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Offline tantric talents

If an attractive working girl eating alone in a restaurant or indeed walking down the street or shopping etc is approached by a man who fancies her. Does she fob him off or get engaged in a conversation up to the point where she can discretely suggest a negotiation?
And would you chat her up if you thought she might be on the game?

Offline Michelle Independent

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Rather impossible that she will come out to a total stranger and admit she escorts... Chances are she won't engage in conversation at all.

vw

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And would you chat her up if you thought she might be on the game?
Would take a sly photo and use GRIS to try and research before the plan of action. 

Anyway its rude interrupting people eating ! wait for her to finish so you don't get stuck with that bill.

Offline tantric talents

Rather impossible that she will come out to a total stranger and admit she escorts... Chances are she won't engage in conversation at all.
That's interesting Michelle, but surely every man who calls your number for the first time is a total stranger too! At least this way you get to see him and even assess his character first?

vw

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That's interesting Michelle, but surely every man who calls your number for the first time is a total stranger too! At least this way you get to see him and even assess his character first?
But that's in direct response to an advert, I hate people approaching me about work in public.  In fact had someone wake me up at 8:30 this morning about something I used to do, damn annoying its lye in time !

Offline tantric talents

But that's in direct response to an advert, I hate people approaching me about work in public.  In fact had someone wake me up at 8:30 this morning about something I used to do, damn annoying its lye in time !
But if you were a window cleaner or drain man or builder etc you would welcome the contact if it leads to work?

vw

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But if you were a window cleaner or drain man or builder etc you would welcome the contact if it leads to work?
Not on your day off, there is work time and off time, just because you do a job doesn't mean your on full time.  My doctor friends are constantly bombarded with other peoples deformed body parts when out and pisses them off and that's not even strangers.

Offline threechilliman

But if you were a window cleaner or drain man or builder etc you would welcome the contact if it leads to work?

Not if you're a WG though.

tcm

Offline threechilliman

Rather impossible that she will come out to a total stranger and admit she escorts... Chances are she won't engage in conversation at all.

She might engage in conversation, but definitely not about work.

tcm

Offline cueball

On another note, could you judge her hourly rate by what she's eating?

Would you go for the pie and chips girl or the cor don bleu (I can't even bloody spell it never mind pay for it) courtesan?

I'd go somewhere in the middle, the lass in the cafe eating fish n chips

Offline Michelle Independent

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We are normal people. When I have a day off is a day off. Just like everybody else. Great some understand that :)

vw

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On another note, could you judge her hourly rate by what she's eating?

Would you go for the pie and chips girl or the cor don bleu (I can't even bloody spell it never mind pay for it) courtesan?

I'd go somewhere in the middle, the lass in the cafe eating fish n chips
Plumb tomato salad with a creamy dressing !

johnnyboy61

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To a total stranger in a non-work situation - not a chance I would think.

If you were a non-punter and engaged a girl in conversation what would you think of her if she suddenly steered the conversation towards sex, and then said "by the way, you'll have to pay me £100 and I'll kick you out after an hour's up"!

If you recognised her as a WG though she might subtly and quietly say ring me on my AW number and then tell you to clear off because she's clearly not working at the moment.

OP, how old are you, because IMO this question shows an extreme naivety.

Offline tantric talents

OP, how old are you, because IMO this question shows an extreme naivety.
Older than you are mate, and call me naive if you like a dig. It was actually just a hypothetical question which came out of another thread from which I thought might make an interesting topic for the members to explore  :hi:

Offline tazz

We are normal people. When I have a day off is a day off. Just like everybody else. Great some understand that :)

So if a good looking guy started a conversation with you on your day off, is there a chance you may go on a date with him or fuck him?

Offline Placebo88

I think this would class as some form of street ( or restaurant ) prostitution and so not be a wise move for either party involved.

I doubt the girl would assume that a random bloke trying to chat her up was actually hoping to book a prostitute , if he was he would probably already have found her online, made a booking with her and be calling around her place after she had finished her lunch !

