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Offline Hobbit

Anyone have any tips on lasting longer whilst having sex? I've tried having a drink before a session and that does help because it makes your dick less sensitive, however it also acts like a sleepy agent for round 2. So I wondered, do you have any tricks or tips that help you to last longer?  :hi:

Offline arthur

I tend to get the urge to come within a minute and have to totally slow down my pace to the slowest movements and even pull it out for a few seconds and start again, but after about 7-8 minutes of this the penis numbs itself to the sensations and I can build up speed and then keep going for hours.

May not be the case for everyone, but Ive discovered just getting through the first 10 minutes without coming, whatever the costs, works for me.

Offline cueball

Switching positions helps me, if I'm getting near to the vinegar stroke I just ask for a swap, the brief rest helps calm things down, go to your least favourite / best self control position for a bit.

On an hour booking sometimes it's easier to get the first pop out of the way, once repaired you can sometimes keep going quite well.

johnnyboy61

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I tend to get the urge to come within a minute and have to totally slow down my pace to the slowest movements and even pull it out for a few seconds and start again, but after about 7-8 minutes of this the penis numbs itself to the sensations and I can build up speed and then keep going for hours.

May not be the case for everyone, but Ive discovered just getting through the first 10 minutes without coming, whatever the costs, works for me.

+1 me too.

I find that sex usually follows the girl giving you a BJ and I am often in danger of blowing my load too quickly. I tell them to go very slowly and then after a few miniutes I'm ready to build up a head of steam again and usually last between 15 and 20 minutes. The problem then is I can sometimes go past the point and not climax at all because I have delayed it too long and become too insensitive.

Mind you, being circumcised probably helps too, but I'm not suggesting you go that far!

Offline Happylad

Close your eyes and fantasise that it`s your mother in law. `Course, if she`s like mine was you`d probably finish up with droop

Offline Roth

Switching positions helps me, if I'm getting near to the vinegar stroke I just ask for a swap, the brief rest helps calm things down, go to your least favourite / best self control position for a bit.

On an hour booking sometimes it's easier to get the first pop out of the way, once repaired you can sometimes keep going quite well.

+1.   :thumbsup:  Best way IMHO. :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

Offline con-a-ser

Knock one out before the booking

Offline Roth

Knock one out before the booking

Can work but there is also a danger of not cumming during the punt.  :unknown:

Offline Wilson85

Another factor I've come across is that some prossies really know how to use their pussies, and can have me cumming in seconds.

With other prossies I've been worried that I wouldn't cum in a two hour booking, took a hard pounding to do the trick.

LL

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I tend to get the urge to come within a minute and have to totally slow down my pace to the slowest movements and even pull it out for a few seconds and start again, but after about 7-8 minutes of this the penis numbs itself to the sensations and I can build up speed and then keep going for hours.

May not be the case for everyone, but Ive discovered just getting through the first 10 minutes without coming, whatever the costs, works for me.
This ^^^ and taking Viagra helps get through the first few minutes. I don't plan to last for hours. My aim is to cum right at the end of my 30 minute booking or when she's nagging me and it's fairly near the end. I've spent my whole punting career trying to master this and I can usually last 30 minutes. I go at my own pace and change positions if I feel I'm about to cum, or stop pounding her to give her pussy a few licks.

On my last proper punt, with Melysa - last Tuesday, second time seeing her. 25 minutes in and she said, "a lot of fucking, is it difficult for you to cum?". On the contrary I'm focusing my attention on not cumming so that I can get the maximum amount of action in my paid time!  :thumbsup:

Incidentally hot katarina said something very similar to me - "are you not ready to cum yet?". Nope, I've got a couple of minutes left!

Offline Roth

This ^^^ and taking Viagra helps get through the first few minutes. I don't plan to last for hours. My aim is to cum right at the end of my 30 minute booking or when she's nagging me and it's fairly near the end. I've spent my whole punting career trying to master this and I can usually last 30 minutes. I go at my own pace and change positions if I feel I'm about to cum, or stop pounding her to give her pussy a few licks.

