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Author Topic: Paying WG upfornt or at the end?  (Read 1453 times)

Offline hornypnter

How many WGs do you know who are happy to receive the cash at the end of the session?
If you know of any please post links?

I used to see few escorts like Chloe (changed her name to Karen Dee in Walsall but sadly has retired) who didn't even ask for the cash at the end of our session until I gave it to her. There were couple of others but they all seem to have retired or disappeared.

I find these WGs provider an enjoyable unrushed service and seem to enjoy the session. After a long hiatus I returned to punting and have seen couple of WGs - Romanian & Polish who demanded to be paid up front and the service was rushed and although paid for 1hr was out by 45mins.

So do you think it would be better to pay half up front and the rest at the end of the session so that punters don't get ripped off? I am seriously thinking of doing this with my next punt.

Offline comaminion

I either wire the money to them a week before the punt or pay by the minute

Example £120 an hour I take 60 £2 coins and if I'm not happy stop at any point


No on a serious note it makes duck all difference , more to the point most insist money up front on a first meet which is fine by me
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Offline cueball

In all the years I've played this game I've always paid at the start, regulars have sometimes said "don't worry about that, we'll sort that eventually" but I've never intentionally waited to the end to pay

In all the years I've played this game I've always paid at the start, regulars have sometimes said "don't worry about that, we'll sort that eventually" but I've never intentionally waited to the end to pay
Me to get it out of the way at beginning, she can stash and fix me a drink while if have a quick rinse in the shower.  Works every time for incalls.  For outcalls at beginning again but never let it leave house to driver or other excuse many incidences of runners on here !

Offline hornypnter

I have not issue paying up front but the recent punts where I have been rushed and left with still 15 mins or more.
It seemed wanted the money for 1hr but wanted me to stay for least amount of time.

I will be ok if they were up front and said van only do 30 or 45 mins and pay the amount for that time.

Offline cueball

I have not issue paying up front but the recent punts where I have been rushed and left with still 15 mins or more.
It seemed wanted the money for 1hr but wanted me to stay for least amount of time.

I will be ok if they were up front and said van only do 30 or 45 mins and pay the amount for that time.

I know what you're saying, trouble is when they try to rush me it has the opposite effect

Offline yorkshire123

I know a few but that has more to do with familiarity than a standard way of operating.
I will also be fucked if I'm going to post such names in an open forum because there are to many weird scamming fuckers out there who would love such a list.
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Offline hornypnter

I know what you're saying, trouble is when they try to rush me it has the opposite effect

Can you expand on what you mean the opposite effect on you??

Offline cueball

Can you expand on what you mean the opposite effect on you??

Ain't that obvious?

Try to rush me to popping and I last longer than even I planned.

Offline wristjob

Me to get it out of the way at beginning, she can stash and fix me a drink while if have a quick rinse in the shower. 

That and also there are no sneaky surprises. A couple of times when I paid at the end it cost an extra £10/20 more than I expected. It's not the extra cash as much as the sinking feeling knowing somebody cynically ripped you off.

Regarding the OP, I'm really not sure that paying at the end is any kind of good criteria for selecting girls.

Offline hornypnter

"Ain't that obvious?

Try to rush me to popping and I last longer than even I planned."

I wish I had the same effect!

So do you think it would be better to pay half up front and the rest at the end of the session so that punters don't get ripped off? I am seriously thinking of doing this with my next punt.

I'd have thought all that's going to do is risk getting her back up and starting the meet on a bad footing. Agree the time and services up front, pay her and get on with enjoying the meet. If she ends up short changing you let her know, and if she doesn't put it right mention it in any AW feedback or in a review here.

Offline BrunetteBarbieBrooke

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From my knowledge (I don't claim to be a legal expert at this though I do like to keep up to date) it is illegal to take the cash at the end as that crosses over the line of 'paying for services' so cash up front at the beginning is preferred.

It also saves any embarrassment or whatnot.

That's my view, hope it helps :)
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Offline Seaguller

Saw a lady off scotswood rd newcastle this afternoon and paid after the event...even wondered if she would ask!
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Offline yorkshire123

From my knowledge (I don't claim to be a legal expert at this though I do like to keep up to date) it is illegal to take the cash at the end as that crosses over the line of 'paying for services' so cash up front at the beginning is preferred.

