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Offline Sonny Crockett

For the last couple of days I have been thinking about my punting experiences and which great and which awful experiences I've had, and found one common thing.

I feel that my best punting experiences have come with older escorts (I would say those who are aged 35 and beyond). This is reflected in my top 5 punts of the 1st half of 2015 where all but one of the escorts I've mentioned are in the 35+ age bracket  (the other escort I am guessing is in her early 30s), which I mentioned on this site a couple of months. Apart from having a great time with them, I feel that as people they are far less judgemental, and they whenever I have contacted them about arranging meets, they are professional and give sensible answers. Therefore whenever I punt with an older escort, I generally feel a lot more comfortable with them. Plus I am assured that the booking I have arranged with them will definitely go ahead.

In my experience, I'm afraid I don't think that is the case with younger escorts. Don't get me wrong, I had some very good punts with younger escorts. However most of the time, I have had not so good ones with them. I have wondered why that was case, and I reckon it is that they are prone to making snap judgements about you once you go through the door. Once that happens, they don't go out of their way to give you a great service.

Also the younger escorts I feel generally tend to mess you around when you try to arrange a booking with them. This year alone I have had three younger escorts who I confirmed bookings with, and whom fucked me over by not contacting me to give their location details, after confirming to them that I was coming. One of them was a right devious bitch and wrote feedback claiming I never confirmed the booking and that she is "amazing". Well, guess what?? How am I supposed to know that she's "amazing"?

The messing about also seems to occur when I try to arrange another booking with a younger escort I feel I've had a good time with. This has happened with two of them, where one read my availability e-mails but didn't respond and another just didn't bother to read them. It seems that once they take the money, they proverbially spit in your face.

There is also another escort who I have tried to arrange a longer booking with, whom I feel is messing me about. I had written a long e-mail which I put a lot of thought into (I stated what I wanted in the booking), and she read it and only one minute later, came with an over the top answer stating that what I said was "so so hot" and that she was available. How can an escort make that conclusion in just one minute????

Anyway a few days later she stated she couldn't do the date I asked, so a day later (this was now a couple of days ago) I asked if she could another date and said she could. I then made a booking request on AW yesterday morning. She did login to her account, but has not read nor confirmed my booking request. I then texted her asking to confirm the booking (these days I do this as I feel that I have been messed about too many times by younger escorts who stood me up). So far the booking is still unread and not confirmed. I remain unconvinced that the booking will go ahead, nor am I convinced she has properly read my previous e-mail and the requests I've made.

I might be being a bit too over sensitive here, but I feel I needed to get this off my chest. With older escorts I feel far more assured and comfortable, with younger escorts I feel that I am being put through torture!!!
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Offline Hobbit

I completely understand where you're coming from. In my 18 years of punting some of the best sex I have had has been with mature girls, i.e. girls around 35+ years old. Not only do they know what to do, but also value their clients, especially their regulars. Whenever I book a younger girl it is always filled with trepidation, because I never know if they will, a) turn up, and b) provide the service that I'm looking for. I think the only reason behind younger girls being so unreliable is the lack of maturity which can only be learned through experience and age.

I completely understand where you're coming from. In my 18 years of punting some of the best sex I have had has been with mature girls, i.e. girls around 35+ years old. Not only do they know what to do, but also value their clients, especially their regulars. Whenever I book a younger girl it is always filled with trepidation, because I never know if they will, a) turn up, and b) provide the service that I'm looking for. I think the only reason behind younger girls being so unreliable is the lack of maturity which can only be learned through experience and age.

+1. I've only been punting for 18 months and came to this conclusion pretty quickly. There are some younger girls that are reliable and give great service and a few older one's that aren't/don't, but on the whole what you've said, I've found it to be true.

tcm

Online RedKettle

I would agree with you as well - as with any general rule there will be exceptions but I do find the older birds more reliable.

That said it is nice to try a young one from time to time

Offline Hobbit

I would agree with you as well - as with any general rule there will be exceptions but I do find the older birds more reliable.

That said it is nice to try a young one from time to time

I would also never stop seeing younger girls despite the unreliability of them, I find the excitement of seeing a younger girl to be irresistible as it makes me feel younger and full of energy. Kind of like feeling reborn again  :cool:

Offline Swansea lad

I find 25 year olds are not to bad but know what you mean about younger escorts (early 20's). I think a lot forget to write down bookings or just decide they have better things to do!


