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Author Topic: Punting When You Cant Get A Relationship  (Read 1954 times)

yep, thats why i dont understand these 'retiring from punting' posts. what a load of bollox. you'll never stop, 'punting has you now'.

yep, thats why i dont understand these 'retiring from punting' posts. what a load of bollox. you'll never stop, 'punting has you now'.
Indeed, if I woke up tomorrow and was single and met the girl of my dreams I reckon I would still be on here and awork planning my next punt!

Hawkwind71

Indeed, if I woke up tomorrow and was single and met the girl of my dreams I reckon I would still be on here and awork planning my next punt!

The girl (s) of my dreams wait in flimsy outfits behind darkened doors where lies the stuff such as dreams are made.

Oh shut up Hawkwind, you're a fuckin' poet now.   :dash:
« Last Edit: September 10, 2015, 10:05:15 PM by Hawkwind71 »

yep, thats why i dont understand these 'retiring from punting' posts. what a load of bollox. you'll never stop, 'punting has you now'.

If i would find a GF i would retire. But i would still be here - in Off-Topic department arguing with chicken commando or london maxxxy  :D

Offline hendrix

yep, thats why i dont understand these 'retiring from punting' posts. what a load of bollox. you'll never stop, 'punting has you now'.

I used to think the same, and failed to retire before.. but it all depends on the circumstances. You definitely can stop punting. You need three things to punt, the desire, the funds and the opportunity. If one of those fails you're out.

Well bin there got two long term married tee shirts and the nippers and  just finished it with missus number 2 and you know what?.

If the right or as near as dammit right lady came along I'd settle for a relationship again.

Punting is OK for fizzical sexe but its not quite the same thing as a good relationship but I'd have to make sure she was still interested in a bit around once a week or thereabouts as now I'm that much older and prolly no wiser you don't feel the need as you did when younger.

But if the worst come to the worst there's still AW;!.

I reckon one of the best things about a relationship is when you have something in common with your partner that counts for a lot plus the bit of madness called chemistry..

and nothing or no ones perfect, and if you can realise that then your a Man my son;)..

Offline spkmstr48

Is this thread the antonym of the sex with OH one?

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My concerns came from a wealthy Asian girl I just dated who I thought was my soulmate and best sex I've had. She was a bit of a bitch was like you've got 3 weeks to lose your gut, do this do that. I was like stop feeling me chow mein!

Anyway dated a sweet girl (4 crazy 5 hot)  I know tonight who said you don't mind I'm a bit overweight I had depression. I was like nah its cool. 4 crazy 5 hots where it's at.

I haven't had a relationship for 10 years. I've been single so long now I'd rather stay alone.

Best not to overthink these things. Miss Right may turn up tomorrow, she may not. If she still doesn't show, punting is not a bad fallback.

Offline yorkshire123

If Mrs Y ever delivers on her promise to fuck off with someone who cares there is one thing I can guarantee, no more relationships ever, if I can't get it free with women I fancy who can deliver the goods then I will hire some that can until I finally curl up my toes for the last time & head off to the the punting heaven in the sky.
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Offline Rich42

youre right, but there is a tinge of punting here. I have OH and 2 kids. All now perfectly capable of looking after themselves.

Now I just wanna be able to fuck off for weeks at a time and punt myself into oblivion.

shallow, selfish yes, but I gave all my life and couldn't  give a Fuck now.

Great post Hawk  :drinks:

Offline Seahorse

Never married, and "kind of looking for a relationship" man giving his view here.

But in my 40's, I'm not quite what I was in my late 20s when I had still never asked a woman out ... they asked me (seriously!!).  Now, all that's on the shelf are bitter divorcees or women who, like me, didn't marry because they are a little odd.  And to boot, I'm bald, overweight and have a recurring skin problem,

I can put hours and hours and 30 quid a month into a decent online dating service, possibly getting one date a month.  The date generally works out at between 50 and 100 (sometimes a second date would be about half that) and on the second, if there is one, you usually get the "well, you know I said I was separated?  Well, I'm THINKING of leaving him ..."  And no guarantee of anything else

OR ... I can pop on here, get some recommendations, choose a woman who's way out of my league on civvy street, who will suck me dry, fuck me senseless, and do her damnedest to repeat that in an hour, with the sole intention of getting me back into her bedroom as soon as possible!

Sometimes, it's not a difficult decision
« Last Edit: September 11, 2015, 06:39:50 AM by Seahorse »
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Offline spkmstr48

Never married, and "kind of looking for a relationship" man giving his view here.

