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Author Topic: Telling A Regular Your Quitting  (Read 2696 times)

Offline Stainford

At the end of the year I am calling it quits for good. One thought that has been on the back of my head for a while is how to tell a regular your quitting, this regular I've been seeing every three weeks now for a while now and she has no idea I am quitting.

Perhaps there is some emotional attachment and the thought of not seeing her again does make me sad to some extent but this is punting not relationships, but do I be honest and straight up tell her or just not give a shit. She does text me when she's away and when she's back so would be awkward if she never hears from me again. My final punt in December would be with her though.
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At the end of the year I am calling it quits for good. One thought that has been on the back of my head for a while is how to tell a regular your quitting, this regular I've been seeing every three weeks now for a while now and she has no idea I am quitting.

Perhaps there is some emotional attachment and the thought of not seeing her again does make me sad to some extent but this is punting not relationships, but do I be honest and straight up tell her or just not give a shit. She does text me when she's away and when she's back so would be awkward if she never hears from me again. My final punt in December would be with her though.

Just tell her you can't see her anymore because you have found a girlfriend or something. And that's why you decided to quit.

But at the end of the day - even if she is your favourite regular - believe me she wouldn't care. You are just a money for her - sad but true. Many times prossies told me "we will be in touch" or "you are my favourite client" or things like these because it is a part of their marketing to keep us returning.  :hi:
« Last Edit: September 12, 2015, 01:36:56 PM by Type_O_Negative »

You're under no obligation to say anything, but out of politeness I personally would mention it. Her response will be 'I'll see you in January then' ;)

tcm

Offline Mansell

'I'll see you in January then' ;)

tcm

Pretty good chance, judging by the number of people who say they are quitting and end up back again.

Pretty good chance, judging by the number of people who say they are quitting and end up back again.
I think the record was a week.  :lol:

theGOAT

I'd say honesty is usually the best policy.  You have got a good reason so just tell her straight.  She'll probably appreciate it and say good luck.  At least she wont be left wondering why you have stopped seeing her if you say nothing.

Personally I find it much harder to say goodbye to regulars when I have decided I don't want to see them anymore.

Cheers!  :drinks:
« Last Edit: September 12, 2015, 01:59:54 PM by taleyho »

Pretty good chance, judging by the number of people who say they are quitting and end up back again.

I remember Pdubz wanted to quit - probably dozen of times  :D

I'd say honesty is usually the best policy.  You have got a good reason so just tell her straight.  She'll probably appreciate it and say good luck.  .At least she wont be left wondering why you have stopped seeing her if you say nothing

Personally I find it much harder to say goodbye to regulars when I have decided I don't want to see them anymore. Done it 4 or 5 times already this year ... careless or what?

Cheers!  :drinks:

Why do you think she would wonder? Prossies come and go, the same story about punters - they come and go.

Offline hexohm

I wouldnt say a word until you book your final session, make sure she gives you a big send off (then phone her 3weeks later like you know youre going to do  ;)

Offline Stainford

Much obliged for the comments. I think I will mention it in passing soon.
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Hawkwind71

I wouldnt say a word until you book your final session, make sure she gives you a big send off (then phone her 3weeks later like you know youre going to do  ;)

Maybe this is why there are so many married punters cheating on their wives. It's frustrating that I can't punt all the time like the single guys and I get very frustrated if there is a dry period. But it's the looking forward to the next one that keeps my libido high. Perhaps if I knew it was coming every tuesday I too may be thinking of quitting. :unknown:

Nah   !!!!!! :D

Offline Stainford

Just tell her you can't see her anymore because you have found a girlfriend or something. And that's why you decided to quit.

But at the end of the day - even if she is your favourite regular - believe me she wouldn't care. You are just a money for her - sad but true. Many times prossies told me "we will be in touch" or "you are my favourite client" or things like these because it is a part of their marketing to keep us returning.  :hi:

+1 "Favourite client" is a common one, it is nice to hear it though.
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Offline maxxblue

At the end of the year I am calling it quits for good. One thought that has been on the back of my head for a while is how to tell a regular your quitting, this regular I've been seeing every three weeks now for a while now and she has no idea I am quitting.

Perhaps there is some emotional attachment and the thought of not seeing her again does make me sad to some extent but this is punting not relationships, but do I be honest and straight up tell her or just not give a shit. She does text me when she's away and when she's back so would be awkward if she never hears from me again. My final punt in December would be with her though.

I doubt it.  :hi:

Offline Venezuelan

Why feel the need to tell her your quitting makes no sense  :dash:
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Offline hendrix

Having just done this, the reality is that there's no need to actually say anything. However, if you want to, as I did, then just say so. She'll simply be thinking about how to replace the income, no big deal, it's business.

Offline Stainford

Hendrix, when you quit did you destroy your punting phone (if had one), rid of AW account also?. As for the quitting part, only I can decide when I want to quit, I have always had self-control on when I want to or went I don't want to punt. As for punting in UK ever again, very unlikely as I will be moving abroad in March.
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Offline yorkshire123

I went through this situation last year with three regulars, be under no illusion there will be no tears on their part. Maybe a slight tinge of sadness & not all down to the income loss but only a tinge if anything at all.

If you really want to test how she feels about you ask her for one last punt as a freebie
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I went through this situation last year with three regulars, be under no illusion there will be no tears on their part. Maybe a slight tinge of sadness & not all down to the income loss but only a tinge if anything at all.

If you really want to test how she feels about you ask her for one last punt as a freebie

Classic  :D

Offline Venezuelan

Hendrix, when you quit did you destroy your punting phone (if had one), rid of AW account also?. As for the quitting part, only I can decide when I want to quit, I have always had self-control on when I want to or went I don't want to punt. As for punting in UK ever again, very unlikely as I will be moving abroad in March.


Maybe she can visit you abroad with her virgin Atlantic points  :hi:
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Offline hendrix

Hendrix, when you quit did you destroy your punting phone (if had one), rid of AW account also?. As for the quitting part, only I can decide when I want to quit, I have always had self-control on when I want to or went I don't want to punt. As for punting in UK ever again, very unlikely as I will be moving abroad in March.

No, my circumstances meant no punting phone required and I've kept aw for phone/cam services.

Offline Roth

I went through this situation last year with three regulars, be under no illusion there will be no tears on their part. Maybe a slight tinge of sadness & not all down to the income loss but only a tinge if anything at all.

If you really want to test how she feels about you ask her for one last punt as a freebie

+1.   :thumbsup:  You are only a source of income to a prossie.  :(

Offline LL

Does anyone ever really quit for good?
The longest I have quit for is 3 years.  I had a pretty nasty experience one time (which I'll not go into) and I never thought I'd punt again after that, but...


[quote author=Stainford link=topic=67711.msg861628#msg861628 date=She does text me when she's away and when she's back so would be awkward if she never hears from me again. My final punt in December would be with her though.
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Awkward  :crazy: get a grip man

Offline Roth

[quote author=Stainford link=topic=67711.msg861628#msg861628 date=She does text me when she's away and when she's back so would be awkward if she never hears from me again. My final punt in December would be with her though.


Awkward  :crazy: get a grip man

+1.   :thumbsup:  Sounds OP might have a moderate firm of EAS?  :scare:

+1.   :thumbsup:  Sounds OP might have a moderate firm of EAS?  :scare:

Here is a key:

Perhaps there is some emotional attachment and the thought of not seeing her again does make me sad to some extent but this is punting not relationships


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