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Author Topic: Going back to a regular after a long break  (Read 1742 times)

Offline Hobbit

Guys,

So when you return to a regular girl that you haven't seen for several months and she asks you "how come you haven't seen her for such a long time"? Do you tell the truth and say "well, I got bored so I decided to see someone else for a while"? Or do you make up another excuse?

Now, obviously girls know that punters tend to see more than one girl, so subconsciously the question has already been answered. But due to courtesy and conversational etiquette what do you say if asked that question?

Offline Dani

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Ignore it or remind her that it is none of her business which it isn't.  What a God awful question to ask.  I have on a few occasions said "it's great to see you again as it has been quite a while" and will leave it at that as would not dream of asking why.  Some punters will then tell me what they u been doing of it was due to work or illness and some will smile and say things like 'that's life it gets in the way sometimes' or 'I fancied a change and saw such and such' and although I missed their regular money I am normally genuinely pleased for them and for me. After all if they had a change and saw a few other girls and still came back to me then it means I am doing something right in their eyes

After writing that I have hanged my mind about ignoring the question and if an old reg is rude enough to ask the question perhaps tell her the truth as it might give her a confidence boost. It might also entice her to put more effort into the booking to ensure you come back again


Are you really concerned ?

If the reason was services lacking, tell her you may get a surprise !

Well here I am now because I missed you! (truth or lie? It does not matter).

Offline Hobbit

Are you really concerned ?

If the reason was services lacking, tell her you may get a surprise !

I certainly am not concerned about it. But I'm sure the question may come up and it's always good to be prepared and not ending up opening a can of worms.  :scare:

Offline Hobbit

Well here I am now because I missed you! (truth or lie? It does not matter).

Always the romantic, good answer.  ;)

I certainly am not concerned about it. But I'm sure the question may come up and it's always good to be prepared and not ending up opening a can of worms.  :scare:


My regular follows my adultwork feedback so no need to ask, there is a few now she want's to book with me for a 3sum.

Offline SophieScott

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I wouldn't say anything at all and she DEFINITELY shouldn't ask.

The most I've ever said is 'Oh it's nice to see you, it's been a while, how have you been?'  We all know you see other escorts anyway, just like you all know we see other clients....it's seriously shouldn't be an issue at all.

Online smiths

Guys,

So when you return to a regular girl that you haven't seen for several months and she asks you "how come you haven't seen her for such a long time"? Do you tell the truth and say "well, I got bored so I decided to see someone else for a while"? Or do you make up another excuse?

Now, obviously girls know that punters tend to see more than one girl, so subconsciously the question has already been answered. But due to courtesy and conversational etiquette what do you say if asked that question?

I say I was thinking about you so decided to book you again.

Online smiths

I wouldn't say anything at all and she DEFINITELY shouldn't ask.

The most I've ever said is 'Oh it's nice to see you, it's been a while, how have you been?'  We all know you see other escorts anyway, just like you all know we see other clients....it's seriously shouldn't be an issue at all.

Indeed it shouldn't be an issue but as I know from my experiences its amazing how arsey some WGs can get when they know I had punted elsewhere, I have got the old evil stare a number of times. I of course punt to suit ME not WGs and seeing as they are sucking and fucking god knows how many punters it always makes me chuckle when I get that stare.

Its particularly the case in brothels where I have punted with one WG first but spotted one I fancy more so I don't bother with the first one anymore just punting with the one I spotted, a few have not only gave me the stare but tried to put me off the other WG by saying they do BB with punters, have an STD or even are HIV, that's how low those WGs were prepared to sink in the hope of getting my business again, it had the opposite effect on me, I didn't want anything more to do with them as I saw them then as low lifes.

Online Tdydl

I used to have a regular who positively encouraged me to try other WGs and report back. Sad to say she has since retired and I have yet to meet her like again.

Offline comaminion

Just tell her you were saving pandas or something
Banning reason: White-knighting

Offline AnthG

"how come you haven't seen her for such a long time"?

Tell her the truth. You have seen a couple of other girls in this time, but found none of them were as good as you, so you are coming back. :)

Ignore it or remind her that it is none of her business which it isn't.

