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Offline jolder

Just read the thread about reviewing your OH

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=61278.0

Which got me thinking, for those of you that do have OH, how often do you have sex with your OH?
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Offline spkmstr48

In an ideal world, less often than Christmas  :lol:

 :drinks: :diablo: :lol:
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Offline Mansell

As often as she'll let me, so once every blue moon  :thumbsdown: why do you think a lot of us are here ?

Hawkwind71

Stopped when her medical condition kicked in.

Really had no choice, can't imagine she thought I could live the celibate life. But that is probably what she imagines.

Not a chance, it's why I'm here cos she wasn't bad most of married life.

I think this is a common story when the missus stops giving at home.

....and you know how the WG's say 'unlimited cums' well for me it's unlimited punts.   end of.
« Last Edit: September 07, 2015, 01:02:12 PM by Hawkwind71 »

Offline anyfucker

7th of never right through to the 15th of ain't gonna happen   :diablo:

I think I'm one of the lucky ones as I still shag Mrs tcm on a regular basis. Average is probably 2-3 times a week but it varies due to circumstances and opportunity. Glad to say she's booked me for this evening!!

I punt for variety and to fulfil the fantasies I can't do with her.

tcm

Offline jolder

The reason I ask is I'm wandering whether it is normal for sex to disappear when you have been in a relationship with someone for a long time.  I've been in a relationship for 7 years and the sex stopped a long time ago.  Mainly because I no longer felt sexually attracted to her - partly physical, partly emotional.  Everything else is perfect and I'm attracted to her in every other way eg. personality, sense of humour etc. which is why it has gone on for so long but I'm thinking I may need to call an end to it.  I need that sexual attraction.  Or maybe everyone experiences the same in a relationship?
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Offline pianodave

You' always get the odd couple who keep shagging away for years, but the norm seems to be for sex to die off pretty quickly. Most people just seem to get bored of the same body, and I also think as friendship/companionship takes over, it takes the place of sexual attraction. We don't tend to find our mates attractive.

Offline johnnyboy61

I normally find that for some reason the OH is absolutely rampant and gagging for it and sex is available on tap when there's a K in the month.

January, February, March................ah that explains it then!!  :dash:
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Offline jolder

I normally find that for some reason the OH is absolutely rampant and gagging for it and sex is available on tap when there's a K in the month.

January, February, March................ah that explains it then!!  :dash:

Buy a Polish calendar  :D
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Offline jolder

You' always get the odd couple who keep shagging away for years, but the norm seems to be for sex to die off pretty quickly. Most people just seem to get bored of the same body, and I also think as friendship/companionship takes over, it takes the place of sexual attraction. We don't tend to find our mates attractive.

I think you might be right although I don't think I've figured that out yet.  The friendship/companionship side to my relationship is as good as it could get.  But can't help thinking shouldn't you be sexually attracted to your partner?
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Offline Mansell

The reason I ask is I'm wandering whether it is normal for sex to disappear when you have been in a relationship with someone for a long time.  I've been in a relationship for 7 years and the sex stopped a long time ago.  Mainly because I no longer felt sexually attracted to her - partly physical, partly emotional.  Everything else is perfect and I'm attracted to her in every other way eg. personality, sense of humour etc. which is why it has gone on for so long but I'm thinking I may need to call an end to it.  I need that sexual attraction.  Or maybe everyone experiences the same in a relationship?

If it's totally stopped then I reckon you have got a problem.

I'm still sexually attracted to my'n and would not be doing this if she put out more often, but once through the dreaded menapause it came to a bit of a menaSTOP. We have been together a very long time, otherwise I would be gone.

its a strange conundrum i've never got my head around - once every 6 weeks or so,  and to be honest,  It's very good.  I guess with most couples it kind of died out when the kids were small,  but has never really got more frequent now they're all grown up and out of the house a lot.

But the normal rules apply,  after 10pm,  lights out,  nowhere but the bedroom  :(

Offline JR

One caveat - I am no longer married so don't exactly fit the OP's criteria but we were together for over 30 years
We started as 17 year olds, were quite rampant but had enforced separations so the old absence makes the heart grow fonder/dick grow harder maxim held true
We married at 21 and had already dropped to 1-2x week
By our late 20’s this became about one ‘session’ a month – however this was quite passionate and quite intense and stretched over a couple of days, probably 4 to 6 times in 48hrs and I never felt the need to go elsewhere (only window shopped).
It stayed this way until she started her affair in her late 40’s when it stopped dead, I thought it was because her parent was dying but as it turned out…
Been happily punting since the divorce

Offline Happylad

You' always get the odd couple who keep shagging away for years, but the norm seems to be for sex to die off pretty quickly. .