On my last proper punt, with Melysa - last Tuesday, second time seeing her. 25 minutes in and she said, "a lot of fucking, is it difficult for you to cum?". On the contrary I'm focusing my attention on not cumming so that I can get the maximum amount of action in my paid time!  :thumbsup:

Incidentally hot katarina said something very similar to me - "are you not ready to cum yet?". Nope, I've got a couple of minutes left!

Good skills!  :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :D

johnnyboy61

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Wasn't Ron Jeremy rather proud of the fact that he could pop virtually on command? Any relation?

Offline Gooner

I wish I had LL's skills. I cum way too quickly and don't have the self control and just burst. :(

iloverachelv

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Being a gooner you would always know about shooting too soon once in the box, you watch it most weeks :thumbsup:

Swansea lad

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In my 20's I would knock one out a hour before but if I do that now I dont get a proper hard on with the girl more a 90 percent one. Over the years though I have learnt to stop myself shooting but as mentioned it can be impossible to cum then.

I like a 15 min blow job and then 15 of sex and thats about right for me.

My foreskin is quite tight and only retracts if I do it manually I think this helps, when I was younger it would move back by itself during sex.


Offline smiths

Anyone have any tips on lasting longer whilst having sex? I've tried having a drink before a session and that does help because it makes your dick less sensitive, however it also acts like a sleepy agent for round 2. So I wondered, do you have any tricks or tips that help you to last longer?  :hi:

Have control over your own body as I have so I pop when I decide to, no one makes me cum which is what I often read on here that WGs did to punters. An alien concept to me.

Offline MancSean

This ^^^ and taking Viagra helps get through the first few minutes. I don't plan to last for hours. My aim is to cum right at the end of my 30 minute booking or when she's nagging me and it's fairly near the end. I've spent my whole punting career trying to master this and I can usually last
30 minutes. I go at my own pace and change positions if I feel I'm about to cum, or stop pounding her to give her pussy a few licks.

On my last proper punt, with Melysa - last Tuesday, second time seeing her. 25 minutes in and she said, "a lot of fucking, is it difficult for you to cum?". On the contrary I'm focusing my attention on not cumming so that I can get the maximum amount of action in my paid time!  :thumbsup:

Incidentally hot katarina said something very similar to me - "are you not ready to cum yet?". Nope, I've got a couple of minutes left!
Ironically this made me think of a punt with Platinum Cindy where she encouraged me not to cum until right at the end of a 2 hour punt. Came close a few times but managed to hold on. When I first  left I thought was great but fuck I only came once in a two hour punt when normally I will go for at least 2 but hopefully 3. But now looking back it was action for basically 1 hour 50 minutes not bad  for £220 with anal
« Last Edit: September 06, 2015, 08:01:28 pm by MancSean »

Offline Malvolio

Swapping positions as someone suggested - if you're having oral then get her to lick your cock as well as suck it.

In particular, I'd suggest choosing positions where you're the one who controls the pace and depth of the thrusting.

Offline SamLP

One well known WG called me the master of the sex marathon. I can hold out until I want to cum most of the time. On the second pop I sometimes have a hard time cumming so while I pound away in different positions it's mostly frustration as I can't feel the build up to a climax but I can maintain a hard erection (never taken any meds). It's one of the main reasons I now stick to half hour punts.

Many tips for lasting longer. Healthy diet, exercise, mind control, changing positions, varying speed and thrusts, pacing yourself..
« Last Edit: September 06, 2015, 08:13:22 pm by SamLP »

Offline Wheelz77

Being a gooner you would always know about shooting too soon once in the box, you watch it most weeks :thumbsup:


No, if he was a true gooner he'd mess around outside the box for the duration, forget about shooting and go home disappointed.

jcdmj12

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I am generally pretty ok at holding on during foreplay, but controlling it during sex on pop 1 can be a challenge. Ironically I find coming too quickly more of a problem with condom than without (although that may be down to the excitement of fucking a new woman, versus regular partner, as I'd never BB a stranger!)

I recently found a technique that really works for me, which is doing maths in my head. Counting the Fibonacci sequence, or sequential prime numbers seems to be about the right level of difficulty.  It takes just enough concentration to stop me from getting over excited, whilst still allowing me to enjoy fucking.