Never had a good punt with the pensioners over 35(Profile age)  prefer late 20's for English or early 20s Polish/Hungarian

Hawkwind71

First I agree with everything said here. With age comes experience and maturity and it shows particularly in the communication skills and not being full of their own importance. It's a job after all as has been said so many times. And in a job, both sides are treated with respect.

For me, there is one big exception to this rule, the jewel in my view. If ever I see a 20-29 year old who specifically says she prefers older men, likes the idea of being an older guys fuck toy etc etc.  I do NOT mean the ones who are asking for a sugar daddy, or the ones that want an older guy to shell out on shopping trips, or indeed the ones that simply say they do not discriminate against older guys. NO, just ones that appreciate the older gent to the point of preferring them. They are a rare commodity but jewels when found. Takes a lot of profile reading to discover them.

Offline smiths

For the last couple of days I have been thinking about my punting experiences and which great and which awful experiences I've had, and found one common thing.

I feel that my best punting experiences have come with older escorts (I would say those who are aged 35 and beyond). This is reflected in my top 5 punts of the 1st half of 2015 where all but one of the escorts I've mentioned are in the 35+ age bracket  (the other escort I am guessing is in her early 30s), which I mentioned on this site a couple of months. Apart from having a great time with them, I feel that as people they are far less judgemental, and they whenever I have contacted them about arranging meets, they are professional and give sensible answers. Therefore whenever I punt with an older escort, I generally feel a lot more comfortable with them. Plus I am assured that the booking I have arranged with them will definitely go ahead.

In my experience, I'm afraid I don't think that is the case with younger escorts. Don't get me wrong, I had some very good punts with younger escorts. However most of the time, I have had not so good ones with them. I have wondered why that was case, and I reckon it is that they are prone to making snap judgements about you once you go through the door. Once that happens, they don't go out of their way to give you a great service.

Also the younger escorts I feel generally tend to mess you around when you try to arrange a booking with them. This year alone I have had three younger escorts who I confirmed bookings with, and whom fucked me over by not contacting me to give their location details, after confirming to them that I was coming. One of them was a right devious bitch and wrote feedback claiming I never confirmed the booking and that she is "amazing". Well, guess what?? How am I supposed to know that she's "amazing"?

The messing about also seems to occur when I try to arrange another booking with a younger escort I feel I've had a good time with. This has happened with two of them, where one read my availability e-mails but didn't respond and another just didn't bother to read them. It seems that once they take the money, they proverbially spit in your face.

There is also another escort who I have tried to arrange a longer booking with, whom I feel is messing me about. I had written a long e-mail which I put a lot of thought into (I stated what I wanted in the booking), and she read it and only one minute later, came with an over the top answer stating that what I said was "so so hot" and that she was available. How can an escort make that conclusion in just one minute????

Anyway a few days later she stated she couldn't do the date I asked, so a day later (this was now a couple of days ago) I asked if she could another date and said she could. I then made a booking request on AW yesterday morning. She did login to her account, but has not read nor confirmed my booking request. I then texted her asking to confirm the booking (these days I do this as I feel that I have been messed about too many times by younger escorts who stood me up). So far the booking is still unread and not confirmed. I remain unconvinced that the booking will go ahead, nor am I convinced she has properly read my previous e-mail and the requests I've made.

I might be being a bit too over sensitive here, but I feel I needed to get this off my chest. With older escorts I feel far more assured and comfortable, with younger escorts I feel that I am being put through torture!!!

Obviously its up to you who you punt with, in my over 30 years punting it has always depended on the individual WG NOT their age that makes them good WGs or not. Knowing that I punt with who I fancy irrespective of age as long as an adult. Sometimes I fancy a younger WGs an sometimes I fancy an older WG nowadays, gives me more choice which is always good.

Offline pking_paul

I worked this one out a while back too Mr Crocket. I still play around with odd young WG for the fun of it but know pretty much what to expect. Hopefully great tits and ass and a tight pussy. However over the years I find the rare older WG with the same attributes but also a brain! These are my best punts by far!  :hi:

Hawkwind71

Tight, slight, 42 year old pocket rocket size 10 takes a lot of beating......