The foolishness of going up to random women in restaurants and offering them money for sex does not need saying.I know the OP did not say this , just saying it is not wise to try guessing who is and is not a prostitute in a civvie setting, or at least don't act on your assumptions!

With all the internet sites now available quality escorts will be getting all the work they need from there and would have no need to risk the potential embarrassment and even legal repecussions of soliciting.She would have to be desperate to do so adn therefore not the stunner you are imagining.

It is an interesting fantasy or porn storyline but best left at that.


vw

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So if a good looking guy started a conversation with you on your day off, is there a chance you may go on a date with him or fuck him?
As she said normal people do normal things. Sounds quite normal to me.

Offline Michelle Independent

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So if a good looking guy started a conversation with you on your day off, is there a chance you may go on a date with him or fuck him?
Nope.

Offline tantric talents

Not on your day off, there is work time and off time, just because you do a job doesn't mean your on full time.  My doctor friends are constantly bombarded with other peoples deformed body parts when out and pisses them off and that's not even strangers.
I agree and wasn't talking about anyone on their days off! I have a friend who is a private doctor and when, say at a dinner party of friends and strangers ( to him ) he gets asked a personal medical question, if it's not a mate, he just politely offers them his business card and suggests they book an appointment to see him.
If they are lucky they may even get mates rates!

vw

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I agree and wasn't talking about anyone on their days off!
Well going out for a meal usually means you are not working, thus is your time off, well on my planet anyway. 

Offline tantric talents

Well going out for a meal usually means you are not working, thus is your time off, well on my planet anyway.
Yes VW, but it's not quite the same as waking you up at 8:30 with a phone call that spoils your beauty sleep  ;) Now that would upset me too!

vw

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Yes VW, but it's not quite the same as waking you up at 8:30 with a phone call that spoils your beauty sleep  ;) Now that would upset me too!
Beauty sleep is a myth it just doesn't work. 

No its worse you are going up to someone and judging them as an escort even though you know nothing about them.  Anyway all about boundaries, could me misconstrued from hypothetical to stalker behaviour.  Even if you knew they were a WG approaching them in public like this would have you labelled a stalker and rightly so.

Offline Bigus Dickus

Rather impossible that she will come out to a total stranger and admit she escorts... Chances are she won't engage in conversation at all.

Not even if they brought croissants and Red Bull?

 ;)

yorkshire123

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Not knowing the mind of a prossie for obvious reasons I could imagine that fucking a complete stranger for nothing would be the last thing on their minds?

My thought process is led by the builders analogy as in have you ever visited a builders house & found it immaculate & all repairs finished? I haven't & I assume that's because if they are not getting paid for it they can't be arsed doing the same thing during their time off.

Big assumption I know  :unknown:

yorkshire123

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Not even if they brought croissants and Red Bull?

 ;)

Bread-sticks could be a tempter  ;)

Offline Jimmyredcab

I have heard it all now, a girl eating alone is fair game to receive inappropriate suggestions.     :crazy: :crazy:

vw

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I have heard it all now, a girl eating alone is fair game to receive inappropriate suggestions.     :crazy: :crazy:
No it isn't as the vast majority here will know, even if you know for sure there are appropriate channels, by all means text but with "suspected escorts"  what if your prossiedar is faulty ? Poor innocent victim !

Offline tantric talents

I have heard it all now, a girl eating alone is fair game to receive inappropriate suggestions.     :crazy: :crazy:
Don't you just love Chinese Whispers.
I know I am often guilty of same but do read the bloody post again please Jimmy!

Offline threechilliman

I have heard it all now, a girl eating alone is fair game to receive inappropriate suggestions.     :crazy: :crazy:

TBH I think this is fair comment. Even if a punter found a woman eating alone who just happened to be a WG, how would either of you steer the conversation towards paid sex. Not gonna happen.

tcm

Offline Roth

Not knowing the mind of a prossie for obvious reasons I could imagine that fucking a complete stranger for nothing would be the last thing on their minds?

My thought process is led by the builders analogy as in have you ever visited a builders house & found it immaculate & all repairs finished? I haven't & I assume that's because if they are not getting paid for it they can't be arsed doing the same thing during their time off.