Offline threechilliman

Don't have too many issues as I can pound a girl without cumming and generally I run out of gas before I get to the point. Then I lie back and let her give me a handjob which I find very pleasurable. Occasionally I will get to the point when fucking - then I have a decision to make, but not often.

tcm

willbred

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The girl behind the door's an absolute munter...works every time for me. I last well into Plan B

Offline Malvolio

I am generally pretty ok at holding on during foreplay, but controlling it during sex on pop 1 can be a challenge. Ironically I find coming too quickly more of a problem with condom than without (although that may be down to the excitement of fucking a new woman, versus regular partner, as I'd never BB a stranger!)

I recently found a technique that really works for me, which is doing maths in my head. Counting the Fibonacci sequence, or sequential prime numbers seems to be about the right level of difficulty.  It takes just enough concentration to stop me from getting over excited, whilst still allowing me to enjoy fucking.

How far up those sequences do you get?  Also, do you ever find yourself reciting them out loud?

Offline smiths

One well known WG called me the master of the sex marathon. I can hold out until I want to cum most of the time. On the second pop I sometimes have a hard time cumming so while I pound away in different positions it's mostly frustration as I can't feel the build up to a climax but I can maintain a hard erection (never taken any meds). It's one of the main reasons I now stick to half hour punts.

Many tips for lasting longer. Healthy diet, exercise, mind control, changing positions, varying speed and thrusts, pacing yourself..

Good to hear someone else has control over their own body. :thumbsup:

Offline Anadin

I used to worry about this because anticipation and huge tits means I won't last more than 10 mins with penetration most of the time. The thing is it saves me money not lasting long and I can't think of a reason to last longer.

Offline Gooner


No, if he was a true gooner he'd mess around outside the box for the duration, forget about shooting and go home disappointed.

Haha. Spot on. :D

jcdmj12

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How far up those sequences do you get?  Also, do you ever find yourself reciting them out loud?

Not far - by the time I get into the hundreds, I usually completely lose my place and have to start again.   :D

Never recited them out loud, although it has given me an idea for a kinky sub/dom roleplay with a suitably numerate prossie.

LL

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I wish I had LL's skills. I cum way too quickly and don't have the self control and just burst. :(
Yep. I remember my first punt. I booked half an hour with a girl and lasted about 3 minutes. At the time, where I was living, it was a one-cum policy in the entire city. So once you cum, you're shown the door. I learnt to last longer. It doesn't always  go so well though. Sometimes I still cum early.  Especially if the girl insists on taking control and is going too quickly for me. But if I'm in control I can generally last. It's all about practice. Have long wanks!  Find your own technique to stop yourself cumming and practice on your own, over and over. Then when punting, just try to last bit longer on each punt. Set yourself a target and try to reach it.

DG

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Most of my punts are an hour and I plan to cum at about 55 mins. I pretty much take control and if she is bringing me to the edge with oral, foreplay or penetration, I just ask her to stop for a bit, I also usually give her RO for about 10 mins or so mid punt to give me time to relax before letting her loose on me again. Hasn't failed me yet.

LL

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Most of my punts are an hour and I plan to cum at about 55 mins. I pretty much take control and if she is bringing me to the edge with oral, foreplay or penetration, I just ask her to stop for a bit, I also usually give her RO for about 10 mins or so mid punt to give me time to relax before letting her loose on me again. Hasn't failed me yet.
55 minutes before cumming?!
I see why you picked your avatar now :D

DG

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55 minutes before cumming?!
I see why you picked your avatar now :D

At the risk of winding up my Glasgow based punting fraternity, I am known for producing a pretty impressive load. No wanking for a week before a punt and control throughout usually does the trick. A particular favourite experience of mine was with my regular girl when cumming in her mouth, it actually came out of her nose. On another occasion she went into a coughing fit as I caught her slightly off guard and it hit the back of her throat so hard and fast. In over a year of punting, this technique has always produced impressive results and often has the girl remarking about it.  :dance:

LL

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At the risk of winding up my Glasgow based punting fraternity, I am known for producing a pretty impressive load.