But in my 40's, I'm not quite what I was in my late 20s when I had still never asked a woman out ... they asked me (seriously!!).  Now, all that's on the shelf are bitter divorcees or women who, like me, didn't marry because they are a little odd.  And to boot, I'm bald, overweight and have a recurring skin problem,

I can put hours and hours and 30 quid a month into a decent online dating service, possibly getting one date a month.  The date generally works out at between 50 and 100 (sometimes a second date would be about half that) and on the second, if there is one, you usually get the "well, you know I said I was separated?  Well, I'm THINKING of leaving him ..."  And no guarantee of anything else

OR ... I can pop on here, get some recommendations, choose a woman who's way out of my league on civvy street, who will suck me dry, fuck me senseless, and do her damnedest to repeat that in an hour, with the sole intention of getting me back into her bedroom as soon as possible!

Sometimes, it's not a difficult decision

No brainer really  :)

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Offline Swansea lad

Well bin there got two long term married tee shirts and the nippers and  just finished it with missus number 2 and you know what?.

If the right or as near as dammit right lady came along I'd settle for a relationship again.

Punting is OK for fizzical sexe but its not quite the same thing as a good relationship but I'd have to make sure she was still interested in a bit around once a week or thereabouts as now I'm that much older and prolly no wiser you don't feel the need as you did when younger.

But if the worst come to the worst there's still AW;!.

I reckon one of the best things about a relationship is when you have something in common with your partner that counts for a lot plus the bit of madness called chemistry..

and nothing or no ones perfect, and if you can realise that then your a Man my son;)..

I agree with you, wg's have a purpose but cant replace a relationship.

Hawkwind71

I agree with you, wg's have a purpose but cant replace a relationship.

l won't argue, been there, done that. Very basic human need in our human brains. Just remember it is built on a mammalian brain and the inner demon will out. And reptilian brain at its core, good luck fighting that. I gave up a few years back.

Offline pianodave

My concerns came from a wealthy Asian girl I just dated who I thought was my soulmate and best sex I've had. She was a bit of a bitch was like you've got 3 weeks to lose your gut, do this do that. I was like stop feeling me chow mein!

Anyway dated a sweet girl (4 crazy 5 hot)  I know tonight who said you don't mind I'm a bit overweight I had depression. I was like nah its cool. 4 crazy 5 hots where it's at.


The depression should worry you more than the weight.

Offline akauya

With a few exceptions, I think we, as flawed humans, will always want what we don't have.  Single men may want to be in a relationship and married/attached men may want to be single again. I read somewhere that levels of dopamine increase in our brains when we attain something that we coveted for ages. It's also one of the reasons product advertising works well. They make us "want" the items advertised so when we get them we feel great about it.

I can relate to this because one thing that I miss is the chase. I used the internet and dating sites successfully for finding lovers. I loved the fact that you can seduce women with words alone. I find that a challenge and when it works it's fucking awesome. Yes, it's a lot of work and it takes time - that's why I punt in between but seducing a civvie is a huge ego boost so if I were single I would go from one relationship to another. I don't think I would settle long term anymore.

Hawkwind71

With a few exceptions, I think we, as flawed humans, will always want what we don't have.  Single men may want to be in a relationship and married/attached men may want to be single again. I read somewhere that levels of dopamine increase in our brains when we attain something that we coveted for ages. It's also one of the reasons product advertising works well. They make us "want" the items advertised so when we get them we feel great about it.

I can relate to this because one thing that I miss is the chase. I used the internet and dating sites successfully for finding lovers. I loved the fact that you can seduce women with words alone. I find that a challenge and when it works it's fucking awesome. Yes, it's a lot of work and it takes time - that's why I punt in between but seducing a civvie is a huge ego boost so if I were single I would go from one relationship to another. I don't think I would settle long term anymore.

The chase. Yes that goes to the root of the male brain. All started with the antelope and the spear on the savannah then home to pots brewing and six naked asses all plump and ready. Sorry, read too many National Geographics before I was old enough to buy my first playboy magazine.


The chase. Yes that goes to the root of the male brain.
Maybe we need to go hunting more and would save a fortune !

I suspect infidelity increased in this country as hunting got unfashionable/banned !

Offline Aspen

Im looking to really move on and find a half decent girl who is relatively sane

I've spent most of my life doing that, and don't think they actually exist. Only in the imagination.
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Offline purple_t

It's all fucked mate

I'm similar boat 29 , ugly as fuck, unhealthy

At this point in life just give up mate, punt for the physical, get a cat for your emotional life

As for problems, everyone got em

This, but I would advise getting a dog instead of a cat


Now I just wanna be able to fuck off for weeks at a time and punt myself into oblivion.

shallow, selfish yes, but I gave all my life and couldn't  give a Fuck now.

That would make a great film.


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