5,349 new reviews in 2017.
UKPunting is a free, independent and not-for-profit paid sex buyer site.
At the end of the year I am calling it quits for good. One thought that has been on the back of my head for a while is how to tell a regular your quitting, this regular I've been seeing every three weeks now for a while now and she has no idea I am quitting. Perhaps there is some emotional attachment and the thought of not seeing her again does make me sad to some extent but this is punting not relationships, but do I be honest and straight up tell her or just not give a shit. She does text me when she's away and when she's back so would be awkward if she never hears from me again. My final punt in December would be with her though.
'I'll see you in January then' tcm
Pretty good chance, judging by the number of people who say they are quitting and end up back again.
I'd say honesty is usually the best policy. You have got a good reason so just tell her straight. She'll probably appreciate it and say good luck. .At least she wont be left wondering why you have stopped seeing her if you say nothingPersonally I find it much harder to say goodbye to regulars when I have decided I don't want to see them anymore. Done it 4 or 5 times already this year ... careless or what?Cheers!
I wouldnt say a word until you book your final session, make sure she gives you a big send off (then phone her 3weeks later like you know youre going to do
Just tell her you can't see her anymore because you have found a girlfriend or something. And that's why you decided to quit.But at the end of the day - even if she is your favourite regular - believe me she wouldn't care. You are just a money for her - sad but true. Many times prossies told me "we will be in touch" or "you are my favourite client" or things like these because it is a part of their marketing to keep us returning.
I went through this situation last year with three regulars, be under no illusion there will be no tears on their part. Maybe a slight tinge of sadness & not all down to the income loss but only a tinge if anything at all.If you really want to test how she feels about you ask her for one last punt as a freebie
Hendrix, when you quit did you destroy your punting phone (if had one), rid of AW account also?. As for the quitting part, only I can decide when I want to quit, I have always had self-control on when I want to or went I don't want to punt. As for punting in UK ever again, very unlikely as I will be moving abroad in March.
[quote author=Stainford link=topic=67711.msg861628#msg861628 date=She does text me when she's away and when she's back so would be awkward if she never hears from me again. My final punt in December would be with her though.Awkward get a grip man
+1. Sounds OP might have a moderate firm of EAS?