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Author Topic: Becoming "friends" with a girl  (Read 5909 times)

Offline comaminion

Actually you guys need to know how to play these women!

I found dangling expensive gifts/carrots in front of them works wonders.

Once you figure you are being spun lines by a golddigger milk it!

The trick is never to hand over the gift or money but play along with them for as long as you can. I took my ex wife's engagement ring on a punt once and showed it to a girl I saw on a regular basis and was giving me all the "I love you lines". I saw it as a test. A genuine woman would have been embarassed and refused something that serious, but the gold digger's eyes lit up. She had finally found the kind of thing she had been digging for with multiple guys.

Out of that came offers of free sex and meet ups in her own time. The ring went home with me but she would keep on questioning me as to where "her ring was". It was kind of like Lord of the rings for a while.

Play them at their own game! Act out the part but without spending any money. Tempt them with a big big carrot and then have them dance to your tune!

Deviant's guide to messing with the heads of gold diggers!

Why play anyone?

Just treat it for what it is an enjoyable hour and keep it at that

I'm not trying to find genuine nor gold digger because it's irrelevant to this hobby if you take it for what it is, which op has not


Edit

Another note after rereading your post

For me personally greed and selfishness are two of the worst traits for me, the fucking about you mentioned what benefit does that give either person in drawing that quality out?

If you stuck to the rules in the first place you wouldn't be in that position and all that ring shit is very childish on your part
« Last Edit: September 15, 2015, 06:29:05 PM by comaminion »
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Of course she is being your friend as you are paying her to be. She has cottoned on she can spend the time just talking so is taking advantage of that. As for hinting about going away with you. You would be paying for everything so it wouldn't be free and there would still be no sex so she gets a free holiday for nothing

There may be a minuscule chance I am wrong but I doubt it very much. By now any decent girl would have stopped seeing you as they would feel too guilty taking advantage.  If this girl was interested in being a friend or anything else she would have slipped you her personal number and asked to meet up unpaid. She hasn't so she isn't.  You must be feeling a little lonely to feel the need to pay a prossie to pretend to be friends with you.  She is not a friend as a friend would never charge you to meet up. If she thought of you as a friend she would have stopped you paying her and arranged to meet away from work.   Make new friends you don't have to pay to chat too. Genuine friends who actually care about you rather than get paid to be nice to you.

I guarantee that if you ask her to meet up for free it won't happen. Even if she says yes there will be many excuses as to why she can't make it
Whether she's taking advantage or not the OP is allowing it to happen  and in her position who wouldn't take the cash to chat I know I bloody would. People get rich on other people's kindness/stupidity. At end of day if he didn't make the bookings she wouldn't need to chat instead of tuck.

Offline Deviant

what benefit does that give either person in drawing that quality out?


It is called "scam baiting". It is an art form. Take a look at the following site where they bait Nigerian scammers.

http://www.419eater.com/
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Offline yorkshire123

Actually you guys need to know how to play these women!

I found dangling expensive gifts/carrots in front of them works wonders.

Once you figure you are being spun lines by a golddigger milk it!

The trick is never to hand over the gift or money but play along with them for as long as you can. I took my ex wife's engagement ring on a punt once and showed it to a girl I saw on a regular basis and was giving me all the "I love you lines". I saw it as a test. A genuine woman would have been embarassed and refused something that serious, but the gold digger's eyes lit up. She had finally found the kind of thing she had been digging for with multiple guys.

Out of that came offers of free sex and meet ups in her own time. The ring went home with me but she would keep on questioning me as to where "her ring was". It was kind of like Lord of the rings for a while.

Play them at their own game! Act out the part but without spending any money. Tempt them with a big big carrot and then have them dance to your tune!

Deviant's guide to messing with the heads of gold diggers!

For some unknown reason Bell-end springs to mind.

So the saviour of the soho prossie's turns out to be a devious cunt, I seriously hope they read this and know who you are  :hi: 
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Offline comaminion

It is called "scam baiting". It is an art form. Take a look at the following site where they bait Nigerian scammers.

http://www.419eater.com/

Your missing the multiple points

Who was wants to go toe to toe scam baiting?

That's no fun

If it goes tits up walk away

If you over involve yourself and get eas it's your own fault

The average punter should never have to get into the baiting bollocks as they play by rules and realize what this is

If your naive enough to get eas then baiting just adds another level of fuckerry to it

Op should just walk away and if he dont like that answer shouldn't have asked the question
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Offline JIMI1234

For some unknown reason Bell-end springs to mind.

So the saviour of the soho prossie's turns out to be a devious cunt, I seriously hope they read this and know who you are  :hi:

+1
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For some unknown reason Bell-end springs to mind.

So the saviour of the soho prossie's turns out to be a devious cunt, I seriously hope they read this and know who you are  :hi:
That Deviant not someone I would want to be associated with, bet he has a few mentions on saafe

Offline Deviant

No mentions on safe VW. I behave for the most part. But the ring test is a real good indicator. Dangle a big prize in front of a woman you suspect of trying to scam you. If she refuses and says you are going too far then you know she is genuinely a friend. If you feel she would gladly pocket it though then you know she sees you as scam material.

