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Offline Rod trotter


Ever signed up to a site? Had any succes?

Seems like unless you are gym fit and hung like a pornstar you have no chance as a single male

Amazing how many fat munters whom id never fuck in a million years seem to have been fucked by young hung stallions, its baffling to me(free fuck?)

Seems like a lot of hard work/patience to even get a sniff of a fuck
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Offline SirFrank

Yes and yes. Swingingheaven. It's a lot of work for very little success. Had many meets with mainly couples and a few single women. However, sites are full of men and bullshitters. It became too tedious in the end and you are usually dancing to someone else's tune. I packed it in 5 years ago. My advice - don't bother
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Offline Rod trotter

Yes and yes. Swingingheaven. It's a lot of work for very little success. Had many meets with mainly couples and a few single women. However, sites are full of men and bullshitters. It became too tedious in the end and you are usually dancing to someone else's tune. I packed it in 5 years ago. My advice - don't bother

Did you wait long to get a meet? Assuming you are single.

The profiles of some of the woman are rank, they sound like right picky fuckers who in truth would never get a look in if the truth was known
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Offline Tiger63

For me the sites are shite.Full of weirdo`s who think they are super studs.
 I was invited by an ex work colleague who knew I was looking at getting into the swinging scene.
Him and his Mrs went to a place in Leeds once a month and took me down one night...quite an experience.
I became a bit of a regular for a few years.
Most places will allow a set number of single guys in but you will pay for it...and you will be getting watched by members about how you behave.

Offline SirFrank

Did you wait long to get a meet? Assuming you are single.

The profiles of some of the woman are rank, they sound like right picky fuckers who in truth would never get a look in if the truth was known

It depended - I usually had a few email exchanges and usually arranged No strings neutral meet to establish if I (and they) wanted to take things further. Any genuinely interested doesn't get embroiled in endless ping pong emails or excuses not to meet/cancellations. You soon get a nose for bullshit and there's a lot of bullshit out there. In my experience many people fantasise about swinging but prefer the fantasy to the reality and can't go through with it. I wasted too much time tbh. Also with couples you tend to find one person is trying to please the other, which made me v uncomfortable. I only met a few couples who were both genuinely into swinging.

Many sites now also require payment. Registration is usually free and you can often advertise for free but you have to pay to read your messages. You tend to get mysteriously inundated with messages on such sites, which are the proverbial fishing hooks. If you pay you'll probably find they are winks from members that don't really exist.

I had a lot of fun over about 5 years or so but that generally took a lot of effort and it become too much effort for too little reward. Lots of sites out there now and as you say there's a lot of horror stories too re adverts from chunks.
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Offline Rod trotter

It depended - I usually had a few email exchanges and usually arranged No strings neutral meet to establish if I (and they) wanted to take things further. Any genuinely interested doesn't get embroiled in endless ping pong emails or excuses not to meet/cancellations. You soon get a nose for bullshit and there's a lot of bullshit out there. In my experience many people fantasise about swinging but prefer the fantasy to the reality and can't go through with it. I wasted too much time tbh. Also with couples you tend to find one person is trying to please the other, which made me v uncomfortable. I only met a few couples who were both genuinely into swinging.

Many sites now also require payment. Registration is usually free and you can often advertise for free but you have to pay to read your messages. You tend to get mysteriously inundated with messages on such sites, which are the proverbial fishing hooks. If you pay you'll probably find they are winks from members that don't really exist.

I had a lot of fun over about 5 years or so but that generally took a lot of effort and it become too much effort for too little reward. Lots of sites out there now and as you say there's a lot of horror stories too re adverts from chunks.


Great stuff, the whole "scene" sounds a heap of wasted time for fuck all.and you pay for it via fees and the social meets.....fuck that
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Offline Tiger63

In 3 years that I was on fabswingers I got 1 shag....absolute waste of time.

A timely thread.

