Why do we punt?

[SJ772]

Hi,

Just wondered in general why most of the members on here punt, I've seen a few moan about lack of sex at home, I can completely understand that being a cause, but my situation is different,  I just have this huge desire to fuck as many women as I can before I die.  I get a lot of sex at home, my wonderful wife has blown me twice today (I swear on my life that is true), but nothing is enough. I think as she has had a lot more partners than me, I am in some way trying to make up for lost time, but seriously I don't understand my own reasons.  Just wondered if any other guys had this in their early forties and does it reduce, as much fun as it can be, I am feeling I will never feel fulfilled at the moment and shagging new girls is not really feeling much fun anymore. Never want to be tired of shagging hot new pussy, but it's not feeling special at the moment.

TIA

SJ

[smiths]

Hi,

Just wondered in general why most of the members on here punt, I've seen a few moan about lack of sex at home, I can completely understand that being a cause, but my situation is different,  I just have this huge desire to fuck as many women as I can before I die.  I get a lot of sex at home, my wonderful wife has blown me twice today (I swear on my life that is true), but nothing is enough. I think as she has had a lot more partners than me, I am in some way trying to make up for lost time, but seriously I don't understand my own reasons.  Just wondered if any other guys had this in their early forties and does it reduce, as much fun as it can be, I am feeling I will never feel fulfilled at the moment and shagging new girls is not really feeling much fun anymore. Never want to be tired of shagging hot new pussy, but it's not feeling special at the moment.

TIA

SJ

I am on a break at present but when I punt its because I want to have fun with a variety of WGs I fancy, and walk away afterwards with no strings attached.

[vw]

I punt because have done so for over 1/2 my life, just habit now but an enjoyable one !

[Cornish sub]

There was a similar thread to this on here in the not too distant past. To answer yours, though, my reasons are a) because I'm too fugly to pull a woman, and b) even if a miracle happened and I did somehow pull one, my fetishes and kinks would soon put her off. Hence the only way I can meet anyone who both pretends I don't physically repulse her  and who is happy to carry out my fetishes is to pay for it.

[carefree]

Uncomplicated non fluffy sex with fit birds, that is all.

[vw]

Uncomplicated non fluffy sex with fit birds, that is all.

Talking about sex with fit birds, who's in your avatar ?

[carefree]

I'd love to say she's my missus, but I can't lie.

No idea who she is, just came across the pic when perusing my fitty folder

Perhaps someone else might be able to tell us

[cueball]

It's the thrill for me, I've punted for a very long time. It's not the lack of sex at home (although these days, there is very little sex with mrs cueball), is always been the thrill of dropping a few quid and podging a lass I fancy.

[iPad3]

It's the thrill for me, I've punted for a very long time. It's not the lack of sex at home (although these days, there is very little sex with mrs cueball), is always been the thrill of dropping a few quid and podging a lass I fancy.

I've done some outrageous things with some very hot ladies, show me a man that wouldn't want to do things I have, they just don't want to cross the line (fair enough)

That's is the reason I do it, when it gets boring I'll stop but frankly I don't see it happening anytime soon!

[fenderstrat31]

Hi,

Just wondered in general why most of the members on here punt, I've seen a few moan about lack of sex at home, I can completely understand that being a cause, but my situation is different,  I just have this huge desire to fuck as many women as I can before I die.  I get a lot of sex at home, my wonderful wife has blown me twice today (I swear on my life that is true), but nothing is enough. I think as she has had a lot more partners than me, I am in some way trying to make up for lost time, but seriously I don't understand my own reasons.  Just wondered if any other guys had this in their early forties and does it reduce, as much fun as it can be, I am feeling I will never feel fulfilled at the moment and shagging new girls is not really feeling much fun anymore. Never want to be tired of shagging hot new pussy, but it's not feeling special at the moment.

TIA

SJ

I too have a missus who gives me as much sex as I want, but I cant help fucking new/different/fresh pussy. The feeling I get from being with a young twenty something lady who will do whatever I want (for a fee) is unbeatable.
Maybe this makes me a horrible bastard? But i'm a happy horrible bastard

[Hatcher]

I love to fuck younger women - have done since my late 30s - but these days I don't have the looks or the patience to pull an 18 to 25 year old. I love the feeling I get on the way to a punt.

[mikeyboy1984]

I like to punt because I get to do things with hot women that would make my wife's hair curl. Sometimes i think about suggesting some of the things I get up to with wgs to my wife just to see the look of horror on her face 

[fenderstrat31]

I like to punt because I get to do things with hot women that would make my wife's hair curl. Sometimes i think about suggesting some of the things I get up to with wgs to my wife just to see the look of horror on her face 

 

[Hatcher]

I like to punt because I get to do things with hot women that would make my wife's hair curl. Sometimes i think about suggesting some of the things I get up to with wgs to my wife just to see the look of horror on her face 

Any examples?