Check out the girls for gifts etc. Often the ones who want to show off jewellry and expensive gifts they have been bought by other clients are the ones who have caught the scamming bug and are looking for more guys to donate expensive presents to them.
« Last Edit: September 15, 2015, 07:54:07 PM by Deviant »
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I hate the WGs who ask you to call them a week or so later and text you if you don't to remind you of their existence. It's begging for more money in my eyes.

I hate the WGs who ask you to call them a week or so later and text you if you don't to remind you of their existence. It's begging for more money in my eyes.
Advertising, shouldn't do it unless requested.  Have asked a few touring girls to text me when they know they are coming my way again.  Shouldn't happen without permission.

Offline JIMI1234

I hate the WGs who ask you to call them a week or so later and text you if you don't to remind you of their existence. It's begging for more money in my eyes.

Must admit, I have never had this problem.
Unless I'm making another booking, there is no on-going contact between me and any WG. I don't want reminding of who they are, where they are working or what area etc etc.... I can find this out for myself if I'm so inclined to need this info

I never get begging texts, or requests for money to help with their grans health/urgent bills/etc etc

I'm very polite and respectful to WG's... not too keen on getting any public feedback from them even (though Candii has just been so kind as to politely comment) and the one's i find very attractive I take little gifts when i see them (perfume, wine etc etc - cos money isn't really a problem) but i think I do come across as 'no mug'..... Maybe's the OP on this thread needs to wise up and learn some 'street smarts' or he will continue to be one of life's victims.
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Offline Deviant

Claret you predicted I would last a week when I first came over. How accurate have your predictions been so far?
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Online Placebo88

Whether she's taking advantage or not the OP is allowing it to happen  and in her position who wouldn't take the cash to chat I know I bloody would. People get rich on other people's kindness/stupidity. At end of day if he didn't make the bookings she wouldn't need to chat instead of tuck.

I agree with this totally.From reading the OP's posts it is he who is the maker of the current situation rather than her.When she has tried to initiate her usual service her has stopped her as seeing her as a friend he feels it inappropriate , although the paying seems acceptable to him.Most escorts and agencies do have a line about ' charging for their time and company ' and if this is how the OP is choosing to use his time with her then the girl cannot be blamed for taking the money ; especially if she is a parlour worker who's bosses would not look to kindly on her telling customers it is best not to visit.

If you are treated badly or given poor service you have a right to be annoyed with and have a low opinion of the provider and should not see them again.But as the saying goes , ' Fool me once , shame on you .Fool me twice , shame on me .' The OP keeps returning of his own free will and is responsible for his own actions.

To the OP ; I think you know it is not an ideal situation at the moment otherwise you would not have posted and I repeat the original advice that the only way to find out if she genuinely wants to see you socially as a friend is to ask her and you should do it asap for your own self respect and peace of mind as the longer you leave it the worse it will get.You may prove most of the posters on here wrong and get what you wish for from it , but whatever the outcome it is better than the way things stand at the moment and will allow you to move on.

Offline comaminion

+2 I predict a Andrew style meltdown from this poster at some point

Probably

Not even a hundred posts in and a great display of idiocy and malice , that bullshit was the first post in my time here I genuinely thought tosser
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Probably

Not even a hundred posts in and a great display of idiocy and malice , that bullshit was the first post in my time here I genuinely thought tosser
8 of them were reviews !

Claret you predicted I would last a week when I first came over. How accurate have your predictions been so far?
Let's see, you were here for a week or so them seemingly disappeared for some time only to return today,are things quiet over on prossienet?

Offline comaminion

Let's see, you were here for a week or so them seemingly disappeared for some time only to return today,are things quiet over on prossienet?


Registered 2011, first post 2015

Took deviant four years to come up with this shit
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Offline Deviant

So much jealousy coming out on this thread. Must be the new avatar  :P
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Offline yorkshire123

Claret you predicted I would last a week when I first came over. How accurate have your predictions been so far?

Where you & your plonkernet mates go wrong is thinking that all you have to do is keep on the right side of admin & you will be OK to troll this forum willy-nilly.

Yes admin has the final say & the ability to end your membership but its the genuine members that will scrutinise every post you make & chip away with gentle ribbing until finally you fuck up.

You may think you are a smart fucker but please remember these guys have spotted & reported much smarter troll's than you could ever dream of becoming.

Remember little brother is watching you  ;)   
Banning reason: Making false malicious allegations against admin

Claret you predicted I would last a week when I first came over. How accurate have your predictions been so far?
Wishful thinking maybe !


Registered 2011, first post 2015

Took deviant four years to come up with this shit
He only started posting during the soho walk up meltdown over on prossienet which was then bought over to this site

So much jealousy coming out on this thread. Must be the new avatar  :P
I believe your UKP tombstone will read unpleasant entity at the foot of all of your posts !

Not long now chaps, I'm off for my tea now,who knows he might even be gone by the time I return  :D

Offline Deviant

Poor Admin. I thought I read elsewhere that he was tired of all this bickering.

Try to play nicely with the new kids!
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