I have been mulling the idea of stumping up for www.swingers-hangout.co.uk (not using a credit card since the AshMad malaki, but they take paysafecard vouchers).

Still tempted, but thanks for head up. Anyone used this site?

 :timeout:



Offline SirFrank

In 3 years that I was on fabswingers I got 1 shag....absolute waste of time.

Top of my head calculation I'd say I probably had around 10 seperate meets (a few couples and one woman I met a few times) over 5-6 years
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Offline Tiger63

A timely thread.

I have been mulling the idea of stumping up for www.swingers-hangout.co.uk (not using a credit card since the AshMad malaki, but they take paysafecard vouchers).

Still tempted, but thanks for head up. Anyone used this site?

 :timeout:
Never heard of it mate but as Sir Frank says you will probably get messages from non existing members to get you interested but they never lead to anything.
If you are seriously thinking about it then I would recommend contacting a local club and see what the chances are of getting on their list for the next meeting

Offline smiths

Ever signed up to a site? Had any succes?

Seems like unless you are gym fit and hung like a pornstar you have no chance as a single male

Amazing how many fat munters whom id never fuck in a million years seem to have been fucked by young hung stallions, its baffling to me(free fuck?)

Seems like a lot of hard work/patience to even get a sniff of a fuck

According the rules Swinging is an Off-Topic subject on here. If you go as a couple you have a lot more chance than as a single male unless your good looking and prepared to play the chatting up game. There are also often cliques in swinging which exclude single males unless the women find them attractive. I require a guaranteed fuck so punting is far better in my view for ME.

jcdmj12

Swinging heaven seems pretty legit; have had a profile on their for donkey's years, but never tried to arrange a meet. It started off as a free site run by people 'in the scene'.

My observation is that swinging on sites like that seems to be a lot about socialising with each other as well as just fucking random people, which is a lot of hassle if you just want a shag, and they seem to filter people like that out anyway.

There is also the opposite situation for black men; whereas a lot of prossies won't see them, a lot of swingers seem obsessed with BBC (and not the public broadcaster).

I remember meeting a couple when I was with a girl who was interested in such things, and my experience mirrored SirFranks - one seemed a lot more into it than the other, and the whole thing felt a bit creepy tbh, so didn't proceed.

« Last Edit: September 06, 2015, 08:47:13 PM by jcdmj12 »

Offline willbred

Hot on the heels of Ashley Madison?? No chance am I signing up to any dating or similar sites. Mind, I wasn't before AM blew up.
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jcdmj12

Hot on the heels of Ashley Madison?? No chance am I signing up to any dating or similar sites. Mind, I wasn't before AM blew up.

 Why not?  It's not like you have to use a real identity.

Offline SirFrank

Swinging heaven seems pretty legit; have had a profile on their for donkey's years, but never tried to arrange a meet. It started off as a free site run by people 'in the scene'.

My observation is that swinging on sites like that seems to be a lot about socialising with each other as well as just fucking random people, which is a lot of hassle if you just want a shag, and they seem to filter people like that out anyway.

I joined when it was free then it was bought up a few years back, which was when it went to total shit. I don't ever get bombarded by fake messages though on there.
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Offline SirFrank

Why not?  It's not like you have to use a real identity.

+1. I use a punting email and I've never paid or entered personal details. Just use your head
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jcdmj12

+1. I use a punting email and I've never paid or entered personal details. Just use your head

Yep - I signed up to AM, but stopped when I realised I had to enter CC details.  Never got around to using a prepaid card. 

I did use CC for AW credits several years back, but not much I can do about that; aside from delete and recreate account.

Offline Rod trotter

In 3 years that I was on fabswingers I got 1 shag....absolute waste of time.


Ive looked on their, some really ugly fat fuckers wanting toned fit young guys hung like a horse only

Why if you are young fit and hung would you wanna shag a fat old fucket is beyond me
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Offline Andre 3000

Sadly from trying to use them, I'd say most of the 'swinging' sites like most of these dating and sex ones are absolute rubbish now.

