possibly, and is most usually followed by want and need again, just depends how long.

See you soon then  :D

:hi: Some people spend more on whatching footie :D

Its some thing we do because we can  :unknown: and when the time comes that you are thinking I wonder what a slim big titted girls tits will swing like when Ive got her on the edge of a coffe table  ;)   .....Thats when you turn around and start again .over 30 plus years Ive never given up I just have breaks I have to say that even with the blue pill things aint what they used to be and the buzz is not there even with an iron bar in a young beauty :D
Thats life mate she is just there cause your cash is there and its easy for her , charming and keeping a full time partner and building alife together is much much harder and rewarding it sounds like thats what you have found mate Good luck with her and life remember a fuck is all you get with a prossie in exchange for cash. All that emotanal stuff that goes with other girls is far far more difficult to deal with thats why I reckon you are saying this a pang of guilt has come in to you..all the best :drinks:
I spend thousands on footy each year 2 season tickets at Old Trafford plus cup games extra plus away games.  And going to European away games costs a bomb.  And despite united playing shite since fergie retired the guilt of giving it up would be much worse than giving any woman up. One of the reasons me and my ex split up was coz of football.  She hated me spending my weekends at football and then rugby league in the summer.  So I got her season tickets for united and wigan warriors. She went to 3 games hated I knew so many women in the pubs pre and post match although non of them were fit and her jealousy took over. But no way I would give it up not even after 10 years of living together. I guess that's why I am single now coz I am a selfish twat but a happy twat too
Just think I have an addictive personality whether it be hookers weed or booze but now it seems to be body art and that's not cheap either when taken to extremes either

jcdmj12

When I was younger, I used to go out partying all the time and get off my face on various illegal substances.  Most of the time it was a lot of fun, you felt amazing, and had some really incredible, memorable times. Then you fell into the habit of doing it because it was what you did, and at some point (if you had any sense), you realised that it wasn't really fun any more, and gave it a rest for a bit, to make it feel 'special' again.

I'm far too old for that stuff now, so I punt instead.  And I view punting exactly like taking drugs; it makes you feel great, but once it becomes a habit, it can get boring and then make you feel miserable. Then it's time to take a break for a bit.  Although I spend more in real terms on prossies now, as a proportion of my income it's far less than it was, but overall it feels similar. A little break from real life that's fun when you keep it to that.
« Last Edit: September 25, 2015, 07:22:17 PM by jcdmj12 »

Felt pretty much the same yesterday after a good 6 months of hammering it 2 or 3 times a week. Not arsed about the cash now it's gone but hated getting that shit empty feeling after a punt when the build up to it was always so exciting. Been at it on and off(mostly on) for 28 years now and know everywhere in Mcr and its surroundings but getting that jaded feeling and probably going to knock it on the head for a bit, still look in here and maybe post the odd review from a while back (as long as the brass is still active). But I know I'll be back because it is the one thing that you can control and enjoy yourself that you don't need to share if you don't want to apart from on a top forum like this.

Anyway fancy United for a bit of a run in Europe this year so I'll need my pennies for that!!

Hasta la vista  :hi:

The op gets all this helpful advice and won't even reveal who the wg is out of "respect for the girl" poor form

Anyway fancy United for a bit of a run in Europe this year so I'll need my pennies for that!!

You'll have plenty of punting funds by the end of the season - and I'm a MU fan!

tcm

The op gets all this helpful advice and won't even reveal who the wg is out of "respect for the girl" poor form

Bit harsh that C&B. I don't think it's much to do with the girl, more the general situation.

tcm

Bit harsh that C&B. I don't think it's much to do with the girl, more the general situation.

tcm
Possibly though considering sir nigel has spent over 50k on punting it couldn't hurt to give a little back to the forum!

Offline LL

this time it's different.....can't explain how/why, but I think finding happiness is it....shagging a hot model there and then made me feel empty.
I often feel the emptiness after a punt. Immediately afterwards if it was shit. If it was a good punt it usually hits me a couple of days later and lasts for a few days. A massage is the best cure. Tops up my self-worth and subsequently puts me in the mood to punt again and thus the cycle continues.
I wish I could quit but I'm just a man :hi:


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