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Author Topic: Getting too close...  (Read 4824 times)

Offline Moresomes

Is this a (mutton) dagger which I see before me.........Macbeth (ish)

Offline SWLondon

My original post was just something to get off my chest. I'm going into this with my eyes wide open and know there is a high risk of her playing me for something. But I genuinely feel she has feelings for me... Or she's a great actress (also possible!)

My original post was just something to get off my chest. I'm going into this with my eyes wide open and know there is a high risk of her playing me for something. But I genuinely feel she has feelings for me... Or she's a great actress (also possible!)

To be honest mate you are pretty fucked. You are not gonna leave your lady for her (or are you) and if you did would you be happy with her being tagged by all us UKP members??

It will run its course and I hope you don't get hurt by it

:(

Offline Mi-Go

Even if she does have feelings for you, this cannot possibly end well. You need to walk away from the situation.  Don't throw away your long term relationship with your partner just for this.  You will end up alone.

...but she has  feelings for him. have you not seen pretty woman?

I can't help but think of Ava from Sin City 2 in these instances.

Offline comaminion

I don't judge people in relationships who punt

But if you are in one you are hedging a bell of a lot

She is in a walk away position moment she is unhappy

You will toss it all on the fire on a whim

Good luck
Banning reason: White-knighting

And your writing style a little pretentious. Quoting Shakespeare, alas, does not maketh thou Shakespeare :D

Pretentious, moi?

Apologies for that. Black vodka makes one loquacious! Thankyou for taking my ramblings in good faith though.

My Bill Shakey baby quote was a testament (neither old nor new, for the theologians) to the fact that 2 humans, however they meet, and whatever their professions, may find solace in each others embrace. That part was honest and heartfelt. The small piece of good vicar that is left wishes them all the well.

The rest sees the 4 whores of the apocolypse bringing poverty, anguish, resentment and drug resistant knob snot.

But if the OP needs a black clad Thelma, to his Louise, I'll happily take the road trip over the cliff. It maybe a platitude, but life is for living. And I would applaud any person that sucks all the marrow out of the bones.

And as Shakespear  said, " O RO, RO, wherefore art thou RO".

Fuck me, normal vodka does the same.

Offline SWLondon

Crying sob story started. It's over. I'm foolish.

Offline webpunter

As its the Battle of Britain 75th anniversary year then this "relationship" is going to descend like & ME109 shot down by a Spitfire.  Into a dive, spinning out of control.  Difficult to bail out.  Smoke pouring out & bits falling off.  You either hit the ground in a ball of flames or you somehow manage to get out & float down looking like a bell end.  And end up in the drink or a POW camp for years.  Is the analogy clear enuf ?  :sarcastic:

Offline spkmstr48

• wily: skilled at gaining an advantage, esp. deceitfully
• minx: an impudent, cunning, or boldly flirtatious girl or young woman.

So, put them together and what do you get?

 :lol: :lol: :lol:

 :drinks: :diablo: :lol:
Banning reason: Prossie fanboy

Online Tiger63

Crying sob story started. It's over. I'm foolish.

AAAghh....you have come to your senses ....your not the 1st and you will certainly not be the last.
Just be glad you didnt do anything stupid long term

Offline TomThumb

First post, probably my last - new to punting, previously more into the FBSM side. Didn't want to publicly mention my situation (Had PM'd both NF and the OP) but I have / had been seeing a regular for the last four months - getting more and more familiar - talk of family, work, life - actual names. Over time 2 hr bookings extended to over running by 4 - 6 hrs - stuff done that's not on the likes list ... sound familiar - culminating this weekend to me spending the night - no additional charge but paying the 2 hr rate.

Realized that EAS was too thick - esp after reading these threads, i thought should i just run the course or take action - went for the latter - msged to say that i couldn't see her any more, liked her too much ... thought maybe i'd at least get a reply to say i'd be missed. You know what .. nothing - I still a day later check my punting phone to see if i've missed something but nothing. Shes on AW - working yesterday, working today .. find it hard not to look at her profile as i used to punt with her exclusively ... finding the going really hard.

Part of me wishes i had run the course and seen where it could have gone ?? but in all honesty probably best to take the  hurt on now ... everyone around me is asking what is wrong and i can't say anything, this forum appears to be my only outlet - my 2 cents ... maybe i need to look for a real relationship again ... its easy to say see 3 different punts before repeating but its hard when you get on so well with a regular ... not looking for sympathy or comfort - perhaps getting it out in text will give me some closure - im not sure, i miss her, keep checking my phone.

Given i've said i cant see her any more i hope i don't lapse, but don't know if she would take a booking - i did think about just not seeing her but the temptation was always too great to just call ... this way at least i've removed that option ... sigh ... i know im not the 1st / won't be the last - thanks for listening all ... every journey starts with a first step ... step.

we are just clients - you just need to realise that fact ... but we learn lessons, sometimes, the hard way.

