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Author Topic: Sex Life with OH  (Read 4631 times)

Offline jolder

A lot of these replies seem to involve the wife not being keen or responsive despite the husband trying or initiating sex.  Or a breakdown in communication eg. no longer talking or living in separate rooms.

My situations different,  I could probably have sex every night of the week if I wanted with someone I get on really well with.  Problem is I just don't think I'm that sexually attracted to her anymore so don't want to have sex.
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Almost in tears reading this post. No need to spill your guts on here about why you do what you do with brass, just do it. We all know why we are here.

Hawkwind71

I guess most of us punt because of inactivity at home. Reading some of the posts above I think some of you need to ask yourself 1 question - are you happy to stay a sexless relationship for the rest of your life? If the answer is no then you need to think whether it's time to draw a line under things and move on.

The problem is the damage it would do to the kids. Theyre just setting up in life. Wouldn't want to upset that. I am not avaricious but I also see less punting money if we had an acrimonious divource. I get enuf punts now to be content as things are.

Hawkwind71

Almost in tears reading this post. No need to spill your guts on here about why you do what you do with brass, just do it. We all know why we are here.

I see your point forever.

But there are a lot of 'lurkers' on ukp trying to figure out what to do in a stale marriage, possibly considering a punting career. I think sharing these issue helps others. Some then join in and have the courage to speak. We are not a charity but I have been helped immensely by the honesty on here.

Offline Enons

My story is very similar to eveyones.......late 40s been together 10 years......great at first, now its about once every 6 weeks due to her mood swings and menopause......dont get me wrong, shes a great cook, shes quite witty ( when she aint moody) and we are like soulmates..........i dont really fancy her that much anymore sexualy, shes put weight on, started smoking again ......why dont i leave her?.....because of the dog, yeah i know its stupid but that little fella is my world ....hes the only one whos pleased to see me when i get home from work, loyal and makes me smile........if i leave the dog stays with her ( it was her dog b4 we met)......i guess thats why i punt!

Hawkwind71

And let's all be honest, there is a game to be had here. The thrill of the chase. The caveman instinct. The Dick Turpin. The three muskateers. Out on the town with Owen Wilson drunk as lords. I am sure the single lads on here must be laughing. But I get a definite thrill after I've shagged a punt then nonchalantly walked in the door and said 'so whats for supper' having got away with it .....AGAIN.

Offline spkmstr48

And let's all be honest, there is a game to be had here. The thrill of the chase. The caveman instinct. The Dick Turpin. The three muskateers. Out on the town with Owen Wilson drunk as lords. I am sure the single lads on here must be laughing. But I get a definite thrill after I've shagged a punt then nonchalantly walked in the door and said 'so whats for supper' having got away with it .....AGAIN.

I think for me being single would take away some of the thrill, not all but some.

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Tony Montana

Very rarely, maybe once every 2 months, but sometimes she gets the horn.

The last time was when I'd just been to an LMP party and had cum 4 times there.  I was on the train home absolutely shagged out and she sends me a pic of herself in stockings and fuck-me shoes so I had to perform for a 5th time that evening. 

Offline spkmstr48

Very rarely, maybe once every 2 months, but sometimes she gets the horn.

The last time was when I'd just been to an LMP party and had cum 4 times there.  I was on the train home absolutely shagged out and she sends me a pic of herself in stockings and fuck-me shoes so I had to perform for a 5th time that evening.

Haha! Love to have seen your face when you got the photo  :lol:

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Offline pianodave

These threads are real eye openers. Good reading for younger guys thinking of marriage, who probably haven't considered that they are likely signing up to celibacy.
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Hawkwind71

These threads are real eye openers. Good reading for younger guys thinking of marriage, who probably haven't considered that they are likely signing up to celibacy.

There but for the grace of God, go I.

....or something like that.

Online socks

Never get fuck all, so thanks to porn and punting for keeping me active! Some have asked why not move onto someone else so as not to be in a sexless relationship? If there were guarantees that we'd be shagging forever I'd perhaps be tempted. But for me I can tolerate it, we have kids, decent house, nice friends, no hassle with either of us going off doing other things etc. So as I see it and the almost inevitable decline in fucking with every woman, why go through all the upheaval and hassle just to end up in the same place with someone else? Buy a fuck now and again, wank off to porn in between times, job's a good (enough) 'un in my world

Offline Oberyn1

I am intrigued. When guys here say they are only seeing escorts because of lack of action at home, surely you prefer banging hot young women though? :D no offence to your other halves because i'm sure they're nice enough, but would you be fully satisfied even if you were getting it from the wife on a regular?
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I am intrigued. When guys here say they are only seeing escorts because of lack of action at home, surely you prefer banging hot young women though? :D no offence to your other halves because i'm sure they're nice enough, but would you be fully satisfied even if you were getting it from the wife on a regular?
Fair point I overlooked that in my own personal reflection. Addendum: I also love being able to fuck different women and do things with them that I'd never have done with the/a OH. Can't imagine punting would cease altogether even if I did get lots of action in a relationship again.