It also saves any embarrassment or whatnot.

That's my view, hope it helps :)

I would be totally shocked if that was the case as paying for or selling sex isn't illegal in the UK irrespective of when you pay or what you pay with, by the way I have some magic beans if any prossie is willing to give up their arse in exchange.
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Offline Dani

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From my knowledge (I don't claim to be a legal expert at this though I do like to keep up to date) it is illegal to take the cash at the end as that crosses over the line of 'paying for services' so cash up front at the beginning is preferred.

It also saves any embarrassment or whatnot.

That's my view, hope it helps :)

That is completely wrong.  It is not illegal to pay or charge for sexual services in the UK.   I do find it odd that someone who charges for sex does not know the law surrounding it.  it is illegal to solicit in a public place but completely legal to charge for sex in private and take payment either at the start or end.
Prossies prefer to take the money upfront as it stops the odd arsehole who suddenly finds he 'forgot' his money or 'left it in the car' etc.  Or even staying the full time then saying he didn't enjoy it so refuses to pay.

However you do it, stay consistent. I always make a point of handing cash over at the start of the punt to show that I'm going to be a fair, reasonable and decent punter and try to get things off to a good start.

 The one time I forgot to do this (with a regular) I though ah I'll just remember later. When it came to leave, I went to just walk out and she outrightly had to say 'can I have some money?' with her hand out in a real buzz-kill kind of way haha.

It's nice when it's not asked for at the start of a punt but I do normally try and give them it or put it on the side early on,that said today I was fully dressed and about to head out the door when the wg reminded me I hadn't paid!

pay at the start, let her count it and stash it. Makes for a better punt as they are relaxed then because they know they're not going to have any money issues with you. If you pay at the end she will be uneasy during the whole booking regards the money and to be honest you cant blame her.

i had a girl a few years back stay 4 or 5 hours overtime just having a laugh ect i just left the money on her side of the bed then during her goodbyes i said 'aint you forgot something'? she laughed and said 'oops yeah'. she forgot her money.

as well as the scammers there are some genuine women in this game that are more interested in giving you a great service to keep your custom than ripping you off.

pay at the start, let her count it and stash it. Makes for a better punt as they are relaxed then because they know they're not going to have any money issues with you. If you pay at the end she will be uneasy during the whole booking regards the money and to be honest you cant blame her.

i had a girl a few years back stay 4 or 5 hours overtime just having a laugh ect i just left the money on her side of the bed then during her goodbyes i said 'aint you forgot something'? she laughed and said 'oops yeah'. she forgot her money.

as well as the scammers there are some genuine women in this game that are more interested in giving you a great service to keep your custom than ripping you off.
Some big generalisations there,the wg I saw I have seen numerous times over a couple of years,she definitely wasn't uneasy during the punt as she knows me,do agree however that it's advisable when seeing a wg for the first time

yep if you're new to her pay first. i pay first anyway though

I always think it is best to pay upfront. Place the money in a blank envelope and leave on the table or something.

I know a few but that has more to do with familiarity than a standard way of operating.
I will also be fucked if I'm going to post such names in an open forum because there are to many weird scamming fuckers out there who would love such a list.

Yep, on the money those comments. Once a girl trusts you, they'll take the money at the end. But you earn the trust by repeat visits.

tcm

Offline Mr Br1ghts1de

Yep, on the money those comments. Once a girl trusts you, they'll take the money at the end. But you earn the trust by repeat visits.

tcm

I always pay up front, but there is 1 girl I have seen 3 times where I have always paid at the end.

Just a case of circumstances dictating with a high degree of mutual trust.

Offline English Annabelle

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as a service provider, I dont like to ask upfront but after forgetting my money on 2 occasions I do try to ask politely for the money upfront if I havent met the client before, its nothing to do with rushing the client, its to do with making sure you dont forget at the end, unless of course your not bothered by bad feedback and dont want repeat clients, a perfect client will have the money ready and ask to get it out of the way first, it just creates a good sense of getting down to business without having to try and remember you havent been paid


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