At the end of the year I am calling it quits for good. One thought that has been on the back of my head for a while is how to tell a regular your quitting, this regular I've been seeing every three weeks now for a while now and she has no idea I am quitting.
Perhaps there is some emotional attachment and the thought of not seeing her again does make me sad to some extent but this is punting not relationships, but do I be honest and straight up tell her or just not give a shit. She does text me when she's away and when she's back so would be awkward if she never hears from me again. My final punt in December would be with her though.
It don't need to be a drama
Don't over reason it in your mind or when telling her
Just a simple
I probably won't be able to see you again as I'm stopping but thanks for all the good times
And to be honest you don't even have to do that it's not mandatory but polite
I see a regular and the only continuity of communication is that I book at the end of a meet for a forthcoming one that's it
If I have not booked a meet then I don't assume I will see her again even if I do
Weird personal rule but I always consider the current planned meet the last so not to get hopes up of seeing someone again
Anything could happen she could pack it up, I could , nuclear war , I could get run over by a donkey
You never know