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Offline claretandblue

I am always amazed anyone married can punt. Any relationship I've been in, if I've ever come close to cheating the OH has usually sussed out something is wrong before I've even done the dirty on her.

The sheer fucking deviousness it must take to be married and punt regularly never ceases to amaze me.
It really isn't very difficult,I work in London and punt during the week,my wife never visits London and rarely bothers me at work,what is amazing about that?

Type_O_Negative

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It really isn't very difficult,I work in London and punt during the week,my wife never visits London and rarely bothers me at work,what is amazing about that?

One day the smallest mistake will ruin your life - a long blond hair on your shirt, then all these questions from your wife...

Anyway, good luck to you with punting! :hi:

Offline claretandblue

One day the smallest mistake will ruin your life - a long blond hair on your shirt, then all these questions from your wife...

Anyway, good luck to you with punting! :hi:
Thanks for that positive thought  :hi:,I will take my chances...

tonysoprano

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It really isn't very difficult,I work in London and punt during the week,my wife never visits London and rarely bothers me at work,what is amazing about that?

She's never checked your phone or internet etc? She doesn't notice anything about your behaviour or mood..She just doesn't have a clue that you fuck other women. No offence but I'm tempted to say she must be thick as pig-shit.

She's your wife, spends very night with you and she has no idea you regularly fuck lots of other women. I can't get my head around that.

Offline claretandblue

She's never checked your phone or internet etc? She doesn't notice anything about your behaviour or mood..She just doesn't have a clue that you fuck other women. No offence but I'm tempted to say she must be thick as pig-shit.

She's your wife, spends very night with you and she has no idea you regularly fuck lots of other women. I can't get my head around that.
Punting phone mate which never comes home with me,as for internet obviously i delete it though i have to be careful about WhatsApp chats with mates and deleting those

As for punting it is purely sexual for me  so it doesn't affect my "mood" as you put it so there is nothing suspicious about it really

DG

  • Guest
One day the smallest mistake will ruin your life - a long blond hair on your shirt, then all these questions from your wife...

Anyway, good luck to you with punting! :hi:

After my fortnightly meet with my regular yesterday, I got home and found a long blonde hair on my shirt; I felt great about it tbh :lol:

Type_O_Negative

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After my fortnightly meet with my regular yesterday, I got home and found a long blonde hair on my shirt; I felt great about it tbh :lol:

I feel great as well - when i find her hair, glitter and perfume on me. I'm single!  :dance:

DG

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She's never checked your phone or internet etc? She doesn't notice anything about your behaviour or mood..She just doesn't have a clue that you fuck other women. No offence but I'm tempted to say she must be thick as pig-shit.

She's your wife, spends very night with you and she has no idea you regularly fuck lots of other women. I can't get my head around that.

My missus asked the other day why I always delete internet history and changed the password on my phone. I told her it's because some things are private, even in a marriage. I know she suspects, but having explained to her how I feel and what I would do if she didn't do something about it, so I'm past caring about what she thinks.

Type_O_Negative

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My missus asked the other day why I always delete internet history and changed the password on my phone. I told her it's because some things are private, even in a marriage. I know she suspects, but having explained to her how I feel and what I would do if she didn't do something about it, so I'm past caring about what she thinks.

If i would be you i wouldn't say some things are private. I would tell her about all these internet identity thefts and security threats: trojans, viruses, spyware, keyloggers, ransomware and more  :wacko:

tonysoprano

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Fair play to you guys then for pulling it off, I've never been married so i don't think i could get away with it. Seen a couple of mates cheat on their wives and they both got caught out eventually so it's not easy to get away with it if you're punting regularly.


TheNewSeeker

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I feel great as well - when i find her hair, glitter and perfume on me. I'm single!  :dance:

glitter + perfume  :scare: . . . this should be banned. OHs can spot/smell this at 50 yards. Message to all SPs - NEVER WEAR GLITTER.

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Type_O_Negative

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glitter + perfume  :scare: . . . this should be banned. OHs can spot/smell this at 50 yards. Message to all SPs - NEVER WEAR GLITTER.