Who knew we would attract the postings of Peter North's cock-double :D
Whilst I'm not claiming to be up there with the porn-stars in jizz volume (far from it) I have noticed that a few small dietary changes - mainly to be extremely well hydrated before a punt (secondly: celery; amino acids and taking zinc every day!) can make a big difference to the amount I can personally muster up.

Offline nike

Never been a problem.  I'm a two pop man. If I'm in danger of popping early, first time,  I start to go through my diary appointments for the next week. On the second round, I can usually pick my own moment.  :drinks:

Type_O_Negative

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Who knew we would attract the postings of Peter North's cock-double :D
Whilst I'm not claiming to be up there with the porn-stars in jizz volume (far from it) I have noticed that a few small dietary changes - mainly to be extremely well hydrated before a punt (secondly: celery; amino acids and taking zinc every day!) can make a big difference to the amount I can personally muster up.

It's funny thing - everyday at work i do fresh salads with selery - but i don't eat them...
I will try tomorrow.

DG

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Who knew we would attract the postings of Peter North's cock-double :D
Whilst I'm not claiming to be up there with the porn-stars in jizz volume (far from it) I have noticed that a few small dietary changes - mainly to be extremely well hydrated before a punt (secondly: celery; amino acids and taking zinc every day!) can make a big difference to the amount I can personally muster up.

Yes hydration is key; I tried the pineapple juice trick and it seemed to work. But I'm also on anti-coagulants and as pineapple is a natural blood thinner, it caused me some unwanted side affects, which since stopping drinking pineapple juice have cleared up. But for me the most important factor is abstinence before a punt. I need at least three days to fully recover. I tried a two pop 2 hour session once and the second one was far too much effort for both me and my regular girl, who worked like a trouper for about 20 minutes solid to get a result; which she did, but not half as impressive as usual. I'm trying to arrange a much longer session with her soon, 4 hours or so, when hopefully two pops will be more satisfying. :drinks:

MrBridger

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Of course, there's always the following:


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I think I could last forever.

BeesKnees

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Try not to go full throttle from the start. Go slow and build up speed. She'll appreciate that. Or switch condoms if possible? For me, Durex doesn't make me cum, too thick possibly. Mates Skyn or the Passante ones allow me to cum easier

Offline smiths

Yes hydration is key; I tried the pineapple juice trick and it seemed to work. But I'm also on anti-coagulants and as pineapple is a natural blood thinner, it caused me some unwanted side affects, which since stopping drinking pineapple juice have cleared up. But for me the most important factor is abstinence before a punt. I need at least three days to fully recover. I tried a two pop 2 hour session once and the second one was far too much effort for both me and my regular girl, who worked like a trouper for about 20 minutes solid to get a result; which she did, but not half as impressive as usual. I'm trying to arrange a much longer session with her soon, 4 hours or so, when hopefully two pops will be more satisfying. :drinks:

Pineapple juice ensures your spunk tastes ok if you like snowballing your own as I do on occasion but many other things you can eat or drink have the same effect as a quick search on Google can show.

DG

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Pineapple juice ensures your spunk tastes ok if you like snowballing your own as I do on occasion but many other things you can eat or drink have the same effect as a quick search on Google can show.

Feedback from a before and after 'taste test' confirmed to me that pineapple juice does affect the taste of your cum, but like I said, some unfortunate side effects for me.

Offline TheOracle

Anyone have any tips on lasting longer whilst having sex? I've tried having a drink before a session and that does help because it makes your dick less sensitive, however it also acts like a sleepy agent for round 2. So I wondered, do you have any tricks or tips that help you to last longer?  :hi:

I noticed that pulling the pelvic floor muscles (the ones trained by Kegel exercises) and focusing on them for a second while at the same time deepening the breath helps me reduce the urge to come. If I do that sometimes I manage to not come at all, and more frequently it helps at least block the urge long enough for me to pull out and change position. For some reason I tend not to come during doggies or cowgirl so moving to those position also helps.