The thing is though, that is likely going to get you perma-banned from seeing that girl. As if she is the sort to ask, she is likely the sort to probably ban you if she doesn't like the answer or doesn't get an answer.

I saw a regular 5 times last year between March and December, but didn't see her until June this year and may not see again until next year. She knows I'm not one for very regular returns and so didn't  even mention it. She was more interested in hearing about some of the filthier things I'd been up to because, for whatever reason, it turns her on.

tcm

I saw a regular 5 times last year between March and December, but didn't see her until June this year and may not see again until next year. She knows I'm not one for very regular returns and so didn't  even mention it. She was more interested in hearing about some of the filthier things I'd been up to because, for whatever reason, it turns her on.

tcm
Maybe looking for inspiration to keep her other customers engaged !

Offline comaminion



My regular follows my adultwork feedback so no need to ask, there is a few now she want's to book with me for a 3sum.

If you need help juggling the two......




I'm selfless in helping others
Banning reason: White-knighting

If you need help juggling the two......




I'm selfless in helping others
Not sure having an ailurophile in the room would be a great help !

Offline comaminion

Not sure having an ailurophile in the room would be a great help !
But...but....I would of brought nibbles

Banning reason: White-knighting

Offline SophieScott

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Indeed it shouldn't be an issue but as I know from my experiences its amazing how arsey some WGs can get when they know I had punted elsewhere, I have got the old evil stare a number of times. I of course punt to suit ME not WGs and seeing as they are sucking and fucking god knows how many punters it always makes me chuckle when I get that stare.

Its particularly the case in brothels where I have punted with one WG first but spotted one I fancy more so I don't bother with the first one anymore just punting with the one I spotted, a few have not only gave me the stare but tried to put me off the other WG by saying they do BB with punters, have an STD or even are HIV, that's how low those WGs were prepared to sink in the hope of getting my business again, it had the opposite effect on me, I didn't want anything more to do with them as I saw them then as low lifes.

Wow Smiths...I had no idea that went on.....saying other girls have STDs is very low, I don't blame you for wanting nothing more to do with them.

Crazy.

Offline SamLP

Just say you've been busy with work and didn't have the time. It shouldn't matter really as it's not a relationship although the ones that ask do so to make conversation rather than admonish the punter. They know we see other girls. One even told me the second time I saw her that she though I wouldn't be back and was happy I had returned to see her. When I asked her why she thought I wouldn't be back (had a great first punt) she replied that us men like to fuck lots of girls. I agreed with her but added I also go back to the ones I had a good time with.

At the end of the day it's business for girls but with punting it's also easy for them to fall into the emotional trap that this punter is mine and why didn't he return, I thought he liked me etc.. The smarter ones separate the two while still giving a convincing gfe performance.


Offline LL

Explain that if you want to be tied down to one particular lady the you'll get a long-term girlfriend or a wife?
Or tell her you're a plaaaaaay-errrrrr and like to switch bitches like you you change your underwear?
Play her this track - ex to the next girl (which had helped me through a lot of breakups in my life - although none of them punting-related!)
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=oQdSKOJIX0k

Offline SamLP

Explain that if you want to be tied down to one particular lady the you'll get a long-term girlfriend or a wife?
Or tell her you're a plaaaaaay-errrrrr and like to switch bitches like you you change your underwear?
Play her this track - ex to the next girl (which had helped me through a lot of breakups in my life - although none of them punting-related!)
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=oQdSKOJIX0k

I prefer to play them this one: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cvrKzmkdBTI

Which somehow reminded me of this track: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IwgWDG6CCt4

Offline RedKettle

I just say that I have not been in the area - sometimes that is actually the truth, but I suspect they all think it is a lie and so what?

I find that a break does cause a regular to raise her game and not take you for granted.

I just say that I have not been in the area - sometimes that is actually the truth, but I suspect they all think it is a lie and so what?

I find that a break does cause a regular to raise her game and not take you for granted.

Yes, the best meetings with regular i had when i didn't see her for long months. She was doing extra miles.


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