[Silver Birch]

I like to punt because I get to do things with hot women that would make my wife's hair curl.

My missus would be disgusted if I asked her to perform many of the acts that I have experienced whilst punting. In the past I attempted a few of the tamer ones with her, and always got rejected 

She would probably leave me if she could read my mind & knew some of the things I fantasise about, so the level of horror if she discovered I have actually done 'most' of the filthy, perverted deeds, is unimaginable!

That's why I punt.

[hungrypunt]

Cos Ive got more money than sense when it comes to pussy

[nike]

With me, it's because I would get really bored fucking the same woman. It's better than having an affair.

[AgedCases]

Uncomplicated non fluffy sex with fit birds, that is all.

+1

[Kerosene]

I'm quite introverted and insecure in myself. Dating feels like going to a job interview where there's this huge performance to perform well because there's a big pool of blokes in the dating pool.

I like the adventure of it, looking up a WG and going to see her. Part of me feels that punting is somewhat transgressive and I'm enjoy the feeling of doing something outside of the norm.

And I like getting my end away.

[itk]

I do it so I can fuck younger women than myself who I wouldn't stand a chance with otherwise. Plus I find it a thrill, the thrill and paying for it was easier than chasing pussy at a club, was the reason I started punting over 20 years ago.
The third reason is wanting to fuck as many women as I can. Even when I was getting plenty of sex from the missus, I was still punting.

[nike]

With me, it's because I would get really bored fucking the same woman. It's better than having an affair.
Also this way u get to fuck as many hot young chicks as u can afford.

 

[wasox]

Wish fulfilment, pure and simple.  As a chap who accepts he is not able to seduce women left, right and centre, it's a chance to escape from reality and try new things that I maybe wouldn't feel comfortable suggesting in a new relationship.

And also, it's just so much fun 

[mikeyboy1984]

Any examples?

Anal, cim, hard sports are all off the menu with my other half. Sometimes when we go out for food I imagine myself asking the mrs "when we get home what are the odds on me having a piss in your mouth?" Just imagining the look on her face is enough to give me the giggles 

[Weyoun]

I started punting when I was 18. I had been pretty good with girls up until then but my Mum died suddenly and I was left all alone in the world (Dad buggered off when I was little and cancer took the rest). My confidence went completely and there was a parlour on the other side of the village I lived in at the time. Some seriously fit women worked out of there and for me punting has always been about have sex with women that I would otherwise never stand a chance with. I
have been fortunate to done things and women that my mates can only dream about. 
The flipside of that is that I can't tell my mates about any of it. That's my golden rule - I never talk to anyone I know about my punting. I have never broken that rule in over 15 years, tempted once or twice but always thought better of it. There have been times when lads at work have gone on about things they've done at the weekend or pornstars they fancy (some of whom I've shagged) and I just sit there in silence.
I've been married for over a decade and have kids but have always punted when I could. Its not that I don't love my family its just I get bored with one woman and to me its a better option than an affair plus the feeling of having just been with an absolute stunner can't be beat.

[Cuntminion]

However good I am at it I like the feeling of intimacy however fabricated it may be

I will never be a charmer or have outstanding attributes

I might get the attention of a "bubbly" woman once in a blue moon on a boozy night out but fuck all the legwork for that

Punting =attachment , emotion, responsibility free fun and intimacy for an hour with a woman out of my league


That's fine by me

The cost? Do it within reason and its fine I've spent just as much if not more trying to impress a civvy on a night out

[JIMI1234]

Hi,

Just wondered in general why most of the members on here punt, I've seen a few moan about lack of sex at home, I can completely understand that being a cause, but my situation is different,  I just have this huge desire to fuck as many women as I can before I die.  I get a lot of sex at home, my wonderful wife has blown me twice today (I swear on my life that is true), but nothing is enough. I think as she has had a lot more partners than me, I am in some way trying to make up for lost time, but seriously I don't understand my own reasons.  Just wondered if any other guys had this in their early forties and does it reduce, as much fun as it can be, I am feeling I will never feel fulfilled at the moment and shagging new girls is not really feeling much fun anymore. Never want to be tired of shagging hot new pussy, but it's not feeling special at the moment.


Could be a lot of reasons, but some of mine might match some of yours.
The thrill of getting away with stuff and this is due to you believing you're sharper than everyone else.

An easy path to shagging fit young women.

Cos you can.

Cos you can afford it.

To hang on to some semblance of your youth (cos only you know deep down that the chix you're paying, really do love your patter/your body and your technique  ....