Spankybumtime

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Years ago a mate told me the best way to last longer is to crack one off before meeting a girl for sex, I used to be a right wank addict and when meeting girls i would not last more than a few minutes, I decided to be really strict and give up wanking for a week before meeting a girl for a half hour booking, I'd last 25 minutes and even then i'd need to increase the pounding speed to get a pop out, Now i won't wank for at least 24 hrs before a booking and have no problem lasting at least 20 minutes

Offline anyfucker

Have control over your own body as I have so I pop when I decide to, no one makes me cum which is what I often read on here that WGs did to punters. An alien concept to me.
Yes, but that's no help to anyone else unless you can describe why/how.

DG

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Yes, but that's no help to anyone else unless you can describe why/how.

I'm a bit confused? Why can't you sense when you are about to cum and pull out or ask the girl to stop whatever she is doing? If you can't control that I guess you go around pissing yourself all day  it's pretty much the same thing isn't it?  :scare:

As for why? In my case I'm not a repeat cummer, certainly not in an hour punt, and my libido drops significantly once I have cum, so to enjoy the full time I aim to cum near the end. I didn't realise it until reading about it on here, but I suppose I'm edging throughout the punt.

Offline SamLP

Yes, but that's no help to anyone else unless you can describe why/how.

It comes with experience, you discover your body and mind.

Mind control is the biggest part, if you get too emotional (ie. I love you thoughts or I can't believe I'm having sex or you're so beautiful) then you will cum quickly. Once you block those thoughts (it needs a bit of internal arrogance and knowing how to divide those thoughts so it doesn't overwhelm you)

Secondly it's the physical part. Work those kegel muscles and put them to good use when having sex - hold back as if you're preventing yourself from having a piss. You will find that when a girl humps fast in order to make you cum quickly, you can ride the waves and not cum quickly. Just tell her to slow down if you think she's going too fast or slow yourself down if you're doing the work.

Change positions, vary the pace, focus on different things during sex (ie. kissing, playing with her tits, nibbling her ears, squeezing her arse etc - again mind control as it distracts you from thinking about your sensitive dick as you're preoccupied and focused on something else)

Offline Hobbit

It comes with experience, you discover your body and mind.

Mind control is the biggest part, if you get too emotional (ie. I love you thoughts or I can't believe I'm having sex or you're so beautiful) then you will cum quickly. Once you block those thoughts (it needs a bit of internal arrogance and knowing how to divide those thoughts so it doesn't overwhelm you)

Secondly it's the physical part. Work those kegel muscles and put them to good use when having sex - hold back as if you're preventing yourself from having a piss. You will find that when a girl humps fast in order to make you cum quickly, you can ride the waves and not cum quickly. Just tell her to slow down if you think she's going too fast or slow yourself down if you're doing the work.

Change positions, vary the pace, focus on different things during sex (ie. kissing, playing with her tits, nibbling her ears, squeezing her arse etc - again mind control as it distracts you from thinking about your sensitive dick as you're preoccupied and focused on something else)

Great advice from everyone, thank you. I do agree about the mind control. A few years ago, I went to see a tantric masseuse who gave me a wonderful massage and kept me on edge for an hour by stopping and starting but also teaching me about breath control which was very interesting because it did work. However, I think when we get caught up in the moment we tend to forget, I know I do.

fredpunter

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It's funny thing - everyday at work i do fresh salads with selery - but i don't eat them...
I will try tomorrow.

What do you do with them then if you don't eat them? Actually forget that, I'd probably rather not know.

Offline Happylad

Of course, there's always the following:


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I think I could last forever.

That`s even worse than fantasising my mother-in-law.  I wouldn`t just droop, I`d SHRIVEL

Offline Gordon Bennett

I remember a cracking scene in The Singing Detective on telly years ago when a hospitalised Michael Gambon was getting a bed bath off nurse Joanne Whalley (Christ, she was off the scale hot!) and was desperately trying to remain unaroused by mentally reciting a list of utterly unappealing things... Only item I can remember is "plastic pitch at Queens Park Rangers", a phrase that even today makes me chuckle.