Big assumption I know  :unknown:

Probably right!  :thumbsup:

Offline Dani

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To be honest the person doing the asking may well get abuse or told where to stick his offer as it is hardly being discrete is it.  How would you feel if in a local place eating where other people may know you and a prossie who has seen you before walks up and asks if you would like another booking?

Prossies just like everyone else like to forget about work when not working. They like to eat a meal without being hassled by someone for work purposes.  If you think or know she is a prossie look her up on AW then call her to book.  If she is still in work mode she will have her work phone and answer it and if she doesn't then she is obviously not interested in work at that time.

I think some people tend to forget we are not prossies we just work as them.  Like everyone else we are entitled to time off without having to think or talk about work.

johnnyboy61

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Older than you are mate, and call me naive if you like a dig. It was actually just a hypothetical question which came out of another thread from which I thought might make an interesting topic for the members to explore  :hi:
Hypothetical or not, why post a question if you thought that the situation didn't have at least some element of possible reality?

Why would an "off-duty" prossie risk outing herself when she is quietly going about her private business?

Offline tazz

Nope.

Is that because you have a boyfriend, will only be with a guy if he offers your money or just cant reveal to him what you do? A friend of mine whose not into punting once pulled a women in a nightclub and took her home, she told him she was an escort in the morning, didnt ask him for any money.

Offline Michelle Independent

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Is that because you have a boyfriend, will only be with a guy if he offers your money or just cant reveal to him what you do? A friend of mine whose not into punting once pulled a women in a nightclub and took her home, she told him she was an escort in the morning, didnt ask him for any money.
Because I wouldn't give him a chance to approach me
In the first place especially on a day off. :)

Offline Roth


Why would an "off-duty" prossie risk outing herself when she is quietly going about her private business?

+1   :(

Offline Michelle Independent

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Not even if they brought croissants and Red Bull?

 ;)
That might be tempting  :cool:

Offline Roth

Because I wouldn't give him a chance to approach me
In the first place especially on a day off. :)

Fair answer. :thumbsup:  In the same way I would not expect a prossie to approach me. :scare:

Offline Cuntminion

If an attractive working girl eating alone in a restaurant or indeed walking down the street or shopping etc is approached by a man who fancies her. Does she fob him off or get engaged in a conversation up to the point where she can discretely suggest a negotiation?
And would you chat her up if you thought she might be on the game?

No offence I just had a mental image of a man interrupting someone having a peaceful meal and asking if the lady was a hooker within two minutes


I just wouldn't assume anything

I wouldn't bother someone either if they were munching , bit rude that

I also wouldn't assume any one is on the game either


Quesadilla

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I assume most guys here at least have some clue how to chat up a girl sitting alone - whether in a bar or a restaurant - you would surely at least wait to make eye contact, see if there's any response at all and if not leave it well alone. Nobody wants to be sexually harassed just going about their business.

If you did get any encouragement to join her then why on earth would it even occur to you to try and pay her for sex!? If you want to pay for it go to an escort, otherwise just have a conversation with the girl.  :wacko:

Offline Cuntminion

I assume most guys here at least have some clue how to chat up a girl sitting alone - whether in a bar or a restaurant - you would surely at least wait to make eye contact, see if there's any response at all and if not leave it well alone. Nobody wants to be sexually harassed just going about their business.

If you did get any encouragement to join her then why on earth would it even occur to you to try and pay her for sex!? If you want to pay for it go to an escort, otherwise just have a conversation with the girl.  :wacko:

On the flip side I wouldn't mind being approached by a female whilst dining alone and being offered money for sex

It never happens though, even if it wasn't my myriad of faults I doubt chicken cottage attracts that type of woman.

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johnnyboy61

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I assume most guys here at least have some clue how to chat up a girl sitting alone - whether in a bar or a restaurant - you would surely at least wait to make eye contact, see if there's any response at all and if not leave it well alone. Nobody wants to be sexually harassed just going about their business.