 :timeout:

I'm free as a bird - i love glitter. And love bites on my neck  :wacko:
 :hi:

TheNewSeeker

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My missus asked the other day why I always delete internet history and changed the password on my phone. I told her it's because some things are private, even in a marriage. I know she suspects, but having explained to her how I feel and what I would do if she didn't do something about it, so I'm past caring about what she thinks.

Geeze why are you even doing this. Browse normally for ordinary stuff. Never delete your history. But when browsing dodgy stuff like UKP or AW, use 'private browsing'. Always close your private windows and cookies, history etc is deleted automatically. This way you keep a non-suspicious history. If you ever make a mistake, just delete that day's history, or even just that site. Google and just learn some stuff ;)

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TheNewSeeker

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I'm free as a bird - i love glitter. And love bites on my neck  :wacko:
 :hi:

 :scare: bites - nooooooooo.

Seriously though, for those of us who've got clipped wings, unlike freebird here, if you're ever cornered, use the old mates dragged me lapdancing excuse. They always have perfume and glitter, and, whilst not good, it can be recovered from much more easily than the shagged a whore line. That one won't work me thinks ;)

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Offline claretandblue

Fair play to you guys then for pulling it off, I've never been married so i don't think i could get away with it. Seen a couple of mates cheat on their wives and they both got caught out eventually so it's not easy to get away with it if you're punting regularly.
I had an affair once and got rumbled within a couple of months  :wacko: , hiding punting is a walk in the park in comparison...

Offline threechilliman

I had an affair once and got rumbled within a couple of months  :wacko: , hiding punting is a walk in the park in comparison...

+1, though I didn't get rumbled and kicked her into touch when it got a bit serious.

tcm

Offline azrael

You have my symphathy OP, at one point ir another it happens to the best of us especially if the wg is very good at her job and they only see you as a punter/cash cow. Best advice i can give is move on find another wg to punt with, i've done it on five different occasions when i've felt like getting eas.  :drinks:

Offline claretandblue

+1, though I didn't get rumbled and kicked her into touch when it got a bit serious.

tcm
i actually had my first UK punt during the affair, I blame me becoming a punter on her too :D

ATMIV

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This did happen to me once.  It was tough to get over.  It wont happen again.

I think the key reason why it happened was because the girl was very sweet and nice to me.  Openly talked to me about her private life, her family, her problems, etc. Made me feel special and that it could maybe be more than a sexual/financial relationship. When you start to like someone as a person and also have amazing sex with them regularly its hard not to get EAS.

But like everyone else says - she never had sex with me for free LOL. It was just her way of running her business and trying to be a good service provider.

Nowadays if I get a hint of it happening again I find a way out fast.  I wait until she does something I don't like and use that as my excuse to let go.  I recommend you think of the things that she has done already that you know means she doesn't really care about you, and use that to help you get out of it.

Cheers!  :drinks:

+1 - excellent post!

Hawkwind71

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I joined this thread to give NF some EAS support. Then I left the thread for a few days and it turns into a discussion about how not to get caught out by the OH.  :thumbsup:

Fantastic thread, loved all the comments. My OH thinks we are happily married. We live in an area where the nearest WG is 70 miles away. I go away on 'train spotting' holidays, the wife thinks I sit on some hill somewhere watching trains go by all day.  Perfect cover, so far. She can't stand the hobby and never joins me. Glad for me to be out of the house for a week.

Everything I get up to is stored on my password protected tablet. Again no risk so far cos my OH struggles with technology, just watches youtube and sends emails. It's so easy for me that my only demon is my own carelessness like not turning the tablet off.  But the more relaxed I am about it, the less she suspects.

By the way OP reading about your EAS  WG. I agree, read her new fb, see how many other guys she is shagging after you. Great therapy, I still check the fb of a girl I used to see. She's currently being fucked to oblivion. Great therapy.

harry_aw

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post her AW link and I will go over there and bang the shit out of her

haha, I feel the same....who is she?