[Rod trotter]

One common theme is being attached ive noticed in the replies, so the answer in general is the way men are wired in general, one woman is never enough.

I punt because the sex sometimes goes right off the menu, cos its exciting, cos its a way of never being found out.

However, i feel dirty at times, i feel scared about catching an STD an how my easy life would fall apart....ive stopped punting for now because of this fear yet still i browse and feel the urge

[Hatcher]

Anal, cim, hard sports are all off the menu with my other half. Sometimes when we go out for food I imagine myself asking the mrs "when we get home what are the odds on me having a piss in your mouth?" Just imagining the look on her face is enough to give me the giggles 

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Some of my ex GFs would do either Anal or CIM and a few would do both, and I had more than one GF that seemed to prefer OWO and CIM to shagging. What exactly are 'hard sports' and WTF do you get out of pissing in somebody's gob? What has it got to do with sex?

[vw]

What exactly are 'hard sports' and WTF do you get out of pissing in somebody's gob? What has it got to do with sex?

Hardsports is chocolate games, have you seen the scene from Irvine Walsh's The Acid house when the flys Dad was encouraging his mum to shit in his mouth, well that's the most mainstream I have seen hardsports.

Personally I would save this for cam sex If it floated my boat.

[Hatcher]

Hardsports is chocolate games, have you seen the scene from Irvine Walsh's The Acid house when the flys Dad was encouraging his mum to shit in his mouth, well that's the most mainstream I have seen hardsports.

Personally I would save this for cam sex If it floated my boat.

Sick 

Do they have a version where .... no, I can't.

[vw]

Sick 

Do they have a version where .... no, I can't.

You asked !

It even has a real name with a wiki page, coprophagia.

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[Hatcher]

One common theme is being attached ive noticed in the replies, so the answer in general is the way men are wired in general, one woman is never enough.

Agreed. Even if you are married to a woman that is willing to behave like a whore in the bedroom (as the saying goes), you will always play away if the opportunity presents itself and you are sure you won't get caught. But what about the married women who fuck around? They may not use male prostitutes in the way that men use female ones, but I would think that a high proportion of married women between 25 and 45 have indulged in extramarital sex.

[vw]

Agreed. Even if you are married to a woman that is willing to behave like a whore in the bedroom (as the saying goes), you will always play away if the opportunity presents itself and you are sure you won't get caught. But what about the married women who fuck around? They may not use male prostitutes in the way that men use female ones, but I would think that a high proportion of married women between 25 and 45 have indulged in extramarital sex.

72 percent of men said sexual affairs were worse than emotional affairs.
69 percent of women said emotional affairs were worse than sexual affairs.
76 percent of women would forgive their partner for a strictly sexual affair
Only 35 percent of men would forgive their partner for a strictly sexual affair.
80 percent of men said they would forgive an emotional affair.
Only 30 percent of women would forgive an emotional affair.

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[BillyBackDoor]

Agreed. Even if you are married to a woman that is willing to behave like a whore in the bedroom (as the saying goes), you will always play away if the opportunity presents itself and you are sure you won't get caught. But what about the married women who fuck around? They may not use male prostitutes in the way that men use female ones, but I would think that a high proportion of married women between 25 and 45 have indulged in extramarital sex.

It's a shame we can't be more adult about it all really.  Imagine a conversation with the missus that went like this.

Me "Y'know love, we're both adults.  I love you and probably won't ever leave as we get on so well, but I really want to fuck other women.  Is that ok?"

Her "I feel the same.  In fact I've been fucking the neighbours, your brother and most of your friends for years. And remember those monthly conferences?"

Me.  "WTF??"

[BillyBackDoor]

72 percent of men said sexual affairs were worse than emotional affairs.
69 percent of women said emotional affairs were worse than sexual affairs.
76 percent of women would forgive their partner for a strictly sexual affair
Only 35 percent of men would forgive their partner for a strictly sexual affair.
80 percent of men said they would forgive an emotional affair.
Only 30 percent of women would forgive an emotional affair.

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Does an emotional affair includes snowballing?  That can provoke strong emotions.  Especially when it's unexpected.

[vw]

Does an emotional affair includes snowballing?  That can provoke strong emotions.  Especially when it's unexpected.

Naturally, snowballing requires patience to make the big ones somehting the unemotional are incapable of achieving.  Imagine the pride and team work of creating the below between the 2 of you !

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[Hatcher]

72 percent of men said sexual affairs were worse than emotional affairs.
69 percent of women said emotional affairs were worse than sexual affairs.

What do they mean by "worse"? Less enjoyable or less forgivable?

76 percent of women would forgive their partner for a strictly sexual affair.
Only 35 percent of men would forgive their partner for a strictly sexual affair.

I wonder how many would forgive their partners if they had had relations with several lovers.