Where's Angel Sam when you need her, getting all horny thinking about it.     :wacko:

You should have come to the party mate, she was on form.

tcm

Offline Quesadilla


I agree with Smiths that you can't generalise about age. You can of course talk about your personal experience but that's highly subjective.  For me personally the handful of escorts that I've seen who were over 30 had either gone to seed, or were jaded, or simply more bossy - which does not suit me.

So I mainly punt under 30 - all of my regs are mid-20s, physically in great shape, very professional and hit all the right buttons for me time and time again. :hi:
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Offline rafatheira

Tried a couple of older ones, had a great time, but tend to stick to the younger girls.

Weirdly, even in my mid 20's, I feel weird seeing a girl whose a teenager/20, so I stick to the mid to late 20's mostly. Its the perfect age for me.

I also feel a bit weird when I see older wg's at times, as clean shaved, I can pass for about 22, especially since losing the giant tub of lard that I kept in my belly for 25 years. They look at me weird, so I tend to stay away, unless its some absolute cracker with great reviews/a fantasy one time meet chance with a pornstar or something.

Hawkwind71

Tried a couple of older ones, had a great time, but tend to stick to the younger girls.

Weirdly, even in my mid 20's, I feel weird seeing a girl whose a teenager/20, so I stick to the mid to late 20's mostly. Its the perfect age for me.

I also feel a bit weird when I see older wg's at times, as clean shaved, I can pass for about 22, especially since losing the giant tub of lard that I kept in my belly for 25 years. They look at me weird, so I tend to stay away, unless its some absolute cracker with great reviews/a fantasy one time meet chance with a pornstar or something.

With time your views may change. It really comes down to the WGs and your rapport.  I have seen 20 right up to 48. Good and not so good at every level. Stick to what you like but occasionally go hunting for something different. Part of the fun.

Hawkwind71

You should have come to the party mate, she was on form.

tcm

Never a truer word said mate. I was glued to your whole thread especially when Sam said right girls knickers off. I saw Sam in Oct 2014. One of the nicest WGs I have met and fuck me what a session and her stories !! My problem is I can punt locally but I can only travel when the missus goes away. I was thinking of contacting Sam just on the off chance those dates could coincide. Can't decide if that's a good idea or not.

Offline wasox

I've always been a bit wary about younger escorts (21ish) for precisely the reasons listed above.  I'm in my latter 20s and have only been in the game for a year or so now, and the vast majority of my punts have been with WGs in the 35+ bracket.  I find their experience/maturity lends itself to a better meet, and I don't find myself being as intimidated by them as I might be by a 21 year-old who reminds me how out of my league a girl like that was when I was that age. 

That said, after a bit of research (thanks in no small part to you fine gents here on UKP) I've started branching out and trying younger escorts too.  Thankfully, I've managed to avoid any disasters and had a cracking time.  A bit of care and effort and you can have a great punt with a WG of any age, I guess it just depends what you feel like trying on the day.

Hawkwind71

I've always been a bit wary about younger escorts (21ish) for precisely the reasons listed above.  I'm in my latter 20s and have only been in the game for a year or so now, and the vast majority of my punts have been with WGs in the 35+ bracket.  I find their experience/maturity lends itself to a better meet, and I don't find myself being as intimidated by them as I might be by a 21 year-old who reminds me how out of my league a girl like that was when I was that age. 

That said, after a bit of research (thanks in no small part to you fine gents here on UKP) I've started branching out and trying younger escorts too.  Thankfully, I've managed to avoid any disasters and had a cracking time.  A bit of care and effort and you can have a great punt with a WG of any age, I guess it just depends what you feel like trying on the day.

Try to project forward to when you are 50 plus and a WG declares she prefers older men for their experience. You're naked on the bed with a girl 10 years younger than your children shagging the brains out of her.

All I can say is it has its attractions and in no way detracts from the older ladies. But this game is variety. Do not exclude anyone as long as they are 18+.

Offline Dani

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I don't think you can generalise and say older prossies are more reliable or organised etc than the younger ones.  Maturity does not come with age but with experiences and I know many women my age that could not manage to deal with calls, emails and texts and still manage a diary and I know much younger ladies that could do so easily.  I know flaky older women who would happily let you sit outside phoning and not getting an answer if a better offer or something more exciting came along and I know younger ones who would not dream of doing so.