Offline Colston36

Going back to the original topic, Scott Fitzgerald said "The test of a first-rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposed ideas in mind at the same time and still retain the ability to function."

I can perfectly easily consider that a girl wants to get money off you and also enjoys your company. I had one like that for twenty years. She was called my wife.

When I look at how much she cost me I would have been better off renting than buying.

normal_guy

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Fantastic thread, loved all the comments. My OH thinks we are happily married. We live in an area where the nearest WG is 70 miles away. I go away on 'train spotting' holidays, the wife thinks I sit on some hill somewhere watching trains go by all day.  Perfect cover, so far. She can't stand the hobby and never joins me. Glad for me to be out of the house for a week.


Do you have a notebook?

Hawkwind71

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Do you have a notebook?

Samsung Galaxy. Spent my working life on Windows so it behaves very similarly. Stores hotlist, itinerary, hotel bookings, UKP and AW bookmarked, saved pages for offline reading. Fully password protected. Not 100% safe but close as.

Offline MancSean

Sometimes EAS can be reciprocated and the prossie actually likes you too but this has to be bloody apparent and normally initiated by the girl saying it. But then once something develops strap yourself in because you are probably going to ride the scariest roller coaster of turmoil and anguish.
At the moment I am suffering a huge crush on my tattooist.  Even decided to get another tattoo today instead of punting.  I know she wouldn't have a clue I like her and she know way fancy me as I am probably older than her parents. Now at least if it's a wg you have the opportunity to shag her I have no chance. Gonna have to stop getting tats after today and come back to reality of aw and porn hub I realise. Strange thing is getting tats is probably costing me more than punting now and I still feel horny after but can't punt because of the open wound for a couple of days

Type_O_Negative

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Sometimes EAS can be reciprocated and the prossie actually likes you too but this has to be bloody apparent and normally initiated by the girl saying it. But then once something develops strap yourself in because you are probably going to ride the scariest roller coaster of turmoil and anguish.
At the moment I am suffering a huge crush on my tattooist.  Even decided to get another tattoo today instead of punting.  I know she wouldn't have a clue I like her and she know way fancy me as I am probably older than her parents. Now at least if it's a wg you have the opportunity to shag her I have no chance. Gonna have to stop getting tats after today and come back to reality of aw and porn hub I realise. Strange thing is getting tats is probably costing me more than punting now and I still feel horny after but can't punt because of the open wound for a couple of days

My dentist is a very attractive MILF. She is divorced too!

Little Katie

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Developing some form of emotion towards anybody you are in regular sexual contact with is just human nature and doesn't make us weak or foolish.
I have plenty of regulars that I genuinely care for, enjoy the company of and look forward to sharing sexual experiences with. I certainly don't view them as walking cash machines but neither do I delude myself that I'm going to run off into the sunset with them.
The only times problems have occurred is when I have been overly nice/lenient with a client I have got on with innocently thinking "What's the harm!" only for them to interpret this as some kind of romantic gesture and turn it into an expectation.. Then into demands.. Then into blackmail.. Then threats... It never ends well!
I think we all have to take responsibility for our own emotions, keep things in perspective regardless of whether we are paying for it or being paid for it and just enjoy it for what it is.
I don't agree with girls giving discounts/unpaid social time/priority/special treatment as it encourages blurred lines and is not healthy for anyone in the long run.

Hawkwind71

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I think we all have to take responsibility for our own emotions, keep things in perspective regardless of whether we are paying for it or being paid for it and just enjoy it for what it is.


I have one regular who I absolutely adore but it's always in the context of the escorting world, never from the point of view of private life. When the door closes she's gone and so have I. Whenever the conversation warrants it I always start by saying ''Within the escorting world I think etc etc''

Seems to work and yet it allows us to relax and discuss most topics.

Offline dc0582

Thanks again- surprised by the responses and the effect it has on my thinking. I've read the wiki pages on EAS here previously and thought not much more could be said, but I think some of u may have influenced me to explore other girls and get a few favourites instead...

One if my thinking is go for the higher end of market at 200ph so it hurts the wallet more to get too attached! Here's hoping....