80 percent of men said they would forgive an emotional affair.
Only 30 percent of women would forgive an emotional affair.

Probably because most men are willing to believe that an "emotional affair" does not involve much fucking, but women know that it's all about fucking.

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[BillyBackDoor]

My my VW, that is a big load.  I agree I'd have to up my hydration / protein intake considerably.

[vw]

My my VW, that is a big load.  I agree I'd have to up my hydration / protein intake considerably.

Or you could buy some in from that hooker that sells used condoms.

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=63272.msg808864;topicseen#msg808864

[Quesadilla]

Agreed. Even if you are married to a woman that is willing to behave like a whore in the bedroom (as the saying goes), you will always play away if the opportunity presents itself and you are sure you won't get caught.

Utter bollocks. Although a minority on this site, single punters and those who never strayed while married do exist which lends the lie to the claim that it's just the way men are wired.

I punted before I met my wife and it never even occurred to me to punt while we were together.

After splitting from the ex wife I've had nearly a year of amazing punts - and I'm now back in a monogamous relationship and not remotely tempted to punt again.

You choose to cheat on your partner or not. Maybe it makes you feel better to think it's just the way men are and there's nothing you can do about it but don't tar us all with the same brush.

[BillyBackDoor]

Or you could buy some in from that hooker that sells used condoms.

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=63272.msg808864;topicseen#msg808864

This site so educational.

[Hatcher]

Gosh golly gooks!


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In love are we???   

[Loftus]

Split a few years back from the wife. Happy to to do my research, choose wisely and pay by the hour now instead. Less aggravation...better sex.

[Hatcher]

Split a few years back from the wife. Happy to to do my research, choose wisely and pay by the hour now instead. Less aggravation...better sex.

And quite a bit cheaper too 

[porky]

Interesting reasons, for me the chance to do things you can't ask someone you care about to do or to do to them.  Like to see gfs enjoying themselves, prossies not so much. Meet a lot of prossies claim to enjoy various sex acts,  can't see how.

So I punt as you can do what you like once agreed no regrets as she's sold me her body and no emotions as they get fucked by loads of men.  Some girls out there will let you do anything for a bit of money and smile,  gfs will to a point but I couldn't facefuck or do other hair curling things to a gf.  Disrespectful springs to mind,

Agree get to fuck some hotties but only externally, Not gf material.

[Siadwel]

Many reasons. A few here, not in any particular order apart form the first one, which is the main one.

Because I find paid-for sex a huge turn-on.

Because I'm in my 60's and my days of pulling and fucking fit, hot 20-30somethings are long gone.

Because I'm separated and the only sex I get otherwise is with myself.

Because I can.

[NottsDB]

Partly, because it's convenient sex for when you are in need.
There is of course, trying new people and new experiences and to the guy that mentioned the feeling you get on the way to a meet, I agree but I also like the feeling you get when you've finished and you are on your way home.

It's an adrenaline rush as much as anything.

[porky]

It is a thrill going on aw and ordering a women.  Giving her money telling her to strip knowing she doesn't want to be there and you can help yourself to mothers daughter for money.  Quite a buzz.

[wristjob]

Reasons I don't really want a relationship:

1) I don't find most the women in my age group attractive,
2) Relationships can be a load of effort and I just really can't be bothered, and lets face it a lot of women are needy to say the least.
3) Maybe I've spent too much of my life single. I just want to do what I want without getting a load of earache if somebody doesn't approve.

Reasons why I punt:

1) I get to have sex with women I find attractive, when I want and I get to do the things I enjoy and not things I don't.
2) I don't get any baggage and BS.
3) Missed opportunities - remember that hot girl you worked with 20 years ago and you didn't have the nerve to give it a go. Well when you've shagged a load of girls who are fitter and undoubtedly dirtier than her you don't those missed opportunities anymore.
4) Ease. if I'm hungry I can go to the effort of cooking, or I can get takeout. Nobody questions your motives. Is sex so special that there should be any stigma getting takeout?

[Tony_Red]

I punt because my relationship with my wife is shit. We take care of each other and do things for each other, and she genuinely likes me  but I do not find her attractive. I rushed into marriage and it's mainly my fault. I cannot separate so I will have to work on my marriage. I'm too gutless and egoistic to chat to civvies.
I'm not enjoying punting as much as I use to 7-10 years ago. Perhaps due to me being single and less mature back then, but partly also because I believe the girls were better.

I do see myself quitting punting soon. Or going on a long break atleast. For example, I never punted during first 3-4 years of the marriage and the couple of years before that during dating.

I've found that if my mind is kept occupied, then I don't really feel like punting. For e.g. been going to the gy-m lately and I have been feeling good and not thinking about WGs.