If you did get any encouragement to join her then why on earth would it even occur to you to try and pay her for sex!? If you want to pay for it go to an escort, otherwise just have a conversation with the girl.  :wacko:
Although this answers the second supplementary question, the main question refers to an off-duty WG eating on her own who gets into conversation with a guy and if she then sees it as a work opportunity without having the slightest clue whether or not he is a punter. I think we have the definitive answer from the two WGs who have posted on this thread and it seems that most of us are not in the least but surprised by their answers.

Offline Gordon Bennett

I'm struggling to answer this hypothetical question as I find the concept of speculating if a lone female is a WG "up for it" a bit crass and disrespectful. The thought of a muggy idiot approaching my 22 year old daughter innocently sat in a restaurant dismays me.
Maybe it would be exciting as a pre-arranged bit of a fantasy role play scenario with a booked escort but it's a complete no-no in real life.

Simplysimon

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I have seen a SP who I have met professionally in a Costa in her home town , and we exchanged a simple nod to acknowledge each other , and she signalled that if I wished I was welcome to join her at her table , I did we had a most sociable chat no mention of sex from either of us just a genuine enjoyable chit chat .
So if I see a SP out alone at a table do I accost her? No , am I a fluffy yes but I respect an SP as well as a punter is entitled to their private life .

Offline Cuntminion

I have seen a SP who I have met professionally in a Costa in her home town , and we exchanged a simple nod to acknowledge each other , and she signalled that if I wished I was welcome to join her at her table , I did we had a most sociable chat no mention of sex from either of us just a genuine enjoyable chit chat .
So if I see a SP out alone at a table do I accost her? No , am I a fluffy yes but I respect an SP as well as a punter is entitled to their private life .

Your doing it wrong mate, if you see any woman you have ever slept with your meant to stomp around Costa singing I slept with you

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Offline threechilliman

Is that because you have a boyfriend, will only be with a guy if he offers your money or just cant reveal to him what you do? A friend of mine whose not into punting once pulled a women in a nightclub and took her home, she told him she was an escort in the morning, didnt ask him for any money.

Me thinks that tazz fancies Michelle...... :kissgirl: Why not just book her rather than trying to chat her up on here??

tcm

Offline Cuntminion

Me thinks that tazz fancies Michelle...... :kissgirl: Why not just book her rather than trying to chat her up on here??

tcm


I have to say that new pic (I'm sure it was a picture of her arse before ) made me double take

Pretty girl

Offline MancSean

If an attractive working girl eating alone in a restaurant or indeed walking down the street or shopping etc is approached by a man who fancies her. Does she fob him off or get engaged in a conversation up to the point where she can discretely suggest a negotiation?
And would you chat her up if you thought she might be on the game?
Sorry mate I am confused.How would you know she was a wg in the first place. If she wasn't you might end humiliating her and get  a slap
Anyway would you just walk up to her and ask to sit down. You got bigger balls than me

Offline Cuntminion

Sorry mate I am confused.How would you know she was a wg in the first place. If she wasn't you might end humiliating her and get  a slap
Anyway would you just walk up to her and ask to sit down. You got bigger balls than me

I think it's one of those mental hypothetical scenarios that seem plausible when you sitting there alone drinking a fanta, having a think but the moment you put pen to paper or forum in this case it reads back as a pretty poor idea

Very few have that confidence plus the ability to pull it off, you really got to have something tangible in the the tank for that

Good looks
Charm
Hilarious
Wealth

Personality don't count for a fucking thing in the first instance, time frame is too small
Humans are shallow

I have got a mate model looks shittest jokes/chat ups that would get you a fuck off on most days

But never has a problem just approaching and pulling, why? His a good looking fella and knows it

Offline smiths

If an attractive working girl eating alone in a restaurant or indeed walking down the street or shopping etc is approached by a man who fancies her. Does she fob him off or get engaged in a conversation up to the point where she can discretely suggest a negotiation?
And would you chat her up if you thought she might be on the game?

Depends on the woman of course, I have chatted women out shopping up but never to ask them if they were WGs, but in the hope I might end up having civvy sex with them, got lucky on occasion, got unlucky much more often unfortunately.