Anyway, below is my hotlist now...so hopefully I can Tofft and share a few reviews in next couple of months!
External Link/Members Only
 External Link/Members Only
External Link/Members Only
External Link/Members Only

 Helle will get you over the current EAS at least.  :D

TheNewSeeker

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I go away on 'train spotting' holidays, the wife thinks I sit on some hill somewhere watching trains go by all day.  Perfect cover, so far. She can't stand the hobby and never joins me. Glad for me to be out of the house for a week.

I hope, HW, your OH never learns of this thread. Not impossible. Say next time your OH is listening to Women's Hour (or any equivalent 'magazine' programme aimed at women), with a feature on hubbies and prostitution. Imagine they quote an anecdote (off here) about a guy who tells his missus he goes train spotting . . .  :scare: I hope you know enough about the subject should you ever get grilled in detail on what you saw that day!  :D.

I think we're never that far from being unexpectedly exposed. I wonder how many slightly suspicious or curious wives have checked under the spare wheel and found punting phones since that episode of Dr Foster (https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=67443.msg858277;topicseen#msg858277)

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Offline claretandblue

I hope, HW, your OH never learns of this thread. Not impossible. Say next time your OH is listening to Women's Hour (or any equivalent 'magazine' programme aimed at women), with a feature on hubbies and prostitution. Imagine they quote an anecdote (off here) about a guy who tells his missus he goes train spotting . . .  :scare: I hope you know enough about the subject should you ever get grilled in detail on what you saw that day!  :D.

I think we're never that far from being unexpectedly exposed. I wonder how many slightly suspicious or curious wives have checked under the spare wheel and found punting phones since that episode of Dr Foster (https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=67443.msg858277;topicseen#msg858277)

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There's more chance of being run over by a bus than that chain of events falling into place!

There are married punters on here who have been doing this for 20/30 years plus, if you are a good liar and don't feel guilty about punting I see very little danger in being caught

TheNewSeeker

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There are married punters on here who have been doing this for 20/30 years plus

. . . I'm one of them ;)

There's more chance of being run over by a bus than that chain of events falling into place!

People do get run over by busses. Risk is proportional to the probability of the event and the impact, if it does. Everyone has to weigh up this risk factor themselves. All I'm saying is what you put on here may bite you unexpectedly. Dr Foster is a case in point, as was, last year, the SP posting potentially incriminating stuff on mumsnet.

But we digress . . . .


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vw

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There's more chance of being run over by a bus than that chain of events falling into place!

There are married punters on here who have been doing this for 20/30 years plus, if you are a good liar and don't feel guilty about punting I see very little danger in being caught
Imagine if you had wrote your reviews like unclesweetheart and then your wife found them.

Hawkwind71

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I hope, HW, your OH never learns of this thread. Not impossible. Say next time your OH is listening to Women's Hour (or any equivalent 'magazine' programme aimed at women), with a feature on hubbies and prostitution. Imagine they quote an anecdote (off here) about a guy who tells his missus he goes train spotting I hope you know enough about the subject should you ever get grilled in detail on what you saw that day!  :D.


NS I totally agree with you. It's a thin line between wanting to share your experiences for the benefit of others and keeping a low profile so as not to be found out.

I take comfort in what claret says in that the thread connection would be tenuous and thank God my OH doesn't watch such shows.

I hope   :scare:

But I take your point and won't my mention my cover again. Thanks  :hi:


vw

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NS I totally agree with you. It's a thin line between wanting to share your experiences for the benefit of others and keeping a low profile so as not to be found out.

I take comfort in what claret says in that the thread connection would be tenuous and thank God my OH doesn't watch such shows.

I hope   :scare:

But I take your point and won't my mention my cover again. Thanks  :hi:
Do you keep the AW profiles as numbers in a list in your train-spotting book ?

Hawkwind71

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Do you keep the AW profiles as numbers in a list in your train-spotting book ?

you are one funny man   :kiss:

actually bo bo class 86  number 86453 is a real hot chick in Gloucester

Tony Montana

  • Guest
My dentist is a very attractive MILF. She is divorced too!