My OH and I were one of the odd couples. Even in our 70s it was once or twice a week. The very last time was on our golden wedding day (we were both 75). After that she was too ill with cancer and she died 4 months later.

Online RedKettle

I don't understand the title to this thread!!??

Enough said.

Offline Rich42

I think you might be right although I don't think I've figured that out yet.  The friendship/companionship side to my relationship is as good as it could get.  But can't help thinking shouldn't you be sexually attracted to your partner?

I agree with you Jolder and it's been bugging me for ages. Me and my wife last had sex when i was 26...i'm now 42. Friends seem surprised that i've stayed in a marriage with no sex for 16 years. I used to say that while it was very disappointing to not have sex we were like soul mates in every other way. But we're now at a point where we don't get on like we used to, we sleep in different bedrooms etc... it's more like we're housemates. I suppose we stay together cos none of us can be bothered to do anything about it. But i know what you're saying..... it's not right is it?  :(

Offline anyfucker

You' always get the odd couple who keep shagging away for years, but the norm seems to be for sex to die off pretty quickly. Most people just seem to get bored of the same body, and I also think as friendship/companionship takes over, it takes the place of sexual attraction. We don't tend to find our mates attractive.
people typically go through different phases of attraction with different chemistry oyxtocin, dopamine (romantic aren't I :-)
Lust - you might well be attracted to someone for sex who is completely incompatible,  strength in diverse genes and all that.
How long does it last? from until you sober up to a couple of years or have a child. This is when you want to shag all the time and just feel "as one" - bliss.
Once the rose tints have worn off then adapting to your partner, going through trials, acceptance ..... or splitting up.

Offline stayer

I read some months ago what I believe to be a true story.

This guy would make an advance but get an elbow in his ribs - except twice a year when she got on heat and demanded sex immediately.

He wasn't thinking of leaving her because she was otherwise a good wife and good mother to the kids.

Hawkwind71

I agree with you Jolder and it's been bugging me for ages. Me and my wife last had sex when i was 26...i'm now 42. Friends seem surprised that i've stayed in a marriage with no sex for 16 years. I used to say that while it was very disappointing to not have sex we were like soul mates in every other way. But we're now at a point where we don't get on like we used to, we sleep in different bedrooms etc... it's more like we're housemates. I suppose we stay together cos none of us can be bothered to do anything about it. But i know what you're saying..... it's not right is it?  :(

I feel your pain. Mine lasted to 50. Then I had a dry patch. Now punting heaven and wouldn't change a thing. We don't get along anymore but she would be devastated if we split. Security and comfort of a marriage. Go figure.

Yep my missus has not let me touch her since the kid was born 7 years ago!
Wanking over internet porn just does not cut it anymore had my first punt today.
First of many i hope.

Got a big smile on my face right now  :D

Even the missus is wondering why im so happy as normally im a misery guts.

I think I'm one of the lucky ones as I still shag Mrs tcm on a regular basis. Average is probably 2-3 times a week but it varies due to circumstances and opportunity. Glad to say she's booked me for this evening!!

I punt for variety and to fulfil the fantasies I can't do with her.

tcm

Ditto  :drinks:

Offline SirFrank

I guess most of us punt because of inactivity at home. Reading some of the posts above I think some of you need to ask yourself 1 question - are you happy to stay a sexless relationship for the rest of your life? If the answer is no then you need to think whether it's time to draw a line under things and move on.
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Offline SJ772

I'm also one of the seemingly few lucky ones, I'd say on average full sex 2-3 times a week with the Mrs, plus normally bag a couple of BJs in there most weeks, then again I only punt about once a month, would be very frustrated (and broke) if sex with the Mrs dries up.

Offline itk

I agree with you Jolder and it's been bugging me for ages. Me and my wife last had sex when i was 26...i'm now 42. Friends seem surprised that i've stayed in a marriage with no sex for 16 years. I used to say that while it was very disappointing to not have sex we were like soul mates in every other way. But we're now at a point where we don't get on like we used to, we sleep in different bedrooms etc... it's more like we're housemates. I suppose we stay together cos none of us can be bothered to do anything about it. But i know what you're saying..... it's not right is it?  :(

Very similar situation myself, early 40's and been together for 17 years. Not in separate bedrooms, but we never speak, if we do it'll last five minutes before she hits the fucking roof shouting and screaming. She's barely ever at home anyway, always around her friends or mums, only ever civil in front of our kids.
If I had the money I'd buy out our mortgage and boot her out, as for sex it's been about three occasions this year. Same tired routine, RO for ages followed by OWO for about 2 minutes, then one position with zero movement from her. The last time I never even came, stopped and said its a waste of fucking time.


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