Offline PLeisure

^^ TThumb, good on you for describing where you are - a sobering thought. Stay strong  :thumbsup:

Offline TomThumb

Thanks - Two things I've come to realize; I would have probably let it run had I not anything to loose but I do so I didn't - my damage is the price of the meets so I can stomach that.

Also re: feeling close to her; we exchanged texts like mad when i made bookings; during the build up but as soon it was over no replies to anything that I would send; i think that is when, reading these threads, reality started to close in - It very easy to get caught in the intoxication of the moment - two people - four walls - we joked about going away together, wonder what would have happened if either of us had taken each other up on it.

Again, carrots dangled, her ex was a former client, etc ... Reality check for me with hindsight - you can overlook so much ... maybe I'm not made for punting, FBSM was so much easier.

Thanks for letting me get this off my chest - perhaps she will read this post - I know she is aware of her review(s) on this site - often you can't say this to anyone so i appreciate people taking the time to reply and hopefully others can learn from these experiences.

Thanks for letting me get this off my chest - perhaps she will read this post - I know she is aware of her review(s) on this site - often you can't say this to anyone so i appreciate people taking the time to reply and hopefully others can learn from these experiences.

So your not over it then, you want her to see your feelings by being somewhere she goes ?  O am i getting the wrong end of the stick ?

how long ago was the break up ?

Offline TomThumb

not over it - probably not - sent the text yesterday - the overnight (reality check) was Saturday she has no idea who I am on this site - its my first few posts.

As i said I'm a client and if she cared (I've realized) she would have at least acknowledged my message.

My posts are just to get it out of my system - nothing more , nothing less , can't speak to those at home !! or mates !! At least this site is an outlet.

not over it - probably not - sent the text yesterday - the overnight (reality check) was Saturday she has no idea who I am on this site - its my first few posts.

As i said I'm a client and if she cared (I've realized) she would have at least acknowledged my message.

My posts are just to get it out of my system - nothing more , nothing less , can't speak to those at home !! or mates !! At least this site is an outlet.
Good answer, shows where your mind is at !

not over it - probably not - sent the text yesterday - the overnight (reality check) was Saturday she has no idea who I am on this site - its my first few posts.

As i said I'm a client and if she cared (I've realized) she would have at least acknowledged my message.

My posts are just to get it out of my system - nothing more , nothing less , can't speak to those at home !! or mates !! At least this site is an outlet.

Link lol   :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Fair play to you Tom...a salutary tale, indeed.

There's a lot of cynicism on this board, a lot of it justified.

FWIW, in cases such as these, I think both sides can start to feel 'those' feelings...I don't think the WG is always just thinking of the money in cases like this. And of course, I guess the view from 'the other camp' is that in cases such as these, they might think the guy is always after freebies by fooling a girl into thinking he has feelings for her. It cuts both ways.

I never understand some guys' attitudes towards prostitutes, that they are 'lower than the low' or to be ridiculed, resented and automatically mistrusted. It takes two to Tango: a prostitute is no 'better' or 'worse' than a punter, it's a very evenhanded transaction.

But this just goes to show that meeting a girl for paid sex starts out as a totally synthetic act, and is intended as such, by both parties. But the lines can become blurred and then the heartache starts.

I think what probably is the case though, is that the guy will get more hurt here than the girl. Because the traditional 'roles' have been reversed: normally a guy will be more highly sexed than a girl, and will be checking out other girls - in a relationship it's statistically more likely for a guy to cheat and ultimately leave the girl, leaving her hurt.

In the punter/WG relationship however, the girl is having a lot more sex than the guy and he finds the girl more exclusive than she does him. So if 'a special relationship' develops...2hr bookings turning to overnights, extra services etc (possibly BB)...if it all goes bandy and they cease to meet, the guy is probably left feeling more hurt than the girl. She just goes back to her job, fucking lots of guys and living from it.

It's ultimately a crazy, fucked-up relationship which will burn your fingers very badly if lines are crossed.

Sermon worthy of a Vicar Mr W W. Well said.

...I wonder if it'd go down well in my 'local'?  :wackogirl:  :D

I actually know two men of the cloth - one I went to school with (vicar), the other I work with (laypreacher).

I keep imagining you're one of them...infact, you jolly well might be! Both of them are naughty fuckers!  :D

Lay preacher, always made me smile

Offline comaminion

So your not over it then, you want her to see your feelings by being somewhere she goes ? O am i getting the wrong end of the stick ?

how long ago was the break up ?

Cheers vw that's the Keane song stuck in my head for a week  :mad:
Banning reason: White-knighting


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