Mine is a nice young Asian woman.  Sometimes I eat a whole pack of Oreos in the waiting room so I can spend longer with her.

TheNewSeeker

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you are one funny man   :kiss:

actually bo bo class 86  number 86453 is a real hot chick in Gloucester

Diesel or steam, and if the latter how big are her pannier tanks?

vw

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Diesel or steam, and if the latter how big are her pannier tanks?
Nah

The runaway train came down the track and she blew.
The runaway train came down the track and she blew.
The runaway train came down the track, her whistle wide and her throttle back,
And she blew, blew, blew, blew, blew.

Hawkwind71

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Diesel or steam, and if the latter how big are her pannier tanks?

Class 86 is electric, 100mph into the fuckin tunnel if you want a euphemism.  :D

Don't mind panniers but won't go near a saddle.   :vomit:

Despair........

Hawkwind71

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Nah

The runaway train came down the track and she blew.
The runaway train came down the track and she blew.
The runaway train came down the track, her whistle wide and her throttle back,
And she blew, blew, blew, blew, blew.

I think I can, I think I can, I think I can.......

johnnyboy61

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There are married punters on here who have been doing this for 20/30 years plus, if you are a good liar and don't feel guilty about punting I see very little danger in being caught
+1
Agree with the above having been married for thirty years and punting for twenty.

Back on topic: Having gone for regulars down the years I feel that there is always the danger of developing EAS and I suppose I always skate precariously around the edges of it, especially as I have what might negatively be described on UKP as fluffy tendencies, but I have never asked or expected to meet with a WG outside the paid meetings where sex is always the focus.

For me it is a parallel situation to a household where no one can be arsed to garden or to clean or to cook. In these circumstances you might employ someone to provide for you (if you can afford it). As my OH can't be arsed to have sex, I employ a sex worker by the hour to provide for this need.  I am not looking for anything other than sex, but it is inevitable that after being in such close intimate contact with someone that some sort of relationship other than that of a simple sex surrogate develops. We are not friends, but we have a friendship (if that makes sense), but on the punter's side this could easily turn into EAS.

I now tend to have a few regs, however that has not always been the case and when an EE reg went back over the summer I didn't punt until she returned; we exchanged Christmas presents and she would see me on her days off. She made it obvious that she enjoyed sex with me and upon retiring she gave me her private email address and suggested to keep in touch and let her know if I'm near her home town. Inevitably if you use regulars you get to know a fair bit about each other's private lives, but only in the same way that you might get to know anyone who you employ regularly. I often thought about asking for a social meet (unpaid of course), but then I would see reality and the pointlessness of it as the whole idea of seeing WGs is to have great sex without the emotional attachment that I have in my marriage. My whole self justification for punting is that it is far less damaging than having an affair.

I am seeing a few WGs at the moment and get some fantastic service off them all (otherwise I wouldn't be returning), but recently I met one who so obviously enjoyed sex with me that I think that it really makes it hard not to suffer from EAS. In fact I came back from a punt with her so high that I really felt the need to shout out how good it was, but as we all know this hobby is for most of us our little secret, although UKP does provide some sort of outlet, and I must admit to using my reviews for this purpose from time to time.

Some people buy the most ridiculous things on EBay when drunk, and like them I guess it's not wise to go on the computer when you're still high from a punt. Acting like a dickhead I posted this in the "Best thing said to you by a WG thread" and probably should have asked Admin to remove it, however, it would still have been available to established members anyway, so why bother? Quite rightly the next poster commented that it made him cringe and I made the excuse that it was said in jest, but actually I don't think it was.

At the end of the punt. We've had some great sex, but she has quite a sense of humour:

Her: You certainly know your way around a woman's body!
Me: Yes, I think inside I must be part woman, because I seem to enjoy the same approach to sex.
Her: Believe me, you're one hundred percent man!

A short while later (and I think we're joking, but there might be a little mutual EAS going on).