Unless you really want to feed the ego of vile overweight pigs or skanky looking meth heads, steer clear and save your time. 1000's of men for a few women who are in reality ugly as sin, or fake profiles made by the site to keep traffic up. in 2015 your chances as a single man for an actual reply, much less a shag are faint to non existent now.

Saying that I do indulge regularly but not in the main swinging 'scene' or on those sites.  The way I started doing this was because me and my wife had 'the conversation'. The promise was that if I could find a suitable female, that she also fancied she'd have a threesome for my birthday. That was all the encouragement I needed. Found our first playmate late last year. Chatted online, then we all met for a drink and a meal, week later she came to our place for what turned into an amazing night. We've been doing it ever since on the regular with a selection of great women we first met online.

My best sites for success are Craigslist (though it can be very annoying at first) and OK Cupid which I've gotten the most success from. There are a ton of very attractive polyamorous minded women on there, who are very open to engaging in threesomes, with the right couples.

Win/win for me.

Offline Rod trotter


Very much seems like a couples thing

Being single as a bloke gives you little chance unless you are exceptional as most profiles require you to be, even the ugly fat girls require that and believe me they seem to get action!

No not for me, thanks for the input
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Would rather pay and get what I want.

Offline Tiger63

Just one other thing I would add.
If you think AW is full of timewasters, wait untill you go onto swingers sites :dash: :dash:

Offline Dani

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Too many men try to use swingers sites just to get free sex.  swingers recognise the men who do this and they get mostly ignored.  Swinging is a way of life not something to do just for a freebie and real swingers can smell a freebie hunter from miles away.

Someone who is genuinely interested in the life will take the time to get to know others before bringing up meeting and normally it is the female or couple who suggest the first meet up after getting to know you. 
As I and a few others have said on here before it is a way of life not something just for a quick shag.  It takes time and energy to get accepted on the scene and before even getting a private meet you may be invited to a munch (non sexual meet up between a group of swingers).  This way they get to know you better and get a better chance to sniff out what you are actually all about.

If you start emailing women or couples about sex straight away you might as well give up that site as it will be spread around that you are not a genuine swinger very quickly. 

You might get lucky and happen to approach one of the few people who have joined up not knowing how the scene works and may get a meet from them.  The likelihood is not good though

Unless genuinely interested in living that life (meaning you would be happy to watch your partner being fucked by other men) then you are better off using POF or similar sites that are just for casual hook ups

Offline Diehard

Too many men try to use swingers sites just to get free sex.  swingers recognise the men who do this and they get mostly ignored.  Swinging is a way of life not something to do just for a freebie and real swingers can smell a freebie hunter from miles away.

Someone who is genuinely interested in the life will take the time to get to know others before bringing up meeting and normally it is the female or couple who suggest the first meet up after getting to know you. 
As I and a few others have said on here before it is a way of life not something just for a quick shag.  It takes time and energy to get accepted on the scene and before even getting a private meet you may be invited to a munch (non sexual meet up between a group of swingers).  This way they get to know you better and get a better chance to sniff out what you are actually all about.

If you start emailing women or couples about sex straight away you might as well give up that site as it will be spread around that you are not a genuine swinger very quickly. 

You might get lucky and happen to approach one of the few people who have joined up not knowing how the scene works and may get a meet from them.  The likelihood is not good though

Unless genuinely interested in living that life (meaning you would be happy to watch your partner being fucked by other men) then you are better off using POF or similar sites that are just for casual hook ups

POF and tinder are no longer casual hook up sites. POF hasn't been for years. Men think it is but practically every woman on there moans about the guys wanting nothing but sex. Tinder was a hook up site but now more mainstream.

I'm interested in more than a few people saying ok Cupid the best site?

Offline Diehard

Would rather pay and get what I want.

Without doubt if u want filthy sex with a woman you find desirable seeing hookers the only way forward unless you have loads of time on your hands like students.



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