It has nothing to do with age but more how they were brought up.  If they were taught responsibility or not.  If they were taught values and morals and a decent work ethic regardless of what work it is.  If they were taught the value of money as well as the value of someone elses time.  The experience of being brought up by someone who does all of that instills good work ethics into you and it becomes second nature to be organised and reliable. I don't believe it is something you get just because you have had more birthdays than another person has.

Perhaps the older ones seem this way because their parents instilled these values whereas alot of parents over the past twenty years or so don't seem to bother anymore. 

Hawkwind71

I don't think you can generalise and say older prossies are more reliable or organised etc than the younger ones.  Maturity does not come with age but with experiences and I know many women my age that could not manage to deal with calls, emails and texts and still manage a diary and I know much younger ladies that could do so easily.  I know flaky older women who would happily let you sit outside phoning and not getting an answer if a better offer or something more exciting came along and I know younger ones who would not dream of doing so.

It has nothing to do with age but more how they were brought up.  If they were taught responsibility or not.  If they were taught values and morals and a decent work ethic regardless of what work it is.  If they were taught the value of money as well as the value of someone elses time.  The experience of being brought up by someone who does all of that instills good work ethics into you and it becomes second nature to be organised and reliable. I don't believe it is something you get just because you have had more birthdays than another person has.

Perhaps the older ones seem this way because their parents instilled these values whereas alot of parents over the past twenty years or so don't seem to bother anymore.

Exactly, a WG should be judged on her professionalism, work ethic, genuine photos, accurate likes list, promptness and a concern for a good job done. Beyond that the choice is with the punter.

Online RedKettle

I don't think you can generalise and say older prossies are more reliable or organised etc than the younger ones.  Maturity does not come with age but with experiences and I know many women my age that could not manage to deal with calls, emails and texts and still manage a diary and I know much younger ladies that could do so easily.  I know flaky older women who would happily let you sit outside phoning and not getting an answer if a better offer or something more exciting came along and I know younger ones who would not dream of doing so.

It has nothing to do with age but more how they were brought up.  If they were taught responsibility or not.  If they were taught values and morals and a decent work ethic regardless of what work it is.  If they were taught the value of money as well as the value of someone elses time.  The experience of being brought up by someone who does all of that instills good work ethics into you and it becomes second nature to be organised and reliable. I don't believe it is something you get just because you have had more birthdays than another person has.

Perhaps the older ones seem this way because their parents instilled these values whereas alot of parents over the past twenty years or so don't seem to bother anymore.

We cannot generalise to the extent of saying that older girls are always better organised etc etc - but for those of us that have punted for years with all ages (which I do as I enjoy the variety) it is valid to state our experience, and as I said above I generally do find that the older girls are more reliable and that I have had some of my best punts with them.  Not a scientific conclusion, just a statement of how I have found it.

Offline sushi

Many older prossies have a good work ethic, usually more relaxed experienced and reliable unlike many of the younger prossies who trade themselves purely on their youth and looks, I have found a few of the more mature prossies excel in giving the full booking time, do what they advertise, value your business and give a better time all round. As long as they are still atractive my vote goes to the more mature everytime.

As noted above, very subjective this.

I have been dicked around by the under 30's being flaky on booking arrangements.

But I have also been dicked around by the over 30's lying about thier age saying it's lower than it actually is. The worst example was an advert for a 20 something who looked 40 something. (Yep, should have walked!)

I think Dani is right, regardless of age, if the escort has a good work ethic, manners and good customer skills - they are more likely to offer a great service. And I have had some cracking great service from both under and over 30's....  :cool:

Hawkwind71


I think Dani is right, regardless of age, if the escort has a good work ethic, manners and good customer skills - they are more likely to offer a great service. And I have had some cracking great service from both under and over 30's....  :cool:

As have I. I was dicked around by a 45 year old who thought she could soak me and have a killer 20 year old. But I am sure both types exist at both ends of the spectrum.


Offline wristjob

I have to disagree. The only bad punt I had this year was with the oldest girl I saw (late 30s). She started the punt by grabbing some toilet roll and going to have a piss. Classy.

I think it's all down to a person's own attitude as is any job. I've also seen girls change over the course of a few years - all enthusiastic and trying to please then a few years later seemingly more cynical, treating it like a production line and oblivious to the shit service they are giving and why you don't visit as often.


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