Her: If I had met you at a different time and place then perhaps....
Me: Yeah, and if I were thirty years younger.
Her: No, you're in your prime.
Me: (stifling laugh) Yes, OK, but when you're in your mid-forties I'll be mid-seventies!
Her: That's OK, I'll have got rid of you by then for a younger man. Well at least I'm honest!

God, rereading it the last bit sounds like some fucking Mills and Boon novel!  :vomit:

Now this sort of talk dangerously strokes a man's ego, especially when it comes from a very well reviewed pretty girl thirty years younger than me (her reviews are well into double figures on UKP and all positive), although the fact that she gets such a good reaction from other clients suggests that she knows what to say as well as what to do. I know that the job of a WG is to make us feel like a king and a stud for the time that we book them, but perhaps some of them also need to be a little careful about what they say which can seriously encourage EAS.

So, those of us who like sex with regulars need to be particularly careful to guard against EAS, but equally some of the SPs need to realise that whilst we all expect some good acting, post-punt talk should perhaps keep a little professional distance, however much they have apparently enjoyed the meet themselves, because that sort of talk can seriously encourage EAS which is the last thing both the WG and the punter (particularly a married one) needs.

vw

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So, those of us who like sex with regulars need to be particularly careful to guard against EAS, but equally some of the SPs need to realise that whilst we all expect some good acting, post-punt talk should perhaps keep a little professional distance, however much they have apparently enjoyed the meet themselves, because that sort of talk can seriously encourage EAS which is the last thing both the WG and the punter (particularly a married one) needs.
The clue and cure is in the name they are regulars not only's.  Personally I have the 3:1 rule i live by where i must fuck 3 people before going back anywhere !  Served me well over the years.

Offline LoneWolf2020

look - not to set you up for a fall or anything but why not ask her out? its a win win situation. you either get the 'date' you want or....more likely she'll knock you back and you get 'closure'?

Pussydoc

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Been there took me 2 years searching for a solution but kept going back , always comparing reg with anything new ,, even  though I met really nice ladies , then finally met one who was actually better , than reg , supplied all my needs ,,varied every meet , and now settled  , and will not let it get into another case o EAS , splitting meets so as to see a different lady in between the new reg  every month , much more happier and no complacency from the ladies  , set your stall out and keep to it , good luck

Offline smiths

I've been debating whether to post this, not knowing what kind of response if any but felt I needed to "speak" to someone to just get it off my chest as it's affecting my life more than I like.
Been seeing WGs on off for 10 years or so, around 1 a month and tend to binge every now and then when I meet a really fit girl, until I got bored and felt the burn in the wallet.
Found UKP a few months back, but I actually found a regular using AW search. later found out she has a few reviews here so didn't add mine ( sorry!)

Anyway, I'm totally smitten with her, and been seeing her weekly for past 4 months or so and just loving it! Having read a few threads here, realised I have the dreaded EAS as can't stop thinking about her, sometimes even checking the forum daily to see if she has a new review! And when I read a new review, there is a funny feeling - not sure how to describe the feeling.
I don't think I would do things like shutdown her AW account or post malicious reviews etc that I read some other EAS afflicted guys do. I genuinely like her as a person and would never hurt her for sure. Yup, I'm a fluffy at heart!
I know it's unrealistic and there's no happy ending here (ha!), but part of me hope we could ride into the sunset together and fuck all day long!
Reading the advice on here, I've seen a couple other girls since but that actually made things worse - I don't find them as attractive as her, and I actually pictured her in my mind when fucking these other girls.
I am sure she has plenty of regulars and used to mucks like me being infatuated,, so I guess best case scenario for me is just to continue seeing her until she retires / gets annoyed with me/  I get broke/ get caught by the wife...

Anyway realised I'm just rambling, just a needed to rant and don't really expect any new advice as there are already plenty on the forum/ wiki, so just thanks for reading and happy punting!

Very good WGs who offer a very good service are good at acting they like you or maybe more. IMO its best to always consider the WG will be offering the same good service to who knows how many other punters, and its very unlikely your the special one to her.

Nowadays I punt and leave and view WGs as just offering me a service, no chance of EAS so I can still fill my boots with regulars as much as I like until I get bored.