Offline Mansell

I am intrigued. When guys here say they are only seeing escorts because of lack of action at home, surely you prefer banging hot young women though? :D no offence to your other halves because i'm sure they're nice enough, but would you be fully satisfied even if you were getting it from the wife on a regular?

It may not be as great as a young WG, but at least she is keeping her side of the bargain, so I would accept that.

Online fredpunter

I am intrigued. When guys here say they are only seeing escorts because of lack of action at home, surely you prefer banging hot young women though? :D no offence to your other halves because i'm sure they're nice enough, but would you be fully satisfied even if you were getting it from the wife on a regular?

I would never have started if my mrs was a bit keener and/or more adventurous .... but having started I can't imagine stopping until my libido dies (which may not be much longer) 

Whilst I am in the same boat as the majority who have posted  on this thread, Sex is only one aspect to a marriage, and if you can adjust to dealing with that, then the rest can be absolutely fine.

It took me a long tine to work out the punting deal, but now having brought that into the mix, life has taken a turn for the better.

I can only assume that others here have arrived at the same conclusion, I suspect none of us could be assed with an affair!







Hawkwind71

I would never have started if my mrs was a bit keener and/or more adventurous .... but having started I can't imagine stopping until my libido dies (which may not be much longer)

I think this is the centre of the issue. If my missus had continued I would never have punted. But I wouldn't stop now even if she became a PSE sex goddess. I love fucking lots of women of any age 18 to 48. :cool:

My wife could never aspire to that variety.....

Stopped having any sexual activity for the last two years .A friend told me about AW and that was it . I only punt about six times a year..but I cherish my times with my regular WG  ..I look forward to it ... look back on the photos and video I take and although I have a good relationship with my wife , -I truly believe that if I hadn't discovered punting I'd have walked out .

I'm not a nasty person ..but I also get a bit of  satisfaction that when punting , I'm 'getting my own back ' Mrs Frenchie probably thinks I've just given up ...well I have in a way  ..because punting means I am less frustrated , better tempered ,and generally a happy bunny .

Offline Access

My marriage sucks too. She's never interested in me sexually and it causes rows. I've considered saying I'll get it elsewhere and we can carry on being married, to keep things honest. Have any of you "got permission" to punt as it'd keep you together and she knows she doesn't want sex anymore?

Offline sam55

The reason I ask is I'm wandering whether it is normal for sex to disappear when you have been in a relationship with someone for a long time.  I've been in a relationship for 7 years and the sex stopped a long time ago.  Mainly because I no longer felt sexually attracted to her - partly physical, partly emotional.  Everything else is perfect and I'm attracted to her in every other way eg. personality, sense of humour etc. which is why it has gone on for so long but I'm thinking I may need to call an end to it.  I need that sexual attraction.  Or maybe everyone experiences the same in a relationship?

Don't wish to be nosey but you are the OP.

In the relationship 7 years and the sex stopped "a long time ago", sounds like you didn't have much of a window there.
I've been with the Mrs for 28 years but we had well over 20 years of shagging.
May I enquire what age you are?

Offline sam55

Very rarely, maybe once every 2 months, but sometimes she gets the horn.

The last time was when I'd just been to an LMP party and had cum 4 times there.  I was on the train home absolutely shagged out and she sends me a pic of herself in stockings and fuck-me shoes so I had to perform for a 5th time that evening.

Fucking hell mate - I salute you!

Reminds me of the Vicar of Dibley episode where she had to eat 3 Christmas dinners!

Fair point I overlooked that in my own personal reflection. Addendum: I also love being able to fuck different women and do things with them that I'd never have done with the/a OH. Can't imagine punting would cease altogether even if I did get lots of action in a relationship again.

Ditto  :drinks:

Hawkwind71

My marriage sucks too. She's never interested in me sexually and it causes rows. I've considered saying I'll get it elsewhere and we can carry on being married, to keep things honest. Have any of you "got permission" to punt as it'd keep you together and she knows she doesn't want sex anymore?

No, but if she ever finds out, I'll throw it in her face. That's why I usually say if I were outed it would be an inconvenience not a disaster. Her fault, but no going back now even if she became PSE ho of the year. Horse has already bolted.

Offline Mansell

No, but if she ever finds out, I'll throw it in her face. That's why I usually say if I were outed it would be an inconvenience not a disaster. Her fault, but no going back now even if she became PSE ho of the year. Horse has already bolted.
I think you are right, I would really struggle to stop seeing my regular WG.


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