Offline claretandblue

Imagine if you had wrote your reviews like unclesweetheart and then your wife found them.
I doubt very much unclesweetheart has a wife. ..

Offline claretandblue

+1
Agree with the above having been married for thirty years and punting for twenty.

Back on topic: Having gone for regulars down the years I feel that there is always the danger of developing EAS and I suppose I always skate precariously around the edges of it, especially as I have what might negatively be described on UKP as fluffy tendencies, but I have never asked or expected to meet with a WG outside the paid meetings where sex is always the focus.

For me it is a parallel situation to a household where no one can be arsed to garden or to clean or to cook. In these circumstances you might employ someone to provide for you (if you can afford it). As my OH can't be arsed to have sex, I employ a sex worker by the hour to provide for this need.  I am not looking for anything other than sex, but it is inevitable that after being in such close intimate contact with someone that some sort of relationship other than that of a simple sex surrogate develops. We are not friends, but we have a friendship (if that makes sense), but on the punter's side this could easily turn into EAS.

I now tend to have a few regs, however that has not always been the case and when an EE reg went back over the summer I didn't punt until she returned; we exchanged Christmas presents and she would see me on her days off. She made it obvious that she enjoyed sex with me and upon retiring she gave me her private email address and suggested to keep in touch and let her know if I'm near her home town. Inevitably if you use regulars you get to know a fair bit about each other's private lives, but only in the same way that you might get to know anyone who you employ regularly. I often thought about asking for a social meet (unpaid of course), but then I would see reality and the pointlessness of it as the whole idea of seeing WGs is to have great sex without the emotional attachment that I have in my marriage. My whole self justification for punting is that it is far less damaging than having an affair.

I am seeing a few WGs at the moment and get some fantastic service off them all (otherwise I wouldn't be returning), but recently I met one who so obviously enjoyed sex with me that I think that it really makes it hard not to suffer from EAS. In fact I came back from a punt with her so high that I really felt the need to shout out how good it was, but as we all know this hobby is for most of us our little secret, although UKP does provide some sort of outlet, and I must admit to using my reviews for this purpose from time to time.

Some people buy the most ridiculous things on EBay when drunk, and like them I guess it's not wise to go on the computer when you're still high from a punt. Acting like a dickhead I posted this in the "Best thing said to you by a WG thread" and probably should have asked Admin to remove it, however, it would still have been available to established members anyway, so why bother? Quite rightly the next poster commented that it made him cringe and I made the excuse that it was said in jest, but actually I don't think it was.

God, rereading it the last bit sounds like some fucking Mills and Boon novel!  :vomit:

Now this sort of talk dangerously strokes a man's ego, especially when it comes from a very well reviewed pretty girl thirty years younger than me (her reviews are well into double figures on UKP and all positive), although the fact that she gets such a good reaction from other clients suggests that she knows what to say as well as what to do. I know that the job of a WG is to make us feel like a king and a stud for the time that we book them, but perhaps some of them also need to be a little careful about what they say which can seriously encourage EAS.

So, those of us who like sex with regulars need to be particularly careful to guard against EAS, but equally some of the SPs need to realise that whilst we all expect some good acting, post-punt talk should perhaps keep a little professional distance, however much they have apparently enjoyed the meet themselves, because that sort of talk can seriously encourage EAS which is the last thing both the WG and the punter (particularly a married one) needs.
Reassuring !I am a mere whippersnapper in comparison punting regularly for about 3 years and under 10 years married  :hi:

Offline darkvamp

I've come close to EAS in the past but always remind myself it's just a business transaction (as my bank balance reminds me).

Offline tantric talents

Yep, same... when I find a girl I really like, reading accounts on her getting screwed six ways to Sunday on the Internet are a turn-on.  For me, it's like reading a review by someone else who enjoyed a favourite restaurant of mine.
That's such a great analogy!
Mind you I think Trip Advisor might get a bit hot under the collar if  Admin one day decides to rename this great site "Fuck Advisor" :lol: